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banmee:
When you are done googling let me know. This is why Google is not for everyone. Here's the problem; you are using the Nigerian mentality Re enforced with Google to justify your mentality. The American way of life staring with revolution did not start the leaders we know now. It started with ordinary man on the streets. Since you like googling, Google the burning of ships in boston. That's where it all started. You think our change started with leadership, Lol, it started with the common man first. It was these common men who eventually became our leaders. This is what you all don't understand. You for instance, let's say by some strange turn of events you become president or some high ranking leader in nigeria, you would do no better than what all your other leaders have done so far. Your mentality is phucked up and there is no way in hell you can do anything positive because of it. This is the problem in nigeria. When the citizenry is phucked, the leaders you select from amongst you will be phucked up fact.

yes d leaders come from d public...who told u we don't have good people from d public to take up leadership....majarity of these people are upright and do not follow diictates of d society so they don't have the money for the expensive political office...it is the rogues that steal public money that eventually get up there...so don't think every Nigerian is bad...it is just the society is flaw and they don't have the means to usurp the bad leaders...

rosieluv:
I wonder how they go to toilet after that

may be d front is loose

itsmeurLady:
Lmao... Oga nor vex, no be me start am oo and I'm even surprised u are seeing it for the first time. It's a popular abbreviation

no I don't think so....Cs can mean a lot of things....A word starting with letter C and ending with letter S

I call that madness

rosieluv:
maybe she feels she is just a babymama to you, talk to her

it is a lie ...this the reason






OP u no get problem na ur girl get
problem.....let me come this
way....some girls when they are in
their early twenties which is the best
time for them to reflect on their
lives....they don't do that. they rather
galavant thinking they still have apple
opportunity to flirt.,groove and enjoy
themselves...so they hadly think
about marriage....feeling the time is
still there...before they know one.,two
.,three.,four., five years is gone....this
time they are 28 or 29 years...the
sudden pressure to marry set in
either from themselves or their
parents...this time they might end up
chosing wrongly....So I believe ur girl
feels she is still young to start a
family before the unexpected
happens

Charlieeeboi:
I made marriage plans, but she said she isn't ready so the problem is far from that

OP u no get problem na ur girl get problem.....let me come this way....some girls when they are in their early twenties which is the best time for them to reflect on their lives....they don't do that. they rather galavant thinking they still have apple opportunity to flirt.,groove and enjoy themselves...so they hadly think about marriage....feeling the time is still there...before they know one.,two .,three.,four., five years is gone....this time they are 28 or 29 years...the sudden pressure to marry set in either from themselves or their parents...this time they might end up chosing wrongly....So I believe ur girl feels she is still young to start a family before the unexpected happens

Geraldyne:
Lol..I actualy wanted to say sumtin reasnable buh wen I saw d part dat u said d attitude was only towards you.. I wanna say dah she's angry wit u 4 gettin her pregnant.. Lol again..

u can see the reason y some guys will tell u that women are weird...she behaves nice to other but not to her guy...



sometimes I see all these as stupidity

banmee:
You are something else. Do we need to go back to the beginning of this to trace what the conversations are about? Also, what you fail to comprehend is, she does not have to sleep in the church because you can go out at anytime of the day in normal countries. It was bad luck that she got attacked. She may as well have been attacked in the day time too or do crimes only happen at night. I have duty today starting at 12 midnight and i will leave home at 1130. If my society was the kind of society you are used to would we be able to schedule our times like that Why the phuck don't you get this? I keep saying you society is influencing your thought process which is why you have to change it collectively as a people. Have you ever wondered why Nigeria is so phucked up? It is not just your leaders; it is how you think mainly.

let me tell u...it was the America leaders that actually changed the mind set of Americans....I believe u know their history starting from George Washington...from the declaration speech to the day of independence....so the followers also responded...u cannt compare for. example Lagos state with any other state in Nigeria...why? it is because of leadership and therefore the residence there also key into what the government of day is doing....the same will apply to Nigeria as a country....until the elected politicians do the right thing ., don't expect a change to just happen from the followers...



