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FamilyRe: Is There Anything Wrong With A Wife Buying A Property In Her Name? by flyca: 11:01am On Jan 20, 2019
zicoraads:
You really shouldn't let words from those who are nonenetities and rely on social media and likes for a sense of importance bother you. Not now, not ever.

The person you quoted probably has no father nor a father figure in his life. What you should feel for him is pity, not hurt. Trust me, his type won't even have the courage to walk up to you in real life, so why bother about his worthless opinion?!
Thanks a lot, your message helps and I appreciate.
FamilyRe: Is There Anything Wrong With A Wife Buying A Property In Her Name? by flyca: 11:00am On Jan 20, 2019
Nelsizzy:
Hope you won't have a problem when your husband buys properties for his parents without informing you because it is his money?
Giving information and seeking consent are they same? huh
Some of you eh... SMH

More so 21st century marriage is partnership.
You want love give love. You want respect, give respect. You want to be asked for consent, seek consent of your spouse too etc

Except you marry a woman from an earlier century!

Where there is love, mutual respect etc, there will he no need for all those “unpleasant surprises”.
FamilyRe: Is There Anything Wrong With A Wife Buying A Property In Her Name? by flyca: 9:40am On Jan 20, 2019
Annwrites:
A man who wants a submissive wife must be seeking for a dependent women.
It's a win win situation.

So such a man shouldn't complain.
We think alike sooooooo much! smiley
FamilyRe: Is There Anything Wrong With A Wife Buying A Property In Her Name? by flyca:
Dpharisee:
You are the one who degraded your father and I see it as a carryover of the kind of treatment you have seen your mum mete out to him.
Your comment showed that your mum have little regards for him but he seems a good man who is content with what he has and because of that he is looked down upon courtesy of how your mum presents him to his kids possibly making him into a weakling and for him to keep enduring such with your mum appears to be foolish to some people if you get the drift from the responses from your first comment.
Jeeeeez. Do you really mean what you typed here? shocked shocked

With your level of intelligence, I am really surprised that you can read and write! Wooooops! shocked

She “submitted”, yet she has no regards?
She allowed him win, all the time, yet you still turn around and blame her and hero-fied the man!

Even if a man clubs his wife to death in the name of marriage, your type will still hail him!
Odiegwu!
FamilyRe: Is There Anything Wrong With A Wife Buying A Property In Her Name? by flyca:
Annwrites:
My mum may not be a good woman to you but the truth is your opinion doesn't matter.
Don't mind what they write here, it doesn't change anything. One just insulted my father. Guess what, it still doesn't change anything.

Sucessful men go for sucessful women to build an even more sucessful homes! All these chicken-males typing rubbish here are not the type of men we are looking for. Lol

Kisses to you babe! kiss
FamilyRe: Is There Anything Wrong With A Wife Buying A Property In Her Name? by flyca: 9:16am On Jan 20, 2019
larryking540:
Oya on behalf of everyone here we are sorry if we indirectly or directly insulted ur dad, to day is Sunday hope u went 2 church
Nobody else did. Just you.
Never mind.

Happy new week.
FamilyRe: Is There Anything Wrong With A Wife Buying A Property In Her Name? by flyca: 9:11am On Jan 20, 2019
larryking540:
Lady u indirectly insulted ur own father from ur first comment no offense,
I told you that my father was “content” by his own understanding of the scriptures. How can this be an insult? How dare I insult the person you who fully and responsibly saw me through school? Do you have to insult him? Does calling him a fool make you happier?

I don't feel happy right now the way you have addresses my very own blood. You hurt me deeply by your careless statement but don't worry. Your daughter will be my age someday.
FamilyRe: Is There Anything Wrong With A Wife Buying A Property In Her Name? by flyca:
DukeofNZ:
xxxxso make u no de use ur evil papa and family to set standard for good people. If ur mama dey submissive as you say here may God be with her now and forever. She go get her good reward. And may God punish ur foolish papa and evil child like u. U be pocohantas kind of person, bitter evil women and men everywhere. I no de pity somebody like U.
Why talk about my father this way? Why? Do you know him? Will you be happy if someone talks like this about your family? You lack home training. Why hurt me with careless words? Wait for Karma.

And also I do not need your pity. I am a successful woman. Thank you.
FamilyRe: Is There Anything Wrong With A Wife Buying A Property In Her Name? by flyca:
Do you know why my parents still live in a rented apartment after 38 years if marriage?

My “submissive” mum always sort consent, which she was never given! And her bible told her to “submit”, so all her years of marriage, she submitted to the man's will. My dad? Never saw the need to buy a land, build a house, go to good schhols etc because his bible told him to be “content”.

38 years after, REGRETS everywhere. Lol

Consent my foot! I may notify you (depending on how you sail our ship) but I cannot allow you to drag me backwards. Impossible!

