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Family / Re: My Wife Is Frustrating My Life by freecocoa(f): 9:36am On Oct 26, 2019 |
All these men Abeg make we hear word, what is it sef? I’m now beginning to think you people are just making these stories up. Your wife just dey attack you with hammer and nail and chisel, just like that, Abeg make we hear something. |
Family / Re: Sometimes I Regret Marrying My Wife by freecocoa(f): 5:37am On Oct 23, 2019 |
Na wa o! Is your wife a witch? But then, I’ve learnt enough to know you don’t judge man and woman matter based on a one sided story. All I can say is, take heart, till we hear from your wife. 2 Likes 1 Share |
TV/Movies / Re: BBNaija: Tacha Rocks Sexy Dress, Dances With Ike, Seyi, Mercy, Others. Wows Fans by freecocoa(f): 6:59pm On Sep 01, 2019 |
But wait o! Who are all these people fussing over this bbn thing like this? You sure they are not getting paid for it? Cos I don’t get how an adult can be so into something as meaningless as bbn. |
Car Talk / Re: Buyer Of ₦6.7b Bugatti Agreed To Buy It On The Spot After Seeing Only Sketches by freecocoa(f): 12:07pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
What kind of life is this biko nu? How can somebody make over 1 billion Naira a month? God e no good o, this kain partial is too much. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Parents Arrange Wife For Their 21-Year-Old Son Who Has SS Genotype by freecocoa(f): 12:04pm On Aug 22, 2019 |
CeeJay9ja:She’s just a baby making machine, no one cares, she can go to hell. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: . by freecocoa(f): 11:58pm On Aug 19, 2019 |
Mumu |
Crime / Re: CCTV Footage Shows The Moment A Man Stole A Praying Woman's Phone In Church by freecocoa(f): 12:07pm On Aug 19, 2019 |
starbuck:Haha! The man wey thief your slippers no try at all. 1 Like |
Crime / Re: Court Grants Obinwanne Okeke "Invictus Obi" Permission To See Dentist by freecocoa(f): 1:11am On Aug 19, 2019 |
Officialgarri:Rotflmao |
Crime / Re: CCTV Footage Shows The Moment A Man Stole A Praying Woman's Phone In Church by freecocoa(f): 1:07am On Aug 19, 2019 |
starbuck:Na cele you dey go? You are funny. 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: 8 Nigerian Celebrities Who Have Attempted Suicide -nö 3 Is Shocking (PHOTOS) by freecocoa(f): 1:19pm On Aug 16, 2019 |
Joystark:I’m glad I’m not the only one that feels same way, although having brain tumor has got to be a very big deal. |
Family / Re: How Do I Handle A Nagging, Disrespective And Poor Sex Life Wife by freecocoa(f): 7:15pm On Aug 10, 2019 |
TV01:Okay, I see someone missed me. |
Family / Re: When Your Man Always Sides With His Family. by freecocoa(f): 3:12pm On Aug 10, 2019 |
GboyegaD:What makes you think my perspective is biased? I’m a woman who hopes to have a son someoday and also be a MIL, so how exactly am I biased? |
Family / Re: When Your Man Always Sides With His Family. by freecocoa(f): 3:10pm On Aug 10, 2019 |
Logobenz2:What exactly does or will this idiotic man do, as regards his wife and mom, to be termed idiotic? If mama is insulting his wife and he tells mama not to do that, that makes him idiotic? 2 Likes |
Family / Re: When Your Man Always Sides With His Family. by freecocoa(f): 3:05pm On Aug 10, 2019 |
sassysure:The same thing I think. These women are just annoying bitchy control freaks, you even see some young women exhibiting these sign. They are the sisters in-law you are probably even older than, who wants you to serve/worship them because you married their brother. Tell me how such a person won’t turn into a sadistic MIL tomorrow? People are just really crazy in this world. 3 Likes |
Family / Re: When Your Man Always Sides With His Family. by freecocoa(f): 3:00pm On Aug 10, 2019 |
project4OO:Why do you have to assume the woman is the one fighting the family? I think my post even made it clear that it’s the man’s family, fighting the woman. Or are you saying the woman should take whatever’s thrown at her? |
Family / Re: When Your Man Always Sides With His Family. by freecocoa(f): 2:57pm On Aug 10, 2019 |
bukatyne:I don’t even like how it’s made to seem like one has to choose, ofcourse if it came down to having to make a choice, a spouse must put his/her partner first, for me, this should just be something everyone knows but don’t have to mention or talk about. A mother should know that if she wants to (for instance)have her hair done(most basic example) and her DIL needs to do same and the man can only provide for one person, the man should know the money is automatically his wife’s, mama sef should know this if she’s sensible, any reasonable person should know this. I’ll only leave room for special occasions where mama can be put first in times like this, a reasonable wife should know that as well. But alas! Just look at what these men here are saying, I sorry for the ones that will marry these men walai! 1 Like |
Family / Re: When Your Man Always Sides With His Family. by freecocoa(f): 2:43pm On Aug 10, 2019 |
