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Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by seanwilliam(m): 2:45pm On Jun 25, 2020
Vickho6:
At the beginning of the relationship,,, I do most of the call... You know that how desperate you gonna if u want something.... So it get to a point I don't call nor chat cos I do it on a purpose to see her reaction... To ma surprise she was pleading that I should please reply her text and call.. she will call me and we do talk for 40-50mins . Without sending her airtime.... So bro if she truly love u she won't use her broke stuff as an excuse.. Be wise and shine if eye,, u can clear half of her debt and see what will happen
Iwo ma tun gbe tuntun dey oo grin make he clear the half of the debt? Chai!

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Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by seanwilliam(m): 2:48pm On Jun 25, 2020
HeavenlyCherub:


It’s so sad. A lot of them sound very abusive just from what they say. It scares me. I always tell my younger brothers to treat women how he would want other men to treat me. It’s not easy raising the male child. I can only assume bad experiences have made them that way or something was lacking in the homes they grew up. Honestly for me. If a man shows he can go the extra mile,I will submit, I feel safe as I know he has my back in tough times and I will also have his. I will do more for the home. Women are simple, when a man pours into that women she will reciprocate. You get what you put in. Most people want to be the head but they cannot lead. Being the head doesn’t mean a woman should extort you. One that genuinely loves you will also reciprocate. Relationships is give and take. Love, Support, communication and understanding.

lol, naija ladies no dey disappoint.. grin

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Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by seanwilliam(m): 2:50pm On Jun 25, 2020
maximusprime2000:
op you are infected with lovid19 which had become symptomatic. u need to be reffered to emergency isolation center of Redpill within the confined of Nairaland /Romance section.

You played yourself by showing insecurity which is normal. And she also played herself with her lame excused. lol both of you are learners. If you know what a girl can do for love u wont be asking this. if you cant do "pay on delivery" then contines footing. before it ends in customized tears u might be lucky it get to ur turn one day or neva. To all those confused alpha males derailing the thread with needless trolls. i will advice u all to get busy.
lmao... grin

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Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by seanwilliam(m): 2:58pm On Jun 25, 2020
luminouz:


Definitely not a guy grin

No guy talks this way to another on his own legit hustle.
leave the idiot... in this present Nigeria, if you living in a good area, u furnish your apartment, you own a car and u pay your bills without begging then you are PERFECTLY doing ok.. and u will be surprised when u actually see the moniker u quoted in real life..MOST people wey dey live affluence online are directly opposite of their claims in real life

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Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by TPound(m): 3:01pm On Jun 25, 2020
fuwaski:
I would love to thank everyone here . I welcome every criticism as well.

I recently met a girl whom i tried having good relationship with. She seems to be nice and lovely in her conversation. Though one thing led to another that made me started talking with her on phone but we haven't seen each other. She is so keen to meet me since we began to speak only on phone. Long story short;
I noticed she doesn't call at all. All she does is to flash me. She always say that she is broke. She even recently told me that she borrowed airtime from her network provider and yet to payback.
My concern is that am not comfortable to begin dating her as a broke girl because i sense that it may turn a normal beg beg relationship if i key in to it. She turn out to always be apologetic in everything even wen I breathe.
Guys pls , do i begin funding her or do I just back off. My intention isn't to bleep her but to start something serious.
What do u say?


"Am" enen owing my line?!!!



Run!!!!
Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by luminouz(m): 3:03pm On Jun 25, 2020
seanwilliam:
leave the idiot... in this present Nigeria, if you living in a good area, u furnish your apartment, you own a car and u pay your bills without begging then you are PERFECTLY doing ok.. and u will be surprised when u actually see the moniker u quoted in real life..MOST people wey dey live affluence online are directly opposite of their claims in real life

Lol..no mind am jare...the babe wan annoy people ni
Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by Imiete(m): 3:21pm On Jun 25, 2020
Run for your life too
Relationship suppose bi 50/50

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Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by SavageMaster: 3:54pm On Jun 25, 2020
fuwaski:
I would love to thank everyone here . I welcome every criticism as well.

I recently met a girl whom i tried having good relationship with. She seems to be nice and lovely in her conversation. Though one thing led to another that made me started talking with her on phone but we haven't seen each other. She is so keen to meet me since we began to speak only on phone. Long story short;
I noticed she doesn't call at all. All she does is to flash me. She always say that she is broke. She even recently told me that she borrowed airtime from her network provider and yet to payback.
My concern is that am not comfortable to begin dating her as a broke girl because i sense that it may turn a normal beg beg relationship if i key in to it. She turn out to always be apologetic in everything even wen I breathe.
Guys pls , do i begin funding her or do I just back off. My intention isn't to bleep her but to start something serious.
What do u say?

Hey!

She may have money management issues. Some people make money but they somehow remain broke and indebted even after working for a while.

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Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by duduade: 4:41pm On Jun 25, 2020
fuwaski:

I noticed that the way u begin a relationship tells how it may be. She works and has been working for years. That's y am worried.


Please look for someone better
Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by Sweetgirlmimi(f): 4:42pm On Jun 25, 2020
HeavenlyCherub:


Chidonc I like the fact that you don’t let toxic masculinity rule over your relationships. You will have a happy marriage. We don’t have many men who are leaders. Your response to that question shows maturity, leadership and provision. You are not a simp as the other commentator stated. Not many good men are left

If you are single why not take his number and kick from there

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Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by duduade: 4:43pm On Jun 25, 2020
seanwilliam:
Iwo ma tun gbe tuntun dey oo grin make he clear the half of the debt? Chai!

