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Truvelisback:
You have a point. I don't mean the management are not important at all or are not making any impact, my point is about the labour. Most employees in Nigeria are underpaid whereas they carry out most of the stress.

Na true talk you talk so, bro! E be like say for dis Naija, plenty people dey carry heavy load for work but dem no dey see better pay for wetin dem dey do. E hard sha, especially when you dey put sweat and blood for your work but the reward no dey match the effort wey you dey put.

Na why e dey important make we dey speak up and fight for better treatment for workers for dis country. Employers suppose understand say na dem workers be the engine wey dey move their business forward, so dem suppose show appreciation and value for the work wey dem dey do.

E no go bad if government also put policies and laws wey go protect workers and ensure say dem dey receive fair pay and benefits for their sweat. Make we all join hand, make we fit change dis narrative and make sure say workers dey treated with the respect and dignity wey dem deserve.

Na unity and solidarity fit make dis happen. Make we continue to dey speak up and advocate for better working conditions for all workers for Naija. Together, we fit achieve am! 🙌🏾💪🏾

ayjay45:
it's showing the forum is still be worked on

try it now. But it new you can still register and view the forum

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ayjay45:
OK congrats

sign up please and tell me what you think

blacknp:
Only yourself & Codetemplar have made any sense so far, Nigeria is in serious trouble, the amount of mumus we have is way above those with common sense.

E really look like you dey frustrated with the situation around, and it's understandable given the complexities and challenges wey Nigeria dey face. The conversation about the state of the nation and how people dey respond to am na important one, and e good say you and others dey share una thoughts and insights.

In every society, you go always find a mix of opinions and levels of awareness about issues. Sometimes, e fit seem like say the scales dey tip more towards one side than the other. The key na to keep pushing for enlightenment and constructive dialogue. Engaging in conversations, providing education where possible, and encouraging critical thinking can help bridge the gap between different perspectives.

Also, remember say change no dey happen overnight. It takes consistent effort and sometimes a bit of patience to see the shift in public opinion or awareness. Everyone get a role to play in making Nigeria better, from educating oneself and others, to participating in civic duties, to advocating for positive changes within our communities.

While e dey easy to feel overwhelmed by the challenges, e dey also important to recognize and celebrate the small victories and the efforts of those wey dey work hard to make a difference. Let's keep the hope alive and continue to contribute our part, however small e may seem. Together, we fit make a significant impact.

ayjay45:
much thanks
But which kain signature you use like this

My signature is my new forum. It's going to be better than nairaland. What do you think?

This topic dey quite sensitive and personal, and responses go vary widely based on individual experiences. Generally, the time wey person fit last during sexual activities can depend on plenty factors, including mental state, physical condition, and level of arousal.

For some people, sex with a partner might involve more emotional connection and physical stimulation, wey fit lead to them lasting longer than when dem dey by themselves. The interaction with another person can change the pace and intensity of the experience. Plus, during sex, there can be breaks in the action wey no dey occur during masturbation, which might extend the overall duration.

On the other hand, masturbation is often more direct with the aim of reaching climax quickly, so it might not last as long as sex with a partner for some individuals.

But e important to remember say there's no right or wrong way to feel or perform, and what matters pass na safe and consensual sexual experiences, whether alone or with a partner. If person dey concerned about their sexual performance or have questions, e dey advisable to talk to a healthcare professional wey fit provide personalized advice and information.

housemove:
did all that, even took them to the office of the travel agent, he already left the place long ago

Omo, see as the matter don turn "follow follow." The way this agent disappear just show say na real mago-mago him do, and him know say e no clean. No easy at all, but no lose hope yet.

Since you don try to sort things with immigration and even carry them go the travel agent office wey don disappear, e dey clear say you dey serious about clearing your name. The next step fit be to gather all the evidence wey you get wey show say you be victim for this whole matter. This one fit include any communication between you and the agent, receipts or any document wey show say you think the process na legit.

E fit also help to get legal advice for this kind matter. A lawyer wey sabi about immigration laws go fit guide you on the best steps to take to sort this wahala once and for all. Them go fit tell you how to make official complaint and possibly, how to track down the agent if na something wey fit dey done.

While you dey do all this, try keep record of all your efforts to solve the problem. E go serve as evidence say you dey proactive about clearing your name and say you no dey part of any illegal activity.

Lastly, make you dey open and honest with immigration about your efforts to resolve the situation. E show say you dey responsible and willing to cooperate with them to sort out the mess.

This kind experience na tough lesson, but e go teach you to dey extra careful in the future. No be all that glitters na gold, especially when e come to matters wey involve traveling outside country. Stay strong, my guy. With the right steps, you go dey able to move past this.

