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@NnamdiN i just c ant stop laffn @ur own experience. Tanks for sharing that with me. Yes mumsy doesnt know him so i'l just possibly ff ur trick nd reintroduce him to mum nd let nature play its role. Tanks a bunch God bless u for me

@waleey27 thanks so much for ur sincere advice i'l def continue in prayer nd stick to him nd i'l let the will of God to be done.... Ur experience is a source of inspiration to me nd i wish u all the best in ur marriage too. God bless u for me

@sunnydayadaba yes this pastor has been our family pastor for a long tym. He initiates fating and prayer for d family and my mum takes it sewiously nd it has worked so far, some of which am a witness to. PS i am nt priviledge to disclose d name of d pastor nor his church
@MR cork. NO, i am nt light skinned. Bet y d question

@phlemzy nor dat i believe in it okay its just my mum dat makes me beliee i shuldnt turn deaf hears to such issues u knw. *my mum thinks me doin this means am nt d fire branded type like her* imagine? PS i av nt initiated any breakup plan whatsoever me and him, we are stil 2geda

Season greetings to all Nairalanders i had to post this here because i didnt know where else to turn to for advice. Am a lady of 23years of age a corper serving currently in Ogun state. Have been in a relationship for over a year now and i think we are heading somwhere.


On a fateful day after i got back from the 3weeks orientation camp i had a heart to heart talk with my mum and she made me understand the need for me to get married or hAve marriage on my priority list next year claiming daT since i'l be done with service next year settling down is eminent,which i dnt disagree with her. I toLd her i was in a relationship with som1 whom she will get to know soon when d time is ripe.


My mum was very happy when i said this and wished me well, she then told me she wants me to go with her to our pastor for prayers concerning my relationship *the guy in question*. I hesitated @first because i am not the "my pastor said this and that type", i believe whatever will be will be. But mumsy insisted that i have to go with her. NB: my mum is the fire branded kind of xtian dat likes prayers,fastings, and believes a lot in prophesy.


We got there dat fateful day and my pastor prayed for us after asking about our wellbeing and all. The next thing he asked my mum if there was anything my mum would like him to pray about. My mum pointed to me that its concerning me and the guy i am seeing. He was like whats his name i told him and he said lets pray *again*. He prayed for a while nd then said my sister will u like tO hear d truth? I said definitely sir, he said you cant marry this man. The two of you cant make it to the alter.

I wAs shocked. I was like sir but y? He said cos the guy is this is that womanizes nd has some traits which will def show up later which me myself wnt like in a man i would like to settle with. To be frank i luv this guy and i told the pastor so. his reply was well now i knw what i knw so i shuld prep for what will com. I felt so down but then he made a statement he said: all i just want u to know is u will soon meet som1*he described the person* and the both of you wil get married in 2015. I see 2015 buh i cant say d month precisely. Therefore go and pray and be vigilant. But you cant marry ******* my boyfriends name.

That is my plight i cant bring mysef to stop seeing my bf *of which i didnt mention anything to him* becos i luv him so much. And my mum said i shuld just give up on him*my bf* nd move on. I dnt knw where ds mysterious 2015 hubby is comn from and i cant help but keep thinking about this whole issue. Pls i need some sewious advice.

I no get your time

1:my face/dimples (av got a very cute baby face)
2: my body structure 5.8ft i luv it
3: av got a great sense of humour too (which givs me an edge)
4: smartness (everybodys "u are too smart" *opolo o je kin sun*

Plenty fears..... Fear of marrying d wrong person, fear of been imperfect, fear of having children *cos i heard its nt easy oo* fear of responsibility (bfor i takia of mysef, my hubby, kids, work, home etc). Fear of been unhappy for d rest of my life i.e if my husband change after marriage *which is wat they do* fear of experiencing what my mum went tru in my fathers house. In short na to go convent go become Rev.sis

The merciful God(sunny Ade)

What a relief...... @least nw i know its nt a spiritual attack.tanks a lot for d enlightenment

Local: TVC, Labi layori
International: Aljazera(no fav broadcaster) just luv watching dem news very enlightening

Am speechless

RIP kemi even though you made the wrong decision may almighty allah forgive you and give u eternal rest... Lesson learnt: please let us all watch d words we say because it might hurt someone else

homesteady: Food for thought -
-A cultist turns pastor
-He names his church COZA - Commom WEALTH bla bla bla
-He preaches most about wealth
-he is known for adultery with church members
-He has devised a method for members to pay offerings and tithes ONLINE!

Hmmmmm!

and his name is ... Pastor biodun fatoyinbo

Very sad story.... I pray something is done on time to save this young lad