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Women are always in the market scanning for the highest bidder. They are never tired. Even some take this spirit into their marriage scanning for the next fine rich dude they can ride in secret

How will the step father of that same boy feel? Imagine trying to stop ur son from becoming a step father when I'm a step father to your son

All these while he never reach 35
Grace find some people early sha

Will he still not steal and embezzle if he gets there
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Will this incident change his philosophy about public service and a need to leave a legacy since life is transient and he's living a second chance?
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No
Most Africans are incapable of noble living

What of the one being stolen by NNPC
What of the one being loaded on ship by nnpc bosses
Oga. Make we rest from selected crackdown
Until we here probe of NNPC officials, all these ones are mere media posturing

Time they would have used to train for programming, coding, cyber security and digital skill
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I can't blame them though...Before you blame them.... Think about these

I blame the society that praise corrupt people and corrupt politicians

I blame society that believes everyone is corrupt and must be corrupt to make big money

I blame the society that ridicule education and hard work as not a practical way of making real money

I blame the society that don't care how money is made but hail any kind of people who display wealth

I blame s society where minimum wage can't even take you home and feed you good 3 square meal

I blame society that believe only way to get woman is through buying her love.
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Yes our society is to be blamed, these young minds are reflection of how the society has conditioned them

They don't even deserve pension for all the atrocities they committed while in service

Wait for APC paid e slanderers to come and slander Peter Obi as usual

Mandate1:
try chop another tribe food first.

Igbos have variety. So Amala is not near our list of top food. Beta fufu plus ofe nsala is heaven made.

Of course I enjoy many Igbo food... That I criticize Abacha doesn't mean I don't enjoy others. But Abacha dint live to expectation.

Kukutente23:
24-18 is 9 in your own school abi
Abeg what's the name of that your school again

As an Oyinbo... Many of them start having boyfriend from 13 or 14, I even gave her 15...research shows that most of them get disvirgined by 15 and not even 18.....so look at the bigger perspective

Lol.. What does an 18 year old know about dating or leading a woman? At 24 the lady already has an experience of 9 years ahead of him. Then when did they even start dating, probably when he was still a minor? lol...cos they won't be called long time partner.

Boy must be thinking youthful exuberance is love. We can only hope the lady will be sincere and support him, cos she's obviously more experienced

There's a thing with footballers marrying early
I think it's the club and football culture that encourages that so as to allow them have emotional balance to focus on football.... Instead of being choked with sexual issue and relationship problems
And it explain why they end up marrying gold diggers cos they were too young to spot women nature.
Mikel getting to Chelsea then, and marrying still surprised me then, and it always the white women that quickly hijacks those footballer into married life, while the black ladies are sidechicks

Gbadugbakun:
So in the dream I was walking on the road with some guys, then a Nigerian airforce jet started firing missiles at us. We ran and the jet kept shooting at us.

Later it was just me alone running. The jet flew close and fired a missile directly at me, I ran and it exploded behind me, I wasn't injured. I just looked and saw the jet flying away and I woke up.

Nigeria jet following you and shooting you is a metaphor to mean your generational, family or village kind of issue is rearing it's head to destroy your progress and isolate you.

Take it seriously, if you fast and start praying, you will get more revelation in another fashion to confirm this Interpretation. The powers of your root is trying to fight you, and it has been monitoring you.
Oga. Now is the time to stop the way u are living and be more prayerful , careful and godly

wowcatty:
They’re not.
Fufu is Yoruba’s and made from cassava paste, stirred in pot over the stove, very soft to the touch and tongue.

Akpu is ibos and made from cassava paste, formed into balls, boiled and pounded in mortar, very hard to the to the touch and tongue.

I’ve noticed that they have started selling theirs too like we do by foodstuff.

I never knew though
This explains my new disinterest in fufu, while I din't know it's AKPu because it's too hard for my liking.
While growing up, it's definitely fufu my mom used to make by making it on fire as u described, and I used to enjoy the soft slippery texture and mild taste. But the once being sold around now is something else... Too hard, and the texture isn't as smooth and slippery. So na AKPu i dey chop thinking it's fufu....

ChildOfDoom:
UNIBEN, the dream of every South South indigen, was the school I attended, after attending a big boarding school. All for what?

I should have learnt a trade with the time and resources wasted.

