Family › Re: Is My Wife Right To Ask This? by franciseromosel(m): 10:55pm On Aug 13, 2025 |
Israel5: Please (even though I know my appeal with fall on deaf ears too numerous to count in this forum), approach this issue with logic and without prejudice to the people involved.
My wife and I are duly blessed with a son who is in his basic 5 now. Also, we decided to get the daughter of one of my cousin to stay with us. She is one of 7 children. So I wanted to help raise a CHIMAMANDA.
As my rule, every child of same age under my room attends the same school and calls us Dad & Mum. The school part didn't quite seat well with my wife, who had a different opinion, but I prevailed anyway. Because na me dey pay school fees.
The girl is a year older than my son, but due to the level of education at the village before she came over, we made her be in the same class as my son. She met my son in primary 2. Now they are both in basic 5.
A shocker happened: This girl keeps coming up in the class, while my son keeps running away from the top. We've tried extra lessons, even tried changing schools. Now it looks as if the girl is better suited for school than my boy. She reads, spells and memorizes things too marvellous. I bought a dictionary cos of that.
I even buy gifts for her (for coming top) more than I do for my boy, to make him sit up, but my pikin nor send me o. Guy use cry & Woman power make me buy am bicycle. 😁
I would think he's being a spoilt boy, who believes daddy & mommy is there, I don't really know. But I am hopeful.
Now, my major issue is my heavily pregnant wife. She wants the girl to be changed/enrolled at a different school. In her defence, she wants her to be available to help her take care of things. The kid's school close by 3pm. She suggest government school that close earlier. I see sense in what she said but I feel like I'll be unfair to this young girl.
When I tried to have a healthy debate on the idea. Na so madam start to dey talk plenty tins wey I nor fit type. I have accepted to do her wish from September for peace.
Please, do you see another way I could avoid problems?
Is she right to have asked that I changed the girl's school just because she needs help around the house & her business? Your son may not be doing badly. The girl is overaged. I will advise you leave her in the same school,speak to the management to allow her go a class or two ahead. She is too young to assist madam. Changing her school to a government school will create bad blood. No start wetin you no fit finish. |
Politics › Re: Akpabio Vs Natasha: Police Arrests Whistleblower, Akuwudike by franciseromosel(m): 6:18am On May 24, 2025 |
TimeManager: If Natasha had presented just one evidence, she wouldn't be putting all these her agents into trouble.
-Kiss the truth! How you wan take get evidence of sexual assault? The only way is to interrogate both parties and look out for inconsistencies,which the government/police is not doing. |
Education › Re: JAMB Confirms Mop-Up Exam For 2025 UTME Absentees by franciseromosel(m): 6:59am On May 22, 2025 |
dahmie2013: Go & remove him. He is even the best ever Jamb registrar. Obviously,people are trying to sabotage his good works. It's no mistake the system glitch is happening,when WAEC wants to start CBT. We know with the zero tolerance on mal-practice, so many people would have no business in universities,they will opt for vocational diplomas. |
TV/Movies › Re: 2025 AMVCA 11 Awards (Live Updates) by franciseromosel(m): 10:22pm On May 10, 2025 |
Dougad: I just went online to read the synopsis and reviews of Seven Doors and it seems pleasant. Of all the Netflix released movies aka Yoruba movies that have graced the net for the past half-a-decade, this is the only one that I have genuinely felt like I have to watch. Anikulapo and the Wole Soyinka's adaptation left a bad tasete in my mouth just by researching alone, something I didn't feel with this one. You need to watch Anikulapo and Woke Soyinka's (The King's horseman) , and stop relying on online movie reviews. The two movies are good,even better than 7 Doors to me. Better give showbiz to the Yorubas or you will just give yourself hbp on top some people's progress. Igbos have their strength,not in showbiz...maybe as novelist,not plays. Imagine dragging pot with Akwa-Iboms...they go just murder you with ability. Everybody (people) have their strength and weakness. |
Travel › Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by franciseromosel(m): 12:28pm On Apr 27, 2021 |
kaylov12: Google is the best plug for the information you need. 1Search for Universities that offer the course, 2 put a call throught to them to be sure they accept international students (cos some do not). 3. Ask about their interview process (it used to be done in person/on site pre-covid). 4. Best of luck to her hello @Kaylov12. Please I love to chat with you. Can you PM me or send me an email on franciseromosele@gmail.com.Please make out time to honour my humble request. Thanks |
