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donTbone:

Speechless

Tyviv:
Why do you hate sex?

like I said it's like a dirty act. All I want from a girl is to love me and also be faithful to me. Sex is not the sole purpose of marriage. the way some people are doing is like the main reason they got married is to have sex

KashyBaby:
Then stay single as u r...if u can't have sex with ur wife, then what's the use of being married anyway and get a divorced coz she enjoying the eggplant of others & not urs?


Don't get married if u can't give happiness to ur wife, she eventually wants children


So, don't make ur life complicated and avoid making other's life miserable coz u cant have sex with them...STAY SINGLE.

I know I have to do it for the sake of our children but what I'm saying is they complained about their partner not being able to satisfy their sexual urges. that's where I think they'll have problems with me

I have been hearing something like this from girls “He can't satisfy me" if this is true I presume I'll have so many issues in my marriage. I dated for more than a year and I have never for once asked her for sex and she cheated on me bcoz of that. she was bold enough to tell me that I never made her feel like a woman. so many girls have given me attention and sometimes romantic with me but I never opted in for sex and they thought I'm not serious with them and they left me. I don't have urge for sex and I may love a girl so much but it's hard to sleep with her and I to sum everything up I detest sex. would it affect me tomorrow would I have problems in my marriage male friends have been telling me my wife will cheat on me and I am very jealous if I catch her I'll be forced to divorce her but I'm worried. I see sex as a most unpleasant act and I don't like it. To me sex is a dirty thing. please I need your advice. thanks

I have been hearing something like this from girls “He can't satisfy me" if this is true I presume I'll have so many issues in my marriage. I dated for more than a year and I have never for once asked her for sex and she cheated on me bcoz of that. she was bold enough to tell me that I never made her feel like a woman. so many girls have given me attention and sometimes romantic with me but I never opted in for sex and they thought I'm not serious with them and they left me. I don't have urge for sex and I may love a girl so much but it's hard to sleep with her and I to sum everything up I detest sex. would it affect me tomorrow would I have problems in my marriage male friends have been telling me my wife will cheat on me and I am very jealous if I catch her I'll be forced to divorce her but I'm worried. I see sex as a most unpleasant act and I don't like it. To me sex is a dirty thing. please I need your advice. thanks

Is it good to ask a girl out of social media I asked a girl out facially once and she accepted with ease but we broke up and I have been trying to ask girls out on social media but it's not working. But it's always hard for me to ask a girl facially because I am shy but trying on social media is not working even when she loves me.

McAdebesin:
How did you apply

I went to Exxon Mobil and get the form

I applied for Exxon Mobil internship yet I haven't received test invitation msg. please when are they going to send it

busomma:
So this shameless man can open his dirty mouth& talk rubbish instead of apologizing to Nigerians for running this country into a ditch. Ur day of reckoning is coming soon when the spirit of those defenseless soldiers that died avoidable deaths cos of ur cluelessness will come hunting u. Agbaya.

God punish you. is your father and the stupid he goat called Buhari that has dirty mouth. brainwashed fool

Joy1706:
Its like NL guys live in another planet cos I see divorcees get married all the time...to better men sef.
And why does the woman have to lose or suffer? Una mentality tire me o. He marries the maid. I marry a better man

As if it's easy. the fact that it worked for someone else doesn't mean it'll work for you

cruzita:
that's how u men deceive yourselfs .

But think about it am I lying You're doing yourself more harm than good

cruzita:
that's how u men deceive yourselfs .

One thing I like about me is that I am very proud but not arrogant and I can't demote myself to sleep with a maid. When I was in Sec. Sch I rebuked my colleagues that got into a relationship with Junior students I saw it as depreciation of prestige. I can be kind to the maid I won't allow my wife to bully her but not to have any affair with her

cruzita:
will the man forgive his wife if she gets impregnated by their gateman? I don't think so .As for me,I won't deceive myself I will call it QUIT because I like justice in everything.

if you quit who'll suffer you're the one to lose. your husband will marry the maid and life goes on. as for you, you are now second hand and won't be easy to see husband. be wise

QueenValerie:
I'd forgive him after I got a divorce and half of everythin'!!!
And I mean it, if he wears a wig I want my half of that too!

lol so you want half of everything one mistake I won't do is to do court marriage. What I spent years to get to be shared equally with someone I don't even know when I was suffering.

360command:
you will fail if u think of laundry biz wit dat money. Except you have a shop or house to do the biz there.

I am not a student I'll take care of the business myself

you're are on point man. I hate that thing she loves you but would be forming hard to get or I want to see if he truly love me or I don't want to seem cheap. that's nonsense. I don't follow girl up more than one week and if you don't accept I'll give up.