During the rough years in UNIBEN, I had to do side hustle to see that I passed successfully. I had a sharp 2.1 from my department. All wasted now

UNIBEN is to be partly blamed for my misfortune too. It was there I learnt about bet9ja that destroyed my life for ten years. No thanks to mischievous students always talking about it. From constant patronising of bet shops, I got to learn about womanising to clear my head or frustration. This always made me broke. Then I learnt about online loan apps to feed my addictions. This was the height of it all. A good devout Catholic like me slowly turned bad. Thank God I didn't add drugs to it. I would have run mad by now

I shuttled between Sapele, Benin, Ughelli, Asaba etc to see to it that I secured a white-collar job that paid 6 digits. Interviews, screening, medicals, documentation etc. All in vain now

My addiction to betting, womanising and borrowing has finished me. Now hiding 'in a hole' avoiding creditors, torture or jail time as I reminisce on the good old days.

My C.V is messed up and my reputation gone. My result is now in vain as I won't get recommendations from my past employer.

Hmm. Over 2 million spent in UNIBEN (on feeding, books, fees, accommodation etc) in vain. I am no different from a primary school drop out now.

My good diction also in vain. Only internet fraud seems available now

You write well and effortlessly.
Since your life has a lot of events, stories and things people could learn from, why not start writing a book about your life , the failures, regrets, the good times, the struggle and all. Trust me there are millions of people in your situation, and there are people the book can also safe by educating them early in life. The book csn be something great that will come out from you . Hosting it on Amazon and other book sale site is quite easy these days and the passive income might help

wowcatty:
Ibos don’t have fufu, they eat Akpu.

Is Akpu and fufu not same?

opamoses1:
Oyinbos dont like fufu due to its smell even though cassava is originally from Portugal.

I tried Abacha once. Not my thing. It was like cold palm oil mixed with vegetables. I just picked the ponmo in it and left the rest.

Abacha is over hyped... Very so over hyped
In my university days, I had a room mate from Anambra, who always talk alot about Abacha.... The day he made it, I was disappointed

Mumu Nigerians who have been colonized and impoverished psychological will say Wike is working. That his stubborn drunkard type is what Nigerians need.

But he's busy destroying lives and livelihood of the poor without settlement and as well stealing lands for his generation. Yet they hail him
I don't have pity for the average Nigerian again. Some even say Wike will make a good president. Wike type that will be in jail in sane country. I doubt if Nigerians can ever be free from the chain of political oppression and poverty because they are too foooolish to know evil people once the person throw small corn for them to pick like chicken

But igbos don't like Amala and Ewedu
They used to talk down on amala + ewedu as a shitty combination.
They rather hail fufu + abacha
While Oyinbo just appreciated Amala and Ewedu as a great culinary discovery. This is surprising

It's just editing, Im sure if you are close to her in real life, it's not like that

Tinubu is the worst thing ever happened to democracy in Nigeria
He's a cancer and virus that must be flushed out
Imagine renaming our school with someone who barely have WAEc certificate. Someone who was a genocidal religious bigot and ethnic jingoist.. ..
Tinubu destroys and desecrate everything he touches

Yoruba culture is gradually sliding into the type the condone poverty and embrace poverty. What happened to speaking up and rejecting such mockery? They won't because some way, greed and lack of self worth is prevalent

This one na Oyinbo Yoruba O
See her facial expressions like those local Yoruba girls

This is not an attention-seeking stunt from my Igbo brothers; I genuinely admire a lot about the Igbo people and their bold, proud, enterprising culture. The word "proud" shouldn’t always be negative, as many assume with respect to the Igbo. Their daring confidence drives success where others wouldn’t dare try, and their cosmopolitan outlook fuels ambition for modernity, a quality that can create a modern society if visionary leadership understands how to tap this inclination

The Igbo rarely settle for mediocrity or poverty. They strive for the best, craving life’s finest offerings and pushing to improve their economic reality at all costs. This drive sometimes crosses boundaries, drawing criticism of desperation for money, but it reflects their relentless energy and optimism to succeed when given the right opportunities.

Yet, political powers and biases often restrain their spirit. Those wary of the Igbo overlook their immense capacity to contribute to economic prosperity. Their industrial nature could have powered Nigeria’s economy, making Igbo land the nation’s industrial engine—yet untapped by the government. A serious country could have built various Silicon Valleys from their technological genius and ability to make anything we deride as “Aba-made.”

