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Hope Ajuran recover fast sha, please take good care of him o

Ajuran:
I was talking official language. In Somalia everyone speaks Somali, even the Bantus. Even though they have their own mildly bantu language which borrows many words from SOMALI.

-fyi this is Ajuran's wife, am continuing his legacy while he recovers

Ok. Liverpool YWNWA.

M4gunners where is mukina2

Come Leicester city.

Wake up its too early to start dreaming

M4gunners:
Sure 3points

Kai IYANGBALI nawa for you o

notoriousbabe:
Aged 30 na arugbo ojo{ancient of days}her toto go don dey squeeze mouth and dey stiff

Did you know what a squal is or a Thunderstorm

sauceny:
Thats what you get,from using cheap & inferior articles to build your house...

Any time my phone is boiling up, I go get very cold purewater and place the phone on it.

I stumbled upon this like 5years ago since then I couldnt find it again.

So no be only me one no they like to they ask for direction.

Woged2005:
I recently posted my personal opinions on '6 reasons that keep Nigerian ladies above 30 from getting married.'

[url] https://www.nairaland.com/2130732/6-reasons-keep-nigerian-ladies [/url].

I was inundated by personal messages from people who found the post very insightful and helpful - Thanks to all of you. However, there are some people who wanted to know from the side of a lady above 30 how Nigerian brothers can better understand their ladies above 30 in relationships.

These are my personal opinions (but I was there too):

1. Don't Take Advantage Of Them: Ladies mature faster and ready to be wives and mothers at 19yrs, on the other hand economic hardship in Nigeria has moved the eligibility of most bachelors to above 30, as they struggle with unemployment and financial stability. Religious houses (specially churches) cash in on this to draw members teasing ladies that husbands are scarce. In fact, some make it look like being a single lady is a problem, a curse, and an epidemic. Unfortunately, most ladies buy this argument & become desperate, competing for the few 'scarce husbands' rather than pursue other goals. The truth is that it's better to marry at 38yrs to a responsible man and have a peaceful, mature family than rushing in at 23 with an immature boy, living in hell and abuse afterwards. Not all ladies above 30 are desperate to marry just any man. They simply want to settle down with a responsible man. Respect that & prove yourself!

2. Respect Her Time & Schedule Too: You can no longer date a responsible woman above 30 like your under-20 college sweetheart expecting her to come over to your house every weekend to cook, clean your house, and wash your clothes. At above 30+ most ladies are already working, busy and stressed out too. Some are at management positions, doing well financially too. You have to treat them with respect as partners not as your 'little girl'. You cannot shout on them or boss them around because you are a man or demand they be by your side 16hrs a day. You can't be disrespecting them in the public, pinching and slapping their behind on the streets. They are no longer teenagers!

3. It's Not About S=ex: At above 30, bones are becoming stiff. The body is no longer as flexible as that of the teenagers and under 20s, energy is wearing out too. You cannot expect to make love to her 5 times a day turning her in 7 different positions just to fulfill your fantasy at the expense of her health as you did your little girlfriend in school. Give her a break! Appreciate and understand that she may say 'No' sometimes and resist being used to experiment your new styles. It doesn't mean she's stubborn. She's mindful of her health and well-being.

4. They know What They Want: At above 30, most ladies might have been in previous relationships.They might have tasted other men and have basis for comparison. Therefore, they know when you are good or or bad in what you do. Don't take it as a criticism when they make inputs to help make the relationship better even when they try to compare you to their Exs. I know it's annoying but please understand, and pay attention to her suggestions not the man she used in comparison. We like men who listen to us. , Arrogant man is a turnoff!

5. She May Not Be A Feminist: People who say a lot have a lot to say. Sometimes it's from wealth of life experiences, though we may misinterpret them as nagging or being talkative. We learn a lot from women who teach and talk too. Except for people who argue blindly on issues they know nothing about, a lady above 30 is often educated, has life experiences, and knowledge she would like to share too. She's not argumentative, or being opinionated when she airs her views in a discussion. You may disagree with her passions but please don't shut her up, try to lord it over her or call her a 'Feminist' (if she's not) simply because she airs her views and feel passionate about them. She sees herself as a partner and you treat her like a housegirl. It hurts when you do that! As a man control the argument and close it off when it begins to drag & derail!

