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Luedave:
Awww sori....



Its assumed guys unda parents are broke...




But its totally wrong to tink dat way

Its funny mhen!!! and its actually a very wrong way to judge people...


I feel sometimes its ideal we first remove our hrt from what we wanna get... relationship isn't business!!! so you shouldn't start a date already sizing a man's pocket and assessing his wealth!!!


that's fucking not fair!!!

My people, i had an experience today i felt like sharing especially to our ladies in the house. Its a piece of advice!!!
There is this lady who works with Fidelity Bank as a marketer though, when my office made me have dealings with fidelity bank, i got to meet her and we became close. Finally we had a date today. Though am in a relationship, didn't see anything harmful in hanging out and had no motives,twas only for fun. We got talking, and she said she would like to come see me in my apartment which i obliged. she then said she knows I'll be staying in a tushed up apartment and be all by myself if i wasn't lonely... then i told her i was in my parents house and that i still stay with them for the time been. Immediately i said that, her countenance changed, she summarized the date, and left claiming she cant even talk to a guy still with his parents nor have anything to do with him not to even reason a relationship.... I was shocked to my marrows...
Mind You...
Reasons i still stay with my parent's is cos am currently constructing my own two 4bedroom flat apartment and also the fair from my dads house to my office is like #50 so i felt instead of getting an apartment that would tk nothing less than 200k frm me, i rather put the cash into my site and finish it up while going from my family house for the time being. Thank God we making lots of progress and Dad understands and even encouraged that i stay there, though didn't tell this girl in question.
This was my experience today and it baffled me
Guys what do you think Ladies how market

peedeeasobie:
What is wrong with ur girl being free and relaxed?
What kind of mentality is this?

The fact that ur dad is even involved will make her to respect your relationship more, she wouldn't want to jeopardize cos of the respect she has for your dad.

I think you are uncomfortable because if you misbehave she will get your father involved!

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm,m

Jennifer89:
op there is nothing wrong with that just keep cool. you didn't mention that ur dad is a womanizer so why r u worried. ma hubby's dad called me everyday and he's still doing same now that I'm married.

thanks.... at least I have a living testifier...

izzieman:
1. Does your father call you on a daily basis?
2. Do you have a sister?
3. Did you have a sister who died?

My Dad doesn't call me on daily basis.... maybe perhaps cos we always see.... even when i was far apart he doesn't even call me like that sef....

We have just one girl (sister) in my family....

I dont have any sister that died!!!

pek:
op, reading your accounts so far, you are the one that has the problem. You're been unnecessarily unsecured.

I actually think you're right....

I think the problem is more of me than my girl or Dad....

I'll try and look inwards to know wah truly is wrong!

Luedave:
hahahahaha change which mind?




abi u wan chop cyber slap ni

This boy you don't have respect for elders abi Don't think am bluffing when i talk about changing my mind oh!!!
anyway

As an Elder.....




















































I Bless You....

vizkiz:
or what uh?
You'll stop me from tasting your girlfriend's boo*bs?

You wanna taste booobs huh
Gimme a minute
#Runs out to get Ogume#

[quote author=vizkiz post=35120899][color=#000099][i][b][font=serif]or what uh? You'll stop me from tasting your girlfriend's boo*bs? [/fo
You wanna taste booobs huh
Gimme a minute
#Runs out to get Ogume#

Eco2580:
Bros Dont consider immature commentators and their gullible advices, also dont allow devil to tarnish the image of your father to you.
Wait a minute, had it been it was your mother that usually call your girlfriend everyday will you suspect your Mum to be Lesbian or what?
Dont dare confront your Dad with such a allegation since you testified to us that he is a Man of God.
Such accusation is capable of destroy sanity in your family.
Just be prayful about it, almighty God will surely intervene.
Lastly i guessed your Dad love you very much or perhaps you are first born thats why the love has reflated to your future wife.
Personally my Mum usually call my fiancee almost everyday just to know how she is doing, am happy with that cos if your parent aint comfortable with your wife... hmm Wahala dey o!

Nb: am only male child in the family of 19

I get the ish.... thanks alot bro....

Only male child outa 19.

you must be kidding me!!!

vizkiz:
this Op, go kidnap me I swear!

BE WARNED....



that's my last warning!!!

stanvesco:
u no ur dad well,and ur lady well....
However shit happen!
Is ur mum alive?
My advise; ur dad may want to find out if u guys r staying 2gda(disciplinarian in him)
he may want to make d lady feel at home(the clergyman)
however if at any point the edo man in him surface.....broda kary ur woman n run oh,she may nöt even nö wen she fall in love,especially if ur mum aint around.

Just gv ur dad sumtym,he will reduce d calls.

My mum is around and alive and with him(my dad) and also, my girl is in Lagos while Dad in Edo.... so i know there isn't any ppo happening and i trust my Dad he cant do such and my gurl, I'll kill her....
but i feel he is excited.... but that excitement they spoil my matter....

Gwan2:
Is simple.....
.
Ur Dad have seen å wife material in d gal n dont want you to lose her....Also he wants you more committed in d relationship to her, daz why he persistently calls her.
.
Jus assured him of ur stance wit d gal daz if u rili want her ås a wife...and politely tell him ur nt comfortable wit his incessant calls.

