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phpfx:
Good day NLs

I find this as the last solution and place of my ultimate decision about my life...

I am dying inside and if I don't do this I might lose my mind!

the last time I went bizarre..it was here i got help that helped me reshapen for a long time.

i am a young graduate (awaiting service) managing with a work with not much pay. the course of my life has left me wondering maybe someone cursed me to be lonely and unhappy.

not that I am ugly...i am a handsome fresh guy lacking nothing except love. many girls and even guys would never believe me if I tell them I am still single or I never had sex.

I have long for d day i too will feel loved by someone who would call me her own. I am 25 and been into about 3 relationships with all of them ending in a disappointing manner. I have never enter a good relationship with that lovey dovey thingy and it leaves me wondering mathe someone cursed my love life.

lemme start from d first girl..

she was my sec sch class mate and we started dating immediately after sec sch. it started well with romance but it later ended in a long distance relationship as she got admission to sch and we gradually stopped talking.

the second girl..

she made d first move. but as they always are. they are so loosed and she keeps so many male friends which was d total opposite of me as I am a blouse and insecure murrfucker. even though I have tried with all i can to change to no avail. I went to sch and she was moving with other guys. whom I know must have been banging her. I came back from break with annoyance and broke up with her.

the third girl..

she was 3 yrs older than me..i was 21 she was 24. we started alright too but d problem is she was not a social type(or so I thought) and it was affecting d relationship. even though it became a long distance relationship after we both left for sch it was still okay as she was a little matured (or so I thought) until she began giving me attitude and clinging to a guy whom was in my clique and even tho i confronted her she denied ever dating d guy. because of my jealous nature i couldnt hold it anymore and began looking for ways to break up. I eventually got a chance as I got hold of her fone with her Facebook opened. to my shocking surprise I found out she was dating a Catholic seminarian and cheating and lieing to me. I was pained and i ended the relationship.

the forth one...

probably d best. we started dating January last year. the relationship was good and moving well with regular romance and kisses tho no sex..even tho it was a long distant one. fast forward match I graduated and was back home. the love continued and I was so attached to her. not long I discover the friendship with a guy I call my nigga (or so I thought). and i was running jealous and insecure again..whoosh...this run around d love I had grew for her was killing me watching her slipping from my arms. I was watching videos and controlling myself until she began to make it obvious to hurt me or I don't even know. she would make me watch her getting clingy with d guy and using it to hurt me. I was lonely and depression was pinning me down. it got so much I couldn't bare it anymore. I decided to calm it quit. I took her phone one day and went through her messages and discover not only was she even giving d guy green lights she was giving so many guys and purportedly dating one other one. I broke that day and he'll let loose on my heart.

I ran into depression and loneliness and still can't recover from it till now...

please I need suggestions or advise or even abuses to straighten my mind to live straight on. I am loosing myself!!

Papi, you are a jealous lover and you need to come off it. Have come across different kinds of ladies/ growing up in the midst of ladies. The question is how do you manage to handle them?

{Based on experience}
If you continue monitoring them, you will end up not having one & you will die before your time.

Do you say you are depressed and at same time been happy? You are just forcing yourself to be happy, which is not gonna workout.
My dear, depression doesn't go alongside wid happiness, you are the key to your happiness.

Don't try to monitor any girl since you are not married to her.

Of course they are women and thus, they will always have a male toasters / admirers (even when they are emotionally attached to them) don't get it twisted.


"Once a girl is giving you the attention you need, you shouldn't be thinking about all this or have time to be checking up on her each minute or to know her whereabout".

Now tell me, if it's a long distance relationship...and it happens that you don't know the kind of life she's living there and she doesn't know yours too....how can you handle this situation? how much do you trust each other?

The remedy is for you to overlook all those things and behave as if nothing is going Wrong and keep flowing wid her. By so doing, you gain your happiness lastly. Give it a trial.




I IMMENSELY UNDERSTAND YOUR PLIGHT HERE.
Things like this do happen sometimes in life, but you need to cut down some essences in order to deal wid it.

In all things been equal, don't allow your love to be more than that of a woman (be it wife or girlfriend) hence, they will use it against you someday. Women gat the love and the men's love is in the heart.




Interesting? share

That must be tough

whitebeard:
Rich and famous, but I just want the money I don't want that fame shite.

Young MA.

Dope song

iyatrustee:
I have been natural for 2yrs too. My 4c hair is so annoying! Long but you won't know because it is springy

looking sweet.....skin color is worth dying for..

If the Igbos are selling suya, you can buy them at anytime, anywhere & any moment.
Today's newspaper​ is tomorrow's suya wrap......lolz

excellence44:
yes it can. that's what am using. for tracking, use any strong decoder. it's easier with strong

But I connected it to another pan (antenna), it displays "program doesn't exist". what's the solution to that?

fados4sure:
Is Yar' Adua not Obasanjo

thanks man

fados4sure:
Op I don't know where you got your statistics from that those are the top performing currency.



It may interest you to note that the three top performing currency is USD, EURO & JAPAN YEN


Note that Japan highest currency is 10,000Yen but, their currency is d 3rd performing currency.



