₦airaland Forum

see d way d guy pose for pix as if e be international footballer. smmmhhh

Jman06:
Woe unto men!

This is exactly what happens in most Nigerian homes. Mothers always turning children against their dads. .
Op, I must commend you for being sensible enough to respond to your mum the way you did.
Please don't ever let your mum turn you against your dad. The repercussions are always disastrous!

Keep being wise, boy!

OP dis is my advice too. u are wise.

marque:
I don't understand what is going on in my house. Any little thing that happens between my mum and Dad she will call us (the children) and start telling us what happened but always putting the blame on my Father.

She has never explained anything and made it look like it was her fault. She is trying to paint a bad picture of our father in our eyes.

This has been going on right from when I was little but as I grew older I began to see things in a different light.

Anytime my mum brings up an issue concerning she and my Dad I try to look at things differently and see things in the other way before concluding. If I tell her what I feel and it's not in line with what she said,she'll get angry with me.

The latest was the one that happened recently. My mum was planning to go to her home town to see her family and so she needed some money from my dad to add to what she had already so she could buy some food stuff on her way. It is good to note that my mum had already travelled Last year during the Christmas celebration to see her people and my Dad gave her the money for everything she bought.

My mum works and gets paid too but she didn't use any of her money to buy those things last year. My Dad footed the bills. Now she wanted to travel again this year and My Dad refused to let her go because we just moved into our new house and there are some things which have to be bought and fixed in the house.

My Dad told her that if she wants to go it's her choice but he wouldn't give her any money as he has got some other pressing needs at the moment. My mum got angry about this and she told us.

I saw things from my father's point of view and tried to explain to her why it happened so but she got angry. She said I must always support him and that i'm not acting like "a son she gave birth to"

She has not talked to my Dad since then and anytime I greet her,she ignores me. I have two sisters,an elder and a younger one and i'm the only boy. My sister is at the ripe age of getting married but she is also supporting my mother in this,sadly.

My father doesn't seem to be bothered much though as he still goes about his normal activity but this problem is really troubling my mind and I really wish there could be an end to it.

Do mothers have to unnecessarily incite children against their fathers?

Is that why grown up children tend to cater for their mothers more and forgetting the struggle of their fathers even while they are still alive?

Matured advise please.

OP God go bless u all thru ur life. u were born with wisdom.only a special child think dis way. reason and act without emotions or bias. some mothers do dat a lot. my sister does it against her husband. I don't but into such bias because my world goes beyond d one I'm living in presently

ifyan:
It is not by talk but by action.

That is how almost you guys started but at the end it's another story.

Besides we Nigerians are not longer moved by words.

Can somebody tell them we need action.

u took d words out of my mouth. U have said it all

MrIpledge:
not by mouth....this is the field marshal that I know

d field Marshal u showed us was by mouth....Idi-Amin. He was a very lazy goat. When Tanzania invaded his country to topple him, he flew out of Uganda

tomdon:
pls how did these bad raw materials enter the country and why are they just discovering this after two decades?

i wonder ooo. Even NAFDAC is culpable because how come dey don't go to dese popular places regularly. It is dose dat u think will keep d laws dat break d laws

Petra23:
funny you..well.m done with 1st degree.You can be my lecturer in the labour market..laffff

hmmm. In d labour market it does happen too but it is d boss.

MissSlimbody:
...Just ignore her and she'll get the message.

Teenagers of these days dey fear me Õoº°˚ ˚°ºoo.

ha! Dose teenage girls fit put a grown up man for trouble. Dey don't care about d consequence at all. OP be careful, dat girl fit rape u get belle for u. Na dere ur eye go clear.

babyosisi:
Thank you
I didn't read the story before commenting initially and modified my post after reading it
I don't expect that anyone sleeping with their father would be thinking rationally
That is abuse of the highest order

ha! I do pity girls experience such from deir father. Some fathers are terribly useless

Moana:

Even though her son came into existence in the most unusual way, it was not reason for her to end his life.
But then she might have a mental disorder.

if what OP wrote is true den d woman is traumatized.im sorry for d boy and i pity d woman. What a terrible way to end a day

Correctman0606:
But, you know how confusing the whole issue was. More than half of Nigerian were of the opinion that it was not true that the girls were not missing., besides, there were no fighting equipment untill very recently when we acquire some. All the budget for defence were just taken by your hausas like Danjuma etc. No body could dare them because they are in majority. So, what would GEJ have done to quickly fight boko haram? The northerners, supported boko haram, by hiding them, giving them food, infact, there was confusion all over the place. To me GEJ was made to see hell through out his administration. God dey

i don't agree with ur post. When Obasanjo was there, did any of d so called northerners dare him.? Simple Jonathan is a weak man. D same $1 billion loan he eventually took, what stop him in 2011, 2012, 2013 or even last year.

