Romance › Re: What is correct answer for a woman who is in relationship and doing this? (pix) by FreeSpirited: 12:00pm On Nov 05, 2025 |
SpencerForbes: Women seem to walk a tightrope with societal expectations, balancing what they want (satisfaction) with looking virtuous – society can be tough on women perceived as not fitting the role. They're smart and often want men to protect them, but not many men want to take on something that's kinda “general”
They've got sexual fantasies like anyone else, probably want sex as much as guys do, but might be cautious about showing it openly. They don't wanna be seen a certain way that limits their options, so sometimes they find roundabout ways – like getting involved with someone in their partner's family, friends or a total stranger.
Some guys who are into sex aren't great providers; others chasing big dreams don't have time for intimacy. It’s hard finding a sexually focused man that can really provide for their wives and children. (Majority of them aren’t ready to settle down). Women dealing with these mixed messages want stability and satisfaction. If they're feeling hot and their partner's not cutting it, they might use something like alcohol as an excuse that lets them follow their instincts without societal scorn and reproach.
That’s why majority of church girls once given the opportunity or excuse are always bad girls 😊 It smells chatgpt |
Romance › Re: What is correct answer for a woman who is in relationship and doing this? (pix) by FreeSpirited: 11:59am On Nov 05, 2025 |
Afriifa: I envy your critical analysis. Something that reads like a chatGPT response. . Be envying.... |
Romance › Re: What is correct answer for a woman who is in relationship and doing this? (pix) by FreeSpirited: 7:56am On Nov 05, 2025 |
Sign of a loose woman, who has no boundary I guess. A single woman may be excused, perhaps looking for a male, seeking attention, trying to get laid. But a Lady in a relationship in the presence of her boyfriend/man, that's a gross lack of respect for the man. Any man who allows that is a weak man. A very weak man. The woman will do worse and believe she can get away. |
Romance › Re: Why Does Nose Ring Makes A Woman Disgusting To Me? by FreeSpirited(op): 2:35am On Nov 05, 2025 |
tnerro1: I like the small pin one, but the truth is that it doesn’t fit all women Women love following trends. A sensible woman should be able to be herself instead of doing what everyone is doing |
Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Ifeoluwa Akindayomi Dies At Age 62 by FreeSpirited: 7:07pm On Nov 04, 2025 |
Mariangeles: I thought Pastor EA Adeboye was the founder of The RCCG. Pastor Adeboye was an interpreter for the founder. And Pst. Adeboye was a very young person before the founder died. |
Politics › Re: Thousands Of Armed Bandits March Through Bakori, Katsina State (video) by FreeSpirited: 9:12pm On Nov 03, 2025 |
Are they relocating to safety away from Trump or marching to show their strength? |
Christianity Etc › Re: This topic has been removed by FreeSpirited: 12:03pm On Nov 03, 2025 |
Saturnalia: If the Bible was inspired by God and written by Holy Men, then explain these contradictions:
1.) Who incited David to count the fighting men of Israel?
* God did (2 Samuel 24: 1)
* Satan did (1 Chronicles 2 1:1)
2.) In that count, how many fighting men were found in Israel?
* Eight hundred thousand (2 Samuel 24:9)
* One million, one hundred thousand (I Chronicles 21:5)
3.) How many fighting men were found in Judah?
* Five hundred thousand (2 Samuel 24:9)
* Four hundred and seventy thousand (1 Chronicles 21:5)
4.) When David defeated the King of Zobah, how many horsemen did he capture?
* One thousand and seven hundred (2 Samuel 8:4)
* Seven thousand (I Chronicles 18:4)
5.) How many were the children of Zattu?
* Nine hundred and forty-five (Ezra 2:
* Eight hundred and forty-five (Nehemiah 7:13)
6.) How many were the children of Azgad?
* One thousand two hundred and twenty-two (Ezra 2:12)
* Two thousand three hundred and twenty-two (Nehemiah 7:17)
7.) How many were the children of Adin?
* Four hundred and fifty-four (Ezra 2:15)
* Six hundred and fifty-five (Nehemiah 7:20)
8.) How many were the children of Hashum?
* Two hundred and twenty-three (Ezra 2:19)
* Three hundred and twenty-eight (Nehemiah 7:22)
9.) Jesus descended from which son of David?
* Solomon (Matthew 1:6)
* Nathan(Luke3:31)
10.) How did Simon Peter find out that Jesus was the Christ?
* By a revelation from heaven (Matthew 16:17)
* His brother Andrew told him (John 1:41)
11.) According to the Gospel of John, what did Jesus say about bearing his own witness?
* If I bear witness to myself, my testimony is not true (John 5:31)
* Even if I bear witness to myself, my testimony is true (John 8:14)
12.) Did Judas kiss Jesus?