It may also interest you to know that ¥1 #1 but the value of ¥1 is bigger than #1



For example, in Japan, one jean trouser is ¥150 where as in Nigeria, one jean trouser is #3000



Are you getting it now? where as ¥1 = #1



What the government needs to do are:



1, Increase export and reduce import


2, Increase foreign reserve

3, We shouldn't be import dependent


4, Put qualified person as CBN Governor, Minister of Finance & Minister of Budget


If the above are done, I can assure you that your Naira will have value again but if your government fail to do the above & choose to redenominate the naira to probably remove #500 & #1000 and introduce coin without the above, the currency will still fall back to where it was

Charles soludo recommended this analysis (1$ = #1) some time ago to the federal government when he was still the governor of CBN, but obasanjo and cohorts turned him down.
Simply because probably it might not favour some of them in terms of Western transfers.
If paraventure this analysis existed, Some Nigerians won't bother travelling to overseas. Hence, dollar and naira are at same exchange rate.

The Igbos/ Delta Igbos understands this already.

oh my goodness.....sounds funny

My dear, read hard and live the rest to God. if you don't know how to pray...this is the time.

yomibelle:
yh, i can totally relate. same way i saw this thread and abandoned it

Sweerie, is that the photo of your stature?

iyatrustee:
Na the innocent bride i dey pity for in these type of situations. That however is if she wasn't aware of the husband's act of wickedness


When Karma comes calling

Wow...such a beautiful, gorgeous lady. Heavens help me....can I inbox you pls?

Be sincere here.

https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2018/2/the-inscription-on-this-elderly-mans-shirt-thoughlol.html

He might innocently put on the Polo
but the question is ....who doesn't enjoy vagina?

excellence44:
hd 5000 model. it pretty much do what your normal strong can do

bro, can digisat use another pan (antenna) rather than its own?
cause have been trying to connect wid a diff pan, but it's not connecting.

what if our God is not a merciful God?

Wow! this is interesting.

https://web.netnaija.me/forum/general/news/49441-alleged-serial-rapist-who-beat-unilag-girls-raping-them-caught

Yesterday night, a young man, tagged as a
"serial rapist" was caught in the University of Lagos (UNILAG).
According to viral reports circulating in the university, they claim the alleged rapist had molested several students in the school... one of which was a virgin before the gruesome incident.

Everything you do makes a difference, but it is up to you to decide what kind of difference you want to make.
Found this funny...... giggles!

NwaNimo1:
See Moustaches....
Anambra Barbers - Fix up!

Chubby cheek, what's up swt?

Jennifer15:
Supported

Sweerie, I love your choice of words, it's encouraging too. Hardly can we see a young lady saying the fact of what matters here, not even minding the fact that you are also a lady. Please my dear, would like to have some words wid you.....Slide to my DM.
Thanks.

Letzdothething:
To date girls these days is like hard labour especially when you are trying to put your life together as a bachelor.

The major problem I have with a crush now is that she is broke, the second time we met she told me she had no transport on her. Am now wondering for how long will I be doing this kind of thing. As in am trying to put myself together and sometimes giving out as little as 5k to a girl would seem like heaven wants to fall.

The relationship just got started and am feeling discouraged already even though she's very pretty and I like her much I don't want t start what I can't finish.

Guys please how do you cope with demanding and broke girls?

Jennifer15:
... Don't live in pains, make it clear to her that you are still trying to fix ur life. U better do that before she renders u useless. Date a girl that has something doing abi u wan chop her beauty or na u be papa ni? No insult abeg.

Jenny baby had said it all ..... wow
am surprised & happy that this is coming from a young pretty lady. You ain't looking bad, those eyes of yours are charming.


Mr letsdowhatever, you don't give out what you don't have. As a matter of fact, If you continue doing so, when will it end.

Just a crush you say? not even a soulmate, Pls come off it.

I still believe that any woman that cherishes you for what you are & not who you are would never ask you for a dine ( i.e. if she knows your current predicaments) no matter the condition she might have seen herself.

Just be stable in whatever you are doing, cause women loves success in all ramifications and see them dance to your tune.

Damn, that's huge.

People say, Find good people & leave bad ones but it should be, Find the good in people & ignore the bad in them. Remember No One Is Perfect in This World.

SELENAqueensy:
Dangote, Amen...
But not timaya please.... Lol

Sweetheart, your stature is worth dying for. muah

barallanee:
Everybody saying is fun..am jux hearing.. With my ex,with my ex....it's all about ex...'EX'..if bathing with u was so sweet why dint dey stay....

Isaacvin:
i love ham die!!! but i usually pretend as if i dont enjoy it cos my ex cant do without it. *single now though*

The day u will go for a job interview & find ur ex as the CEO, u will understand why mathematics says find the value of X ��

Don't talk if you don't have any good thing to say.
Blame the internet for this, cause everybody has an access to say whatever they like at any point in time.

adadike281:
if he like, he should build it straight to my father's backyard, buhari is a wicked and an unrepentant terrorist.

Nne, if that's your stature that's displayed.... worths dying for.

For the fact that he told him the truth doesn't mean they keep malice, they know themselves. So y'all should save your breath.
Politic portrays : No permanent friend, no permanent enemy.

God is good

Diddy dirty money