6. Don't Criticize Her With Her Past Mistakes: She definitely has a past, sometime not too rosy. Don't keep bringing it up, or keep using it to bring her down. Yes! Perhaps she failed in some things/relationships, perhaps married before, perhaps has a baby, perhaps had abortion as a teenager or in college, perhaps slept with a boss or pastor, etc AND SO WHAT! Mary Magdalene did yet Jesus kept her as best friend! She shared them with you to have a closure & feel close to you and not for you to bring them up and use them to judge her when you quarrel. Please never ever call a woman 'Ashawo' (prostitute). This is what you men say that hurt women most. She did what she did out of love or desperation. It's a past! Now it's all about you, give her a chance to love you.

7. Don't Waste Her Time: Finally age is not on her side; body clock is ticking, body parts have started sagging, maternal instincts have kicked in. She wants to settle down and may be impatient when you want to date her for another 3 years without taking a decision. If you don't want her for keeps please don't waste her time either. Please 6 months is enough time to decide if you want her as your wife or not.

Remember if you marry a good woman above 30 you got a Jewel! You marry a woman with maturity to handle marital challenges and mostly likely a woman most likely to bring something to the table to help both of you build a life of your dreams together.


May This Year Be A Your Year of Proposal, Marriages, Childbirths and Career Breakthroughs!!!

AMEN

Ask me 10times na 3 I go pick

My biro cover and brothers surfer for this no be Small it pertectly fit elegancer pen cover

Ok

GEJ/FG organizing and disorganizing everything

nanyya5000:
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Please dont Tell me you are still booking space on page 7

God Bless Nigeria

babyosisi:
Snacks before bed
Cookies and milk
Lord I bind all the caloric content of these cookies and release just it's goodness unto my taste buds

Fear Not Of any Caloric content, " ti pepeye ba je okuta omi ne yio gi su"

babyosisi:
Beef burrito

This Beef Burrito go make sense o

babyosisi:
The tongue has creative abilities
You will not only come to the USA but you will excel and flourish in it
So shall it be

AMEN....... and me too.

babyosisi:
This just reminds me of Enugu / PH express road somehow
Only that the road is smoother and there are no police checkpoints
I need to take a nap now wish me sweet dreams

Who is driving you

Observing seriously.

Tandullceblog:
Hehehe, eya...I don't think he still has the apparatus to cheat again in this life but even in his next life, he will still never cheat again.

Who tell you, let him recover his joystick back and see if he will not return to his normal self.

kiwi992:
Hi All,


I'm not Ishan but I'm a bit shocked to read this:



Well friend, I'll tell you which part of Nigeria you are from, even though I'm a Kalabari (Niger Delta).  Going from memory as a kid whilst in Nigeria, I know that the people of Ishan come from the former Mid-West State.  Some of the Ishan towns are located very close to the North and indeed, very hilly - e.g Auchi, whilst one is located at the confluence of River Niger and River Benue (Agbede, I think).

The following are typical Ishan towns:

- Auchi
- Agbede
- Agenegbode
- Fugar
- Irua
- Jetu
- Uromi
- Ubiaja
- towns making up Owan Division

Please get to know your roots.  If a non-Ishan such as I, knows your roots as much as I do, then you should know it without even thinking about it.  By the way, Ishan is the name of the ethnic grouping as well as the language spoken there. 

That said, I used to know someone from Auchi who grew up in Nigeria before coming over here, yet claims he doesn't understand or speak Ishan.  Typical case of being in self-denial.  Bloody shameful, if you ask me.
 


kiwi992.

You just mislead the innocent guy with this rubbish you posted

SammyHoe:
I witnessed one back in those days; the geology lecturer slapped a student during exam practical.

Toluleke?

Futarians are always too serious and scared something may affect their CGPA if they misbehaved. I miss that school anyway.

Evestar200:
i want the mods to put this on front page

It can get to front page just try and rearrange the article it doesn't look readable

Bigfrancis21, Fulaman198, Seun Seun

OP you just impose your stewpidity on my and I was so low to open that your stewpid link you attached to your post.

Why the so much hate towards the Esan people by the Edo, I travelled to Auchi and met an Esan girl from Ekpoma but was advice to stay away from her by my friends and team members in which most of them are from Bini, Owan, Etsako and AkokoEdo on the ground that Esan people are very wicked, outsiders marrying from Esan is like signing your own death williling

Am a Yoruba boy not from Edo so I have to belive what they said; but I must confess most of the Esan girls I met are very beautiful

mukina2:
haterrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr oooooooooooooooooooo haterrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

Mukina2 Goan sleep ile ti su

Sorry o Ghana