Front page Pls

Pls which business can I open using 200k which I can make a profit of not less than 50k a month I'm thinking of Laundry

Good thread

Rafael Nadal for victory. Lord please help him

emmijes3:
ohh okay..goodluck with that.

hmm she's acting nice. are you interested

Nice topic. My dream is to spend nothing less than two million

Islie:
em!!!!!!!




better than GEJ......

Bastard. all dis APC touts inside u're regretting.

TUESDAY, JANUARY 5, 2016
SOLOMON’S SPLENDOR
“For what shall it profit a man, if he shall gain the
whole world and lose his own soul”
- Mark 8.36
William Wordsworth one of the greatest English
poets re-echoes the scripture when he says ‘…
nothing can bring the hour of splendor in the
grass, of glory in the flower…’ This statement
agrees with what Apostle Peter says when he
likens man to grass and the glories of man to
flowers on the grass. He further states that when
the grass withers, the flowers fall off. All that we
see today in the world will definitely come to an
end. All the wealth, glory and splendor of Solomon
came to an end. My dear youth, as you are
pursuing your academic endeavours or doing
something in order to make it in life, remember
that nothing lasts forever. Draw closer to God in
true worship and holiness so that you can book a
place in heaven after your life in this world. Many
kingdoms have risen and fallen. Great men, like
Adolf Hitler, William Shakespeare and Nelson
Mandela, all came to limelight but today they are
no more. We need to get closer to God and settle
all our bad ways so that we don’t regret in eternity
because we lived as if everything begins and ends
here or plant earth.
Challenge: Live with eternity in view
Prayer: Lord Teach me to live for you
Quote: Life is but for a short time
Further Reading: 1 Peter1:24 - 25

MONDAY, JANUARY 4, 2016
THE RECHABITES
“And ye shall know the truth, and the truth shall
make you free”
- John 8.32
Former US Senator, Rick Santorun once
admonished Christians: “Your job is to just focus
on being faithful, standing by the truth, fighting for
the truth, understanding the world is broken and
that they will hate you and persecute you because
you stand for him and what he taught. And that is
a great blessing, not something to be avoided but
something to be embraced.” Every true child of
God must be tested to prove the type of Christian
he or she is. For the Rechabites, the test came
from the great Prophet Jeremiah, who commanded
them to drink wine. But they responded: “We will
drink no wine: for Jonadab the son of Rechab our
father commanded us, saying, ye shall drink no
wine, neither ye, nor your sons, forever …” The
Rechabites stood for the truth in their time and
resisted the temptation to sin against God. Dear
reader, God has not changed his demand of
absolute obedience from his children. Make up
your mind to stand for Christ and live godly,
despite any persecution, temptation or trials in this
present world. God will surely create an escape
route for you.
Challenge: Obedience brings blessing
Prayer: Lord, help me not to focus on my
challenges
Quote: Stand up for Jesus ye soldiers of the Cross
Further Reading: Jeremiah 35:1-10

Sunday , January 3 , 2016
SUCCESS IN FAILURE
I will say of the Lord , He is my refuge and my
fortress: my God; in him will I trust”
- Psalm
Bill gates, one of the world’s richest persons, and
the president/CEO of Microsoft Corporation, Once
said: “I never graduated from college… but, I get
the chance to talk to you about an incredible
institution that has potential to do even more in
the years ahead than it’s already done.” Bill Gates
was not so good in his college days but he
worked very hard and never gave in to failure.
Today, he is a renowned ICT icon. You too can
change your failure to success, and become a
hero of your time. All you need to do is reject
failure and work hard in every endeavor. Like
Apostle Paul, you too can do all things through
Jesus Christ who strengthens you , provided you
put you trust and confidence in God. Do whatever
your hands find to do carefully and dutifully. Are
you a student? Take your studies very seriously,
even if you have failed in the past. Make sure you
don’t offend God through sinful lifestyle, and he
will surely see you through.
Challenge: You can be more than a conqueror
Prayer: Lord, help me to press toward success
Quote: You can do all things
Further Reading: 1 samuel 2 : 4 – 9

SATURDAY, JANUARY 2, 2016 ARE YOU SURE? “Wherefore the rather , brethren, give diligence to make your calling and election sure: for if ye do these things, ye shall never fall” - 2Peter 1 : 10 There are many things that cannot be mistaken and as such we are very sure when we talk about them. For instance we know a girl to be different from a boy because of the physical features which set them apart. Similarly,we know when it is day or night. We are sure of all these because of the physical features which set them apart.We are sure of all these because they are visible to the human eyes. Today there are so many people who go to church, who bear Christian names and even participate in the service of God but are not sure of their relationship with God. Dear friend, are you sure of your relationship with Christ? Can you say you are on your way to heaven? Just the same way you cannot mistake night for day or boy for girl, you can be very sure of your salvation and your relationship with God without guess work. The sure way for you is to repent of all known sins and accept Jesus as your Saviour. You must in addition daily live in accordance with the word of God. Challenge: Be Sure of your salvation in Christ Jesus Prayer: Lord, help me to know you experientially Quote: Further Reading: Romans 8: 13 -17

