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Most cases, we blame government for everything.
We are the government and you start affecting your immediate community by what you give.
With the kind of money people have in Nigeria, no one should suffer again, no beggar should be on the street again.
The orphans and needy in the street are much more than the ones in the motherless homes.
The rich wants to get richer and richer,  greediness. 
Maybe if Cecillia Ibru had put only 100b out of the whole money she stole into charity, maybe her sins would have been pardoned.

seye4nii:
. And who told you those Footballers don't give back[color=#006600][/color],,,,,,,,,another chicpansy has come out 4rm the zoooo can u give 1niara out of yr f.u.r.c.k.i.n.g. porket {monkey}

You must be very very stupid and senseless to say that. Stupid illiterate who can't understand simple English.
Apart from Kanu Nkwanwo who have an heart foundation that cannot take of 10% of children with heart problems. Who again amongst the footballers have given back something substantially in proportion to what they worth??
@seye4nii, you're just foolish and stupid that's all

Nigerians should learn to be grateful.
Most of our Nigerian footballers are much more richer than her, Also the politician like James Ibori and his likes who stole OUR OWN MONEY and even refused to give back just 10% of it to charity.
common Nigerians, let's embrace sincere love for the helpless

how much?
post the picture?

was this bus bought as tokunbo or new one?
What is the mileage?
can it go for 4m

was this bus bought as tokunbo or new one?
What is the mileage?

thx @lady_j_u & @titto
I really appreciate your concern. will try that as well.
N'land is the best!!

my brother,
'if the foundation be destroyed, '
this you should have noticed right from the onset.
anyway, move on with your life.
have you got any child? Take your child back before they start using them against you.
wish you the best.
seek counsel, go to seminars, read books before leaping into marriage again.
rising and failing is not the best.
I wish you the very best.

, but, i hope you're telling us the story as it is.

why must you administer drugs on such a young boy in the first place.
they have their specialist.
moreover, nothing is wrong with the boy, if he play enough during the day, he will definitely sleep.
if you feel anything is wrong, take him to the specialist. NOT JUST GENERAL DOCTOR.
CHILDREN HAVE THEIR OWN SPECIALIST OOOOOOOOOOOO.
Take advice before you kill your son with your ignorance oooooooooo.

they are just trying to raise some senseless dust. just for us to feel they're working.
the scenerio is similar to that of a police methodology of 'show me your receipt'
does it mean that item cannot be stole with receipt? and can't someone furge receipt.
we really need to be realistic in this country and step up in our thinking and all spheres of our lives.
Anyway, he will soon be fired. those crooks he went to face are not happy with him at all.

Thanks for your responses.
@chaircover and others advices are well noted.
But I also want us to understand something.
This marriage is about 5 years old and I don't think we should be strangers to each other anymore.
She is not just interested in romances e.g. kissing her in the kitchen, touching her casually, etc.
Must the man be the only one that must initiate romance always? I don't agree to that.
I think she should reciprocate every good advances I make towards her as well.
I have bought various GNLD & Foreverliving products for female
I don't wish to break her heart, but if she won't turn up, I will get a sweet girl, and if she gets to know and doesn't like it, I will go for divorce.
Why should I be suffering on what I acquired

post the pictures of this car.

@poster
If i were to advice you as a brother.
Lies about age is not enough reason why you should opt for divorce.
I can only implore you to examine her closely and see if you will discover something else about her, most especially about her past.
Sometimes, ladies cook up stories when they are running out of time.
36 is not bad if her past is OK and her body is still intact. And also, when there is money. Cos money answers all things
Brother, there are so much worse things ladies could do than this, weigh her in terms of her goods and bads. so accept her and continue life.
Let her know you hate lies and you wouldn't tolerate any more lies again.
She will get pregnant and give you babies soon.  Infact, anxiety about getting pregnant can delay her conception. You guys should just relax and have fun.
, it is well with you and your family in Jesus name

lol.
most of these stupid easy loans are unrealistic in the sense that, the stress they put you through. As if that is not enough, their interest rate is outrageous. you pay registration fee of like 5,000 the most annoying part of it is that they won't lend you reasonable amount. the highest I know for now is 50,000
that's horrible

I am so grateful to everyone who responded to this thread.
Your wisdom will not diminish in Jesus name.
People will soon be paying to join Nairaland (lolz)

Furthermore, is there any medication that enhances women's libido if childbirth warrants this.

what's the mileage.
i have someone who is interested in this car

I am so grateful to all who responded to this post.

I have called her, sat her down, have been to church seminars that deals on marriage issue. I was more than excited when one married lady came up to charge the women on the need for them to be romantic, dive and respond while having sex with their partner and not just sleep like a dummy while the man digs deep and all sort of.

Honestly, am not used to erotic films because of the torment I had from it in the past. or could it be the way out for her?

I do my best as a man to keep my family comfortable. I am dying inside. I am still young and vibrant. I kept myself intact until I got married.

My fear is that, will I ever get back to her if I should find anyone who will keep me warm and break the jinx of these cold nights in my life??

is this car toks or NG used?

I've read various responses regarding this post. But no one seems to look at it from another point of view.
The girl deceived the guy. If she had told him point blank that "I am not having sex until wedding night" that would have been a different case.

Also, it depends on the extent of disvirginity. If the 'diameter' is so wide. then, I can't support that.
If a girl/lady is a liar, the effect in the family is so damaging
What is the guarantee that the girl will not continue with the fellow who was 'servicing' her before getting married.
"it is better for one to cry now and laugh at the end than for one to endure and at the end of day, still cry.

Hi Nlander,
It is not my joy to post this thread, but I just have to do it.
My heart is bleeding as am posting this message.
My wife of 5years has become so cold and not romantic any longer, even our sex life is nothing to write home about anymore. Before, I used to do 4 rounds, but now, am virtually impotent, this is because I will have to make trouble before we have one round. I've not had second round for more than 3years now cos that doesn't exist in her dictionary.
It got so worse that she turns her back to me when sleeping on the same bed. We're both in our very early 30s
I have tried everything humanly possible to register my mind on this, but she won't just change. She may change for 2 days, after that, she's back to her old way.
In my 5 years of knowing her, I've not seen another woman's pant let alone sleeping with anyone else.
This is really affecting my faith as I am considering getting a sex and romantic partner and probably a second wife, but am afraid of many things, especially for the sake of my brilliant 3+ year old son.
I just need a serious advice from sensible Nlanders. No Jokes pls.

Thanx for all the responses.
Personally, I think travelling through these countries will expose you to happening around these countries.
I enjoy driving and can drive 12hrs.
I have been to these countries through public transport, but I do see Nigerians travelling in their own cars.

go to Alaba international market, you have to be a good saxophonist so you can test the tones very well or go with a good saxophonist

what are the best prices of these cars

Please I need the prices of these cars/bus

* Volkswagen (Fanagon) - Petrol Engine
* Toyota Hiace (18 Seater)
* Volvo S80
* Benz 190 (Paded)

I need this info so as to decide.

My email - beckyjesusuk@yahoo.co.uk

post pictures with engine pics and mileage

post engine pix

i have questions to ask
1. what are the hardware requirement for this internet to work on my laptop
2. what is the network coverage
3. is it real-time broadband or gprs stuff.
pls. let me know. am really interested. and am sure many Nlander would like to ask these questions as well.

post engine pix and mileage.

let's see pix.

toks or Nigerian used??