₦airaland Forum

Ojuntana:
Exactly. Any man who dresses and vibes like dat dude be gay. No two ways

Yea dude, that's not how sexuality works. Gender mannerisms is different from human sexuality. There are gay men who are masculine and hate fashion,are we gonna say they are straight?

Ojuntana:
Religion? You're blaming religion for women wearing makeup?
What history taught you that men wear lipsticks and eyelashes? Care to share?

The internet is free,from ancient Greece to Egypt

Kpengla:
Not at all an insult bro that was merely an observation

I'm guessing you suck cōck also?

And you suck pussy too

Ojuntana:
Does he wear high heeled shoes and catwalk too?
He gay or bisexual since he's doing anty riri

He wears heels on stage so Rihanna's man is gay because he doesn't fit into your definition of masculinity?

Ojuntana:
I don't understand?
Men wear lipsticks and eye lashes where you com from?

Dude, research the history of makeup,it was worn by royal and elite men and it was made by men specifically for men but religion brainwashed y'all so I'm not surprised

justscorchone:
Call it what you may but I can't stand this gay ass fvck boys.

Good, neither can they stand you or your bigotry

Ojuntana:
And make up self
Seems Nigerian entertainment industry is now forming woke too

And who said makeup was just made for women because even ASAP rocky, Rihanna's man loves makeup?

Kpengla:
They even wear uniform

Cocksûckers

You say that like it's an insult . It's 2022

Alcoron:
He looks so ugly and feminine. He should learn gender boundaries. Award not deserved.

He doesn't want to learn gender boundaries because it's society imposed,he wants to do whatever makes him happy,if gender norms are your forte,then good for you, follow society's standards but there will always be rebels and he's one

Businext:
O Wrong nau
THIS DOESN'T REPRESENT WE NIGERIANS

Do our fathers wear earrings

#CivilizationKe

Fashion evolves, it's not static

VillageHead:
A guy with ear rings is termed best dressed?

And who says ear rings were for only women because your favourites like Burna Boy,big whiz and co wear it and gay men brought about the trend to queer up hip hop yet y'all demonize queers and praise the latter

eedimo:
Different strokes for different folks.
If I was the Judge, it would have been otherwise.
Good luck to him

People voted and everyone knows you can't beat a gay man in fashion so even before he was announced,I knew he would win

I had cherophobia once due to self hate. I vowed never to go down that lane again

ityP:
Generalisations does not always mean "ALL". "most" is also generalisation. If you keep 100 ladies,only about 2 or 3 MAY like that nonsense on a man's chest . If that were to be the case, generalising that "women do not find men who have such chest as attractive" is not a wrong statement

Oh believe me man,that statistic will be higher than 2 or 3 and I'm not taking Nigerian women as a statistical analysis because most of them don't even know what they are attracted to but you are right,you didn't generalize

CAPSLOCKED:
HERE WE GO AGAIN, I GUESS.
A NIGERIAN MAN'S IDEA OF THE PROPER "BIG MAN" IS A LAZY, BEER-GUZZLING, POT-BELLIED, UNFIT MAN WITH SMALL NAIRA IN HIS POCKETS TO PICK UP LADIES. THEY MOSTLY BELIEVE THAT FIT MEN THAT LOOK AFTER THEIR BODIES ARE POOR TIME WASTERS. THEY BELIEVE ALL THAT WOMEN TRULY NEED IS MONEY, THEY GET THESE WOMEN, AND THEN STRUGGLE TO COMPREHEND WHY THOSE SAME WOMEN LŪST AFTER GOOD-LOOKING MEN.

HIS UGLY HEAD ALLOWS HIM DECEIVE HIMSELF THAT HE'S BETTER THAN GOOD-LOOKING MEN BECAUSE GOOD-LOOKING MEN ARE ALL "GAYS".
HIS LAZINESS TO STAY FIT MAKES HIM CONCLUDE THAT FIT MEN ARE BROKE AND JOBLESS, AS IF THERE AREN'T RICHER MEN THAT LOOK BETTER THAN HE DOES A THOUSAND TIMES.
HE'D PLACE EMPHASIS ON HIS WOMAN'S BODY AND LET HIMSELF GRADUALLY FADE AWAY ONLY TO LATER WONDER WHY DOWN THE LINE EVERY MAN WANTS HIS WOMAN AND HER BODY BUT IT'S JUST HIS MONEY THAT OTHER WOMEN WANT.