Annwrites, you are very intelligent kiss
Cc: MahatmaGhandi, keepingmum
FamilyRe: Is There Anything Wrong With A Wife Buying A Property In Her Name? by flyca: 4:09am On Jan 20, 2019
daddyfreeman1:
Your type are those that don't have sense. You have head but no Brain. Chop my shit nigga... How can a lady like you say such a thing? This shows you don't have respect for your husband. I guess you're not yet married. And you're saying all this, and your future husband is looking at you.
Your resort to insult shows you are just being overly emotional. She spoke the truth, and the truth it is! Read her last paragraph again..
Annwrites:
If a husband would not let his wife know of any step he wishes to take he doesn't even deserve to know about his wife business.
Your wife was first human, before being your wife. This is 21st century where women have a voice now. She is not your slave, she is your wife. If you involve her in the marriage business, she involves you. If you don't, to hell with your consent and ego massage! If you want her respect, give respect.

All those insult hold no water. Having a career, money and a voice only scares chicken-males in this era. Real men that know their worth, know the kind of women they go for.

Bye
FamilyRe: Photo Of A Crippled Woman Striving With Her Child by flyca: 10:37am On Jan 18, 2019
Vickym1:
Holy spirit undecided
Stop. Please!
FamilyRe: Photo Of A Crippled Woman Striving With Her Child by flyca: 10:35am On Jan 18, 2019
Who got her pregnant?
EventsRe: Best Man Role By Female Friends At Weddings Sparks Reactions Among FCT Residents by flyca: 9:49am On Jan 18, 2019
Kingwizzy16:
Its called best man not best woman or best human


Women always dragging things with us but they will never drag responsibilities with us


A man can't be allow to be a chief bridesmaid

I'm not in support
Risky Bob was chief braidsmaid in one wedding laidat undecided
BusinessRe: Nigeria Leads Others In Increasing Number Of Millionaire Populations by flyca: 8:43am On Jan 18, 2019
Millionaire in naira. Is that one millioniare? undecided

No amount of white-washing will save you online 30k touts!
PoliticsRe: Nigeria Is The 6th Cheapest Place To Buy Petrol In The World by flyca: 2:57am On Jan 18, 2019
mfm04622:
You keep moving the goal post!

When you talk of minimum wages in those countries, you must also factor in cost of living in those countries! If you convert rent in those countries, then power and water bills, then taxes, you will know we have it easy in Nigeria.
Shifting goal-post from where to where?

So you are now saying that low cost of living is a justifiable reason for low minimum wage?

Cost of living is low in Nigeria, because the government has failed to do their responsibilities. So people dig their own bore-holes for water, power their own homes with gen sets etc. Or do you expect the government to charge and tax individuals for light and water that they did not supply? Quality education at basic levels has been left out to the private sector, no good roads! So tell me, how exactly do you want cost of living to be high?

Do you know how much responsible governments put in to subsidize and mechanize agriculture so that there will be food available to all? Do you know what it takes to maintain the environment, keep it sane and green? Since our govt is not doing any of these, how do you expect cost of living to be high? For things people do themselves at minimal insubstaintial scale?

Note that the cost of electricity (in watthr) in Nigeria is not so different from what is obtainable in other countries. The difference is that it is not enough to go round, so people will still buy petrol to supplement!

Get some sense bro. Last response.
PoliticsRe: Nigeria Is The 6th Cheapest Place To Buy Petrol In The World by flyca: 1:15pm On Jan 17, 2019
mfm04622:
You asked how many oil producers sell PMS at higher rate than Nigeria. Well the 3 highest producers are US, Saudi Arabia and Russia. All three sell PMS at higher prices compared to Nigeria
Now what is the minimum wage (in dollars) in these three countries?
PoliticsRe: Nigeria Is The 6th Cheapest Place To Buy Petrol In The World by flyca: 11:45am On Jan 17, 2019
smirn:
Even if there is constant power, many Nigerians will not be able to pay for it. Complain everywhere. You can help us with the answers to your useless questions.
When fuel was hijacked to 145, we also thought many Nigerians will not be able to afford it! There is a human instrictive characterstic called Adaptation! Nigerians are especially good at this. Hijack all you want, zom-B all you want, we will survive! tongue
PoliticsRe: Nigeria Is The 6th Cheapest Place To Buy Petrol In The World by flyca:
Why didn't you dig out this statistics when fuel was selling at N87?

How many oil producing nations sell more expensive than us?

What is the minimum wage in those “fuel-expensive” countries.

How many of these countries run their homes and businesses on PMS?

Lemme give you an example: An average family man “in a fuel expensive country” uses only about 10 liters of petrol per month. Fuel is not scarce and thus not adultrated. 1 liter is equal to 1 liter! No stories, no queues. Also it is well regulated. There are staff buses to take him to work. He also can use air-conditioned public transport to work. He needs no generator to power his apartment, or run his business. If he needs to travel out of town, he takes a well equipped, well-maintained speed train or he flys! 10 litres is okay for weekend outings and rare necessities.

