₦airaland Forum

Cum4me:
Oga if Na this side you won look you no go enjoy your marriage oo no be by being a virgin but there's respect getting married to a Virgin

Then why are they celebrating non-virginity with 25 million. Why not do one small humble party and go and face their nemesis in marriage life

Dead no dey among.? Tell your AI to identify the dead ones

For your mental health. Avoid this match.
We are yet to recover from the Congo assault

Jakarta:
Since when did virginity status determines how much you spend on a wedding? Some will spend 6k to carry olosho others can spend 600k on same olosho. If it didn't dey it didn't dey, stop the broke thinking.

How do you equate wife to an olosho, a public cum dumping toilet. Is that the way you see your wife?

I read recently of a foooolish man, I say so, because he says he spent 25 million on a wedding while same lady was already impregnated by her boss, unknowing to him, until after the wedding. Now the marriage is over. Such moronic spending
Even if that amount was inflated, of course there's high likelihood he may have spent up to 10 million or more.
Where does this joy and satisfaction to spend such amount on a woman's wedding whose sexual mileage is comparable to a retired olosho. I can never see myself do that. Never even if I had so much money. It makes no sense.
A lot of men of this century truly lack ability to reason clearly and see they deserve honour and respect.
If I had that amount to spare for a wedding then that woman had better be a virgin and not only that, she had better be quality responsible virtuous lady.. If I will inflate the ego of a woman with a glamourous wedding show she must be worth the hype. Not that I will one day wake to regret my action.

Everything no be by noise. That's why there's what we call polygamy. Let them make polygamy a state policy. No Nigerian is going there to save them

Ibtxxo:
Wetin I no go see for igbo land.
My girl mum , him husband no pay her pride price and now the ndi inchie told me I must pay her mum own before I pay my girl.
Who does that?

Is her husband alive or not, even regardless,
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You will end up being the husband of both... Knacking mother and daughter. If you love urself run from that family because they are setting you up for that taboo sex.
Reason is because if you end up paying, psychologically it will affect you and the mum, your psyche will torment you that you have the right to her waist. And she too, when devil use her, she will see you as an alternative husband that can succour her when she's emotionally down or tempted. Oga run. Thats a generational problem you one enter so

It's like when the bible says a fool and his money are soon parted. One day he would wake up to question his fooolery when all the money is wasted on this stvpidity
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esnbrutality:
Sophisticated region of sophisticated Losers

Is this about region... Or about the blood of people. Wait enough. You will soon share in this terror of you don't repent of your wickedness and foolishness.

Nigerians love paparazzi. Everything na celebration and public.

The question I keep asking is this, why is it now that Tinubu seem to be lifting one finger in the fight against insecurity fight., just after Donald Trump threatened him.

I have never had hope in Tinubu, because he never stands for the people or any social justice cause. It's always about his croonies, winning elections by crook and, dirty politics that doesn't lift the people.

Just self perpetuating God father oligarch with no visible impact on the ordinary people
Insecurity is far the most important issue any reasonable government should take serious, people's life should not become and object of games and politics, but Tinubu doesn't care and will never have cared even if 500 was killed a day in the North, only until Trump came.
Nigeria has truly fallen to have heartless leadership

He recently moved to equip the forest guards with ammunition, I mean all the while, why wasn't this kind of initiative and energy. Why should countless lives be lost and Trump should threaten before he start fidgeting around in aimless activity.
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I will never respect him, because I can't associate one noble cause to him since I knew him other than building rascals and foot soldiers to sing his praise just for existing

meobizy:
All of a sudden, every SS 2 boy struggling with JAMB and zero experience regarding females is now an expert on 2face’s matter. I blame 2face for making things public. These are the same children who had no idea who Linda Ikeji’s baby daddy was until Stella Dimokokorkus exposed the individual.

Make I relax small laugh tire. Nairaland is good for my health.

See who's talking

Diamond098454:
running a family is not just for one person . It may bring the person down, it takes two to build a home and it two to tangle

If a wife can't help her husband who will she help?

You dey give me hope sha. Maybe hope dey about Nigerian women... B

Diamond098454:
this is family, this is home, husband and wife are one.

