₦airaland Forum

VISTIN:
Rubbish.

That's just madness.

no it is not rubbish... Don't forget dis is how Fayose won his own in Ekiti... So don't get angry when u are losing ok

gurunlocker:
APC want to take Rivers state by force......


I don't think this can happen in kano state.

don't forget Kano was PDP state before APC won it reason because corruption is not stealing... Tell d truth and d truth shall set u free

slyfoxxjoe:
What do u gain from telling silly lies like this? You think a front runner candidate for president of the United States would be stupid enough to say a thing like this in public? Post a more credible source than that 50 naira local blog u Have there..

my brother I have watched dis very man talk.. he talks any how

he made statements similar to dese few months back.. I'm not surprise if he made these ones again..

he looks like someone dat has temperament

Jollyjoy:
what about it,isnt she cute

is it d she alone dat is there.? what about d other

Jollyjoy:
Hmmmmmm

what is hmmmmm.. what about ur DP

Ali Muhammed and foolishness. .. has d problem solved now.

what I can see is d head of a chairman...and it has not entered anywhere...d woman in front is still with her clothes on..so where is d penetration...it is a pity another cursed man is on d loose again...spit

classicB:
Thank you dear.

u are welcome..

classicB:
I get your point, but even if sex should happen the guy should be careful enough not to pour am inside

Meeehn u make me laugh real hard dis morning.!! infact I don't even know how to reply u because I'm still laughing...



see it is d girl dat will be blame for anything dat happens after sex...whether d fault is from d guy or d girl.. most times when a guy is on skin to skin., it is difficult for him to practise withdrawer. method.. so it is better for d girl not to spread her legs in d first place...

if u give birth outside marriage it is a stigma in Africa siciety and if u abort it is still worse because dat is murder.. There is what is called LAW of KARMA...Jesus Christ said it in this manner....Do unto others what u want them to do unto u..

Goodboiyy:
No now. you can't just file a divorce because some kids on NL said you should.. marriage is not what you Discuss with kids . Talk to matured minds.. but just know 1 Thing your wife is cheating on You.. just pray she don't carry some1 else child to you.. av seen many. be prayerful... not everytime you Pet her. If you talk to her and she fails to listen beat her.

u are confused adviser.. read what u wrote again..

Strahovski:
Op, you made a big mistake coming to NL to seek counsel. I'm sorry to say but 87% of guys on this forum especially this section are teenagers/students/bachelors leaving the 'street' life/girlfriend life and have no idea about true love and marriage.

For those saying the op should do this and be a man is just inconsiderate. He did not pick her up on the street one day and told her to marry him. She did not beg him for marriage. He married her because he loved her and she might have been his crush for many years who knows? You don't expect him to just "Send her back to her parents " as many are suggesting. There is still hope. She is trying to fustrate him and there are diplomatic ways to solve it. Not violence or aggression. She is not a kid you ban from Facebook or going out (na u born am?)

Op, my friendly advice for you is this:

Don't listen to all these guys saying stuff especially the one above me. So annoying like you purchase d girl. Redline ko blueline ni

Talk to her, take her to a cool restaurant or eatery you know she would like buy her a flower or a gift and ask her if you offended her in anyway. Being a man does not mean being stupid. Start a friendly conversation and ask her what she wants from you. There might be a reason she is doing this. I'm a therapist by professional skill, I know how all these go down. There is something she wants you are not giving her or there is something you are doing that is pising her off but you won't know if you don't talk to her. Open your heart to her sincerely she would break and let you in on what's up. If she wants to party a lot but you are too dull then get yur dancing shoes and start going to parties together. Little by little the peace would start coming in again then both of you would be open and the older she grows the more matured she gets.

Birth Control at her age is perfect. It's not a crime. Marriage is not a license or instant payment for children. She married you because she loved you. Not like you are rich and she wants yor money if that is the case she won't do this to you. Seems she is richer. So she loves you. 2 years is just yesterday the love is still there. She might not even be cheating on you. You dont expect a young pretty 22 year old girl to start carrying a baby bump or start breast feeding and within 1 year she looks fat and ugly. Is that what you want? Kids are not needed now. Focus on your careers and enjoy the sweetness of your marriage not children wahala dis small age (22) So Birth control is perfect.

Also regarding sex, if you desire sex and you realize she not always in the mood it's the same communication. Talk you her. Watch a romantic movie with her that would turn her on. Tell her sweet and kind words. Not just expecting her to like what you like and want what you want when you want it. No she is a human being not a robot.

Regarding her time schedule, it's the same thing. Communication. Express your feeling about her late nights gently not with anger unless you want to spent another 50k in the police cell. This lady no send you ooo. Make I no lie you. Forget my English. Na bad ass babe wey need suru If not na u she go suffer if she get d money and connection and also your time. You go just dey regret yor life

Also talk to her parents too let the parents know what's up so they can counsel her. I know married couples that act like singles together outside(party, club, etc) with a ring on their fingers but loving partners inside. Her age is the issue. You might be 10 times older. Who cares? Na she carry her load come your house? No be you waka come propose to am? She is an advanced teenager (Fact.. 22 is advance teen for ladies) and you must be ready to live with that till she grows older.

Also pray for her if you have religion. Coz me I don't. Lol. So pray for her one day it would be resolved.

If after trying everything she is still not fixed then you divorce.

