emmysmartt: be wise if she is interested and willing to have something with you she will call you at all expense ....I have a broke girl like that loves me If other guys send her card she will use it to just to call me ...me no get time to dey beg for call or text .....guy sharp up....lol she is still dey test mode though... Before I can start to fund her she must prove and worth it girls call or text the guy they love or like daily ,
Thanks bro. I have made up my mind. I no longer communicate her and she hasn't even flash me. Meaning that she been dey target something else. Big thanks bro
Trayceey: you guys make it seem like only girls re broke. Guys are broke too. One broke guy is on my neck right now. Everytime he's crying broke broke broke. I already helped him with 20k but seeing the way you guys condemn girls on nairaland, I'm putting a stop to it. Was planning to give him 150k to start a business, but right now, I change my mind
haaa .. 150k to open a business? . Was he planning to be a wholesaler of donut?
maximusprime2000: op you are infected with lovid19 which had become symptomatic. u need to be reffered to emergency isolation center of Redpill within the confined of Nairaland /Romance section.
You played yourself by showing insecurity which is normal. And she also played herself with her lame excused. lol both of you are learners. If you know what a girl can do for love u wont be asking this. if you cant do "pay on delivery" then contines footing. before it ends in customized tears u might be lucky it get to ur turn one day or neva. To all those confused alpha males derailing the thread with needless trolls. i will advice u all to get busy.
The matter too much, i was trying to be brief. She has initially started with loosing her android phone which she calls big phone.. i just tire... I no just wan regret. Even the girl she gave me her number to contact her via WhatsApp began to ask me for airtime on the first hello.
Chidonc: If you think planning to settle down and own a car makes you rich. You are still upcoming. Besides been broke is bijective. If the only asset you can boast of is a car probably less than a million naira, living in a rented apartment paying probably #200k and planning to settle down. You are still broke, no hard feeling.
Chidonc: Is she a student, is she working or totally dependent on her parents? You can't be expecting a girl totally dependent on her parents and not really milking men to always have call card to call you. If she is owing, why not clear the bill first then add her more card to see how long she calls you with it. The fact you are bothered shows that you yourself is broke. Enough of all those stories of if she truly love you ,she will find a way to call you. The only woman that will do that just weeks into a relationship is your mother.
On the other note bro, am not broke. A guy who is planning on settling down and owns his car and even lives in a two bedroom apartment in Amuwo Odofin Festac Lagos State isn't broke. No hard feelings
Chidonc: Is she a student, is she working or totally dependent on her parents? You can't be expecting a girl totally dependent on her parents and not really milking men to always have call card to call you. If she is owing, why not clear the bill first then add her more card to see how long she calls you with it. The fact you are bothered shows that you yourself is broke. Enough of all those stories of if she truly love you ,she will find a way to call you. The only woman that will do that just weeks into a relationship is your mother.
I noticed that the way u begin a relationship tells how it may be. She works and has been working for years. That's y am worried.
yanabasee1: Be careful...... You have to know that, no matter how broke a woman is...If she truly loves you....She will break protocols to make you happy....
I would love to thank everyone here . I welcome every criticism as well.
I recently met a girl whom i tried having good relationship with. She seems to be nice and lovely in her conversation. Though one thing led to another that made me started talking with her on phone but we haven't seen each other. She is so keen to meet me since we began to speak only on phone. Long story short; I noticed she doesn't call at all. All she does is to flash me. She always say that she is broke. She even recently told me that she borrowed airtime from her network provider and yet to payback. My concern is that am not comfortable to begin dating her as a broke girl because i sense that it may turn a normal beg beg relationship if i key in to it. She turn out to always be apologetic in everything even wen I breathe. Guys pls , do i begin funding her or do I just back off. My intention isn't to bleep her but to start something serious. What do u say?
LadySarah: You must feel very accomplished with yourself. I hope life is perfect for you. That you don't ask for help from anyone again.
You and those who support you are the reason why ppl make demands before helping someone, why ladies are called Olosho. I hope you don't have a girl child in future cos it will come around.
Ladies, reserve some respect for yourselves. There is dignity in labor.wgat you can't have today will be yours tomorrow. Hardwork, God and contentment.
ReorxTohGan: what's wrong in raising her,regardless of her having a man already??...at least if he had surplus,will he die if he gives her the money??..some guys and their stupid logics ehn!!
Ladies should learn to be contented with what dey have. If ur man can't give u, why not manage ursef stop dat biko
meobizy: That’s a new one. I wonder what they’ll come up with next. Does “Instagram user” sound too razz? Nowadays they are called Instagram models, influencers, stars, etc. Mscheew. I don’t know about anyone else, but I am a PlayStation adventurer. Counter my point if you think I’m wrong.
PlayStation? I no fear u o. FIFA 20 ps4 match tournament if u no fear me too. 20k in each 6mins. Are u game?
tnerro1: you will be surprised how long u can last with exercise and know how to control ur breathing. When bleeping, breath deep and release slowly, when u do this often, it will increase the amount of time u can bleep .thou it takes a lot of practice to master it. It’s like doing breathing exercises or yoga
The real GOAT is here. Tuale baba... My cap on the floor for u don't mess wit this legend. Porn master
SweetCunt97: This one weak me. But males are stronger than ladies and can easily fight off a woman who wanna molest them. @Op why didn't you fight? Or she bigger than you?
Was she on top throughout the rounds? Cos if u took control at any point, it not rape.
HE GAVE HER NO CONSENT. Try and understand. He was totally manipulated in the act. I have experienced that though am also looking forward to having another one
DenreleDave: Sometimes back, naso I arrange appointment with a lady.. Naso the lady come, entertained her, she carry her smoke. Naso Night reach as we don do do finish, we kon sleep. Trust mi, I cud not sleep overnight. Yes I could not sleep.
Why? I have always read bad news on nairaland about someone dying in another person place and it always ring in my mind.. Funny enough, the Mumu girl is not feeling fine and she never told me... I was almost awake through out the night checking if she is breathing, anytime I suspect she isn't breathing, I tap her and she moves her body... I was even regretting why I had to let her sleep overnight sef but don't blame me, she came in the evening...
Guys, if you get any arrangement with a babe, Pls let her come in the morning and leave that same day, probably evening.. The enjoyment una wan enjoy for night can be enjoyed from morning to evening.. Don't let any lady sleep over.
Disadvantages:
1. She may be possesed (medium risk)
2. She may die in your care (very high risk). Imagine a young guy like you with a bright future going to jail for something u don't know about....
3. You yourself may die.. Hence endangering the lady's life. ...
I remember going to Lagos high Court for affidavit and I saw prisoners about to be judged coming down from the prison bus, mehnn. I knew some of them are accused of what they are not guilty for.... I pray that none of us will be unfortunate ooo
Nigeria is already messed up.. Notin like doing a forensic autopsy to ascertain the true cause of the death...
Advantages of avoiding sleeping over :
1. Peace of mind, even if she wan die overnight, she go go die for her place but pray she wunt die after leaving ur place for home
2. Any style u wan do in the midnight can be done in the day time
3. Her moaning wunt disturb the neighbors cox them go dey busy
Be wise.. Don't ever invite a lady over, any sex u Wana enjoy overnight can be enjoyed during the day..