Romance › Re: My Bestie Is Now Asking Me Out by frankfab(m): 10:26am On Sep 29, 2018 |
ritylove: I am a very gregarious or rather should i say a social individual,i keep alot of company but my actual real friends circle is pretty small,i actually never bought this male bestie of a thing from the onset because i felt it was thrash and irrelevant to me, i was satisfied with my girlfriends around,but during my 100 level in the university there was this particular guy i met then i was still a fresher i never knew much about the school he helped me alot with my clearance,getting a place to stay,showing me around school with alot of stuffs too numerous to mention here.
As time goes on suprisingly we started getting very close much more closer than i ever expected he was very nice and caring to me,sometimes he acts like my dad he is the only male friend i have who dares scold me in my wrong doings as time goes on before i could even realize it he was the closest to me among all my friends he was always there for me when i needed someone even when i dont he was there. We became so close i started confiding in him alot,i even told him stuffs i cant tell my mum we got so close he knows almost everything about me,everyone av dated,whom am dating,my breakups,my sex life,my kind of guy,my attitude towards dating,how i reason, even before saying something he has an idea of what am about to say,this guy knows my girlcode to the freaking core there is hardly anything i can hide from him,he has being of great assistance to me always forcing me to read my books and forget social medias,the truth is that he is the major reason for my drastic improvement academically, i was always at the receiving end,there is hardly anything i do for him yet he stayed i realized i needed him more than he needed me.
it all started few days ago as usual we just left from an eatery store heading back home he decided to drop by my place to charge his pc which he was using for his finals project work since there area had light issues,fast forward to when we got home there it goes we were talking as usual then all of a sudden he started saying stuffs how he feels about me all this while but only kept it to himself after hearing him speak for almost 3hours i was totally confused i didnt say anything i just starred at him the whole time till he finished ,noticing my silience he then asked me what i had to say about what i just heared,i had no idea on what to say i was totally confused i have never seen him this serious my entire life,in an attempt to escape the moment and look on his face i told him to give me sometime to dissolve all what i have heard after which he left.
Now am put in one of the most difficult situations i have ever being he is a very nice person,one of the nicest guys i have met yet he treats me better than anyone else, he treats me better than anyone am dating words can hardly explain i like him alot but i dont think i love or have any feelings or so for him this a guy who waited almost 4yrs to ask me out,a guy who knows me better than all my friends,i feel this guy knows too much and am scared he might use that against me one way or the other after all he has done for me i feel i owe him more, i cant look him in the eyes and tell him that i dont love him,i dont want to hurt his feelings and i dont want to loose him either cux he is my bestfriend i dont want to look like the bad person in front of everyone else but pleasing him here means displeasing myself i dont know what to do anymore cux i dont want to hurt anyones feeling, have being avoiding his calls and text cux i dont know what to say please i need a sincere and modest advice here what can i do in this situation i dont want anyones feelings getting hurt. You think you can just play with someone's son as you like. Better do the necessary |
Education › Re: Covenant, UNN Break Into Times Higher Education (THE) Top 1000 World Rankings by frankfab(m): 2:32pm On Sep 28, 2018 |
Great Lions and Lionessess roar!!! |
Nairaland General › Re: How Can I Edit Or Change My Nairaland Username? by frankfab(m): 7:02pm On Aug 26, 2018 |
It's not possible. I once thought on how to go about that |
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Art, Graphics & Video › Re: Whatsapp Group For Illustrators, Concept Artist And Comic Artist by frankfab(m): 8:07pm On Aug 11, 2018 |
08176427425 |
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Art, Graphics & Video › Re: My World Of Graphics Design As A Professional by frankfab(m): 9:27pm On Jun 09, 2018 |
Did you say professional?
you're very far. 1985 graphic design works are better than this things you did.