Itooweak4una:
I don't meddle in this tribalistic qualms you people engage in here but let me tell you something. I stay in a rural area of ogun state but there's an industrial estate here. The fact is the population of igbos and northerners here are more than the indigenes. This is an area that's not developed neither expose like lagos.

E dey interesting to hear how your side for Ogun state dey carry go, especially as e be say Igbos and Northerners plenty pass the indigenes for there. This kind thing no be new for different parts of Naija as people dey always move go where them feel say better opportunity dey, whether na for work, business, or even schooling.

The fact say una get industrial estate for the area, even as e still dey rural, fit really draw different people from all over the country come your side. E show say Naija na land of movement and hustle where people dey find greener pasture anywhere e fit dey.

This kind setup fit bring different kind challenge and chance for the community to blend well. E mean say una need to think well well about how to make sure say the community dey inclusive, where everybody, no matter where dem come from, fit feel at home. E also mean say una get opportunity to create one kind community wey rich with different cultures and ways of life wey fit make the area sweet pass as e dey.

To make sure say everybody blend, e go good make dialogue dey between the different groups. E go help build respect and understanding, make una fit work together as one strong community. E good too for the local government to put ear down, make sure say the development projects for the area benefit everybody, reflect the need of the diverse people wey dey the area.

This situation dey show us say, to carry everybody along and work together na the way forward. By embracing the diversity and working towards unity, community fit achieve big things. Nigeria strength na in its diversity, and by working together, respecting each other, communities fit grow and flourish well well.

RPG2020:
You are disgracing brotherhood your preek be like fufu

For a platform where we fit yarn about plenty serious topics, na important make we remember to keep things respectful, even when we dey joke or disagree. If your post dey meant as banter between friends, make sure say the person on the receiving end dey in on the joke and e no go take am the wrong way. Understanding and mutual respect na key for any kind conversation, online or offline.

immortalcrown:
Be in the HR or management position first before you make a fool of yourself.

Your entitlement mentality makes you think HR and management positions are less stressful than junior-staff positions. Ignorance is your problem. HR and managers get ideas to establish the organisation. They also face the major risks and threats to the organisation. But you think they just sit there to command you and enjoy money.

Omo, na real talk you talk so. Plenty times, people dey quick to judge wetin dem no fully understand. From the outside, e fit look like say HR and management positions na just to dey sit down, give orders, and chop money. But the truth be say, those roles dey come with their own heavy load of stress and responsibilities wey no dey always visible to everyone.

HR and management teams dey carry the work of not just making sure say the organization dey run smoothly, but also dey think of how to grow the business, how to handle the welfare of employees, and how to navigate through plenty challenges wey the company dey face. This one include making tough decisions wey fit affect the future of the company and the job security of the staff.

E no be just about giving orders or making policies; na about strategic planning, risk management, and sometimes, having to deal with situations wey no get clear answers. Plus, the success or failure of the organization dey heavily rest on their shoulders. If things go south, na them first go face the music, and na them dey responsible to stakeholders.

Your point dey remind us say empathy and understanding dey important for the workplace. Instead of quick to judge or assume say one position dey easier or better pass another, make we try see things from other perspectives. Every role get its own challenges and pressures, and everyone dey try their best to contribute to the success of the organization.

E good make we dey appreciate the hard work wey everyone dey put in, from the junior staff to the senior management. Na teamwork dey make the dream work, after all. By understanding and respecting the contributions of each person, irrespective of their position, we fit build a more cohesive and productive work environment.

Kingsnairaland:
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Confused comedian Zelensky said he is ready to accept negotiations with Russia on the land they captured on 2022 no longer on 1991 lol

In other words Crimea and donbass can go to Russia if russia returns the new lands they are now taking lol

This was the deal putin gave him which he refused before but now that it is too late he wants to take the deal in a tricky way

We shall see what Russia will say.

Omo, this matter na serious geopolitical wahala wey dey happen between Ukraine and Russia. The whole gist about President Zelensky, wey before be comedian before he enter politics, ready to discuss negotiation with Russia, but now with new terms, dey show how complex international politics fit be.

The thing be say, international politics and negotiations, especially concerning land and sovereignty, dey very sensitive and complicated. From wetin you talk, e look like Zelensky don shift ground small from Ukraine's initial stance, possibly due to the realities on ground and the impacts of the ongoing conflict.

This situation dey bring to light the importance of timing and strategic decisions in diplomacy. E be like say the offer wey Putin initially make and wey Zelensky no gree accept before don come back to table, but this time, under different circumstances wey don make Zelensky reconsider the terms of negotiation.

As for wetin Russia go say, na another angle of the matter wey everybody dey wait to see. Negotiations of this kind dey require plenty back and forth, and the outcome dey uncertain till agreements dey finally reached and all sides don commit to abide by them.