* Yes (Matthew 26:48-50)
* No. Judas could not get close enough to Jesus to kiss him (John 18:3-12)
13.) Did Jesus bear his own cross?
* Yes (John 19:17)
* No (Matthew 27:31-32)
14.) Did Jesus ascend to Paradise the same day of the crucifixion?
* Yes. He said to the thief who defended him, Today you will be with me in Paradise (Luke 23:43)
* No. He said to Mary Magdelene two days later, I have not yet ascended to the Father (John 20:17)
There are more but I will stop here for now.
You will agree with me that a Book riddled with so much lies, errors & contradictions cannot be held as Holy & Sacred.
Emancipate yourself! Transcription error Scribal error And translation error can not invalidate God's word. . God inspired them to write down prophecy and events. . If few errors was seen while been transcribed from one language to the other, or when being preserved by scribes who entered the letters manually... You can't blame God Oga. . The Bible contains compilation of word of God spoken to men. The Bible is not everything about word of God. . The word of God is settled in heaven already before some was given to men or written down or preserved. The general message is never lost because there can never be an event that erode the General message. . The word of God himself came to the world. Jesus is the word of God himself. Jesus is the word. If you like use Bible translation error to reject the true word of God which is Christ. You will find yourself to blame. Jesus read old Testament. Jesus quoted Psalms, Isaiah, Deuteronomy and many other verses from old Testament. If you reject a book because after 2000 years Jesus Left you realize something was wrongly counted, or yes or no, has gave you enough ground to reject Him you will have yourself to blame in the last days. . Nothing in this world can be perfect. Nothing. Old Testament is a guide to Christ. It's a guide that reveal Christ. Now when you receive Christ, he can teach you himself, reveal scriptures to you, read scriptures to you from dreams and visions. These are encounters people have, which I have also had..... So receive Christ first that's the most important thing. Not Bible this, Bible that, Jesus himself is the word of God. He will teach you |
Christianity Etc › Re: This topic has been removed by FreeSpirited: 11:08am On Nov 03, 2025 |
Ourtruth247: Confirming the legitimacy of a belief
The way you know a belief or information is legitimate is when multiple independent sources corroborate it. You can't defend the legitimacy of your belief by repeating verses from the book from which those beliefs were derived from. It makes no sense
And what exactly do you even know about Christianity or its origins?
Do you know that there were lots of texts that were removed from the bible that not only contradict what is being taught today but also confirm some of the things I have been saying? For example the gnostic texts that talk about the Archons who use humans as a food source?
Do you know that Christianity was derived from a lot of pagan beliefs? Do you know that there is a lot of pagan symbolism in Christianity?
Do you even sit and question some of the things you do at church? During the holy communion you participate in eating the body of Jesus and drinking his blood? I will say that again in caps: EATING THE BODY OF JESUS AND DRINKING HIS BLOOD? This doesn't strike you as odd? You just accept it because your pastor has convinced you that it's normal? I will tell you who eats people and drink their blood: Reptilians and their hybrid bloodlines do that
Christianity was invented by the same people that control you today, and they made sure that their pagan believes where intertwined with it. These people have been alive (in multiple bodies through reincarnation) from the time of ancient Egypt and they have continued those practices today in their current bodies because they still retain their memories after reincarnation.
You all gather in church on Sunday to worship your God but have you ever wondered why Sunday was chosen? Sunday is the day of the Sun, originally dedicated to the sun god Horus whom the ancient Egyptians revered.
Even the Christian concept of the Holy Trinity mirrors the Egyptian triad of Osiris, Isis, and their son Horus the sun god.
Have you looked at the pope's hall at the Vatican? The seat of Christianity? I have pictures of it attached below. Why is this hall shaped like a reptile? Why are the insides of this hall designed like the face of a reptile? Why does the statue behind the pope look like a reptile?
You have no clue what you worship, yet you so staunchly defend it. This is actually quite sad. You really believe that the people who came to colonize your people and put them in slavery would actually share the truth with you. Do you think they are stupid?
Why are there hundreds of cases of pedophilia and sexual abuse of children at the Vatican? You'd think that even if the priests at the Vatican wanted to break their vow, they'd sleep with mature women, so why is the seat of Christianity obsessed with sexually abusing little children?
I created this thread as a means of sharing information to people who are open to the truth. If you aren't open to the truth or willing to examine my information objectively without religious bias, then leave the thread. You are derailing it and preventing others from gaining access to the information I am sharing.