CR77:
No refund of money after payment

u dey sell commodities

bodee:
you mean the girls? cos it's in the female hostel that a bag of sachet water is sold at 180

no. I mean d boys. Dey should have gone to d female hostel to know y d pure water bag is being sold for #180. Dis is not a problem. When i was in school, a single male hall will solve dis problem. Dats y i said d boys are immature d way dey handled d matter

Madam Ikudede.....my fellow widows

chimkaire:
...and why would the mother of the victim wish the case withdrawn She should realise prosecuting this oke-mkpi could save another female this kinda horror Anyway, I know his prosecution shall go on except.......

she is illiterate. She doesn't know d gravity of d crime. Probably maybe she gives birth like rat so she doesn't know d value of a child

remebombom:
like seriously, I am yet to understand y so many parents whose children have been molested come up wit d stupid excuse of they are not interested in pursuing d case! to me it is the most stupid and reckless thing ever said! this is ur child we are talking about for crying out loud! is this normal?

so u don't know dat not everyone is fit to be a parent. Some people just give birth because others are doing d same.

VintageCocktail:
Randy pennis

ooooooh. I wish i was dere, d guy's blocus would have been smashed before d arrival of policemen. Kill deir pen..is before taking dem to police. Dats my recommendation

harrwix:
Good move


But I still prefer full removal of subsidy and the funds utilised in revamping the refineries

d 2012 partial fuel subsidy withdrawn, what programs have u seen with d money realised. Jonathan was very ineffective as a president. Abacha had same when he increased fuel from #9 to #11. D #2 difference was known as PTF. Majority of Nigerians felt d impact either from drugs in hospitals, school buildings etc. Long after Abacha d devil died i resided in PTF hall in one of d Universities

uncle005:
Mumu FG i bought fuel #300 from one dirty filling station on Sunday, today i just bought fuel at #150.

FG warn no one should sell in cans again because there is constant supply of electricity, useless set of people in FG very nitwits way of thinking, i don go before i go insult FG.

u are free to insult FG because d one at d top is clueless and cannt lead his subordinate

sunnyshayne:
Which government is giving this warning?

i wonder. Very funny. D stu..pid Dorothy Bassey sits in his office talking bla bla bla. When has such threats been effective from DPR. Nonsense dey smell

Bonapart:
Euroba people with evil mind... rape and rituals no do una abi.. una don turn to adultery and acid bathing...
Thank the police for the "comprehensive interrogation" that must be hell of a torturing which made him admit to the case...

wow! U got dat part "comprehensive interrogation". A lot of water went under d bridge.

DaBullIT:
I call for and eye for an eye judgement

Pour double the volume of the acid used on the victim on the perpetrator

yes oooo. Let dem bath d man's BLOCUS with ACID

Those guys are immature. I expected dem to do justice to d pure water price. If it means calling in d SUG.

Sweetguy25:
God bless Ifeanyi Uba, he chose not involve himself in this wicked and negative entrepreneurship his fellow marketers were trying to perpetuate.

Ifeanyi Uba is a wicked idi..ot like his colleagues in d oil business. Is it today dat he is forming a saint? Nonsense Wale Tinubu and Femi Otedola

Agbele1:
It is so pathetic,after suffering under the sun and rain voting for them.

God this suffering is to much,if these bad leaders refuse to change,pls let your wrath come upon them.

all dis while Nigerians never saw beyond deir nose and dey kept on voting for PDP. So now everybody is awake. For long i have seen d party has a non- achieving party at d centre

Pangea:
Small time now,
Some people will come here and praise Ifeanyi Uba as a hero!
A common scammer who is the king of roundtripping!
Sebi he said he has nothing to fear from Buhari's government?
OK, let's wait and see naa!

don mind d yeye people. Dese oil marketers are evil. God will punish dem for deir evil ways. Deir aim to milk dis country dry will lead to d fall of deir ill gotten wealth.

Spaxon:
It ain't funny
Only 19 ministries
hopes its effective

were d 31 effective before? So dey are 19 it is better

Spaxon:
It ain't funny Only 19 ministries hopes its effective

were d 31 effect before? So dey are 19 it is better

okosodo:
Very good idea.Old man is thinking smart

while young man was thinking foolish

ShowYourCertificate:
This is not an issue of derailing. This is the issue of rule of law. Buhari isn't a demi-god. If he's disqualified and Osinbajo takes over, that doesn't mean the democratic process has been scuttled. The last time I checked, Buhari's name isn't democracy.

If a Benue House of Rep Elect could be tried in court and disqualified why can't Buhari be tried too?

Please let's be matured and stop over heating the polity. The era of do-or-die politics is over.

Meanwhile, we're still waiting to see Buhari's WASC Certificate.

showYourCertificate, u are on a long thing....by May 29 2015 u will definitely see ur certificate. D cluelessness one will be driven out of his abode and his power and influence will begin to wane and his party will experience a sudden decline...fog setting in but dere shall rise another in its place who with repute setting d pace for d jacker...

gangb:
Buhari should show his certificate if he has one, and since he is not in the country he should branch Cambridge to ask for a copy simple!

is it today dat Buhari started contesting election? What has INEC done about it. If dey were serious, dis thing should have been dealt with since 2003....do first time he contested. I only see some pained people here who never believe Buhari will win.