Divorce should be the last option . From your post you really love her ad you are not ready to let her go. So you have to work on it. I would love to see both of you. I'm in Australia at this point, I've mailed you my number. Give me a call. I dont mind coming down to Nigeria. Marriage cannot end over night. Haba me wey dey find gf na wife person one throw away on top say NL people comment. Chai

this is y I cannt marry a lady of dat age. many still behave like teens

Justdulla:
This is what u get for following wasup chick,...You saw hot madam,u marry her now she has gone covert like a DSS spy.. My advice to you is simple,if she aint ready to yield to your simple request of moderate dress sense, and average time spent on Social Media..feel free to Kick her out before she goes out of hand in future. Gbaam

thanks very much my brother for dis advice... OP dis is my advice for u too... kick d shiit out of ur house if she not ready to see herself as a married woman

kunleoosha:
now they will start blaming men for their predicament...
they see sweet thing shey them they chop am
dem no know say na sweet thing they kill person?

Oboy u funny ooo.. u have said d truth..d thing sweet but there are consequences..

chibeby:
Sorry' but i have write the story somewhere else and i decided to share it to you all but have no strienght to rewrite it again.
so if you are interested to read. just READ IT HERE

useless driver... na H spot carpeter dey find for girl body

classicB:
Ladies abort babies cos the dummy that got her pregnant isnt ready to father a child, it takes courage for few ladies to choose to keep rejected pregnancy especially in a society that frowns at single motherhood.

was d foolish lady drugged when she was fucccking her brain out. dis is a very stu..pid excuse... u have d rite to close ur legs and refuse d boy sex

naughtynaughty:
lol dis babe too is insisting on marriage o. She no wan abort d baby sef, nah my frnd beg am

dats y I said some girls are very stu..pid and foolish to crown it all...y spreading those ulgly legs when u know u are not married to a man... can u see deceit now...d stu..pid boy asked her to commit abortion

u have taken a pattern in life.. dat is d life u will live even when u are married...it is not a curse

folaolu84:
my best quote is what am going to tell u LovePeddler...

What goes around comes around

it may not be now, probably when u married... feeling all comfy the devil will play this event for u..
when u biting hard on ur fingers remember u heard it first from Nairaland


go do blood test Aboki

thanks for dis advice for her

dis OP never know anything.. girl dey use u dey play football., u dey there still dey watch d match urself...


it is like u want ro be use and dump... OP I dey vex with u because u no dey see at all

viickerz:
Rip jessica..and to think of it, i was already planning on getting her contact and fvcking her when next i enter lagos..!

Sh¡t ,

guess i ll have to make do with those ones at ajah.

this is dangerous ambition

MizFrances:
Shuuuu!!!
This is a good example of a person dying in active service

na her vagina kill her... Use d thing small small, she no agree. See d result now

Oliviaarims:
Nope,I still maintain my stand that it's insecurity at its peak. Without making any effort to know the pretty lady in question,he's already zeroed his mind bout her just bcoz she's pretty. Wah dyu call that? If he's confident enough nd got what it takes to keep a lady, then he wouldn't be scared.

forget dat thing called what it takes to keep a woman... I said some women are dam stu..pid when it comes to sex.. They are natural cheerful givers.. So embarrassing to womanhood... No matter what u use to keep dem, dey will still go out to taste anoda sugarcane

chocolateme:
Speechless.. It's like they are in their era of demise. Just read a thread about their president Jessica abi Jennifer just died too. Hmm

how dem no go die wen dem dey fucccck any how.. Stu..pid girls

Oliviaarims:
And what's the guarantee too that the average looking ones and ugly ones won't sleep around, too? Some men chase everything in skirts yhu know.

so u shouldnt have bring in d word '' insecurity'' in d first place. It is just dat some of these women are very foolish.. I see no reason y a reasonable woman shouldnt report a stu..pid man dat is disturbing her to d husband so dat d husband can think of ways to put out d useless randy man but rather many of dem will keep it to themselves thinking dey can deal with d problem alone until it get out of hand

Oliviaarims:
Stop being opinionated....not every beautiful woman sleeps around.

now u are talking. So if not all y will d men not worry about those dat will end up sleeping around. So please don't call it inferiority complex or what have u.. We learn from d past and we have to be objective.

Michellla:
a confident guy wouldnt think this way.

yes dats if d girl is as trust worthy as Omotola

Oliviaarims:
Insecurity at its peak!

rubbish statement... Dis is what they say and still cannt resist d temptation of advances from men and end up sleeping around.. Example is in civil service ask if im telling lies

stickncarrot:
Cockroach Rochas I challenge you to deny issuing fake cheque to workers in the name of salaries. The Rogue haven't paid anyone, instead, he slash their salaries by 50% and issue fake cheque to them.


If we have press men in Nigeria, they would have verified this claim.

dis is foolishness without end... How can u say a governor issues fake cheque to his workers.. Not one or two or three but d entire work force...hmmmm... Oga please bring ur hand down now...

Dis one strong gon. Dose who died their certificate has no use again....vanity

freecocoa:
See the kind god people decide to worship, that dude is mean sha.

hmmmmm.. U need treatment... A spiritual one.. Even some scientists have reasoned dat there is a force behind certain things

God will punish any woman dat knowingly go out and conceive for another man and bring it to her husband when u know ur husband can perform his duty.. Likewise d stu..pid man who does dat....what a wicked world we live in

Useless people... They wan use power raise blocus...