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Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by luminouz(m): 12:05pm On Jun 25, 2020
Chidonc:

grin grin grin
If you think planning to settle down and own a car makes you rich. You are still upcoming. Besides been broke is bijective. If the only asset you can boast of is a car probably less than a million naira, living in a rented apartment paying probably #200k and planning to settle down. You are still broke, no hard feeling.

Definitely not a guy grin

No guy talks this way to another on his own legit hustle.
Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by luminouz(m): 12:07pm On Jun 25, 2020
ArticleBeast:

Shut up kid. You can't expect a jobless girl to start behaving like a working class girl. You want birthday gifts, constant calls, and all, date a working class girl not a girl that is jobless.

Btw that guy is 10X more alpha than you can ever be but Nairaland has give broke boys a new language they chant everyday.
But you're wrong. The girl has been working g for years!!! She ain't jobless...read the story
Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by MedicH: 12:11pm On Jun 25, 2020
Chidonc:

Lack of comprehension is actually a big problem.

Stupidity is when you ask a jobless young girl out yet you expect her to behave like a working class lady. Fool.


I totally agree, inability to comprehend simple conjectures coupled with bitterness and toxicity are the worst of problems.

May help find you
Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by SideIncome(m): 12:17pm On Jun 25, 2020
oga, every lady wants money. money makes love easily. fund her account with call card if you truly love her but dont just go out of your way. You can also learn a good skill like affiliate marketing and use the proceeds to start a beautiful family. if you are keen on learning. check my signature

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Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by maximusprime2000: 12:21pm On Jun 25, 2020
purples25:
When a woman is not even up to the level of your male friends who you help with money, giving money to her becomes .........extortion. Why be with a woman who cannot even qualify as a friend, who you would help without feeling 'used'. Why are you with a woman that is less than a friend to you?

When you have a negative view of women, then you will view even doing your duty towards your WIFE as patronising a gold digger.

Lol in relationships, both people invest in each other. If you feel she is not up to fiancee or wife that you would invest in by helping her out, while SHE ALSO INVESTS IN YOU...... then why are you with her in the first place.

certainly he still want the cookies but can't say it. we all want the cookies but when it comes to marriage, we want something more. anyway ur pix is cute but badly edited.
Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by purples25(f): 12:39pm On Jun 25, 2020
maximusprime2000:


certainly he still want the cookies but can't say it. we all want the cookies but when it comes to marriage, we want something more. anyway ur pix is cute but badly edited.

Yeah could be just cookies. BTW, thanks for the compliment.
Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by fuwaski(m): 12:54pm On Jun 25, 2020
Chidonc:

grin grin grin
If you think planning to settle down and own a car makes you rich. You are still upcoming. Besides been broke is bijective. If the only asset you can boast of is a car probably less than a million naira, living in a rented apartment paying probably #200k and planning to settle down. You are still broke, no hard feeling.
Hahahah... U no well ooo grin
Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by fuwaski(m): 1:16pm On Jun 25, 2020
foxxydude:
OP with which credit did she reply your sms if she is owing her network?
Am so xo surprised when i got her reply

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Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by fuwaski(m): 1:18pm On Jun 25, 2020
SweetCunt97:
There's always whatsapp call.
The matter too much, i was trying to be brief. She has initially started with loosing her android phone which she calls big phone.. i just tire... I no just wan regret. Even the girl she gave me her number to contact her via WhatsApp began to ask me for airtime on the first hello.

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Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by dumininu01(m): 1:28pm On Jun 25, 2020
Where una dey jam all these kain girls sef grin grin... I no fit o if she can't afford airtime and from your write up she's working if she can't afford ordinary airtime bro think about it o... God no go shame us
U can be friends with her tho
Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by dumininu01(m): 1:31pm On Jun 25, 2020
lefulefu:
u guys dating girls that are always bothering about stuff like send me airtime
my iphone is damaged send me money to buy new iphone
my rent is due i need money
my school fees is due i need money
una dey try oooo cheesy
as soon as a girl starts bringing up issue of money and stuffs i don lost interest
she should go bother her sugar daddy about stuffs
where dem dey jam those kain girls sef grin grin
Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by dumininu01(m): 1:35pm On Jun 25, 2020
seanwilliam:
there is no benefit in being a friend with a lady.. he would pay more than he bargained for if he did that... if you are not in relationship with a lady, no point in being her friend..even if na your co worker, keep it on business line only..