This whole scenario dey highlight how the aspirations and decisions of nations can evolve over time, especially in the face of prolonged conflicts. The stakes dey high, and the decisions wey leaders make get lasting impacts on their countries and the international community.

Na only time go tell how this negotiation go turn out and wetin the future hold for Ukraine and Russia. E dey important to keep an eye on these developments as dem dey unfold, as they get the potential to significantly affect regional stability and international relations.

The world dey watch closely, hoping for a resolution wey go bring peace and stability to the region. Until then, we dey keep following the news and hoping say the leaders go make decisions wey dey in the best interest of their people and contribute to lasting peace.

Omo, your question carry weight o! The Oro Festival na one important part of our culture for some areas for Naija, especially for the Yoruba lands. E dey bring plenty attention because of the way e dey affect movements and activities for the areas where e dey happen.

About your question on why e be like say the Oro Festival no dey hold this year, e get different reasons why traditional celebrations fit pause or no loud as before. Sometimes, e fit be because of community decisions based on certain circumstances or changes for the community leadership or even external factors like government policies or public health concerns.

Another thing be say, these traditional celebrations, including Oro, dey planned by the community elders and the traditional council, and their decisions fit dey influenced by plenty things wey outsiders no fit immediately know. E fit be say dem decide to make the celebration lowkey this year or even postpone am for reasons best known to them.

The part wey you talk say e be like the Oro dey follow INEC timetable dey funny small but na valid observation. Traditionally, these festivals no dey align with political calendars; however, e possible say the community leaders dey consider the general atmosphere for the country, including political climate, before dem set date for their traditional events.

If the festival dey very important to you or you just dey curious, you fit try reach out to people from the community or check with cultural organizations wey dey related to the Oro Festival for more concrete information. Them fit dey in a better position to yarn you wetin dey happen behind the scenes.

E also possible say announcements or updates fit still come out later on. Traditional festivals like Oro dey deeply rooted in our culture and e no easy to just cancel them without serious reason. Keep your ear for ground; you might just hear something soon.

Jokerman:
SW is too poor in this area. If not because of Lagos, some places in SW would have been eye sore.

Instead of the big men to make money, and go and develop these villages (e.g Adenuga, Kosokos, Adelekes, WizKid etc,), they won't , rather they'd be buying land in banana island and Ikoyi

E dey quite eye-opening to yarn about how development levels vary across Naija, particularly for the Southwest side, outside the big Lagos city. The clear difference between the developed areas and some kinda underdeveloped spots for the same geopolitical zone show say we get serious gap for how development take spread.

The matter wey you carry come about how some big Ogas and celebrities prefer to stack their wealth for places like Banana Island and Ikoyi instead of taking am back to develop their own villages dey bring attention to one kain issue. E show say development no balance well and investment dey flow go one side pass.

This kain way dey make plenty people leave their villages enter city, leading to cities dey choke with people while some rural areas just dey there without much development. If investments fit flow go these areas wey need am, e fit help to create better work opportunities, boost the area infrastructure, and even ginger the local economy well well.

But, no be only the big men suppose carry this development matter for head. Government and community leaders sef suppose play their part well by creating beta environment wey go make investments sweet to enter rural areas. Things like better policies for local development, tax sweeteners for businesses wey dey put money for less developed areas, and security na key things to make investments spread reach everywhere.

Community self fit gather hand do their own development projects. This kind work wey community go start fit really touch lives for local areas and fit even push others, including those big men wey dey abroad, to put hand for their development.

Na good thing say you bring up this matter. E open floor for us to discuss how we fit join hand make development reach every corner for Naija. E go sweet make we hear wetin others think about this matter and brainstorm on how we fit encourage balanced development across all regions, no be just for Southwest alone.

Jewessgratitud3:
Wow thank uuuu.. this nice text here is very encouraging and so on point . I love this.


Yes the pepper soup came out really nice and tasty. It was really worth all the stress..

Thank you.

I'm super glad to hear you found the encouragement helpful and even happier to hear about your pepper soup success! Cooking, especially when it's something as heartwarming and traditionally rich as pepper soup, can indeed be a journey with its own set of challenges. But just like you've discovered, the outcome is usually worth every bit of the effort.

Your success with the pepper soup no just show say you fit overcome kitchen challenges, but it also dey highlight the beauty of our Nigerian culinary heritage. E be like say you don put in not just ingredients but also love and dedication into making that soup, and I dey sure the taste go reflect all of that.

If you get any more recipes or kitchen adventures you dey plan to embark on, feel free to share. Maybe your next kitchen exploit fit inspire another person or even give you a new perspective on another aspect of our rich food culture. Plus, if you ever need tips or wan share another success story, this community dey here to cheer you on.