Family › Re: Am I Weird.... by franciseromosel(m): 8:48pm On Oct 24, 2020 |
Dikenasouth: Good evening all.... Please I need your opinions... Am I being unreasonable
My husband refuses to do pre-intimacy during sex, note we were intimate before marriage, now we have 4 children.... I beg him to finger me, but he replied that it is not a must for a woman to com
Secondly, I think he is irritated when I cream on his dick or if I am wet, he cleans it on my body, that's not a problem though, but I am now tired of pretending, not that he cares, but I no longer enjoy sex with him....Am I asking for too much P.s. I bath twice, I don't stink, I am beautiful..... are there men like that There is nothing wrong with you.You are perfectly normal. You need to ask your man what the problem is. If anything is the matter. Communication is key.What you ask for is key to you enjoying intimacy. Is your man way older than you? Is he of the older generation in age or mentality? |
Politics › Re: Top Inspiring ENDSARS Photos by franciseromosel(m): 1:11pm On Oct 14, 2020 |
You meant to say Syndney Granville Elton. Not John Elton,the British Music Artist. Shed4peace: I see a serious revolution coming. and for those of
you doubting, have you read about the Arab spring
and studied how it started? A time is coming when Men/Women will wish they were Nigerians
John Elton prophesied it about forty years ago. In his words which I'll paraphrase. "Nigeria will be known for corruption all over the world. The name Nigeria will be synonymous to corruption. But in a short while, Nigeria will rise again, anyone who lays hold of a Nigerian will say I will go with you...............
Let's keep praying for the ongoing revolution |
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Family › Re: I Want To Sue My Dad by franciseromosel(m): 2:31pm On Apr 21, 2019 |
frozen70: At this stage Meet your dad one on one, ask him why he withdraw his sponsorship of you and your siblings education
Listen very well while he is speaking and after that he will definitely say that you took sides with mum
Tell him you are sorry and that you are going to bring your sisters to apologise to him
Secondly, if he accepts you people apologise, that is where the real game will start
Play the fool and keep supporting him with your sisters too
Continue this until you graduate and find your level as being stable to stand on your own
You and I knows that what he did to your mum is bad
Keep your support to your mum coded and put her in the light of what you are doing
Forget about his relationship with your mum he is stubborn and wicked and he is out to melt his wickedness on any of you that doesn't give him the stupid support he wants from you guys
Always tell him the sweet words he wants to hear in as much as that will make you and your siblings have enough cash in school
Whatever he is doing, give him your support and play the fool.
Don't argue with him because he will see it as a challenge
Continue with your sisters to play the fool game with him
Don't be surprise you can save some money and give your mum to start something doing
Don't ever meantion your mum issues to his ears, he forbids to hear that
As time goes on when you guys have found your bearing, pull out from him and you will see him suffer more from loneliness and that is when he will start having his own depression
Encourage your mum to Pls play along with you people so that your education won't suffer Too much sense will not kill you.I hope you won't go home with your wisdom when you die,make sure you bless your children with it.You are so on point dear |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Rivers State Teachers Recruitment 2012 by franciseromosel(m): 1:30am On Aug 16, 2018 |
barikay: There is no Rivers state teaching job available on www.rivjobs.ng but people are busy everywhere that they are apply for job. they just register their profile on the site which is not link to any job or imply application for any job. Is the govt not deceiving them? Please who has registered on rivjobs.ng. I can't find where to register.Please help! |
Celebrities › Re: TV Throwback: Where Are The Child Stars Of Yesteryears? by franciseromosel(m): 9:36pm On Apr 26, 2018 |
Please where is Junior,Dele and Sadiya of "Family Circle". Those kids would be old now |
Literature › Re: A Mommy For Christmas by franciseromosel(m): 2:21pm On Dec 10, 2017 |
Nice one there dearie,please we want more jollof rice,keep it coming.The tempo is quite slow.Babe,you are good.Dont just give us long throats.Feed us more.More GB to your fone 1 Like |
Education › Re: Thread For PHD Students by franciseromosel(m): 9:36pm On Apr 10, 2017 |