YOU JUST HAVE TO SPEND A FEW DAYS READING THIS FORUM TO AGREE WITH ALL THAT I'VE SAID. OVER THE YEARS I'VE LEARNED THAT A GOOD-LOOKING MAN IS THE AVERAGE NIGERIAN MAN'S BIGGEST NIGHTMARE. HE'LL STEAL THEIR WOMEN'S HEARTS AND MAKE THEIR VAGINAS WET WITH VERY MINIMAL EFFORT BECAUSE THE MEN'S MONEY (AND UGLY BODIES) WILL NEVER BE ENOUGH TO SECURE THOSE THINGS.

Say it louder and then when shit hits the fan,you see them coming to Nairaland saying "help,my girlfriend said she's no longer sexually attracted to me" not knowing they are the genesis of their own relationship demise.

Looks are shallow but till date it's the most common form of human attraction and in their mind,they think that only applies to women. I remember picking my friend up from the gym weeks ago and him and this girl hit it off after shooting his shot, downstairs was an eatery and I could tell the "shapeless" looking (really don't wanna bodyshame but he started it) man outside also waiting for his friend was fuming with rage as the woman had turned him down multiple times because I heard he's the eatery's manager as it's a place she frequents. Before we could leave,he went on a rant about the six pack and six cars drill which most of them always use in their defense,then he called her a LovePeddler which wasn't surprising to me and resulted to saying my friend won't be able to satisfy her as he's gay and only gay men go to the gym or use grooming products,thank goodness we didn't even look his way,the only reply was my friend telling him he has both the cars and the packs. Then his friend finally came out of the gym and believe me when I tell you that friendship got dissolved right there as the man's friend told the man not to be bitter because men want to look good as the man thinks men are not supposed to be looking good as that's not a masculine trait,he got angry,got into his car and left his friend there saying he doesn't want to be friends with gays no longer,long story short,I and my friend drove the man home and we really delved into the shaming of fitness and health culture by Nigerian men in the car.

The life expectancy of an average Nigerian man is 54 years,yes the country's problems are alone to weigh you down but fitness leads to good health and it's for your own benefit. When I was doing a 9-5 job back in 2015,it was a daily job but still I had time to take care of myself. For crying out loud, it's not gay for a man to want to look good, it's not gay for a man to care about his health or fitness, it's not gay for a man to love himself but no,it all boils down to money by the average Nigerian man

ityP:
Most women love men with chest, don't get them wrong. But not that type. That's practically looking like boobs. No attractive at all

Like I said don't generalize all women,that pic may be appealing to some women but some won't like it, attraction comes in different niche and sizes. I know women who love big asses on men and women who don't

walkbrazil4k:
Look at the comments from women

Well women naturally aren't really superficial but I can't say the same for all of them

Can we stop generalizing people? It's getting old

CAPSLOCKED:
THE VAST MAJORITY OF NIGERIAN MEN HAVE NOTHING IN THEIR HEADS ASIDES WOMANISING AND DRINKING ALCOHOL PLUS PEPPERED MEAT.
THE ONES ON THIS FORUM ARE A SPECIAL BREED OF WORTHLESS.

It's so sickening that an average Nigerian see the bolded as life neglecting growth in other areas

fineboynl:
Why are guys so quick to call a guy gay? When a guy has a better body than them they get annoyed and jealous.

It's the women that a blame to make guy believe all they need is money to get the best women.

Same here, they are the ones harming men with that mentality but I partially don't blame them because women are naturally less superficial than men

CAPSLOCKED:
THE NUMBER OF UNDERCOVER GAY MEN IN NIGERIA WILL LEAVE YOU SPEECHLESS. THEY SEE A SEXY MAN'S BODY AND STARTS RAINING CURSES....... WHAT ARE Y'ALL AFRAID OF? THAT PENĮSES ARE DELICIOUS?

Like the internalized misandry....I just can't,do men hate their own bodies?

Persephone1:
This is amazingly disgusting to look at, why though?

I'm confused,why are they disgusting?

The amount of body shaming on this thread is appalling especially from Nigerian men who are too lazy to work out

I don't know why people say Nigeria is terrible when Tanzania is there, although there shouldn't be oppression Olympics between any of them

hope4nigeria:
Companion from opposite sex can relieve you of stress sometimes 90% of Nigerians have mental health but thank God for people arround us comedians, families, are giving hopes, there many people I know who will want to commit suicide but just because someone close by interact with them or they are able to to discuss deep secret to someone can help to be free from stress.

You would say friends or companion not necessarily a life partner,your life partner could be your best friend but not necessarily them,I have friends whom I turn to in my moments of depression. There's difference between being alone and loneliness. You can be with your spouse or in the midst of people and still feel alone and empty whereas you can be with yourself and feel full and happy,one is a state of mind while the other is just physical

Coming from gistlover....yea,this is fake. I'd rather believe pigs fly than believe gistlover