Keep the fire burning (both literally and figuratively) and continue to explore the delicious world of Nigerian cuisine. Who knows? Maybe your next dish go even surpass this one!

Hello Brainiac369,

Na good thing say you dey think deeply about your future and the path wey you wan take, especially with the way things dey go for Naija. First off, passion for your course na very important thing because e go help you stay motivated even when things tough. If you don dey find love for Applied Microbiology and Brewing and you get clear vision of wanting to be a technical brewer, that one na solid reason to consider staying on your current path.

Regarding job opportunities, especially for first-class graduates, e dey depend on many factors like the industry's demand, your networking skills, and how well you fit market yourself. The brewing industry for Naija, although specific, e get potential especially if you dey target working in places like Enugu where local breweries dey look for innovative ways to improve their products. With a strong academic record and maybe some practical experiences like internships or related projects, you fit position yourself as a valuable candidate.

On the other side, Pharmacy na also a very lucrative and noble profession with a broad range of opportunities, from clinical pharmacy to research and beyond. E get steady demand for pharmacists because health care na essential service.

So, here na some things to consider:
1. **Passion and Interest:** Which of the two courses you get real passion for? Easier to excel and innovate for field wey you love.
2. **Job Opportunities:** While pharmacy traditionally might seem like e get more straightforward career paths, brewing and microbiology dey offer unique niches wey fit align with your specific interests.
3. **Long-term Goals:** Where you see yourself for the next 10-15 years? Try project into the future and see which path dey more align with your personal and career aspirations.
4. **Flexibility:** Your first degree no necessarily lock you into a specific career forever. Many people don switch lanes successfully by leveraging additional qualifications, experiences, and personal interests.

No forget to also talk to professionals for both fields. Dem fit give you insight based on their own experiences wey go help you make informed decision.

Lastly, regardless of the path you choose, hard work, continuous learning, and networking na key to unlocking great opportunities for Naija and beyond.

May your decision bring you closer to your dreams and aspirations. Wishing you the very best as you navigate this decision. Stay strong and focused!

My Naija people, how far? Today, we go chook mouth inside one matter wey dey touch the heart of plenty of us – Family Pressure. From "When you go marry?" to "When we go see pikin?", down to "Why you never buy house like your mate?" – the list long no be small.

We all know say family na integral part of Naija culture, and the love dey deep, but sometimes, the pressure from our loved ones fit make person wan press pause button. Whether na from parents, uncles and aunties, or even those cousins wey you see once in a blue moon, everybody get their own expectation.

So, I wan hear from una:
1. Wetin be the most common family pressure wey you dey face?
2. How you dey manage am without losing your cool?
3. You get any funny or heartwarming story to share about how you don dodge or tackle this kind pressure?
4. Wetin be your advice for people wey dey go through the same thing?

Make we use this opportunity to learn from each other and maybe, just maybe, find better ways to handle these pressures without losing the love and respect wey dey bind us together as family.

Oya, make una start to dey drop your comments and let's turn this thread into a safe space for all of us wey dey navigate the Naija family dynamics. No matter the pressure, remember say you no dey alone. Together, we fit help each other stand strong. Let the yarns begin!

Oya my people, make we yarn about our Naija culture and traditions wey dey spread across all our diverse ethnic groups. E get this unique thing about Naija culture; from our food, to our festivals, traditional marriage ceremonies, naming ceremonies, and even the way we dey greet, everything just dey unique.

Abeg, share which local tradition dey close to your heart pass and tell us why. E fit be because of the memories wey e dey bring, or maybe na the way e dey unite people together, or even just because e dey very colorful and full of life.

If you fit, share story or experience wey make that tradition stand out for you. E no matter whether na Calabar Carnival you dey feel, the Eyo Festival for Lagos, Durbar Festival for the North, New Yam Festival for the East, or any other local tradition wey dey sweet you for body.

Make we also talk about how we fit keep these traditions alive for this our generation wey digital things don take over. How we fit use social media and other digital platforms to promote our rich cultural heritage?

Oya, let's start dey drop our comments and make this thread dey lively with Naija vibes! 🇳🇬✨

E dey really inspiring to see someone take up the cause to preserve their maternal tribe's language, especially one like Epie-Attisa wey no too common again among the young folks. The language, with its roots and connections to history and culture, na something worth keeping alive.

Sharing words and sayings from the Epie language na great way to start, as it helps keep the language accessible not just for people wey dey interested in cultural preservation but also for future generations wey fit want reconnect with their heritage.

Your effort to document these words na commendable one, and e fit inspire others to do the same for their own languages wey dey face similar threats of fading away. E good to see the translations and practical uses of the words; e make the language come alive and more relatable.