Good evening house! Please can anyone help me with universities in Nigeria,federal or state. But preferably federal that will accept above 3.5 cgpa on a scale of 5 for a phd in Electrical Electronics (Power option).My friend has a cgpa of 3.8 and he wants to do phd. |
Celebrities › Re: Brymo: "I Am Going To Hell When I Die" by franciseromosel(m): 3:59pm On Jan 25, 2017 |
Don't get it twisted,hell in this context is the 'GRAVE'.He is just playing on your intelligence."That is where all good people go". Hell is different from Hell-fire. Jesus descended into hell according to 1peters 3 vs 17-20. Everybody,included all good people will go to hell(grave). "waiting for that blessed hope and the glorious appearing of our great God and Saviour Jesus Christ".Titus 2 vs 13 |
Literature › Re: Things Lovers Do by franciseromosel(m): 10:23am On Dec 27, 2016 |
Good story,nice flow of thoughts. You are a good writer. Keep it coming please! |
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Literature › Re: why my blood is black. extremely 18+ by franciseromosel(m): 1:57pm On May 30, 2016 |
Nice piece ,Mizquote...But wait oh,why the choice of your moniker. |
Family › Re: Why Do Toddlers Wear Their Footwears On The Wrong Legs? by franciseromosel(m): 10:23pm On May 18, 2016 |
I think toddlers wear their slippers or shoes the wrong way because its tighter wearing their slippers that wrong way.It will make it not to pull and they can easily run around with it. |
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Politics › Re: Photo Of Oil River Chiefs And Their Servants In The 1890s by franciseromosel(m): 12:47pm On Mar 21, 2015 |
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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Weatherford Oil And Gas Jobs For Graduate Field Engineers by franciseromosel(m): 10:42am On Jan 10, 2015 |
ok....thanks dear deracathy: I had the same issue because my login details were incorrect. I would advice you go to their main site And search for jobs with the title Junior Field Engineer.
Don't forget to indicate your continent- Africa And your Country - NGA for Nigeria |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Weatherford Oil And Gas Jobs For Graduate Field Engineers by franciseromosel(m): 1:28am On Jan 10, 2015 |
The application keeps directing me to an "Oracle website" like that with the sign-up tab.Any ways out pals |
Education › Re: HARDEST MATHS Question Ever by franciseromosel(m): 7:20pm On Dec 26, 2014 |
I dare you guys to solve 2^x=4x....find x,I want the full working,not trial and error |
Sports › Who Was/is The Most Lethal Striker: Roger Milla,yekinni,drogba,weah Or Eto'o by franciseromosel(op): 8:57pm On Dec 04, 2014 |
Roger Milla was the star of the late 80s and early 90s in Cameroonian football and he showed his class in Italia 90.Yekinni was a point man in Victoria Setubal of Portugal and one time the highest goal scorer in Europe.Drogba,to me is the most potent talisman in the history of African football.He has what it takes to completely turn the fortune of a losing team(Bayern can testify to that  ).Weah is the only African to be crowned as the world best,European best,African best,all in the same year 1995.Eto'o is the most crowned in the whole lots.No doubt,he can hold his own amongst the best in any generation.He is fast,skillful,tactical and very clinical.THE BIG QUESTION NOW IS,HOW DO WE ARRANGE THEM? If you are a football manager and you want a striker to give a stiker like Ronaldo da lima,Nistelroy,Raul or Costa a run for their money.Lets kick jingoism or bias out of football! As for me:DROGBA,WEAH,MILLA,ETO'O,YEKINNI......Pls pick yours |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Free NNPC Aptitude Test Materials by franciseromosel(m): 9:30pm On Dec 01, 2014 |
Pls I need it too: francsworld06@yahoo.co.uk |
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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Nnpc Past Question by franciseromosel(m): 10:10pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
pls where is the venue in ph? Pls send me the past question:francsworld06@yahoo.co.uk |
Sports › Who Is The Most Successful Nigerian In Epl History? by franciseromosel(op): 11:59pm On Oct 31, 2014 |
Mikel Obi,Yakubu Aiyegbeni,Elvan Ikoku,Joseph Yobo,Kanu Nwankwo.Pick your choice |
Literature › Re: A Man To Call Her Own by franciseromosel(m): 9:41pm On Aug 28, 2014 |
Another reason why Henry is not good enough for Linda;He TAMPERED with her pills. Infact,he swapped her pills with vitamin C! Tiffy,you rock! Thumbs up!!! 1 Like 1 Share |
Literature › Re: A Man To Call Her Own by franciseromosel(m): 8:38pm On Aug 26, 2014 |
Tiffany has over-read romance novels to the extent that she knows the ideal time to end a story is on christmas eve! I'm predicting a reunion and the end of this classic on xmas eve! 2 Likes |