Pride comes before a fall |
Art, Graphics & Video › Re: ` by frankfab(m): 7:36pm On May 04, 2018 |
best827: I need a Graphics designer who is very good.. The person must be able to design a good Advertisement Banner, Image with GIFS, And also the person must be able to create an advertisement Banner that will rotate up to five images.. Please if you can do all this, I have a job for you.. Kindly upload your recent work below and drop your WhatsApp contact, I will get in touch 08176427425 |
Art, Graphics & Video › Re: Whatsapp Group Chat For (digital, Comic And Creative Artists) by frankfab(m): 3:29pm On Apr 20, 2018 |
08176427425 |
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TV/Movies › Re: Drop Any Tv Show Name For Direct Download In HD Quality. Like "The Flash, Etc. by frankfab(m): 6:19pm On Feb 07, 2018 |
please can you help me with web addresses where one can download quality HD movies |
Romance › Re: If You Want To Date Me, We Must Go For Blood Covenant, Deal Or No Deal? by frankfab(m): 12:10am On Dec 30, 2017 |
Thegeneralqueen: She has a point....... what a perfect lady for all these stubborn naija guys...... Go girl you just earned my respect  Go and sit down! |
Romance › Re: 2018 Advice To Girls On Social Media 2018 by frankfab(m): 11:53pm On Dec 29, 2017 |
Same story. no changes.. |
Romance › Re: Guys, What Is The First Thing You Look At Before You Approach A Lady? by frankfab(m): 11:46pm On Dec 29, 2017 |
her shadow and eye lashes |
Romance › Re: Re: Which Is Important, Love Or Money? by frankfab(m): 11:42pm On Dec 29, 2017 |
Purebeerry: No need to read your long stories, just know that 30billion for the akant is very important. money answerth all things |
Romance › Re: Thread For All Those Still Single In 2017: What's The Way Forward? by frankfab(m): 11:15pm On Dec 29, 2017 |
Older girls have been falling in love with me and I don't like it� |
Romance › Re: See The Amazing Transformation Of An Instagram Slay Queen (photos) by frankfab(m): 9:12am On Dec 14, 2017 |
What's so special here? |
Politics › Re: Throwback Photos Of Chukwuemeka Odumegwu Ojukwu by frankfab(m): 9:01am On Dec 12, 2017 |
Our hero, a great man, a warrior, a legend, Ikemba 1 of Igboland. We love you |
Romance › Re: “I Cannot Date You, If You Don’t Drive A Ferrari” — Nigerian Lady by frankfab(m): 8:54am On Dec 12, 2017 |
This one that sleeps on the floor at night. |
Crime › Re: What Happens To Girls Who Yahoo Boys Take Their Panties? by frankfab(m): 8:47am On Dec 12, 2017 |
If a Yahoo criminal stole your pant. Replace it. Buy another one, that one don change colour |
Celebrities › Re: Best Dressed Nigerian Female Celebrities Of 2017 by frankfab(m): 6:04pm On Dec 11, 2017 |
Where is Tonto Dikeh (The fearless Tigress) ? |
Christianity Etc › Re: Daddy Freeze Replies Leke Adeboye, Pastor Adeboye's Son (VIDEO) by frankfab(m): 5:52pm On Dec 11, 2017 |
Daddy Freeze always on point. The truth is bitter though. But it must prevail nothing can stop it even your General Overseer AKA "Pastorpreneur" can't stop it. |
Sports › Re: Mourinho Had Milk And Water Thrown At Him As Man City Players Celebrate (PICS) by frankfab(m): 5:36pm On Dec 11, 2017 |
They're rejoicing because they just won a bigger team. #GGMU |
Education › Re: Oforkaja Chiamaka Rachel, FUTO Undergraduate Slays In Birthday Photos by frankfab(m): 7:51pm On Dec 08, 2017 |
acme6: Lol, sure. ok, make i believe you |
Crime › Re: Makeup Artist Commits Suicide After Lover Dumped Her Via Phone Call (Photo) by frankfab(m): 7:50pm On Dec 08, 2017 |
Rest in Peace |
TV/Movies › Re: #EndSARS Campaign Featured On Al Jazeera by frankfab(m): 7:46pm On Dec 08, 2017 |
Juliette05: The truth is that SARS can't be abolished, the squad is an oil well to most top police heads, they make massive returns and turnover, who would want his egunje to stop? how did you know all these? |
Education › Re: Oforkaja Chiamaka Rachel, FUTO Undergraduate Slays In Birthday Photos by frankfab(m): 7:30pm On Dec 08, 2017 |
acme6: The pretty ones are in IMSU. I hope you're among the pretty ones. |
Education › Re: Oforkaja Chiamaka Rachel, FUTO Undergraduate Slays In Birthday Photos by frankfab(m): 7:25pm On Dec 08, 2017 |
Does she want to defecate? |
Celebrities › Re: Ugandan Singer Begs Wizkid To Impregnate Her, Says "My Womb Is Ready" by frankfab(m): 11:30am On Dec 08, 2017 |
Ladycloud: Is it this her almost fallen breast she will use to feed her child??  insult the girl not the breast. |
Celebrities › Re: YiboKoko Poses With His Human-Sized Dog (Photos) by frankfab(m): 11:19am On Dec 08, 2017 |
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Romance › Re: Can You Date Your Boss Or Colleague?: Nigerians React by frankfab(m): 11:08am On Dec 08, 2017 |
phintohlar: I can date a colleage (if not married), who know's if he's the one destined for me. The boss is a no for me A typical GOLD DIGGER! |