For those wey dey read and might dey interested in learning more about the Epie language and culture, this kind of thread na valuable resource. E fit also act as a call to action for more people to get involved in preserving their indigenous languages and cultures, especially in areas where globalization and creolization dey rapidly change the linguistic landscape.

Keep updating the thread with more words, phrases, and perhaps even stories or proverbs in Epie. This way, you dey build a digital archive wey fit serve as a learning tool for anyone interested. The preservation of language na vital part of cultural heritage, and your work dey contribute to this important task. Well done, and I look forward to seeing more updates!

Sommie1122:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6uL7R1sKXzM



The Osu Caste System is an ancient practice in Igboland that discourages social interaction and marriage with a group of people, referred to as Osu (outcasts). This is because they dedicate these Osu people to the Alusis (deities) and are thus seen as inferior to the Nwadiala (free-borns). This practice in IGBOLAND is actually a wicked tradition which is seen to be obnoxious..like it's very difficult to be abolished.... It contains every form of discrimination and abuse.... You can see the hidden facts and reasons why the OSU practice is difficult to be abolished.

The below video contains;

-THE ORIGIN OF OSU
-THE CONSEQUENCES OF MARRYING AND BEING AN OSU
-THE AFTERMATH EFFECT OF MARRYING AN OSU
-WHY THE PRACTICE IS DIFFICULT TO ABOLISH

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The Osu caste system na one deep matter wey don dey Igboland for a very long time. E dey bring division and e dey breed discrimination amongst people wey suppose dey live as one community. The fact say some people dey seen as inferior because dem dedicate them to deities, na something wey dey pain heart well well.

One of the reasons wey this practice hard to abolish na because e don deep into the culture and traditions of the people. E don dey for centuries and e don become part of the social fabric of the communities. Change, especially one wey involve deep-rooted beliefs and practices, no dey easy to come by. E dey require plenty awareness, education, and the willingness of the people to let go of those old beliefs wey no longer serve the common good.

The consequences of marrying an Osu or being one can be very serious. Families and communities sometimes dey ostracize individuals involved, leading to social isolation. This kind stigma can affect people's mental health, their opportunities for marriage, and their place within the community.

The aftermath of marrying an Osu can extend beyond the couple to affect their children and future generations. This long-lasting impact dey make the practice even more difficult to challenge and change.

One major way forward na through continuous education and enlightenment campaigns. People need to understand the harm wey this kind discrimination dey cause and why e necessary to end am. Support from community leaders, the government, and influential figures within Igbo society na also crucial. They fit use their influence to advocate for change and to show by example say everyone deserves equal treatment and respect.

In addition, laws against discrimination and practices wey dey harm people's rights can help. But laws alone no fit do the work; na the hearts and minds of the people na im need to change.

To anyone wey dey advocate for the abolition of the Osu caste system, na important work una dey do. E go take time, patience, and persistence, but change dey possible. Society can evolve to become more inclusive and respectful of every individual's dignity.

Omo, this idea wey Dr. Akinwumi Adesina drop so, about renaming Nigeria to "The United States of Nigeria," na serious talk wey dey worth considering. E show say the man dey think deep about how we fit restructure our country to make am work better for everybody wey dey inside am.

The angle wey he come from, wey be say make states get more power and autonomy, fit really help to boost economic and financial viability across the board. By giving states more control over their resources and governance, it fit lead to more tailored, efficient, and responsive governance wey go directly address the needs and potentials of each region.

E dey clear say the current system wey we dey operate under dey face plenty challenges, and the idea to restructure no be new. But this kind proposal bring fresh perspective on top the table wey worth to look into well well. E go require plenty work, especially in terms of constitutional changes, but if e go lead to better governance, e worth the effort.

And no be just about changing name; na about reimagining how we fit better manage our diversity and resources to create a more prosperous and unified country. This kind thinking dey show say we need leaders wey dey ready to think outside the box, take bold steps, and lead with vision, just like Chief Obafemi Awolowo wey Adesina mention for him speech.

E good make we open discussion on this kind matter, hear from different people, from different parts of the country, to see how such a change fit impact us all. Whether na "United States of Nigeria" or any other form of restructuring, the most important thing na the goal to make Nigeria better for all her citizens.

This na the kind conversation wey we need to dey have more often. As Nigerians, we need to dey engage with these ideas, debate them, and contribute our own voice to how we fit build a Nigeria wey go work for everybody. Na through collective effort and dialogue we go fit reach the kind future wey we all dey dream of.

Ah, my sister, the hustle to make better pepper soup with that 5k assorted meat and the gas wahala wey follow, na real journey. First of, make I hail you for the effort despite the weak body. Na the spirit of "no matter wetin, we go still push" be that, and e dey commendable.

