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This scholar MUFTI MENK is always on point and i really pity those people who kinda get it all wrong with their partners, i swear... Read what he had to say about marriage.

He said..... In life, one of the most important choice you will need to make is who to marry. This choice is so important that if you miss it, you will suffer for long, if you get it right then you will enjoy forever.
A bad marriage can affect every other area of your life. This subject is so important to the
extent that so many married people are hoping to be single again so as to be able to make the right choice all over again. If you are single please don't just be in a hurry to get married, because you still have the best opportunity to prepare for it.
For two people to come together to live in peace and harmony, they must agree spiritually, mentally and physically. Just like an elephant cannot marry an ant so also a believer cannot marry an unbeliever. If an elephant marries an ant how would they live, if a goat marries a fish where would they meet?
You must look for a sincere and righteous man or a sincere and righteous woman to marry, nothing can beat this. The devil's primary target is the family. He knows that everyone belongs to a family and if he can bring two wrong people together in marriage, then he will succeed in breaking the community ties and the nation down as a whole, and this is part of what we're witnessing all over the world presently.
Ignore your age and the pressure for a moment, the pressure in a wrong marriage is far worse. ALLAH has somebody for you but you must set your priorities right. What do you need in a woman? What do you need in a man?
Marriage is not about what you want, it is about who you need, that will make you better while you make him better, it's not something you just jump into. That is why you must know your purpose before you get married. You must pray before you choose.
ALLAH knows the best person for you, it is only wise to seek His will. It is very easy to know ALLAH's will when sex is not involved. The moment sex is involved and you want to know His will then He will blank you out. Why? Because you have broken His first Law of NO SEX before marriage. If you have had sex in the past then you need to repent totally and stay away from each other, then you can seek forgiveness from ALLAH. Your marriage will not be hell on earth. Your marriage will be honourable.
Don't marry for sex, don't marry because you are of age, don't marry because you are getting old, don't marry because you are lonely, don't marry because you need someone to support you financially, don't marry because you mistakenly got pregnant, don't marry because you don't want to lose the person, don't marry because of family pressures, don't marry because you like the idea of marriage and admire every wedding gown you see, don't marry because all your friends are getting married.
But get married because you want to fulfill what ALLAH has ordained on every slave of His. Get married because you want to be a help mate, but most of all, because you want to fulfil a purpose of having completed half of your religion, your deen. ALLAH will help you in
choosing, please let's all continue to pray pervently to Allah for all we want.
He loves us so dearly and He will answer all our duas and supplications at the right time.
Forward to all singles you Know.
Delivered by Mufti Menk

NO MATTER THE LEVEL OF WOMAN IN THE SOCIETY, SHE STILL REMAINS THE COMMANDER IN CHIEF OF THE HOUSE - AND I MEAN EVERY SECTION OF THE HOUSE. THE COMFORT OF THE HOME IS THE EXCLUSIVE RIGHT OF A GOOD WIFE. A GOOD WIFE MAKES THE HOUSE A HOME, AND THE HOME A FAMILY. NO MATTER HOW HARD YOU TRY TO AVERT THE REALITY, A GOOD WOMAN IS VERY MUCH AWARE THAT SHE BELONGS TO THE KITCHEN - THE SITTING ROOM - AND THE OTHER ROOM.

*MY WIFE BELONGS TO THE KITCHEN:*
A good woman cooks for her husband, except in few cases where class and schedules are involved, and they employ cook(s). But despite that, she still monitors the food items that goes into the kitchen and oversees how food is being prepared and served in the house. She never leaves the kitchen completely in the hands of the cook(s). She often visits the kitchen to prepare for her husband his favourite meal. A woman is the Commander in Chief of the Federal Republic of the Kitchen.

*MY WIFE BELONGS TO MY SITTING ROOM:*
The sitting rooms is the crucial meeting point of the family where they meet, play and liaise together. The home management skills of a good woman, her good heart and her charming smiles makes the sitting room conducive for the whole family as a meeting point. When a man is married to a bad woman, the entire family is permanently confined to their individual rooms whenever they are at home. They only visit the sitting room to receive visitors and retire to their rooms as soon as their visitors leave. A good woman belongs to the sitting room, because she is the only person to make the sitting room a good meeting point for the whole family.

*MY WIFE BELONGS TO THE OTHER ROOM:*
At the end of the hustle and bustle of the day, the _other room_ is where the husband and wife retires, either to perform their marital duty or to cuddle themselves till the next day. A good wife surely belongs to the other room because the other room is the most important room in the family. The other room is where most important decisions in the family are made. The other room is where they agree to disagree. The other room is where they fulfil the law of procreation. The other room is where they agree in prayer.

*CONCLUSION:*
If you have a wife that does not belong to the *KITCHEN*, *SITTING ROOM* and *THE OTHER ROOM*, my dear, go and re-marry, because you are still a Bachelor.

*I Stand With Baba Buhari.*

Culled from
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mrsage:
Then it's either you are from the stone age or relatively backward

Lol

I love Nigeria and Nigerians, we are creative.... Lol

fikfaknuel:
Thanks bros,but i'm chasing admission this year,won't this delay hinder my chances?

And I have bought and completed the admission screening form of my choice university. I'm actually worried by this phenomena.

Is it a crime to know a subject astutely well?

No, not a crime at all. All i want to say is pray hard. I got an 'A1' in commerce recently plus four 'B3' in other subjects and it's not withheld nor term outstanding... Best of wishes bro

Don't mind them jor. It's very annoying to see our civil servants conducting themselves in such manners. I hate it even more when an academic staff threatened to hide your file just to frustrate your graduation. Guy i be student oooh shioo

Oh God!!

Children Of Hate All Over The Thread. PMB ride on joor.....

Chai!!! no wonder Timaya sell plantain sote...

If this allegation is so true.... Blackface is a fool.... African Queen, Ojuelegba and now this... haba!!!

Perfect... I just can't figure out why I so much like this great guy called President Muhammadu Buhari (PMB)... "The Common Sense Revolutionist".....

Leadership by example.. "Sai Baba,,,, Sai Buhari,,,," sing along if you know the song......!!!

Op how much and which state are you presently.....

Rightly said......

Hmmmm

Oh boi no be small tin ooo

It is call Gbagaun!!! the father will be like idiot Na GEJ pay ur last school fees, abi na him buy u dat Okrika shirt&trouser? shou!!! u don die today.... Gbagaun

Correct... U.S.A taking queue from Nigeria.... Bravo Jega!!! Where is Peedeepees? lol

My clueless President... lol

If by any chance this hit the front page, i need a thousand likes for the Peoples General.....

It is simply because of the extra milky urine men donate.... dat tin dey smell ehn!

Chai dairis god ooo... I'll never forgive Mr. President i swear.

Like fada like son.... Clueless

O boy dat chick go trip for u, i swear....!

Jimmy......!

Okay

In my opinion i think the moderators should kindly check and if appropriate, correct this declaration "I believe that there no god/God but Allah ." with the following "I believe that there is no god but Allah"... Thanks...... Allah is All-knowing

Imaging GEJ screwing Sambo..... lol

Coldfeet:

Funny you..... Coldfeet no worries i'll put a ring on it then, i'll make your feet freeze like an ice with a ring on it.... lol

Oh God.!!! One million for what I guess they will still ask the suspect to pay off his debt, and that's if he's pleaded not guilty... That's one of the reasons we don't wanna put a RING on it....

Guy, na Nairaland u dey ooo... wake up!!! your not in a Dreamland

I'll deal with him with my vote to strip away his immunity first, then sue him to court for stealing my 1grand