Their success in trade, travel, and innovation sparks envy, fueling their taste for luxury cars, sprawling mansions, and vibrant cuisines. Their array of delicious African soups and dishes is a delight, tempting enough to marry their fair, stunning women—though my Yoruba roots still favor oily Egusi soup. Be prepared for a costly bride price, which might challenge your pursuit of their pretty, stylish women with culinary charm.

Perhaps their proud culture fosters many confident, independent women, who are shaped by norms valuing wealth and celebrating beauty. You can’t blame them—their beauty is nearly perfect. Still, I find their language thick and tough to grasp, but their musicals and dances? Pure magic. An Igbo band’s witty, metaphoric lyrics and wild guitar-flute symphony are a mesmerizing escape from life’s stress.

When I see them in communal group socializing, having fun, hailing each other in their loud, masculine tone with broad smiles, I can’t help but always smile in admiration. In that company, you can feel the zest of people who are satisfied with the reward of their hard work. It shows in the quality of their outfits, ambience, and proud, enigmatic carriage. Yes, this is my personal oitlook of the Igbos.

I wish Nigerian stereotypes about the Igbo would end. Their culture offers so much to our nation. Every culture has flaws and strengths—why not celebrate the Igbo’s many strengths and embrace our diversity in peace and harmony?

This one go just dey talk wet in dem no ask am

Factcheck0001:
so u think the same abure u see with wike will allow obi do anything in LP?


Politically obi is stranded now

Abure only needs money and recognition
The mistake Obi made then was to not understand the true intent and ambition of the people he was working with. Someone like Abure is the easiest to win over, a Tinubu would have won him over quite easily immediately he came to the party with money, land, house, juicy offers etc since he was still a struggling politicians. Sometimes u buy your way and place in a party. That's what Obi should have done and could have done it secretly like a pact between them. He could even identify few people who could give him future trouble or power tussle and settle them in meantime and also promise them juicy offers if their plans work.
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Now he may have to go do that same thing if he will have any chance of working with Abure... And that's if Abure is not completely compromised by Wike and Tinubu... Cos the man is desperately greedy to make it and belong.

carzeem1:
There's no labour party to return too. Bad blood between Abure n Obi means he will be heavily sabotaged in his presidential bid, also party has been heavily fractured.
As it stands, Obi can't muster enough northern support on labour which has been weakened from internal power tussle, greed, disloyalty and saboteurs.
The Governors of the states he won easily in 2023 won't fold thier hands and watch him run over them especially since labour controls only one state.

As it stands, Obi's can only be a deputy to Atiku, whose chances are also very slim but can be galvanised with the addition of Obi's online youthful base and the igbo community.

Atiku gave ADC a new momentum and I doubt he did that for another other reason asides his lifelong presidential bid so, stepping down for Obi is far from his interest.

Anything else will achieve the same result of
splitting votes to the advantage of the incumbent.

I will rather the votes is split than Obi come to play the second fiddle to Atiku despite the hopes of millions of Nigerian youth on him. Who does that. It's like intentionally killing your masculinity for a woman who wishes you death. That'self emasculation and committing suicide for Obi if he even tries that.
All of you guys who think he will do that are severely naive as to know who Obi thinks he is

flokii:
Their plan is to field Atiku in 2027 with a VP from South (preferrably SS).. Obi's case is just like that of a mice lured with cheese into a trap, they don't want another vote splitting like what happened in 2023.

Obi should use their secret plot to discredit the coalition by exposing the plans, and emphasizing how it's undemocratic and by letting Nigerians understand why the alliance is not based on any progressive democratic ideals and emphasize with points and proof why ADC is another APC type of coalition that happened in 2015 used to usurp and hijack power for personal aggrandizement since 2015 by APC.
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If he can achieve that, the masses have their own mind, the successs of amplifying the fact that ADC is another coalition of vulture will make Nigerians lack confidence in that coalition and the false naret that those heavy weight are important
And a strong imagery of why Atiku is another dull, corrupt, entitled octogenarian like the failed Tinubu and Buhari who just died, escaping probity after 8 years of destroying our country will go a long way to cement strong confidence on Obi as the only alternative

helinues:
Go and verify came back to be half truth or pure lies. At least I have been saving some video links of Peter Obi discussing economy. That alone would indirectly disqualify him because he doesn't know about the job he's aspiring for

Can you show us the video where Tinubu is elucidating his poltical and economic mastery. Just one aside from the rubbish agbado e kept saying. Even since he came, tell us one video of him itemising his plan and executing it with positive economic effect.
See ehn, if shame and conscience is possession, you truly lack it