It is of NO benefit In as much as the OP is not after her pussy




And let's face it, it is plain stupidity to pay for what you didnt owe.. even if her debt is 50# she should find a way to clear it.. ok as yourself, when she borrow the card, who did she use it to call? Any lady demanding for petty petty things at the initial stage of relationship is sending a red flag..


This is 2020, there are some dumb excuses to ear.. how on earth will a working class lady be borrowing card to call? And indirectly begging for card?
And u will be surprised the kind of rubbish the girl will be spending her money on o..
I just hate the fact that most guys on here are alpha-simp..

Can a guy ask a lady for card at that point? Afterall they are advocating for equality..


And one God forsaken idiot up there was saying " na the man go meet her na ".. u go read some posts and you will feel like strangling the life out of the posters...



Relationship in 2020 should be 50/50 shares .. u do me I do u na hin supposed be..




Run away from a broke girl...
Exactly if she sees money she would use the money to get other things while looking for a guy to clear her debt...

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Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by AfroKnight: 1:39pm On Jun 25, 2020
lefulefu:
u guys dating girls that are always bothering about stuff like send me airtime
my iphone is damaged send me money to buy new iphone
my rent is due i need money
my school fees is due i need money
una dey try oooo cheesy
as soon as a girl starts bringing up issue of money and stuffs i don lost interest
she should go bother her sugar daddy about stuffs

Thank you. Me that I’m still a sugar daddy in training. She can’t come and kill me.

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Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by Dreciousoreva01(f): 1:39pm On Jun 25, 2020
mr poster all i can say is that you should be careful.she might be sincere or she might want to scam u, but if you truly love her,give her the benefit of doubt.Be careful tho,no do pass urself
Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by Nobody: 1:39pm On Jun 25, 2020
luminouz:


Definitely not a guy grin

No guy talks this way to another on his own legit hustle.
exactly. You are smart bro
Chidonc and xavfra are females. no cap

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Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by fuwaski(m): 1:43pm On Jun 25, 2020
boiz2men:
How is she owing

Who is she calling with the borrowed card

grin grin

One chance
Smartest
Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by Nobody: 1:57pm On Jun 25, 2020
dumininu01:
where dem dey jam those kain girls sef grin grin
probably na dem dey show d babe say dem too get money so hence d babe will start making demands cheesy

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Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by Nobody: 2:02pm On Jun 25, 2020
Chidonc:
Is she a student, is she working or totally dependent on her parents? You can't be expecting a girl totally dependent on her parents and not really milking men to always have call card to call you. If she is owing, why not clear the bill first then add her more card to see how long she calls you with it. The fact you are bothered shows that you yourself is broke. Enough of all those stories of if she truly love you ,she will find a way to call you. The only woman that will do that just weeks into a relationship is your mother.
Youre either a simp or simi
Choose one
Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by maximusprime2000: 2:04pm On Jun 25, 2020
op you are infected with lovid19 which had become symptomatic. u need to be reffered to emergency isolation center of Redpill within the confined of Nairaland /Romance section.

You played yourself by showing insecurity which is normal. And she also played herself with her lame excused. lol both of you are learners. If you know what a girl can do for love u wont be asking this. if you cant do "pay on delivery" then contines footing. before it ends in customized tears u might be lucky it get to ur turn one day or neva. To all those confused alpha males wannabe derailing the thread with needless trolls. i will advice u all to get busy.

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Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by dumininu01(m): 2:12pm On Jun 25, 2020
lefulefu:
probably na dem dey show d babe say dem too get money so hence d babe will start making demands cheesy
That's true tho grin grin.. From what the op said the lady in question is working so how she can't afford airtime is baffling me tho
Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by fuwaski(m): 2:15pm On Jun 25, 2020
maximusprime2000:
op you are infected with lovid19 which had become symptomatic. u need to be reffered to emergency isolation center of Redpill within the confined of Nairaland /Romance section.

