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Oyindidi:
Who did this to Nina? This doesn't fit

uamose:
Dear
the stress in Nysc camp will make you forget everything
see, I know how it is...
it's always from one activity to another

Tobi7:
read the NYSC session of the current batch in camp and see how people are unable to catch up with life outside camp, you might even end up the beautiful relationship if u complain, you will only give him a reason to look for a corper lady and date. don't work yourself up

Tobi7:
stop assuming, I don't think you really know how it is in camp, you can't even charge your phone, no time to even check what's on your phone, I went to camp last year May, trust me... there is someone on my contact list I make sure I call everyday but I couldn't, couldn't even pick their single calls. Don't over think, after camp u will get your man back.

LivingFree:
You don't need to forget him... you need to work on yourself and figure out why you attracted and are attracted to such a man? What need is he feeding?

This is a learning curb and not a blame game. Take responsibility for your feelings and needs. Are you looking for him to make you happy or to entertain you or what?
When you figure out that need then give it to yourself. A relationship should complement us and not used to fill a void. The lesson here might be self-esteem, self-confidence and self love. It was never about him or the next guy.
Best of luck in your studies... Although I think you should allow ALL relationships until you have finished your studies to save you stories that touch but that's your decision to make. Good luck

LivingFree:
*Thanks dear, I have already said in my heart that I won't call him again. Neither will I text him. I will just leave him and face my book,even though it hurts but I will try and forget him.*
You might be too needy... find some other hobby instead of monitoring him. Keep yourself busy and unavailable. Say what you mean and mean what you say... maybe he knows how you will react and he's capitalising on that. Men don't stress themselves, they let you do the stressing for the both of you. Give him space and fill your time with things... absence makes the heart grow fonder or maybe 'He's just not that into you' either way step back and the answer will reveal itself to you.

LivingFree:
Thanks dear, I have already said in my heart that I won't call him again. Neither will I text him. I will just leave him and face my book,even though it hurts but I will try and forget him.
You might be too needy... find some other hobby instead of monitoring him. Keep yourself busy and unavailable. Say what you mean and mean what you say... maybe he knows how you will react and he's capitalising on that. Men don't stress themselves, they let you do the stressing for the both of you. Give him space and fill your time with things... absence makes the heart grow fonder or maybe 'He's just not that into you' either way step back and the answer will reveal itself to you.

badinfluence:
While one housemate was warning her dad on international tv, another made her mum proud.. This life is a pot of hot beans

YumMinaYum:
So many other girls will give this to him! That's not all I want my Nina to offer to any man she ends up with. What is she bringing to the table? How will they build an empire together if they eventually end up together as a couple?

I love my siblings with my last breath but I know very well of situations that I'd prefer my friends handle instead of any of them. I've made certain decisions where I chose my younger sister over my elder sister, I've chosen to help a friend first before helping my bf with money. Some things can't just be handed to you because we've fvcked, kissed or we share blood. Prove your worth, can I trust you? Are you really deserving of what you're getting?

YumMinaYum:
I love her but it legit breaks my heart to watch her mess things up at times. I pray we get another chance today, I'm hoping she'll make me smile because I've been squeezing face upandan.

stephleena:
hahahaha her ass is in the "store room"..

YumMinaYum:
I just saw Ni Ni

Ionkidiz:
diamond banks. at least they are better than UBA that cannot wait till month end before they take their card maintenance fee.

ibawon:
I can never eat anything that has catfish in it.
It's smell alone drives me nuts
Including any fish from Freash Water

teresafaith:
Amala, ewedu, and gbegiri
God forbid, rather die that eat that shiiit
Mthewwwwwww

ogeodi:
fresh fish pepper soup

kstyle2:
I don't want to imagine what would have happened if cr7 and isco were on the pitch