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Ogbenimax:First, spouses are diserning - most times. Next, the husband's attitude and response is almost screaming “guilty”! |
Gratefulaheart:Okay so I read this part and decided to add more. Wait o, you have been supporting him financially and he still had guts to cheat? How can a broke man who has being failing in this basic family responsibility still have ere.ction? ![]() I need you to think: How can you protect your kids? Where are your relatives? Parents? Can you hand over your kids to some trusted adult in the meantime? If yes, take them away and get ready for drama. Do you have any crush? Maybe from secondary school or university? If yes.... good! Stop sobbing or crying, he is not responding to it. Start a chat with someone from your past, start with a neutral chat. School life, lectures, school uniform, teachers, life after school, church, religion, politics etc. Allow him to occupy you in the meantime. Laugh, have fun. Ignore oga and reconnect with your past. Be cheerful at home, keep up with your wife duties, call your kids and stay connected with them. Ignore oga totally. If you have been dropping money for him, STOP! Pamper yourself. If you have extra cash, buy a luxury product for yourself! And excuse me, you may be needing your precious car more often than usual Stop flying bikes, it's not sexy! And you since you will be wearing high heel shoes, it's not convinent, not anymore! ![]() Now, how he reacts will direct you, your next moves, and most importantly, will direct how deep the connection goes. If he is still unconcerned, increase tempo, move to gear 2. Fix a date. Again, still keep it as neutral as possible. Meet him at Mr Biggs or Tantalizers. Go with one of your kids (the one that will tell Daddy that “Uncle Sam” bought him ice cream )! Lol.Lemme know when you get to gear 4 ![]() Whatever you do, do not leave your matrimonial home for any baskard slay queen! Na him go run commot. Keep that recording very safe too. We die dia! Hey, it's just an advice. You must not follow it! |
OP, what do you do for a living? Lack of financial independence is one of the reasons why spouses (esp women) tolerate nonsense in their relationships/ marriage. It is also the reason why the other partner has the effontery to do behave anyhow ![]() As for me, it's my personal decision not to bring any kid that I cannot personally take care of into this world. I don't need all that drama. I won't beg you to support your own child. So, no matter how rich my husband is, I have decided that I must still have my own income! This can never be overstressed in marriage! Madam, if I were in your shoes (I pray not to though), .... Anyway, lemme not type it here so that I don't interfere with the minds of younger readers. OP, if you are an independent (financially) woman that has never been found wanting in your wifely duties, send me a PM lemme advise you on what to do. I have many options though divorce being the last. ![]() I know it hurts very much. Warm hugs to you! |
Is her mama her husband? ![]() |
desoul2004:Lol. You are sick in the head! I had waited for your response for 24hours, no show. Before I edited part of my post. More than 48hours after, and this is the most intelligent thing you can come up with? ![]() Wisdom to you is demonizing all women, yea? Dolt! |
Snail, snake, sea foods. |
123Rock321:English = 10 points (try and max it at 20 points) Age = 25 points Education = 15 points Relevant work experience = ? (Check with EA) If all your 8 years are related to Electrical Engineering and you have all the relevant documents to claim them, you will earn 15 points. Spouse = no point Three types of working visa available are visas 189, 190 and 489. Begin your journey. Goodluck! |
123Rock321:Of course you stand a chance. Lol Go and get an assessment from EA. That should be the beginning of your journey since you have written English Test. You need to state all your points in Listening, Speaking, Reading and Writing to get further help. However, for DHA, you must get at least a 7 in all the four skills to earn 10 points. And at least an 8 in all the four skills to earn 20 points. Also are you married? What is your spouse's occupation. Those need to be put into consideration too. Let the journey begin. Cheers. |
Emaprince:Before I forget. There is this my classmate from secondary school. Her name is Obiamaka. She is my friend on Facebook, but she is not the type that posts a lot. Her husband will always post and tag her, that's how I see it. The man is always gushing about her. Today vacation, tomorrow Dubai and all that. Always telling the world that he is lucky to have meet and married Obiamaka. They've been married for about 6 years now. Lol His birthday post to her was: No wonder I knelt down to beg you for your number! Now do you think Obiamaka is not a woman? Or she is the only good woman in the world? Or she doesn't have her flaws? The difference is that they have both learned how to get around each other! That's the reason for the excess love flowing in their relationship. You know why I have said that you and people like you will likely not end up with a good woman? Because you have seen all women as the same (which maybe true), but you will not bend down and work for and with your own woman. Congratulations on your choice! |
Emaprince:Do you know my father? No. Okay let me tell you, he was.... Now lemme ask you - do you know this woman? How did she broadcast to the whole world? Can you point her out in the community? You just like to make noise! Again, it is evident from your attitude that you likely will not end up with a good woman. So it's good you have given up on time. I know uncountable number of men who still acknowledge that they would not have made it thus far without their women. Strong men still have women as their bedrock! Good marriage relationships are not scarce, but only men who know how to get around their women earn it. The others with egos are as high as the heavens will not smell it. So they can only sit around and whine! Cheers! |