Over three pages of nonsense from people who don't even know what they are arguing about It's really bold and disingenuous for you to conflate Catholicism to the Christianity Christ and the Apostles birthed. Oga Jesus don't know anything called Vatican as his creation for believers. You will only find yourself to blame if all you decide to know or believe about Christianity is the doctrines of the Vatican. Show me in the scriptures written by the Apostles or epistles that anything Vatican is mirrored or seen. Better humble yourself seek Christ yourself, and stop following the institution and dcotrines of man and of the devil himself to confuse yourself. Christianity is not Vatican or Catholicism. Encounter Christ and his word.... Then you will know what is true Christianity. May God open your eyes one day |
Christianity Etc › Re: Why Wasn’t Paul One Of The Twelve Apostles? by FreeSpirited: 10:56am On Nov 03, 2025 |
Cashylyx: Why Wasn’t Paul One of the Twelve Apostles?🙂
The man often referred to as “Paul the Apostle” wrote (or is traditionally credited with writing) 13 of the 27 books of the New Testament. 🙂
There are several reasons, but the simplest is that Jesus called all his earliest disciples from among his own people in the region around Galilee 🙂in what is today northern Israel🙂. Although Paul (then called Saul) may have been in Jerusalem during or shortly after the crucifixion, he was originally from Tarsus on the southern coast of modern-day Turkey, and it’s unlikely he would have spent much time in the rural villages of Galilee.
Worse, as soon as he learned of the nascent Jesus movement, he began persecuting it, condoning the murder of Stephen (the first martyr of the church) and arresting new believers (Acts 8:1-3).
But God had something different in mind for Paul. Sometime around 34 AD🙂 — a few years after the Ascension — Jesus appeared to him as he was traveling to Damascus, struck him blind, and uttered those famous words that would change the course of history: “Saul, Saul, why are you persecuting me?” 🙂(Acts 9:4).
As Paul later explained, “God had set me apart from birth and called me through his grace. He was pleased to reveal his Son to me, so that I might preach about him to the Gentiles” (Galatians 1:15-16; see also Acts 9:15, Gal. 2:7- . 🙂In other words, it was Paul’s worldliness — his Roman citizenship 🙂and Greek education together with his devout Jewish background — that made him uniquely positioned to become the “apostle to the Gentiles.” I won't quote many scriptures or any...... But if you understand Paul's letter very well.... You will know Paul's ministry is a testament that you and I can also be called by Christ directly to be an apostle or to be a messager as a witness of Christ to a people even if we have not seen Christ physically |
Politics › Re: Ground Operations, Air strikes could be part of attack on Nigeria - Trump (vid) by FreeSpirited: 10:52am On Nov 03, 2025*. Modified: 11:50am On Nov 03, 2025 |
tundegan: President Bola Tinubu should ignore Trump and his threats. Nigeria is a sovereign nation and we will not take orders from anyone on how to handle our internal issues. God bless Nigeria. You cant take orders but you can beg for money and handouts from IMF and World Bank... Your begger really thinks he has a say and choice in this matter |
Christianity Etc › Re: This topic has been removed by FreeSpirited: 10:46am On Nov 03, 2025 |
correctguy101: See what I was saying?
Jewish writers. And you believe the Jews? Even in history, those people have always been known for deceit and betrayal.. correctguy101: See what I was saying?
Jewish writers. And you believe the Jews? Even in history, those people have always been known for deceit and betrayal.. Hey, take caution in your criticism and viewpoint. . The Israelites were never called Jews in the old Testament, the word Jews is a coinage by the pagan world to referred to a race of the Israelites that were already scattered/notorious at the time of Christ, and that word is already corrupted or slapped with negative connotation in modern world. That has nothing to do with the word of God. . The Jewish men who wrote the scripture were not your ordinary man or some conspirators or political Ideologist. These are people set aside and sanctified and inspired by God among these so called stubborn race to pen down God's plan and prophecy for the world. So take caution. . God's mandate is different from human agenda. God is not a politician, and he loves all race and it has been affirmed he's no respecter of any race... You only need to understand your Bible critically to understand the place of the select Jewish prophets and writers in God's revelation of his plan for humanity. Same Jews of Christ period rejected the son of God. Same Jews led to the Crucifixion of Christ. So take caution in your belief in conspiracy theory. Don't jam God to those nonsense, even though modern day Jews are meshed in all forms of Satanism and new age nonsense. God's word remain God's word and no conspiracy can change it .... Everyone including jews, blacks, Americans, Europeans already have their end and judgement determined and prophesied in the scriptures and everyone who rejected son of God. So understanding is greatly needed to not be deceived by the new age corruption of the word Jew and mixing things up because of cynicism |
Christianity Etc › Re: This topic has been removed by FreeSpirited: 10:30am On Nov 03, 2025 |
Oldhead: The last paragraph is really disappointing for a christian that you are , this is why the op always talk about open mindedness, but you just want to quickly counter and attack, the Bible saying likeness and image is just metaphorical, simply meaning character and behavioral wise and not necessarily looks and physical features. “. When your mom sometimes tell you or a family member says “ oh, you’re just like your father , is it always in the context of looks? It’s just like when I was invited to a church and the pastor quoted the part of the Bible that said,” buy the gosepel but sell it not “ using it to justify selling a devotional to his congregation.