Now answer me: how many liters of fuel (on the average) does a family man need per month in Nigeria? undecided

Is Zon-B-ism the best work you can do in this world?
PoliticsRe: Tiffany Trump And Boyfriend, Michael Boulos Step Out Together In London by flyca: 9:55am On Jan 17, 2019
So? She's dating him now makes Nigeria a first world country?
PhonesRe: Canadian citizen Sentenced To Death In China In Response To Huawei Arrest by flyca: 9:32am On Jan 17, 2019
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Jobs/VacanciesRe: FUTO Academic Staff Recruitment 2019 (24 Position) by flyca: 10:36am On Jan 16, 2019
University of Technology requiring 30 copies of hardcopy CV, in 2019!

Does the school not have a functional website?
Why can't candidates apply through the website?

Federal University o
PoliticsRe: Okorocha’s Party (AA) Dumps Buhari, Adopts Atiku - Vanguard by flyca: 9:23am On Jan 16, 2019
All of them are after their pockets!
No ideals, no principles, no conscience!
They sell themselves to the highest bidder at the detriment of the masses!
So after selling Buhari to us, this one don port? angry SMH
HealthRe: #10yearchallange: Girl Born Prematurely Without Sucking Her Mother's Breast by flyca: 8:25am On Jan 16, 2019
And this is her best 2019 pose/picture?
Her handlers didn't try abeg undecided
TravelRe: DIY Guide To Australian Permanent Resident Visa - Part 2 by flyca: 11:04am On Jan 15, 2019
blackbriar:
if you speak one of the local languages fluently and have a credited exam to prove it...e.g aborigene, chinese
Please does this apply to all skills?
TravelRe: The New & Yet-to-be Used Ikeja Bus Terminal Is Being Reconstructed (PHOTOS) by flyca: 3:45pm On Jan 14, 2019
The whole state is keeping an eye on ONE bus terminal. BUS TERMINAL. And this is the state will the largest economy in Nigeria! Well, let's just say that a bus terminal is a 21st century invention. But then just look at the crappy building angry
TravelRe: Swiss Woman, Nwanyiocha Travels To Anambra, Shares Her Experience. Pictures by flyca: 11:13am On Jan 14, 2019
dazzybliss:
So you would have been in America now right??..... So sorry bro,
I feel your pain�
Like she would have signed US up for me? God forbid! He is a distant relative and my family will never leech on someone like that. Everyone of us detest him but I hate him!
TravelRe: Swiss Woman, Nwanyiocha Travels To Anambra, Shares Her Experience. Pictures by flyca:
So lovely! I love when people integrate into their new culture like this.

Lemme use opportunity to rant small.
Early 2000, an American lady loved my uncle like this, even much more. The lady came for missions here in Nigeria, fell in love, next thing marriage. This lady was so warm, so homely, playing around like this lady, trying to speak the language, everything she sees was interesting to her. My uncle was a broke ass. He didn't even have accomodation, he was squating in church house. Even village house na pit laterine angry

But this lady never complained! She got pregnant returned to US to give birth. Processed my uncle's papers. Piam! The guy entered his first international flight to obodo oyibo. After a while, his family gradually starting trooping into the US. Everything was done with the woman's money, sometimes with the help of the church and sometimes with the help of her family. Nonsense man reached there, after three kids, started womanising. SMH

Yet this ungrateful man has the effontery to divorce his wife! America I believe is an accomodating country with “relaxed” laws otherwise they should deport him! His facebook timeline has no mention of the woman yet he poses to be happy. I am personally bitter with him.

Uncle Okey, if you ever read this, go and reconcile with Aunty Jess, you ingrate! angry
TravelRe: Swiss Woman, Nwanyiocha Travels To Anambra, Shares Her Experience. Pictures by flyca: 8:05am On Jan 14, 2019
Lovely!
CareerRe: How Do I Handle A Colleague That Steals Money At Work? by flyca: 12:28pm On Jan 12, 2019
monimekaz:
Somebody needed an opinion ..I gave mine.it is left for him/her to make a choice .My opinion ooo and not yours . And here you are with your maggot-infested brain typing like your mother gave birth to you after sexual inter course with wild animals .I don't have any problem with people being stupid but it is stomach -churning seeing fools like you advertise thier stupidity on a public forum. I gave an advice for his/her safety .Is there anywhere I mention to the op to steal anything or condone the act of stealing? Just told the op to mind his/her business. And strictly my opinion which he /she sought for . You don't know me and you have just concluded and that shows you are and educated idiot .You are in a parallel line with common sense .Did I forget to conclude that you are an educated illiterate.
You are too wild to live amongst humans.
CareerRe: How Do I Handle A Colleague That Steals Money At Work? by flyca: 8:49am On Jan 12, 2019
See why it is very very risky to do business in Nigeria or with Nigerians huh

Someone is stealing, directly or indirectly crippling another man's business, and Nigerians are saying “mind your business”. Which business if I may ask? huh

Thank God I saw this thread. It's saved me a lot.
PoliticsRe: We Won’t Investigate Audio Leak, Amaechi Didn't Abuse Buhari – APC by flyca: 9:50am On Jan 11, 2019
What about the Ganduje video that was sent to forensic lab in London for investigation? And outcome or result yet?
TravelRe: Japanese Passport Is World's Most Powerful Passport, Tops List Again by flyca: 1:41pm On Jan 09, 2019
TonyeBarcanista:
Nigeria shall be great again
wink

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