Emaprince:You write so well but you lack content a.k.a sense! Why must everything done by a woman be condemed? Can't you see from her post that she is just a woman that has a good relationship with her hubby. Look at her smilies. She is just having fun! My father documented every penny he gave us while in the university. So? Did anybody hang him? My mum on the other hand gives you her last kobo and forgets about it the next minute. I'm sure you will still find a way to blame her. Judge women all you want, you and your kind never end up with a good one by anyways. |
UniQue84:Have you finished? ![]() Lemme ask you. Do you know this woman? Can you tell who she is from her post? We both know that there are more than ten thousand “Mrs Bello” in Nigeria, she may not even be that name in the first place, so where is your “broadcasting” idea coming from? Free the woman! She was just having fun. Can't you see her smilies? She sounds to me as a person who has a good play relationship with her husband. Stay there and be quenching. Na you sabi! |
IamD18:Then he shouldn't ask for a loan! He should ask for money that he will use for the “betterment of the family”, so that the wife knows it's family money that she is not getting it back. That said, why do you assume that the man will use it for betterment of the family? Haven't you seen men who borrow from their wives to make their sidechicks happy? Or man who borrow from their wives to buy drinks for the boys? You are always very shallow! |
efighter:You guys always look for an excuse to cause mishief. It ingrained in your genes! Are there muslim missionary schools? If no, why? If yes, why did they not take here there? Small time now, you will want them to change the name of the school to Alha kubbar ![]() |
Trendvoice:Quarrel all you want, na you sabi! You are a lazy blogger with zero content! |
For those who did no see it, the incident happened in St Peters College! A Christian missionary school! Give them an inch, they want a mile! Tufiakwa! |
Very beautiful news especially for me Another proof that no woman is evening newspaper! Able and capable MEN (not boys) still cheerish their women Forget all those stupids talks and insults and careless talk by frustrated Nairalanders who cannot afford what they crave for eg IamD18 Everyone should be patient and wait for your turn, but be smart enough to identity your opportunities. And don't stop working and pushing through your dreams while and it. Bless! |
KingMEXX:Okay dear, next year. Thanks |
Respect is Reciprocal That's an old adage. If you want respect, give respect. Fullstop! Therefore, I will not bother to read the writeup! |
Resener13: |
Resener13:#rollseyes #continueswalking |
Resener13:I will let for enjoy your foolery because you are not the OP! May what has befallen him not befall you. Shebi he went to the girl's family to beg and cry before they accepted him back ![]() You refer to your woman as “this girl” and you are crying lack of disrespect. Wonderful! |
1. You dated a lady for 3 whole years, got engaged to her, now you have small problem with her and you are calling her “this girl”. Something is wrong with your head ![]() 2. What exactly do you mean by lack of respect? So you want a working class woman (obviously a family can't run fully with only your income), then you also want her to be prostrating to serve you beans and bread. And maybe answer you “sir”, abi?You are out of your mind! ![]() Shebi her mother told you to leave their daughter alone? Eh... Why did you go and beg? Why not marry a pre-mature woman that don't know her left from right? Someone that is not working? I am almost compelled to curse you! Gerrrrrrraaaahia mehn! |
Basiljoe:I don't know why you have called me a retardd, please can you give a reason? At least, I did not insult you. |
shogsman:What does it matter? |
ojuu4u:See eh.... even if you dress your kids with bedsheets, perverts will always be perverts! My lecturer harrassed me in university. I wish I could share a picture of what I was wearing that day. He was tapping my br.east in class and laughing. And he did that to many girls in my class. Imagine! *btw, I am a very conservative dresser o, the SU type, you get. |
Why would anyone look at a five, seven, eight year old kid (boy or girl) with lust even if they were na.ked? When I was younger, you see kids that age bath in pavements outside the house, in the streams or by the riversides with innocence and no one harrassed them. What changed? Why are we so religious yet so pervertious? Even full-fledged adults wear bumshots abroad (including non-religious countries) and no one bats an eyelid! In my company, it is okay to wear bumshorts to work. In fact, nobody even thinks anything is wrong with it. So the problem is not the kids, but the paedophilic adults who have everything configured in the minds of their lustful desires. In Nigeria, underaged girls are raped (even hijab does not stop rapists!). It's not the kids, it's the adults. Don't blame the child or their parents, blame the soceity. The evil people going around stealing pants, should we blame the pant for enticing them? Blaming a child for being raped is the same thing as blaming a car owner for his hijacked car! Very unbecoming! And neausating! |
FREEMADNESS:Lol. The word “everybody” here is funny to me, you are really living in a closet. If you are in a country where you use your phones to check when the buses arrive your station, pay for bus fare, buy metro tickets, buy meat and pepper in the market with your phone, open your house door, enter elevator with NFC etc (these are just basic daily needs I mentioned o) you will not be able to part with your phone for 1 week max. Ideally, a phone is not only used fror “Nairalanding” and social media, okay? I don't blame you sha, 100k seems like a lifeline to you. Invest ke? So you cannot invest wisely on a 50k salary that will make you a col manager in 5 years? Lol. You sef. Well, lemme carry my “fake life” and face front sha. Throw away your phone, and just be waiting for the 100k to “invest wisely” Odimma! ![]() |
FREEMADNESS:Lol. First of all, you need to understand that “time is money”. Get free 100k today, loose out on a 50k job that will land you a managerial position in 5 years time. Do you think that is wise? Also, kindly note that not everybody on Nairaland earns naira. Thank you. |
If I do, I will loose more than that amount. So no, I will not. |
Rwanda! Jeez, I'm so proud of their progress! |
What about that engagement party Linda had? Was it staged? ![]() |
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