Then he said “ you all can buy it but you can’t sell it”which was total bs. The use of buy and sell in that scripture was metaphorical , buying means believing and acknowledging and selling meaning not twisting , distorting the gospel.
And you’re wrong , if God was male like you said and you argued that he created Adam in his image which is a male image , then how did he manage to get a female prototype out of a male body? That’s was why the guy that quoted you asked how you are sure that God was he and and op is trying to argue that what we know as God might just be energy and something genderless. . I am a Christian myself, but open to learn new things , I don’t always agree with everything the op says , but I always do keep an open mind To some extent you are right. God may be referred to as genderless. But at the same time, the scripture and Jewish writers paints a narrative consistency of a Masculine God, and he's referred to as Father, He, Our Father in heaven in heaven hallowed be your name. That's a language that paints gender.... However God is also called a spirit. And can nurture like a mother or express mother attribute. I am only approximating how the Jewish writers see God gender wise even though God transcends gender. You should understand humans need a pivot when using language and experience they are familiar with. You can't blame me, you can't blame the writers of the Bible for mostly creating a masculine image of God in the Bible. So if anyone asks you if God is male or female, while you know God is spirit, and in Spiritism there are male and female spirit, either in character operation or gender even though they can space shift..You will most likely see him from masculine lens... That's the limitation of human language and experience in typifying God who transcends anything we can use to describe him |
Christianity Etc › Re: When Praise Becomes Therapy: Why Nigerians Dance Their Pain Away In Church by FreeSpirited: 8:20am On Nov 02, 2025 |
In his presence there's fullness of joy... It's on you if you are sad and depressed when it's your turn in his presence |
Romance › Re: There's Absolutely No Need For A Girlfriend If You Remove Lust From Your Life by FreeSpirited(op): 11:58am On Nov 01, 2025*. Modified: 12:33pm On Nov 01, 2025 |
hunterezi: [quote author=FreeSpirited post=137310308]Can you back up this statement with bible
Titus 3:9: "But avoid foolish controversies, genealogies, arguments, and quarrels about the law, because these things are pointless and worthless". This is the most direct verse on the topic of avoiding "vain arguments." 2 Timothy 2:23: "Have nothing to do with stupid and senseless controversies; you know that they breed quarrels". This verse also warns against getting involved in debates that only lead to conflict. Proverbs 26:4: "Do not answer a fool according to his foolishness, lest you also be like him". This proverb advises against engaging with a fool in a way that would validate their foolishness, suggesting that sometimes the best response is no response at all. Where is the senseless controversy and argument about the Law ? I'm explaining and dividing the scriptures to show my faith in purity and rebuking fornication and immorality.. Where is my debate about support for law of Moses which the scripture warned. This is what happens when you don't understand context Oga you lot keep quiet when your faith is been preached and handled incorrectly. Imagine someone saying holiness and sexual immorality is not a big deal as long as ur heart is good and your response is to keep shut and do nothing. You have only failed the Gospel. You can't rebuke, correct, reproof using the scripture? You can't contend for the faith. You are a fake Christian using this Titus verse as excuse? This is what Bible says about dividing the scripture and correcting errors and standing for the truth using the scripture.... (1) - Rebuke, correct, teach 2 Timothy 3:16–17 (NIV) "All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness, so that the servant of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work." ( 2) - Always be prepared to Explain reasons Peter 3:15 (NIV) "…Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect…" (3) - Argue persuasively about Kingdom truth Acts 19:8 (NIV) "Paul entered the synagogue and spoke boldly there for three months, arguing persuasively about the kingdom of God." (4) - contend for the faith Jude 1:3 (NIV) "Dear friends, although I was very eager to write to you about the salvation we share, I felt compelled to write and urge you to contend for the faith that was once for all entrusted to God’s holy people." (5) - correct, rebuke, encourage 2 Timothy 4:2 (NIV) "Preach the word; be prepared in season and out of season; correct, rebuke and encourage—with great patience and careful instruction." (6) - Defend the Faith against error Philippians 1:16 (NIV) "…I am put here for the defense of the gospel." (7) - Refute those who oppose the truth with sound doctrine Titus 1:9 (NIV) "He must hold firmly to the trustworthy message as it has been taught, so that he can encourage others by sound doctrine and refute those who oppose it."