BTW....u can not say the woman had bad luck...night is d best time for criminers to do their evil act......so it happens...

itsmeurLady:
Cause or because

why will u be using Cs in the first place....it is easy for someone to read "d" for the., y for "why" that for "dat" and so on...


the way some of u use short hand is really annoying

banmee:
Are you this retarded? from the beginning of our conversation i had said it like a thousand times. How were you not able to comprehend this. "

When you will not calm down to read and understand how can you comprehend. Talking to you is like trying to teach a toddler something.

and I told u earlier in our discussion that u are the chielf security officer to urself before u consider the state to secure u....did u comprehend that.? reason y I said if that woman had slept in the church instead of returning home that late ., she wouldn't have been molested...u kept on saying people can walk at night in USA., go to work at 1am and so on...who ask u not to go out but if it happens can u erase d trauma of rape even if d culprits are caught

Fashola is gradually losing it

banmee:
Obviously you cannot comprehend anything. Again "CRIME HAPPENS EVERYWHERE IN THE WORLD. WHAT MATTERS IS HOW PEOPLE RESPOND TO IT". You are not exposed to normalcy which is why you do not know. All you know is rampage and insecurity on a 24 hour basis which is why it is difficult to educate you. Smh. Don't worry. E go better.

u are just confused...I thought u were defending ur abode as if it was immuned to crime...so y were u so much passionately condemning Nigeria base on crime.? it is u that is difficult to educate......go to any security outfit....u will be given d orientation that u are ur first security officer( meaning u must devise a way to secure urself and definitely d state will complement)....it does not mean d state is running away from its responsibility

banmee:
That's the first accurate thing you've said in two days. You are right. I don't understand. I will never understand how a people would collectively have the strangest mentality in the world. No wonder you are creating a paradise in your country. Carry on.

u speak as if where u are is paradise...who does not know what happens in New York and other places where killings is the order of the day...it is only some that get international attention....nonsense

alcmene:
Afonjas now targeting Hausa Fulani interest.....

Why kill the poor driver just cos he's an Hausa man

Don't run when they come for a return leg

please u show me where in the thread hausa man"s name was mentioned

banmee:
Lol. You are talking about a people who have no problem burning another human being in the streets. Ok. The fact that you don't understand all I have been trying to educate you on proves why Nigeria will never change. You don't understand and will never understand. Lol. He thinks because you built a house on your own makes you a good person. Carry on.

keep quiet.!! what do u know...you don't understand and u will never understand...speaking bla bla bla......

izzou:


Watch how brainwashed and demented Christians followers will litter this thread and start chanting revenge and all brands of garbage

I really dont care about what Danjuma is saying. But the truth is any Christian that is surprised about all these happenings is just a church goer. He never read his Bible

Jesus told us that we must receive persecution here on earth. Its part of our crosses as Christians. The Apostles of old faced tougher ones too. So we need to fight back, not with earthly weapons, because we wrestle not against flesh and blood

So, any Oyedepo or Suleiman asking you to kill Fulani herdsmen is just speaking for the devil. Jesus will never do such

u lack wisdom

banmee:
Which is why I said you all should change the way you think as a people. It us no one's fault but your own that you all think in a negative way.

don't say we "all think negative way" ...who told u dat... do you know how many Nigerians on their own struggle to build houses for themselves? where u are., it is the government that does all that....Nigerians provide water, security ., roads for themselves in places where they live....if u want to talk say the politician class are the ones that think negatively and stop insulting the ordinary Nigerians

banmee:
But it is the wrong perspective. Think about it; Millions of Nigerians hold he same perspective you have which is why your country is at a standstill and gradually regressing. If your perspective was the right one it would influence positively in the society you all are creating for yourselves. In 2060, you all will still be asking why is Nigeria not moving forward. Doubt me? Go and listen to fela's songs he sang in the 70's. Everything he was complaining about then is still happening now and in fact has gotten worse. That's almost half a century ago. Guy, yes it is your perspective but for you all's sake you need to change it for your own good.

guy.. U are talking as if u are molding something for urself... Nigeria woos is rooted on tribalism, religious sentiments, and cultural affliction... So it will take a genuine spirited hearts to solve.