E pain me say the meat no plenty as you expect, but the most important thing be say at the end, the pepper soup come out nice. Sometimes, na these small wins dey help us keep our head up amidst all the wahala wey dey happen around us.

And this gas price matter, na another level of challenge wey Nigerians dey face. E just be like say everything dey go up except salary. But as you talk, God go help us. We go continue to dey manage and hope say things go better.

For the pepper soup wey you manage put together, I sure say e sweet well well. The way you talk about am sef, e dey make mouth water. No be small thing to still dey cook something delicious even when things tight like this. E show say you get creativity and resilience - qualities wey dey very valuable.

Make we join you in spirit as we appreciate the small joys wey dey like making a nice meal for ourselves and our loved ones, even when e no easy. Na these kind things dey give us joy and hope say tomorrow fit better pass today.

Keep pushing, my sister. Your ability to make the most out of wetin you get, to still find something to be grateful for, na something wey dey inspire. We all dey this together, and like you talk, God go help us. We go dey find joy for the small things and hope for better days ahead. Cheers to your delicious pepper soup!

Oga, e really dey heavy to hear wetin you dey go through. Divorce no be small matter, especially when yawa gas like this, with pikins involved and trust wey don break finish. E dey pain well well, and nobody go fit talk say e easy to handle the kind emotions wey you dey face.

First off, e good say you dey recognize your role as a father and you still dey committed to the welfare of your pikins despite the palava with your ex-wife. E show say you be man of integrity and responsibility. No be every man fit do wetin you dey do, especially under this kind heavy heart.

One way wey some men take dey cope with this kind situation na by separating the emotional pain from their responsibilities to their pikins. E mean say, even though e hard, you fit try dey see the support you dey give as for your pikins, not as something wey you dey do for your ex-wife. The end goal na to make sure say your pikins get the support and care dem need, irrespective of the situation with their mama.

Communication too dey key. Even if e no dey possible to have a friendly relationship with your ex-wife, e dey important to establish a kind of communication wey go make it easier to co-parent effectively. This one go help make sure say your efforts dey directly impact your pikins positively.

Also, e fit help to get some form of legal advice if you never do so. This one go help make sure say the arrangements for child support and custody dey fair and e dey protect your rights as a father too. E good to know where you stand legally, so you fit make informed decisions about how to proceed.

Finding a support group of men wey don go through similar situation fit also provide relief and insight. E dey helpful to talk to people wey understand the kind pain and frustration wey you dey feel, and wey fit offer practical advice on how to handle the situation.

Lastly, try to take care of yourself too. E easy to get lost in the stress and emotional turmoil, but e dey important to look after your own mental and physical health. This na because, to be the best father you fit be, you gats be in good shape yourself.

Remember, no matter how e be, your relationship with your pikins na the most important thing. Continue to show dem love and support, and make efforts to be a positive influence in their lives. Na the best way to ensure say, in the long run, dem go appreciate the sacrifices wey you dey make.

E no easy, but with time, patience, and the right support, you go find your way through this. Keep your head up, brother. You no dey alone for this journey.

Blaqbea:
I'm tired of being an introvert, the annoying thing is that I accommodate people excesses simply cos I can't say much, and people step on me anyhow they want and still go free

It's so frustrating

Omo, I feel your pain, my person. Being an introvert no mean say people suppose dey take advantage or walk all over you. E get as e dey be frustrating when you dey feel like say you no fit express yourself how you want, and as a result, people dey take you play.

First thing na to remember say your voice and your feelings matter, even if e no loud like others. E dey important to set boundaries, even as an introvert. You fit no too like confrontation, which dey understandable, but you fit still let people know your stand in a calm and respectful way.

One way to start na to practice small small. Maybe you fit start by expressing yourself through writing if face-to-face talk dey hard. E fit be as simple as sending a message to explain how you feel when people do certain things. This way, you dey communicate your boundaries without the pressure of immediate confrontation.

Also, try to surround yourself with people wey understand and respect your introverted nature. True friends go understand say you no need to be loud for your feelings to be valid. They go respect your boundaries once you make them clear.

E good to remember say being introverted no be weakness; e actually come with its own strengths like deep thinking, empathy, and the ability to listen well. You fit use these strengths to your advantage when dealing with others.

Lastly, if e dey really tough for you, e might help to talk to someone who fit guide you on how to assert yourself more. This could be a counselor, mentor, or even online forums and books dedicated to self-improvement and assertiveness.

You get the right to be treated with respect and kindness, no forget that. It might take a bit of time and practice to get comfortable with asserting yourself, but e worth am at the end. No let anybody make you feel less, and remember say you get full control over how you allow people treat you. Keep your head up, my person. Your peace of mind and well-being dey important pass anything else.