( - 1. Acts 6:9–10 (NIV) – “Argue” “Opposition arose… from members of the Synagogue of the Freedmen… [b]These men began to argue with Stephen, but they could not stand up against the wisdom the Spirit gave him as he spoke.”So tell me how did I violate the charge for us to rebuke, refute opposition, debate, defend, teach, and argue persuasively the word of truth. . You passive and Lukewarm Christians always look for an excuse to remain passive when we are suppose to be bring light, teaching and correcting errors. That's why the church if full of errors. . Someone is saying holiness and sexual purity does not matter, I'm using scripture to make him understand and encouraging him if God can help me overcome it he can help him, u are here saying I don't need to say anything and watch error fly? Oga.... Your Christianity can't influence anybody... |
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Romance › Re: There's Absolutely No Need For A Girlfriend If You Remove Lust From Your Life by FreeSpirited(op): 10:01am On Nov 01, 2025 |
hunterezi: This thing you’re doing is not cool from the standpoint of the scriptures. The Bible is against makeong arguments like this. Still waiting for your reference |
Romance › Re: There's Absolutely No Need For A Girlfriend If You Remove Lust From Your Life by FreeSpirited(op): 8:48pm On Oct 31, 2025 |
hunterezi: This thing you’re doing is not cool from the standpoint of the scriptures. The Bible is against makeong arguments like this. Can you back up this statement with bible verse ? .. Stephen Argued brilliantly, with his opponents Jude told us to contend for the faith Paul said we should study to show ourselves approve dividing the bible soundly Paul was said to be in the synagogue in act of Apostle arguing out the truth of the scripture... Would you rather we keep shut when error is being peddled in the name of Christ? |
Christianity Etc › Re: This topic has been removed by FreeSpirited: 7:45pm On Oct 31, 2025 |
correctguy101: Again, why don't we follow how it's written? Whatever else you say is your own interpretation. And if we were to go by our own interpretation of any word spoken, you know the mayhem words can cause?
It was clearly written as I said. Why his immediate descendants were doing evil is outta the topic of discuss. Or, was it not written the way I said? 🤨🤔
Let me repeat, the Bible says .... "God himself said that statement." That man has become one like them (whoever the "them" was referring to, you should already know 😉) and man was deliberately denied the chance to complete his transformation....
Oga, is God that said man has become like him and some other group, is he evil and corrupt? Because the reason man became like God (from God's own words) was man's eating from the tree of knowledge...
But by the dead gods, how does the word knowledge translate to evil and corruption where ya beliefs are concerned?
God abeg o 😁 Did God say the day you eat out of the tree you shall die? Yes that was the first warning. And that means Adam die. And since Adam dint die immediately physically, that means what that verse implies is that Adam became dead spiritually which eventually led to his physical death, as anything physically is first preceded by the spiritual side. .. Now if God says they have become like us, does it mean they have become spiritually dead like them, we know God and his host are not spiritually dead.... Since Adam became dead, (spiritually);and also became like them, of which became like them was explain to mean knowing Good from Evil, that means Men became dead, and men also obtained knowledge of good and evil. So should someone who can do evil, and can also do good and spiritually dead be alive to eat tree of life that will accord immortality? You think about it, does it make sense allowing someone whose capable of evil allowed to remain forever doing evil? He became dead can also mean he became corrupted.... Whichever way u play with the words.... It still mean man possessed the knowledge of evil, ... that should never allow immortality. Thank God God isn't capable of evil, because he's not dead or corrupted and he's a God of justice, love and mercy |
Romance › Re: There's Absolutely No Need For A Girlfriend If You Remove Lust From Your Life by FreeSpirited(op): 7:07pm On Oct 31, 2025 |
Thereedemer: Im sorry whats the work of bitter kola It's just like any other fruit with its specific God indued health benefits. .. Research has said eating bitter cola help to reduce risk of prostate cancer, it can also prevent digestion or diarrhoea issues, help libido, can also reduce pain and reduce fever. It's quite medicinal. U can google. Can cleanse the gut too |
Romance › Re: There's Absolutely No Need For A Girlfriend If You Remove Lust From Your Life by FreeSpirited(op): 6:17pm On Oct 31, 2025 |
SpencerForbes: Ever heard of grace and law Why was the law made in the first place. The just “ified” shall live by what
Read the book of Romans. When you understand, you’ll see that your righteousness is like a filthy rag before God. If you think you can keep the law, then so be it. You’ll be judge by the law. Let’s see how many you can keep and make sure you keep all of it because if you keep one and leave the rest, you’ll still be damned. 🚶♂️ The Romans you claim to understand is the same book that gave me understanding that I can actually live above sin. Have you ever read Romans 6, Romans 7, Romans 8 and Romans 12 in that order and understand all the talking points... I doubt you have never... If you do, you will understand walking in the spirit is the antedote to any sin. So if you are walking in the spirit how can you remain in sexual lust watching porn, masturbating or fornicating which is the fruit of walking in the flesh? If you ever read Romans 8 , you would have known we are debtors, indebted to living in the spirit and not the flesh because everything flesh is against the spirit which is against God. . Oga Read Romans 6,7,8 and 12 and come back let's talk. . And if Romans doesn't teach you you have power to live above sin which is available in the Holy Ghost through Christ death, then don't talk to me again. . . If Romans doesn't teach you that you have freedom from sin and if you decide to remain in sin you have become a slave to sin and not a free born, then I wonder what you have been reading. Me I do not want to be slave to sin, because I'm already a heir and son of God. And lastly when Paul said we are dead to sin in Romans, what do you think he's talking of? Swimming in fornication, greed, fight and lying? |
Christianity Etc › Re: This topic has been removed by FreeSpirited: 6:07pm On Oct 31, 2025 |
correctguy101: Don't hurry brother.