Do u know the same Nigerians go abroad and behave well but cannt do same here... D reasons are just what i mentioned nothing more

misspineapple:
Good for dem

they are just arranging pvssies among themselves

Benita27:
Very well, and yours?.

great . Do have a wonderful day

Evergreen4:
Well selected food for the senators. After the presentation, the party continues at the other side.

very stupid set of law makers... At d end u hear d foolish idiots camping dese girls in hotels across d country

banmee:
Again, this is my point. If it is a global village, how come you don't understand what I have trying to educate for almost two days?

d perspective you and i are seeing it differs... So take urs and i take mine

Benita27:
I just say make I look for trouble. The guy understand sef.

Good morning.

good morning, how was ur night

Benita27:
This one first use Google before e come post him own.

u can yaab no be small....I wan see how skirt dey fit u

Goodlyhrt:
My own too much o

I fear failure as in I hate it when people tell me that I failed (though a serial failure) I feel suicidal each time I underperform, under impress maybe thats why I'm always gloomy and I proscatinate alot cos am waiting for the perfect time...


I'm always online making sure I get the perfect life, line of action, perfect grammar, perfect everything...


Dnt mind me I still never get near to being it I jst hate myself buh neva giving up on myself

when u fear failure dats when u fail....many people don't know this...

midehi2:
Tiny rope (thread) freaks me out


Phobia for flying (plane)


Someone's sweat must not touch me


Housefly perching on me freaks


Mosquito can bite me but must not come near my ear

heheheheheeer....so when u bang., ur partner"s sweat must not touch u.....chai.!!! even look at d one of thread....hmmmmm

u are not even talking what ur entire family will say. u are just referring to ur broda...


well I don't believe in poopop story

OP u no dey shame self...people like u need six police slap every morning

ashewoboy:
i recommend sinaj, makydebbie.

mak ydebie is married

banmee:
You are doing it again. Did i not just say crime happens everywhere in the world? But in spite of that, normal people in normal countries go about their business at all hours of the day. Abnormal people like Nigerians in Nigeria lock themselves up because there is no system designed to protect them in case it does happen or at least try to catch criminals. You can't say because of one incident you will now become a prisoner in your own home. We don't live that. And to correct your perception that because i'm located in the U.S does not make me more informed that most people in Nigeria. Guy, it does. I am a million times more informed. Case in point the conversation we are having. You are basing your comments on what you are used to in a phucked up country where nothing works? Why should anyone listen to you? If you were in the right, it means thing are working well in Nigeria and you are basing your comments on it. It's like a man trying to tell me how to build a skyscraper while he's only ever built a hut. How does that make sense?

I can see how u feel about where u are...I'm not surprise...it is same with someone on nairaland that I know...now so much that by virtue of the fact that u are in USA makes u more informed than a Nigerian in Nigeria....guy it doesnt work that way...this is a globa village.....it still remains u are ur best security officer

banmee:
I really don't mean to be rude but how old are you? The reason i ask is that arguing with you seems a daunting task because you don't follow a logical path. We have ascertained that;

1. Crime happens everywhere in the world.

2. What separates countries like the U.S and Germany which has plenty of crime and Nigeria, is the way they handle and respond to these crimes. In the U.S and Germany, they manage it well which is why people move about at all hours of the day. In Nigeria, can you go jogging at 1.am?

3. Just because of incidents of crime does not mean you will lock yourself at home and not go about your business. I know that is what you are used to as a Nigerian but it does not apply to normal countries.

4. I have told you to use google and youtube to see how people live in normal countries. Or is your network provider limiting you to only Nairaland?

I had to break it down barney style maybe now you'll understand. The reason you have this mentality is because of the way you were brought up as a Nigerian in Nigeria. Once you are exposed to a better way of life your perception will metamorphosize. I assure you.

just because are over there doesn't make u more informed than someone in Nigeria..hope u understand that...

with what all u have analysed...I still tell u ., u remain ur best security in whatever country u found urself...just because d government of those countries try to provide u maximum security doesn't mean u are not prone to attack....


telling me to go to google and Utube doesn't take away of one being security conscious