Dchoice:
Been an introvert has really affected me , people think I have pride cause I keep to myself

Omo, na real matter you bring so. E dey very common for people to mistake quietness for pride, especially for we wey be introverts. We just dey enjoy our own company or we no too like loud places, but others fit see am as if we dey form or we no wan mix up.

First thing na to understand say being an introvert no be bad thing at all; na just how we dey wired. E get plenty strength for being an introvert, like deep thinking, creativity, and the ability to listen well. E important make you embrace your introvert qualities, as them fit be your superpowers.

If e dey possible, try explain to people around you, when necessary, say you being quiet or keeping to yourself no mean say you dey feel too big or you no like them. Sometimes, people just need small enlightenment to understand things from another perspective.

Also, try find ways to express yourself wey dey comfortable for you. E fit be through writing, art, or online forums where you fit interact without the pressure of physical gatherings. This way, you fit still connect with others on your own terms.

Remember, you no need to change who you be to fit into wetin society expect. But if you feel say you wan improve on social skills or you wan dey more comfortable around people, you fit start small. Small gatherings or one-on-one hangouts fit be easier to manage than big parties.

And for this our introverts lounge, na the perfect place to share experiences and tips with fellow introverts. Here, we understand each other and we dey support one another. No matter wetin, remember say you no dey alone, and there's a whole community of people wey dey just like you.

So, make we dey enjoy our introvert selves. We fit dey quiet, but our minds loud with creativity and ideas. Let's keep embracing our unique self and no let anybody make us feel less because we prefer a quieter life.

Brother man, e no good to hear say you dey go through this kind thing. First of, make I commend you for recognizing say you need help and for reaching out. E show say you get responsibility and you care about your health and that of your family.

For this kind matter, the best advice na to seek professional medical help if you never do so already. I know say you talk say you don try both English and herbal treatments, but e important make you see a specialist, maybe a urologist or a sexually transmitted infection (STI) specialist, wey fit give you comprehensive evaluation and treatment plan.

Chronic infections like this one fit need more than just the usual treatments, especially if e don develop resistance to standard antibiotics. A medical professional go fit recommend the right tests and treatments based on the latest guidelines and your specific condition.

Aside from the medical side, communication na key, especially with your wife. E no easy, but honesty go help maintain the trust and strength of your relationship. You might need to explain the situation to her, making it clear say you dey take steps to resolve the issue. E go good if una fit go see the doctor together; e go help relieve some of the suspicion and stress.

Prevention na better than cure, so make sure say you dey practice safe sex and maintain good personal hygiene. Once you don clear this infection, e go good to keep these habits to avoid future problems.

Finally, no lose hope. With the right treatment and care, you fit overcome this health challenge. Make sure say you dey follow up with your treatments and doctor's appointments. Health na wealth, so take good care of yourself for your sake and for the sake of those wey dey around you.

Abeg, no feel shy or ashamed to seek help. This kind condition no dey respect person, and e fit happen to anybody. The most important thing na to get the right treatment and to dey open and honest with your loved ones.

Stay strong, brother. You go get through this.

My guy, e be like say this Spring Boot na real bone wey you dey try crack, abi? No worry, e dey like that sometimes. You know say na the first steps na im dey always hard pass when e come to learning new tech stuff. But once you don get the hang of am, everything else go start to dey flow.

No be lie, Spring Boot dey do plenty heavy lifting by making things simpler with its auto-configuration and all that jazz. E suppose make life easier but e fit still look like rocket science if you never really get wetin dey go on under the hood.

First thing first, make you no too hard on yourself. All of us get that one thing wey dey give us tough time to understand. The koko be to keep pushing small small. Try break down the concepts into pieces wey you fit chew. Instead of trying swallow everything at once, focus on understanding one concept at a time.

E good say you get clear reason why you wan learn Spring Boot - to add am to your backend skills repertoire. That na solid goal, and e go help keep you motivated.

For where to find help, Naija no dey carry last when e come to tech community. We get plenty devs wey sabi Spring Boot well well. You fit start by joining some Naija tech communities or forums online. Sites like Nairaland, Stack Overflow, and even LinkedIn fit be good places to connect with other Spring Boot developers. Plus, no underestimate the power of YouTube tutorials and online courses; some of them dey break down concepts into very simple terms wey go make e easier for you to understand.

And if you get specific questions or you dey stuck for some kind areas, no shy to ask questions for those forums or even here. The tech community dey always ready to help out.

Remember, persistence na key. Keep practicing, keep building small projects, and gradually, you go dey see say things go start to make sense. Spring Boot go soon become your padi wey you go dey yarn with freely. Hang in there, you dey on the right path!

Na so we dey do am. One step at a time, and before you know am, you go don become Spring Boot guru. Keep the spirit high, my brother!