bukatyne:Odiegwu o! The thing no tire you? Is it that the men aren’t listening or that the mothers just won’t let go? Cos quite frankly, thinking about it, I begin to wonder, why do these mothers even allow such nonsense continue? Why want to play the role of a wife to your son? Are you well at all? Then the man, you can’t man up to your mum to tell her what’s real, yet you want someone else’s daughter to worship, adore and treat you like the lord of the whole world, yet simple “mama please stop” you can’t say, you are a very stupid and weak man that shouldn’t be taken seriously. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: When Your Man Always Sides With His Family. by freecocoa(f): 2:30pm On Aug 10, 2019 |
nairalandposter:You get it. I really don’t understand how people can’t be reasonable simply because their family is involved, ofcourse I understand the love and special sentiment you have for them, but that doesn’t mean you won’t use common sense when dealing with issues. I know how much I love my siblings, however, that doesn’t mean I can’t call them out when they in the wrong, especially concerning someone I love, who is now also a member of said family, by virtue of marriage. Me I just tire o. I get crazy when I see a man team up with his siblings and mother, to harasses his wife, this has got to be the highest form of weakness/cowardice ever. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: When Your Man Always Sides With His Family. by freecocoa(f): 2:18pm On Aug 10, 2019 |
nairalandposter:I find this funny but why should they not get defenders if they need to be defended? |
Celebrities / Re: Busola Dakolo Under Fire For Claiming Police Forced Her To Withdraw Rape Case by freecocoa(f): 3:27pm On Aug 07, 2019 |
This is Nigeria where you can get killed and nothing happens, so I wouldn’t doubt someone who says they were forced to sign a letter. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: When Your Man Always Sides With His Family. by freecocoa(f): 5:34pm On Aug 04, 2019 |
sassysure:Haha! I know a man like that anyways though it took a while before he totally got to his wife’s corner, she had to stand her ground and fought for what she considered her right, when dealing with her MIL, and somehow, it worked for her, however a gazillion others haven’t been so lucky. |
Family / Re: When Your Man Always Sides With His Family. by freecocoa(f): 5:32pm On Aug 04, 2019 |
thorpido:I think I agree with the training part but then, as an adult who’s mentally balanced and loves their wife, shouldn’t common sense come to play here? I’m saying because, I really can’t see any excuse for such behavior. |
Family / Re: When Your Man Always Sides With His Family. by freecocoa(f): 5:25pm On Aug 04, 2019 |
Logobenz2:Nobody is asking you to castigate her per se, it’s more like just calling her attention to the fact that she might be overstepping, how is that such a bad thing to do? So you’ll say nothing if your mum was being disrespectful to you as a man? Or are you suddenly saying your mum can do no wrong because someone else’s daughter is the one involved? Meanwhile, there so many ways in which your mum can be unfair to your wife, living with you or not, how exactly is this even something you don’t know? 5 Likes |
Family / Re: When Your Man Always Sides With His Family. by freecocoa(f): 9:50pm On Aug 02, 2019 |
thorpido:Its not my hubby bros. Meanwhile, I think it’s very common with most Nigerian men. 3 Likes |
Family / Re: When Your Man Always Sides With His Family. by freecocoa(f): 9:48pm On Aug 02, 2019 |
bukatyne:I guess this settles it but still, one is never always sure I’ll say. I guess this means that people who already find themselves in these situations, have no option but to live with it. |
Family / Re: When Your Man Always Sides With His Family. by freecocoa(f): 9:46pm On Aug 02, 2019 |
LordKO:I’ll say. Thank you for this comment. 3 Likes |
Family / Re: When Your Man Always Sides With His Family. by freecocoa(f): 9:45pm On Aug 02, 2019 |
Logobenz2:Hmmm, how can one ignore all of that? I mean, your wife has to deal with your mum, she just has to, expecting her to constantly ignore unfairness is not a very loving thing to do, and then threatening to get angry if her human side eventually shows, is just heartbreaking to say the least. 7 Likes |
Family / Re: When Your Man Always Sides With His Family. by freecocoa(f): 9:43pm On Aug 02, 2019 |
armyofone:Lol, man I’m not finding the comments here funny o, it’s looking like a hopeless situation. 1 Like |
Family / Re: When Your Man Always Sides With His Family. by freecocoa(f): 9:41pm On Aug 02, 2019 |
nairalandposter:Which one is people are not the same in this issue now? So you know anyone that likes being sided against all of the time? 3 Likes |
Family / Re: When Your Man Always Sides With His Family. by freecocoa(f): 9:40pm On Aug 02, 2019 |
bukatyne:Hmmm, so basically, nothing can be done about this then. |
Family / Re: When Your Man Always Sides With His Family. by freecocoa(f): 9:31pm On Aug 02, 2019 |
armyofone:What an exhaustingly excruciating unhappy life that will be. 3 Likes |
Family / Re: When Your Man Always Sides With His Family. by freecocoa(f): 9:28pm On Aug 02, 2019 |
Logobenz2:How exactly shouldn’t it be up for debate? So if your mum is being mean to your wife, it’s not debatable to side with her(your mum)? I don’t understand all these Nigerian men. 11 Likes |
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