Look at the bolded and go read Yahweh's pronouncements when Adam ate from the tree of knowledge. It was recorded that "MAN HAS NOW BECOME LIKE US, KNOWING GOOD AND BAD". ...
He became like his God, knowing good and bad. Not evil and corrupt. And that was his crime, so the chance to eat what will give eternal life and complete the transformation was denied him. It's in the book. I didn't put it there. Straight to the point, that was how it was recorded. Are you saying after he ate the fruit he only possessed the ability to know Good and bad and didn't slide into corrupt and evil nature? If that be the case why did his immediate descendants start killing and doing evil if evil and corruption was not transfered to them from Adam... Oga, calm down when reading scripture, you can't prove your creator wrong, your eyes can only be opened |
Romance › Re: There's Absolutely No Need For A Girlfriend If You Remove Lust From Your Life by FreeSpirited(op): 5:59pm On Oct 31, 2025 |
SpencerForbes: Do you know why I love Jesus Christ? Bros J never discriminated or made anyone feel like hell fire is his. Jesus told one story of two people praying in synagogue, the first one was loud and explaining all his good deeds but the second one “acknowledged” he was a sinner. Who did Jesus Christ chose?
Secondly they brought an adulterous woman, if you were there, you’d have started quoting scriptures but bros J said he who’s without sin let him cast the first stone.
My point is from your first paragraph you were sounding like because you’ve abstained, you achieved the last height of transition but I’m here to tell you. Your abstinence is filthy and doesn’t guarantee your transition and instead of you to focus on sexual immorality ( which you didn’t answer my previous question) focus on doing good, make your heart right with God. Yes you’re going to sin but don’t dwell on your sin. That’s where satan comes in.
Let’s drop this holiness thing and focus on setting our heart with God and praying. With all sincerity, heaven is not even guaranteed for your preachers. Acknowledge you’re a sinner and pray God directs you and maybe you might have a chance. 🚶♂️ Without holiness, you have not even started doing business with God. You are still joking and deceiving yourself Oga. No two way about it. . Jesus told the woman go and sin no more. Hope you know. Go and sin no more, go and stop committing adultery. Jesus dint save her to continue. Jesus saved her to give her grace to stop sinning instead of to die in sin., because if she was stoned to death, they would have fulfilled the law.... She would have been damned as well as the hypocrites who did the stoning.... . While the woman may have repented, the hypocrites didn't repent because they felt bitter when their sin was also exposed after Jesus said who among them who have not sinned should cast the stone. If the woman failed to repent, of course, Jesus can't guarantee she won't be stoned to death subsequently. There's nothing like right mind in sin. . I John says, anyone born of God doesn't sin... And if you sin, beg God to restore you, not being arrogant by saying anyone who calls you out is self-righteous, that means you are enjoying your sin and not ready to forsake it. . In Luke chapter 13, Jesus also said those who died dangerous death were not worse sinners than those who escape dangerous death, he said unless those who escaped repent, they would also have same fate..... So repentance from our sin is non-negotiable from Christ perspective. Not even grace permits it. ...... Because sin can never make grace abound according to Romans..... .. Don't deceive yourself, when you are ready, ask God to help you. Tell him you want to stop fornicating, and little by little he will help you the way he helped me. .. |
Christianity Etc › Re: This topic has been removed by FreeSpirited: 5:24pm On Oct 31, 2025 |
correctguy101: Where did this FreeSpirited come from? He come aggressive pass dem Ebuka of back then. Maximus you have to handle this person abeg.