Well, I will give a woman a chance to prove me wrong to act that we are one, that's the point of my practice of not asking her to commit her money, I believe a reasonable woman will do the needful and if she won't, then we can only manage whatever I bring

Kwinesther:
You go advice tire, you never see anything. It is you men that are teaching these ladies not to love you and they have really learnt! On several occasions, you have proven it beyond reasonable doubt that women that loves and respect you the most suffers the most but you fear and respect women that shows you pepper.

All those our aunties that loved you men with everything they had, stood with you through thick and thin what was their reward? Annie had never known any man apart from 2face since she was 16 when 2face had nothing, he became a drop out and started impregnating different women before and even after their marrige she never left and no scandal whatsoever has been heard about Annie even though she is not perfect as no one is, what was her reward? DIVORCE... 2face affirmed that Annie really love him but he's scared because Annie loves him too much. As in you left a woman that loves you too much to be with a toxic and violent woman which Nigerian men claimed to be peaceful?

What about May and Yul Edochie and many others?, Same thing happened but you still expect same ladies after seeing all these to still give you men their all, you think they are fools or what?

Thats the cross Tuface will carry for his poor judgement.
Trust me , there are countless peaceful women Tuface could have married, I think the fame of the family and the senator status of Natasha got into his head and couldn't see red flags

Diamond098454:
If I earn more than my husband and we lived in a rented house. I won't send our kids to public school no no no

I will take care of every thing concerning our kids education, I will take full responsibility of myself and contribute 30 percent of our feeding but my husband should be ready to pay rent and take full responsibility of other basic things

Then you are a good woman. If from your volition you will decide to do all that. May your home and life be blessed. I thought it was hard for a woman to willingly see the need to help out while earning well in a family. We need more women like you because I've seen countless time where a woman picks up or ask to pick up those responsibility you decide to handle and all hell is let loose on the husband that he's no longer respected.
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In my opinion, a woman who should help will see that need without being told, and if she has to be told or cajoled, then one has not married the right woman

Banditry. The legacy of Islam and Northern leaders in Nigeria

SpencerForbes:
Why stress yourself asking? If she has a good head on her shoulders, she'll know you need to secure the bag and build that legacy for both of una.

Simple truth: A non-invested woman is a potential ghost. Any girl who isn't contributing to your growth/future will leave you. So, why wait? It's a game of chess, bro. Better to dump her first (or check her commitment) than to be left holding the empty bag when she eventually ports to a richer zone after you've lost everything.

My position is directed to partners in marriage though, not dating scenario

Modern women are not fit for marriage.
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The more modern, or the more western values a woman lives by, the worse fit she is for marriage.
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Men need to be careful of these women, their love ❤ battery can drop from 100 to 5% in minutes. Dont be deceived by the love.
You will cry, always be ready. Cos e go happen. They don't deserve your love, commitment and emotions. Me I don't even deal with them at all. I run from them especially when issues of love is concerned. If u want peace run from them....

The hurt and pain men get from wifing a single mother ehn....if na woman they would have been screaming and shouting everywhere
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I've also known for a long while that the worst attitude you will see in a bad woman is usually revealed when she's pregnant.
Na Why Natasha one finish our 2face be that. If 2face can endure this pregnancy period, ajeh he can stay happy after

JIGGERNAPPY:
Cho Cho Cho, the question is simple; are you married?

When your wife starts earning more than you, tell her to bring 50% of her big salary to support your poor ass and see if you will know peace in the long run

How about the Al ha Akbar part they chant when they slaughter people.
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The media trying to cover up the Jihadist dimension of the attacks. We can't say that part does not exist
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This is how media intentionally water down history

Amotolongbo:
To start with, are you married?

My idea is straightforward and consistent with a man who is committed to running his family within his means, I don't know why this idea brings questionings, when I'm trying to avoid trouble of a richer woman

Amotolongbo:
Funny enough, people who create this kind of discussion aren’t married yet and do not have any clue of how it happens inside marriage.
A man of reason will think of how to seize the opportunity to improve himself, increase his value and revenue through the support of the wife having a financial advantage than him.