Friday,January 1 , 2016
The Gift of God
“Wherefore I put thee in remembrance that thou stir up the gift of God , which is in thee by the putting on my hands”- 2Timothy 1:6There is a sleeping giant in every youth who has not discovered his or her talent. God is magnanimous that he did not create anybody without a talent. Unfortunately, the talent in you will remain docile, passive and impotent if you don’t stir it up. Many people do not realize that if they havea SIM card that is not activated, they cannot communicate with it even though there are great possibilities in it. Dear friend if you have not discovered your talent, then ’’ go to the ant … and consider her ways, and be wise” (proverbs 6:6). God is willing to help you discover your hidden talent, so that you can fulfill His purpose for your life. However, for you to have God as your ever present Helper toblossom your talent , you must make him your father byaccepting Christ as your Lord and saviour. Once Christ is in you, it becomes easy to prayerfully discover your talent and eventually succeedin life and eternity.Challenge:You have a talent in youPrayer:Help me Lord to activate my talentQuote:wake the sleeping giant in youFurther Reading:Mathew 25: 1 – 13

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WATCHFULNESS WHILE OTHERS SLEEP

1 Thessalonians 5:5 Ye are all the children of light, and the children of the day: we are not of the night, nor of darkness.
1 Thessalonians 5:6 Therefore let us not sleep, as do others; but let us watch and be sober.
1 Thessalonians 5:7 For they that sleep sleep in the night; and they that be drunken are drunken in the night.
1 Thessalonians 5:8 But let us, who are of the day, be sober, putting on the breastplate of faith and love; and for an helmet, the hope of salvation.
1 Thessalonians 5:19 Quench not the Spirit.
2 Timothy 2:4 No man that warreth entangleth himself with the affairs of this life; that he may please him who hath chosen him to be a soldier.
Judges 16:19 And she made him sleep upon her knees; and she called for a man, and she caused him to shave off the seven locks of his head; and she began to afflict him, and his strength went from him.
Judges 16:20 And she said, The Philistines be upon thee, Samson. And he awoke out of his sleep, and said, I will go out as at other times before, and shake myself. And he wist not that the LORD was departed from him.
Judges 16:21 But the Philistines took him, and put out his eyes, and brought him down to Gaza, and bound him with fetters of brass; and he did grind in the prison house.
1 Samuel 26:7 So David and Abishai came to the people by night: and, behold, Saul lay sleeping within the trench, and his spear stuck in the ground at his bolster: but Abner and the people lay round about him.
Ephesians 5:14 Wherefore he saith, Awake thou that sleepest, and arise from the dead, and Christ shall give thee light.
Ephesians 5:16 Redeeming the time, because the days are evil.
Isaiah 56:10 His watchmen are blind: they are all ignorant, they are all dumb dogs, they cannot bark; sleeping, lying down, loving to slumber.
Matthew 13:25 But while men slept, his enemy came and sowed tares among the wheat, and went his way.
Matthew 13:26 But when the blade was sprung up, and brought forth fruit, then appeared the tares also.
Matthew 13:27 So the servants of the householder came and said unto him, Sir, didst not thou sow good seed in thy field? from whence then hath it tares?
Matthew 13:28 He said unto them, An enemy hath done this...
Galatians 4:18 But it is good to be zealously affected always in a good thing, and not only when I am present with you.
Proverbs 10:5 He that gathereth in summer is a wise son: but he that sleepeth in harvest is a son that causeth shame.
1 Corinthians 15:34 Awake to righteousness, and sin not; for some have not the knowledge of God: I speak this to your shame.
Isaiah 52:1 Awake, awake; put on thy strength, O Zion; put on thy beautiful garments, O Jerusalem, the holy city: for henceforth there shall no more come into thee the uncircumcised and the unclean.
Isaiah 52:2 Shake thyself from the dust; arise, and sit down, O Jerusalem: loose thyself from the bands of thy neck, O captive daughter of Zion.
Isaiah 52:3 For thus saith the LORD, Ye have sold yourselves for nought; and ye shall be redeemed without money.

#SUMMARY
Luke 21:34 And take heed to yourselves, lest at any time your hearts be overcharged with surfeiting, and drunkenness, and cares of this life, and so that day come upon you unawares.
Luke 21:36 Watch ye therefore, and pray always, that ye may be accounted worthy to escape all these things that shall come to pass, and to stand before the Son of man.

We didn't vote for that bastard to blame Jonathan's administration. he should showcase the change he promised.

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