Well, if anyone were to be honest with themselves, the God that commanded the massacres of the old testament, slaughtering the old, young and even infants (animal sef no safe) is different from the peace loving God Jesus preached about. You expect God to give you eternal life but in Genesis he already withheld that privilege as he never wanted his supposed creatures to even have common sense. He got angry when their eyes opened and drove them away before they could eat from the second tree and gain eternal life. The records are there in your holy book. Or you wan show us anywhere in ya holy book where Satan was explicitly mentioned killing or sending someone to kill? The records only mentioned Yahweh and when Satan was even mentioned, he was under Yahweh's order to show Job shege. Only Yahweh sent angels to kill, sent lying spirits and spirits of deceit. Jesus spoke against all these and made it clear say na devil dey do all these things. So once again, the God of the old testament, is entirely different from the one Jesus represents.
It's like two extremes.
Anyhow you plan to twist the narrative to suit your beliefs is your problem. Know that most of us were once Christians and had once convinced ourselves with the same arguments. Knowing is different from believing. You don't believe one plus one is two, you know it.
If I go even pick any faith again sef, na to research more on Jesus and his God than waste my time telling people about the war god Yahweh.
Some of you even believe the narrative of your ancestors being devil worshippers.
It's okay not to know. See as una begin dismissing the question of who created God. It's one of those questions that exposes how arrogant you people are. Anyhow e be sha, na una know. If you have an enemy more powerful than you, and ready to kill you and your lineage and you now get a spirit, a god, or deity to fight that enemy for you, and he end up destroying the enemy and the spiritual powers of the enemy and his descendants, won't you be happy? Will you say why did the spirit you called killed your enemy? You want Adam to eat tree of life after corrupting himself? So that evil people can live forever? Inagine all the whites that killed Africans and enslaved them was still alive including all the evil people in the past. Is that a world you want? .. How would you want a world of evil or evil people to live forever, doing what? That's what you call for by saying Adam should have been allowed to eat tree of life.... .. Oga your leaving Christianity is nothing to celebrate. You only fell into deception, I once fell into that deception, but Christ helped me out by himself, and since, the only structure that I believe can help you know God is first yourself, second your honesty and real determination to know God. Three your readiness to follow God's will if God is revealed to you. Church won't reveal God to you because most churches have been hijacked and corrupted. . The question is, are you truly ready to know God? Are you ready to forsake your sin? Will you accept God's will and instructions? You can't click all these boxes with honesty and God won't reveal himself through his word. He will encounter you directly..... But where is the readiness and humility? You can't come to God with pride and full of wisdom.... .. Like who are you? |
Islam › Re: Why Do We Delay Repentance? by FreeSpirited: 5:00pm On Oct 31, 2025 |
Great question. Great question. |
Romance › Re: There's Absolutely No Need For A Girlfriend If You Remove Lust From Your Life by FreeSpirited(op): 4:56pm On Oct 31, 2025 |
SpencerForbes: Too much of everything is bad even as a little as drinking water. Do you know too much of water can be bad for our health🤔 But if we drink water in a balanced way it can help and regulate our organs. But if we have less water then it is dangerous to our whole system so you talking about pornstars is off grid.
Let me give you the gospel truth, if you can abstain for 100 years, please do but if your heart ain’t right with God, see you see hell. That’s not a prayer.
What’s sexual morality if I may ask, define the term moral sexuality🤔🤔🤔 So having sex out of God's law as you wish with right heart will will see you in heaven? Hope you know that wrong sexual behavior outside of God's will is addictive. That's what brought pornstars off the grid. The addiction. And you can become like them if you continue in your tracks unhindered, the difference is that yours may not be televised to the world, but you guys will have the same spiritual end |
Romance › Re: There's Absolutely No Need For A Girlfriend If You Remove Lust From Your Life by FreeSpirited(op): 4:45pm On Oct 31, 2025 |
SpencerForbes: So you're viewing abstinence as a form of devotion or offering to a higher power 🤔. I appreciate you highlighting the recognition of human vulnerability.
How does abstaining from sex serve God, though?
About marriage, if it happens, kidnapping isn't exactly a conventional approach in most cultures, hope you aren’t planning to because I don’t see it happening without girlfriend.
Sex is largely driven by biology, alongside emotional and relational aspects. Suppressing it long-term might have consequences, kinda like ignoring basic needs like hunger.
This approach might lead to emotional distance from the opposite sex, potentially impacting marriage if skills for healthy interactions aren't developed.
Sex isn't always needed, but for adults in relationships, it's a normal part of life.
