@Ajileko

Duplex apartment is an apartment that is on two floors with an inside stairway connecting the two levels. so we are talking about a story building that will be inhabited by a family

I am aware that the factors that determine the cost of building a house include location, size, type of roofing material, finishing (tiles, types of doors and fittings) etcetera. As such, it is difficult to make correct estimate. However, without this estimate some of us wouldn’t know if they have the resources to venture into big building projects.

Could anyone help me with the Bill 0f Quantity of a 5bedroom duplex (not all en suite as it would be located at the Village). I just want an average quality but not compromising the overall strength of the house. I almost kill this ambition until I remembered the wealth of info in NairaLand

Note: building location is not swampy but strong and rocky.

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Love, what is LOVE?

There are three factors that influence the love or feelings that we have in our relationships. No matter how you look at it, to a man, APPEARANCE is very important. When a woman’s natural endowment is the right proportion…oh gooooush!…it is magnetic. It pulls the man close enough to see the handwork of God; often times it is what we refer to as LOVE. After appearance comes her CLASS; it could be education, fashion, carriage or her charisma. CLASS creates the esteem the man needs to present her to his peers as well his family members. It is her CLASS cum APPEARNCE that spark the fire that may even drive the relationship to the point of saying ‘I do’. The last but very important factor is ATTITUDE; it is the inner beauty that sustains and builds on the CLASS and APPERANCE to make a great relationship.
Relationships tagged as ‘made in heaven’ are those that have the three in right proportion. However, we hardly get all right and therefore we manage.

@Poster

Majority of divorcees end up finding them selves in a worse relationship. So, you have got to manage and be proud of what you have got; we all manage. You would be making mistakes if you compare her to you friends’ wives; they also may be managing. If you don’t like her fashion, change it. If she acts and behaves locally, help her grow. If she hasn’t got adequate education, do something about it. Get her to improve on appearance, class and attitude and see the love surge.

One love

I can still remember it like yesterday. The poor woman was pushing as the nurse kept on shouting ‘push push’. I have already made up my mind I wouldn’t come out until July 27th. Then came the ‘D-day’, she was weak and tired but she needn’t push as I just walked out of her. July 27 is the day the three (3) wise men went to visit Jesus in the manger; ‘do not quote me’.

@Moses-hola and Loyeruope

We are the three wise men in da house so far. I wish you guys the best things in life and of course to all da guys born in da holy month of July. One love

How does the system produce sugar mummies? There are so many married women with living husbands that are patronizing great number of gigolos out there. For a pregnant woman on the verge of marriage to go spend night with another man, bought gift, cook for him cum the wee hour Bleep…I think another future SUGAR mummy is in the making.  
@Poster
Love isn’t the driving force in marriage. Trust, understanding & compatibility out ways love; they provide smooth marriage even when the love (not biblical love but the kind we all know and practice) is long gone. You have sympathy on her because of her contributions in your life especially while life was tough on you. Any marriage based on sympathy is the type you manage for life; no satisfaction. I guess but for those contributions in your life you would have long gone; no waste of time talking about giving her a second chance. I wish you well if you insist to stay.

If you think you must get a degree to make it in life; check out Zuma, Nzeribe, Tupac & Tuface.
If you think only poor people do bizarre things; what of our politicians, sugar mummies and MEND.

Life’s cardinal rule is simple; you are what you think you are. If you must be ARISTO to make it, so it would be. But if you think you will make it without descending so low, so it would be. Most American musicians did not see the four walls of school but you & I sing their names everyday.

I blame our system that failed to produce independent graduates and also not providing enabling environment for the few that are independent. For the supporters of ARISTO, will you be happy to see your wife, sister or daughter indulge in it? lets preach what we believe

Going to school or being literate does not mean one must work. It means you are trainable and matured enough to follow the trend of time and apply knowledge accordingly, even to the running of the home. What the heck does anyone mean by saying he/she went to school so he/she can work? Illiterates work and some of them are millionaires. Bill gate dropped out of school as well as the founder of CCN. So going to school has nothing to do with working or not working; anybody can work.

I think it depends on the vision of any family. Some bankers give all their time to their banks while insurance babes are striving to meet targets. Nurses attend to the sick at nite while their hus have the pillows to romance. Teachers on the otherhand have all the time in da world; more thanks to the frequent strikes.

If there is total understanding and respect at home anything is possible. It has nothing to do with ego and control; just understanding. So many kids are fucking the maids while their mothers are chasing after money. I prefer my wife to work just because we have the means to care 4da kid(s).

Know what is good for your marriage and apply it; gender equality has its good and bad.

@ poster

Your faults;

You snatched your girlfriend's boyfriend which amounted to reaping where you did not sow.

You knew the guy was dumping his girlfriend for you, but you saw it as an opportunity

At your then age and grade you accepted a claimed revelation from an acclaimed born again.



Flimsy reasons;

Coming from a poor back ground does not make one bad, also some rich and responsible guys made it big from a poor back ground.

His not being prudent was partly your fault. You did not bond enough to influence him. Good couples influence themselves positively.

You entered the marriage with nothing to offer but poor influence from a broken home. It’s partly your fault because your future is in your hands and not dependent on your back ground alone.

The guy could not have changed suddenly from good to total lack of character, I guess you 'nagged' out the worst in him


Solutions
Leaving him will only compound your problems, believe me. Also allow your kids their right of growing in a peaceful home to avoid similar experience in their own marriages.

Resolve to make your marriage work and start to do 'all it takes' to make it work.

As an acclaimed Christian, you ought to know that nothing is beyond God; where is your faith?

Stop looking for solutions outside your home; the solution is within.

Start by showing him due love, respect and support. Marriage is not a bed of roses, remembers it is for better and for worse.

Take it to God in prayers and with hope that he will fix it. .

Finally, do something to help because you caused it.

@Sistawoman

your ways are not straight. Learn to condemn what is bad even if you indulge in it. your responses always give impression of a weird woman without morals

@poster

Be very careful; this is a life and death issue.

We always desire the best. It is normal but we often forget the cardinal rule; do to other what you what them to do to you. We think it is our spouse or friend that needs to be fixed not us. Hey! Wishful thinkers know that we reap what we sow, hence, if you what a good, lovely, God-fearing etc husband or wife starts by being a perfect friend or husband/wife. A nagging wife should not expect a caring husband neither should a drunk expect a humble wife. My advice is this ‘wish it but live it’

Hi folks,

It was great reading the many and divergent contributions from you guys. It really inspired my decision. I mainly considered the opinions of the people with personal experiences in driving/owning a new car; remember who feels it knows it. Often times we act on hear say in things we have little experience in. As I write this, I have paid N2.3m for a new Automatic Chevrolet Optra which is yet to be delivered due to its high demand. I can only hope to get value for my money; what else can a man do but hope for da best. I appreciate every contribution even as I wish Nairalanders all da best.

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Like in other developed countries, there are internally generated Toks in UAE. Though they can pass as new, people do not take pride in buying them. because of this, used vehicles are cheapest in UAE but it has a long route to Naija

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Hi Inspired_m, without further ado, let it fly for N2.2m. Sure buyer , I cldnt be more inspired

Hi,

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Hi,

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