Thanks.... I actually think that is my fear.... getting into her head.... cos i needed to maintain my status quo incase..... but now it seems is a family relationship and d way its going i don't have much choice!!!

baibijay:
Everyday is too much

Should be because you never took anyone home.
You know your parent. You should have waited till after you proposed to her.

My dear.... I will tell you i now regret taking her home..... i only did that cos i invited her for my sisters introduction just to enable her also meet my people including my parents. since then my life has never remained thesame. The funny thing is that even my mum holds her so close. in high esteem.... and its scaring me so much cos i feel d effect may be negative!!! i might be wrong tho

Luedave:
lyk fada like son...





but dis op is d greatest liar in



d



history of humanity

What made me a liar? because you quoting a girl..

please biko, if you don't have any better contributions better run outa my thread before i change my mind....

OkunrinMeta:
My advise, just relax. It should be funny to you na, since you are sure your dad is never going to try anything, just relax, i dont see any big deal, i would be making fun out of it in my own way if i were you. I think your dad is one of the special ones

Thanks bro..... but with all i just dey hope his ways wouldn't tie my hands in the relationship cos i notice he really approves of her.... and that makes me feel the girl will be too free or relaxed and you know ladies.... it will start entering their head and making them misbehave....

vizkiz:
I think your dad wants some
E still dey body!

shey you will come and help me give him u can perform the task too na...

Melahou:
You should be very concern about it...
No need confronting your dad instead talk to your girl and make her understand you are not comfortable...if there's a way she can ignore his calls most times to as to pass the message to your dad...
But be calm about it

well, from what i can be certain of about my dad is the d fact that he cant mess around. Outside being a very dedicated pastor, he also is a disciplinarian and he doesn't even condole rubbish from us. told is the only day we'll bring a girl to his house is if we sure she's the one we wanna marry. And after all my dad is in Edo state and my girl in Lagos. So i don't see anything happening between them. But am still concerned abt the calls on daily basis.

I happened to be in a relationship and for the first time i asked my girl to come meet my parents since we started getting serious and next year i have plans to get married to her. she met my parents three weeks ago and stayed in our family house for about a week before going back. Since then my Dad calls her like every day just to check up on her. This is beginning to get me worried as it is unusual of my Dad. FYI my Dad is a clergy man and very disciplined hence i know nothing is wrong negatively. But my concern is that the man is taking the relationship more serious than even me in the relationship. Am concerned and my girl is so excited about it. I had plans to talk to my dad but don't know if it is right. I feel my dad is making this girl feel supercool and am not comfortable with that. Please i need candid advice!!!


#Freest#

This guys had better be credible.... I'm sure more invites would roll in. Called someone and he said it is in batches. Lets keep hope alive. Success to those called and yet to be called.

has interview invites started rolling in? please let us keep us posted and keep this thread alive so we can help each other with informations. Thanks

dechidon:
Nestle does not reimburse transportation fare to anybody during their recruitment process.If u like go,if u don't like stay back.It might be a strategy to screen people out cos many people will not like to waste their tfare. Goodluck guys.

I know about Nestle but Nestle waters i have no idea about especially their pay package and all that. I currently work somewhere and needed to know if going is worth it. And being that it was listed for Nd holders too is a factor cos d pay may not be encouraging. I might be wrong tho...

is anyone aware of their salary structure ish or has someone one can ask to give us reasons to travel from afar please lets reply and rub minds

dechidon:
Its real,NW means Nestlé Water Abaji Factory Abuja,they produce Nestle pure life which is the name of their bottled water.If u think u can make it just go there and try ur luck.

Okkk.... Thanks alot. any info abt salary structure or working conditions

cheunphunmie:
I also got same msg but pls is it real and again they didn't include any contact number nd d description of their msg is not clear and the company's name is not included. Pls anyone with relevant info about the company. Thanks

Its real. it is a Nestle firm. I just checked and saw my application i sent to them, only that i won't be able to make the aptitude test cos of some engagements. Wish you guys goodluck...

Technician-Aptitude test invite
date: 12/6/2015
Venue: Abaji area council ICT center. Back of Abaji Secretariat, Opp legislative, Abaji, Abuja. By 10am
Be punctual.



please who got this same invite
Please anyone with relevant information as regards pay, working conditions etc should please share so some of us planning to attend can make decisions if the journey is worth or not cos i live very far...

Thank You

I beg to defer.... There can be love without trust. Am typing from experience. My current girlfriend, I love her but i don't trust her. My reason, two months into our relationship, she 'kissed' another guy (Atleast that was what she agreed to, perhaps to suit my ears) and though i forgave her, i have not been able to come and trust her. I Love her like no other, atleast if not just for that act i would have broken up with her.... But i love her somuch, yet, trusting her for that action early in our relationship is difficult. I still find it very difficult even till now. So i think the lady may have done something or acted in a way to arouse suspicion from the guy or to kill trust. Know that once trust is killed, to rebuild may take forever.

olathunde:
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Instead of you to comment you dey book space huh!
Well hope the lesson portrayed in the thread has been learnt by you

Imagine Our President Buhari had listened to advice like this and others....
Lesson: Never give up. People may talk or suggest, But if you Believe it, you can do it!

Imagine Our President had listened to advice like this and others....
Lesson: Never give up. People may talk or suggest, But if you Believe it, you can do it!

please was any experience hire invited too