Looool


God will help us
Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by duduade: 4:44pm On Jun 25, 2020
dumininu01:
Where una dey jam all these kain girls sef grin grin... I no fit o if she can't afford airtime and from your write up she's working if she can't afford ordinary airtime bro think about it o... God no go shame us
U can be friends with her tho

I am damn surprised

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Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by Sweetgirlmimi(f): 4:45pm On Jun 25, 2020
Godoverevery:

so because you did that and it worked for you ....you think that will work for him??
He should clear her debt ....like seriously.
you think every lady is like your babe.....wat worked for you might not work for him bro.

That is her point of excuse u shut it first to see what next
Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by Sweetgirlmimi(f): 4:45pm On Jun 25, 2020
foxxydude:
OP with which credit did she reply your sms if she is owing her network?

MTN is giving free 10 SMS everyday due to Corona

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Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by Skmoda360(m): 5:08pm On Jun 25, 2020
mmars:

simp
You read my mind bro

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Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by godwinjessica: 5:09pm On Jun 25, 2020
5 mistakes small YouTuber makes|make these changes


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Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by Nobody: 8:25pm On Jun 25, 2020
Skmoda360:

You read my mind bro
When his supposed babe see s sugar daddy the idiot will know whats up
Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by foxxydude: 9:36pm On Jun 25, 2020
photon3106:


MTN free SMS bonus cheesy

OP should just do what his mind tells him. Left to me, I'd send her airtime sufficient enough to clear her debt and have left over then see whether she would call with it since OP's proof of love lies in her phone calling.

How u take know the network?

Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by foxxydude: 9:38pm On Jun 25, 2020
Sweetgirlmimi:


MTN is giving free 10 SMS everyday due to Corona

Did the op mention the network she was using?

Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by photon3106: 10:14pm On Jun 25, 2020
foxxydude:


How u take know the network?

Na the only network wey sure pass for the freebie. 9mobile and glo no dey offer am.

You feel me? grin

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Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by Zabiboy: 10:20pm On Jun 25, 2020

Some guys sha.....
Why did you guys have to insult yourselves to prove a point angry ...to even think that d insults started as early as 7am is d annoying part...
I always tell people to EMBRACE THE POWER OF SILENCE....NOT EVERYTHING DESERVES YOUR REPLY....
Anyways to the OP, you should be wise enough to know what to do now....
Choose wisely...This is 2020.
GL cool

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Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by Benwallt(m): 10:24pm On Jun 25, 2020
She is still gonna leave u las las. Only 2% of the female gender is worth spending your money on. You will regret it if you go ahead, believe I am talking from experience.

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Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by Torie8(f): 4:21pm On Jun 26, 2020
fuwaski:

The matter too much, i was trying to be brief. She has initially started with loosing her android phone which she calls big phone.. i just tire... I no just wan regret. Even the girl she gave me her number to contact her via WhatsApp began to ask me for airtime on the first hello.
Fuwaski

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Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by fuwaski(m): 4:58pm On Jun 26, 2020
Torie8:

Fuwaski
What have i done?
Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by absky5(m): 6:50pm On Jun 26, 2020
Chidonc:
Is she a student, is she working or totally dependent on her parents? You can't be expecting a girl totally dependent on her parents and not really milking men to always have call card to call you. If she is owing, why not clear the bill first then add her more card to see how long she calls you with it. The fact you are bothered shows that you yourself is broke. Enough of all those stories of if she truly love you ,she will find a way to call you. The only woman that will do that just weeks into a relationship is your mother.
I disagree with that. My girlfriend calls me more than I call her..... Don't be a simp

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Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by maximusprime2000: 10:54am On Jun 27, 2020
when a girl is not ready for marriage, she believe every guys that come along only comes for sex thereby start billing you cos she is not ready to be committed to you. funny enough a neighbor, street, ex dude is digging the downtown for free lol

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Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by Nobody: 10:51pm On Jun 27, 2020
fuwaski:
I would love to thank everyone here . I welcome every criticism as well.

I recently met a girl whom i tried having good relationship with. She seems to be nice and lovely in her conversation. Though one thing led to another that made me started talking with her on phone but we haven't seen each other. She is so keen to meet me since we began to speak only on phone. Long story short;
I noticed she doesn't call at all. All she does is to flash me. She always say that she is broke. She even recently told me that she borrowed airtime from her network provider and yet to payback.
My concern is that am not comfortable to begin dating her as a broke girl because i sense that it may turn a normal beg beg relationship if i key in to it. She turn out to always be apologetic in everything even wen I breathe.
Guys pls , do i begin funding her or do I just back off. My intention isn't to bleep her but to start something serious.
What do u say?
be wise if she is interested and willing to have something with you she will call you at all expense ....I have a broke girl like that loves me If other guys send her card she will use it to just to call me ...me no get time to dey beg for call or text .....guy sharp up....lol she is still dey test mode though... Before I can start to fund her she must prove and worth it girls call or text the guy they love or like daily ,
Re: Help Me Decide If Am Safe From Her (photos) by fuwaski(m): 11:34pm On Jun 27, 2020
emmysmartt:
be wise if she is interested and willing to have something with you she will call you at all expense ....I have a broke girl like that loves me If other guys send her card she will use it to just to call me ...me no get time to dey beg for call or text .....guy sharp up....lol she is still dey test mode though... Before I can start to fund her she must prove and worth it girls call or text the guy they love or like daily ,
Thanks bro. I have made up my mind. I no longer communicate her and she hasn't even flash me. Meaning that she been dey target something else. Big thanks bro

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