You played yourself by showing insecurity which is normal. And she also played herself with her lame excused. lol both of you are learners. If you know what a girl can do for love u wont be asking this. if you cant do "pay on delivery" then contines footing. before it ends in customized tears u might be lucky it get to ur turn one day or neva. To all those confused alpha males derailing the thread with needless trolls. i will advice u all to get busy.
Thanks a bunch... Highly appreciated
Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by Nobody: 2:15pm On Jun 25, 2020
dumininu01:
That's true tho grin grin.. From what the op said the lady in question is working so how she can't afford airtime is baffling me tho
the girl just wants to chop him jor cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy and brag to her friends how she ate one mugu"s money cheesy
Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by HeavenlyCherub(f): 2:16pm On Jun 25, 2020
Chidonc:

Thank you. I actually don't take their comments to heart. Do I blame them, NO. When you are raised by healthy parents you turn out great. When you are raised in a toxic family you most times turn out toxic. If your father always beats up your mum, it won't be a surprise if you do same to your wife and vice versa. From most of the comments, you can deduce the kind of family they are coming out from.

It’s so sad. A lot of them sound very abusive just from what they say. It scares me. I always tell my younger brothers to treat women how he would want other men to treat me. It’s not easy raising the male child. I can only assume bad experiences have made them that way or something was lacking in the homes they grew up. Honestly for me. If a man shows he can go the extra mile,I will submit, I feel safe as I know he has my back in tough times and I will also have his. I will do more for the home. Women are simple, when a man pours into that women she will reciprocate. You get what you put in. Most people want to be the head but they cannot lead. Being the head doesn’t mean a woman should extort you. One that genuinely loves you will also reciprocate. Relationships is give and take. Love, Support, communication and understanding.

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Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by Nobody: 2:16pm On Jun 25, 2020
AfroKnight:


Thank you. Me that I’m still a sugar daddy in training. She can’t come and kill me.
cheesy cheesy cheesy

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Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by dumininu01(m): 2:18pm On Jun 25, 2020
lefulefu:
the girl just wants to chop him jor cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy and brag to her friends how she ate one mugu"s money cheesy
Probably cheesy cheesy
Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by Elimon(m): 2:19pm On Jun 25, 2020
had a girl like that..I call, she flashes every time..not until the day i saw her pu*sy and i hit her very well for two days..
later She calls..I busy or don't pick at all
All i am saying is give her a reason to call u..something worthful..
Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by Samakus(m): 2:24pm On Jun 25, 2020
livebyday:
[s][/s]

To find out the truth ? You are a very hungry frustrated liar

It's boys like you that can't even afford to recharge 200 on his own phone

No man who makes money legit wastes it and what you described is total waste


I don't understand your frustration bro and I sincerely wish you peace.

May you find peace even in the midst of gnashing penury
Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by maximusprime2000: 2:25pm On Jun 25, 2020
fuwaski:
Thanks a bunch... Highly appreciated
uwc plenty plenty
Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by SweetCunt97(f): 2:31pm On Jun 25, 2020
fuwaski:

The matter too much, i was trying to be brief. She has initially started with loosing her android phone which she calls big phone.. i just tire... I no just wan regret. Even the girl she gave me her number to contact her via WhatsApp began to ask me for airtime on the first hello.
Red flag. You should date someone willing to contribute to reach you. Date someone who puts in effort for you... That's what u men tend to ignore, you simply overshadow everything.

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Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by Xavfra(m): 2:32pm On Jun 25, 2020
Descorts:
exactly. You are smart bro
Chidonc and xavfra are females. no cap



grin grin cheesy shocked shocked

Freedom of choice and speech.......
Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by CuteNbad(m): 2:42pm On Jun 25, 2020
fuwaski:

On the other note bro, am not broke. A guy who is planning on settling down and owns his car and even lives in a two bedroom apartment in Amuwo Odofin Festac Lagos State isn't broke. No hard feelings
back this up with proof or stfu!

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