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Girl9999:
I created this account to hide my identity. I'm in a very emotional condition at the moment. I've been crying since morning. I've not left my house, not even for church. I've lost the will to live, all because of what happened yesterday evening.

I've been dating this guy for two months. I thought he was a great guy. He was always nice to me, smart and hard-working. I lost my virginity at the age of 18 in University and it was to someone that just wanted to have sex with me. He lied about loving me. All he wanted was sex and when he had his way he abandoned me and dated another girl in my department. Since then I've had a fear of relationships, most importantly of sex. I vowed to only have sex with someone I was going to marry; someone I was certain loved me.

When I met my boyfriend, I thought he was the one. We vibed well and we were both in the same field of work. Everything seemed to click. I opened up to him about my experience and my decision to have sex only when I was ready. He agreed and said he was going to respect my wishes.

Yesterday he visited me at my apartment. This wasn't the first time he was visiting me. We paid each other visits all the time. This time he brought a bottle of wine with him. I prepared food, we both eat and he served us some wine. The last thing I remember is taking few sips and then everything else is blurry.

Next thing I am waking up by 8am this morning with a severe headache, cramped legs and a sore feeling around my vagina. There was something that looked like dried semen on my left thigh and some around my breast. I could also perceive the scent of his perfume on my body. He raped me. The man that claimed to love me raped me. I haven't spoken to anyone since morning, all I've been doing is crying. My phone has been on silent all day.

I want to report him to the police but first I want to look at his face and ask why he would do this to me. I already planned on having sex with him soon. Why couldn't he wait? I want to involve my parents and his parents as well but I don't want this news to spread and take a hit on my reputation. I'm confused about what to do.

Why are men like this? I feel defiled and violated. My mind has been constantly flooded with suicidal thoughts all day. If I make it through this, I'm done with relationships forever.

I will advise you to report to all authority. His parents, your parents. And the police

cashrules12:
600k

Reduce Price

VoltaireQ:
Brand New 16" 2019 available

16/ 512 SSD

Touch Bar

950 K

Looking for used. Don't have money for brand new

cashrules12:
I have 15”

How much?

Depending on their skillset and the programming language they know.

Averagely the salary of a Developer in a most Nigerian companies is 400k/month while for start-up is like 70k-150k

I need the 16inch version. Let me know if you have it.

Nijagogetsense:
I'm really happy for you on this fear. How are you going to celebrate it for me nah?

LOL. I will just sip a bottle of beer this night.

Lipz20:
2.5 last

After checking most of the dealers to buy my first car, I noticed that alot of them put the same prices on cars. The only thing you should be looking at is how clean the car is.

What I am saying is that 2.9M is not bad for the price of this car.

Yea, I made it to the frontpage on NL, after many years.

Thank you Jesus, 2021 is going to be better.

So I won't miss the advice

Weirdoo:
I have two of it

How much?

Pix?

Who handles the repair work?

2.6? highly interested

Do you have Note20 used

loveson:
2.2m?

2.4? Highly interested

2.5?

jacobjamie:
To me, if this isn't painted then it's the cleanest I have seen on nairaland, and it's even cleaner than some Toks, but the price is way high, if u could reduce it to 2m it's reasonable for a naija used, but this is juicy sha,

It's definitely painted. This is definitely not 1st body. Price is on the very high side. He trying to sell at the amount he bought some years ago.

V4 right?

highly interested 2M

How long was it driven.

Why was the odometer rolled back?

Lol

MedicH:
I searched on jiji, saw the guy from Benin selling the Lexus es 300. I went to Benin from owerri with my colleague that lived in Benin and knows the area around August.

We sat at that big eatery mall in Benin city and the car came in looking very sweet. I did my inspection bearing in mind all I've learnt from gazzuzz and nairaland auto section. I checked the fans, they dont turn on when u start engine, I smiled. I checked engine bay, no funny wires.

I already bought my car scanner before then so I plugged it in scanned for errors and saw knock sensor and oxygen sensor errors only. I browsed these errors and saw they're cheap to fix and nothing very serious.


I inspected the papers, car was just imported in February, the guy has a printed copy of the vin report, I glanced through it saw the frontal damage and everything else was cool.

We drove to the guy house, with ac om. Everything was smooth, RPM was steady in hold-up, no jerking or funny noise. We completed the transaction and payment and everything. I got a driver to take me home and I was wowed in the journey. That car was the most powerful car I've been into.

The driver said we should off the AC so we can save fuel consumption I told him never to worry. Everything from steering, brakes, AC, legs, engine, gear was, 100% and I was as happy as I ever been my whole life. Car was speeding on Benin asaba express like a demon and sometimes it will bounce on the highway like a leather ball I was so wowed.

We got to owerri I called my friends to come and drive it they were wowed.

I took it home and started to learn how to drive. Car is as powerful and as excellent today as at then and I have only changed the oil and plugs.
because I used it to learn driving, it's due for shock absorber repairs. Everything is as intact and excellent as ever.

I love that car and my seller was as truthful as anything. Even uptil now I've never had reasons to change the tires I wonder if maybe they will never leak. Tires are yet to expire brand new. When we completed the deal, this good ma gave me 10k to use and buy spare tire on my way home because the car has no spare tire. Everything was blessed.

If u want to buy a car, stay away from dealers, normally na lie they will sell to u. Buy from end users, they have numerous accounts on jiji. How u know is end users always put up one car to sell in the entire account unlike a dealer that has dozens.

Also use the custom duty to check level of abuse. If possible, go for cars with less than 6 months use in Nigeria from date of importation.

Lastly, say a prayer for yourself.

Where do I buy a car scanner?

ericoleon:
i pray you do boss. What type of car do u have your eyes on?

08 - 010 Camry SE

I'm about getting my first car. I have saved the money throughout the beginning of the year. I would have gotten it if not for Corona. I hope I get a good deal.

Ofemmanu1:
https://www.nairaland.com/6333390/economic-crisis-naira-fall-further

What about the remittance law by CBN, don't you think it would give naira some strength?

Ofemmanu1:
You never know Buhari govt.

This is more than Buhari govt. With the current remittance law by CBN. Dollar should be like N100 but Aboki people keep huding the dollar on the black market

Ofemmanu1:
You better buy now if you have the money.
Everybody bus trying to upgrade before next year.

US dollar ain't coming down, cars will be more expensive next year.

Im looking to trade my Honda DC for a 2010 model too .

I think you are wrong. If you go to the Aboki FX Market dollar keep reducing by N10 everyday. By next year. I see dollar going for as low as N300.

Hollawayn05:
Make every just start dey sell quick
Come next year cars go cheap gan

My guy. I no Sabi why everyone just dey sell their cars oh. Abi something wan happen?

Make Una tell us oh. Make we know

I was disappointed when I read the news about Xiaomi removing their charger. What happened to pride.