Maybe reframing the topic from "girlfriend" to "sex" could offer a more clarity. Because I think if you’re ever going to get married, then you need to know your partner. Even in the Bible Abraham knew Sarah even before taking her in. 🚶♂️ Paul in Romans says, Presenting our body as holy sacrifice, devoid of sexual immorality is a compulsory and reasonable service unto God. Because we are the temple of God. And who ever defile the temple of God won't go unpunished according to Corinthians. .. In Revelation, Jesus himself said fornicators and sexually immoral can't make heaven...... No more argument.... . Marriage is not the ultimate of life. If you have success in sex and marriage and make hell, what's the point. No marriage in heaven. Sex is not mere biological issue... Sex impact our spiritual life, impact our behavior if not channeled properly.... And wrongly used sex like animal has both psychological, health and spiritual consequences. Ask porn stars if they are truly happy having indiscriminate sex? Research the truth of porn industry, those are the people who have sex like animal nature and what you will find out should tell you the truth.. It's a life of horror, drugs, addiction, disease, fear and demonic oppression..... . . OGA don't allow oyinbo philosophy deceive you. The earlier you allow God dictate your sexual behavior the better. |
Forum Games › Re: Give Yourself 1 Point For Each Thing You Have Never Done by FreeSpirited: 4:36pm On Oct 31, 2025 |
20 points...... . Haven't done anything |
Christianity Etc › Re: This topic has been removed by FreeSpirited: 4:26pm On Oct 31, 2025*. Modified: 6:12pm On Oct 31, 2025 |
Hhh4444: one issue I have with you people is throwing insults around when explaining something....The God you are addressing as "he",how are you so sure it's a male gender and not female. Op has always encouraged us to be open minded,but here you are already concluding God's gender because one religious book that was written by human being like you told you so...one thing that I have always learnt is to to keep asking questions and not accept everything you hear or read hook line and sinker. The scripture is not the thought of man. . The Bible said God inspired holy men to write the word of God. Peter said as holy prophets were moved and inspired so they spoke. All prophesy in the Bible was not written by the will of man. Timothy said all scriptures are written by the inspiration of God. . ... .. Genesis said God created Adam in his Image. That means Adam being male was the true copy of the image of God. But Eve was created out of Adam. If God was Female, he would probably have created Adam female and make a male out of his rib.... This is straight forward.... You can't classify Bible like the literature you read for your UTME |
Romance › Re: There's Absolutely No Need For A Girlfriend If You Remove Lust From Your Life by FreeSpirited(op): 4:18pm On Oct 31, 2025 |
SpencerForbes: So fasting can reduce libido anything that rocks your boat. So how do repress libido, by praying to God🤔 or you have another way you want tell us 
Sometimes I wonder why God didn’t make sex like puberty. When you’re married, then he gives you organs  🚶♂️ The goal is not to repress libido. Though the Bible says we should mortify our body, but before we can even do that, we have to first receive Christ, and yield our life to him. Then over time as we continue to fear him, and obey him, he will start working on us, and start helping us to resist things we couldn't resist. .. Then with our love for God, we will see ourselves fasting and praying which all allow God to supply needed grace to bring our body in subjection to him. This is why mere discipline don't work when tryin to stop sexual addiction, we need spirit energy . . Even if we fall back, once we are honest, and ask God for forgiveness and learn from that event, he will forgive and we will start our journey all over again, temptation will come to test if we mean our resolve and repentance, once we keep passing it, then more strength will be released... Till a time will come we now realise the need to seduce a woman or sleep with her does not even come to our heart..In fact it will sound dirty. That's the word abiding in us.. Substituting the mind of sin with the nature of Christ. |
Romance › Re: There's Absolutely No Need For A Girlfriend If You Remove Lust From Your Life by FreeSpirited(op): 3:40pm On Oct 31, 2025*. Modified: 4:19pm On Oct 31, 2025 |
RealityKings1: Whatever works for you. This preek is not for decoration  Some are in hospital, they can't even remember sex or any sexual organ, they are pleading God to just give them good health While some are battling sexual dysfunction, no matter the beauty or nude, their oga can't stand up again. So you don't have to be in those situation to realize you can live without your organ putting you in sinful troubles |
Romance › Re: There's Absolutely No Need For A Girlfriend If You Remove Lust From Your Life by FreeSpirited(op): 3:29pm On Oct 31, 2025 |
SpencerForbes: Okay sir. Let’s add alligator pepper and schnapps😂😂😂
Bitter cola enhances libido, improve erectile quality, increases stamina and boost testosterone.
I wonder how you’ll handle the libido and erectile quality when it comes😂
The issue I have with Nigerians is lack of research. We post first before researching. What else would you like to add😂 🚶♂️ Good protein Food is also major stimulant for libido, does that mean we shouldn't eat protein because we don't want to have sex? . Bitter cola won't be a problem if your eyes and heart is kept clean from lust and focused on God. . And if you are focused on God, you will fast occasionally |
Literature › Re: Nigerian Author, Lola Shoneyin Shares Her Picture At 24 Yrs Old Vs At 51 Yrs Old by FreeSpirited: 3:02pm On Oct 31, 2025 |
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