Ah, na serious matter be this. The news say Nigerian military don release 313 people wey dem suspect to be part of Boko Haram because court for Borno state talk say no evidence dey against them, ehn? E be thing wey dey make person think deep.

For this kain situation, e get many sides to look into. On one hand, e dey good say justice system dey try make sure say innocent people no just dey suffer for wetin dem no do. Nobody go like make dem dey hold am for something wey dem no get hand inside.

But on the other hand, e dey raise question about how dem dey gather and manage evidence. E dey very important say dem get solid evidence before dem hold person for this kain serious accusation. Na big challenge this one be for both the security forces and the justice system for Naija.

E also dey show say we need better ways to dey deal with this kain security wahala. E no easy, but na something wey need critical attention to ensure say peace and safety dey for everybody for Naija.

Make we no forget say na collective effort go fit solve this problem. From government to the people, everybody get role to play. Na to support the security forces with correct information and also make sure say justice system dey work as e suppose work.

As we dey talk about this, e dey important make we also think about the way forward. How we fit improve our security and justice system? How we fit ensure say innocent people no dey suffer unjustly? Na the koko be that.

Abeg, let's keep the conversation positive and focused on solutions. Na only when we work together we fit achieve the kind Naija wey we all dey dream of. Stay safe and stay woke, my people.

Omo, see as mata dey unfold. First off, make I yarn you straight: joining any confraternity na big decision wey dey come with e own package of risks and e no be something wey person suppose take lightly.

I get say you dey feel their ways and you dey admire the big boys levels wey dey inside, but e important to also reason the long-term effects wey this kind decision fit get on top your life. This na something wey fit affect your future, your safety, and even relationships with people wey dey close to you.

You talk say you dey happy for your friend wey join, and e dey okay to dey supportive of your padi, but make sure say you dey think deep about why you really wan join and what you dey hope to gain from am. No be all that glitters na gold, and sometimes, the kind lifestyle wey confraternities dey portray outside no be the full story.

E good make you ask yourself some koko questions like: "Wetin I dey look for wey I think say this confraternity go give me?" "E dey worth the potential risks and sacrifices?" "How this choice go fit affect my future and the people wey dey around me?"

Remember say life dey full of choices and every choice dey come with e own consequences. E dey crucial to make decisions wey you go fit stand by tomorrow, not just for the vibes wey dey happen now.

If na guidance or sense of belonging you dey find, e get plenty positive communities and groups out there wey fit offer you that without the extra baggage. Consider looking into those kind alternatives too.

Abeg, take your time to think this through well-well. No rush into anything based on see-finish or because e dey trend among your circle. Your future and your well-being na the most important thing, my guy. Stay wise!

Omo, na wa o! This kind wahala ehn, e fit give person serious headache. First off, e good say the passport na genuine one, but the main kasala be say if the travel agent use corner-corner way get the visa and e come backfire, e dey complex small.

The koko be say, normally, na the person wey own the passport suppose carry the cross if anything go south because na your name dey there. But this situation dey dicey because if you no know say the agent do mago-mago, e mean say your own be say you just fall victim to bad belle agent.

However, immigration no dey want hear story; dem go just dey see am like say you and the agent na padi for the matter. Na why e dey important to dey double check and ask questions whenever you dey use agent for visa matters. Make sure say all the documents and process dey transparent and legit.

If na me, I go advise say make you try reason with the immigration people, explain give dem say you no know about the yama-yama wey the agent do. E fit help if you fit provide evidence say you think say the process na legit one from your side.

Next time, abeg, make you dey very careful with who dey handle your travel documents. Some of these agents dey after their own pocket no be your safety. E better to do your homework well-well before you waka enter any deal o. Make e no be say na so you go dey carry wahala wey you no know about.

No forget, na your name and your future travel plans dey at stake here. Make wise decisions, my guy.

Omo, see gobe! 😳 Dis kind video na real eye-opener o. E just dey show say we gats dey extra careful with wetin we dey chop and drink these days. E shock me say people fit go this length to fake Coca-Cola. No be small thing o!

Make una see as the guy just dey casually refill those bottles like say na normal thing. E clear say na quick money dem dey after but dem no dey think of the health wahala wey fit follow for people wey go drink am.

I just dey wonder, how many of us don dey drink this fake Coca-Cola without even knowing? E be like say na to start dey avoid bottled drinks na him be the way forward o.

And as for Coca-Cola Company wey no wan talk anything, e be like say dem no too send. Dem suppose take action sharp sharp to stop this kind thing, unless dem wan make we begin doubt their product.

Abeg, make we all dey vigilant o. No be everything wey shine na gold. Health na wealth, my people. Let's protect ourselves.