Support of the wife as how?
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A woman who will support you, you will know, because you won't have to beg or tell her, and she won't carry shoulder or disrespect you. If those women exist congrats.
Even for me to accept money from a woman, it must be borrow. Which I will return. Because 80-90% of marital problem usually start when a man start depending on a woman to run the family.

Amotolongbo:
Funny enough, people who create this kind of discussion aren’t married yet and do not have any clue of how it happens inside marriage.

You would rather I asked money from the wife to live larger to her taste, so that she can wake up everyday as say she's the one feeding me and running the family.?
If na garri and ewa the 500k can provide, na the beans she go chop, if she can't, she's free to enjoy exotic dish with her money.

I always get this saying that African men are scared of successful women & women who earn more than them and I can't see myself do that even if it's true.
The reason some men are scared is because most women who earn more than their husband tries to pressure or make decision for their man to follow. If I was in that shoe, and I earn 500k and my woman earns 1million. My number one rule is to accept the money to run the family is 500k. In fact I won't admit any 1 million exist anywhere.
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So, the monthly feeding, savings, children schooling, maintenance, Transport, Rent (if I haven't built will) must be from that 500k and I won't demand or expect her to add 1 naira.
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She may add on her own volition, but the quality of everything we will live on must be on that 500k, and if she protest that 500k is not enough for the quality of food, school, or life she expect us to live by, na that time wahala go start. Because nobody can put my life in pressure and give me high bp, except she's ready to add from my money, and I must not hear any noise
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If my salary can only afford Eba and Panla, na the Panla we go chop, cos that's what I will provide. If the 500k can only afford public school, I will not go and kill myself and put the children in 300k school.
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So life is simple. She can enjoy herself with her 1 million. E no concern me. And you won't decide for me, it's what that 500k can afford we will manage. And I won't ask u one naira unless I want to borrow and payback for emergency

It will be great if Tinubuuuu is prosecuted , sentenced for 45 years and pardoned after 20 years later

Is this the fear of Trump or what
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But there's no Christian genocide, only church building genocide. Only Borno, 46 churches on renovation. Okay

HardMirror:
hatred for god? What god? The one that sits back watching porn when over 100k Christians are killed, but people still pray everyday to for protection? Lol. After prayer useless prayers, you will now call on tinubu to save you from bandits. Your actions and reality shows who is making sense here. Keep praying. I see how God has protected you guys so far. You can't even raise one single person bandits kill. Raise the Christians back to life nau. You serve a powerful god don't you

Oga be careful, so that you don't expend God's grace over you, so you don't meet the same end you are blaming Christians for. God is not dead as you think. You only don't know his ways.

And don't you use Christians plight or posturing to define God. Because true Christians are scarce, people are just using God thinking they are Christians, to God over 90% of Christians are not even on God side because if we truly are, all these happening won't be happening, corruption won't have defined Nigeria, because most Christians have compromised on every front, that's why these evil days are on us.

When true righteousness and repentance come, you will see the hand of God, till then, just see how things play out as God can permit the worst of situations when we are err and disobedient
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It happened to Israelites, they were killed, the house of God desecrated, disease and pestilence ravaged them, wild animals killed them, they sufferered, and taken to captivity. And God dint move a finger because they were warned and never lived righteously. Take God out of this, Nigerians deserve what we are getting because we have been fake Christians for so long. Our pastors, prophet, GOs, wealthy and influential Christians have been fake.

Is this the house burnt? This house seems fine and makes the lady look wise and the man look stupid.
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This is my own sentiment, for a woman to act that way to a man, she would have seen the man is truly stupid. And the man must be weak and must have sacrifice his own value, future , and respect for a woman he barely knows.
Tell me, who trusts a long distance relationship girlfriend with such huge money, a girl that is being smashed by more than two guys in your absence, how do you even expect such woman to respect u and trust your decisions for trusting her. Someone not ur wife o

Men have become vegetables and stupid these days in the name of love, some times we can't blame the ladies. Men are no longer men. Ladies see this and exploit it.

Stomoney:
Shut up APC

We, The ife east indigene support him
Osun is progressing
In Adeleke we trust

Congratulations if he's really working... Abeg no call me APC... make dem no go swear for u