My Gurus, thanks for your insights which I have learnt a great deal. This thread as refined me from my no ball man to a man in charge recently. Thank all.

Pls help me on this matter.

There is this Lady we met on social media and fast forward w met and thing went smooth. Our agreement was to only date and would not lead to any serious engagement in the future.

I noticed one thing in her, she has this guy she is also dating who she plans to marry but I never care. I once told her to stick to the guy but she refused. Said that she didn't want to leave me. Tho, she gbadun my "Konji" wella.

The issue is, she had an issue with d guy and she gave me total concentration for the past 5 months and I use d drills learnt here on here wells

But recent she met another guy which she told me and I wasn't moved. What I now observed is this:

Since the new guy came, she has stopped doing the usual way, even she won't chat me on social media, she would expect me to chat and even when I chat her, she only drop only a line in response.

Tho, I have stopped calling her and not chattg her like before, even when I see her missed calls, I won't return her call.

This lady just last week suddenly showed up in my house unannounced, I was surprised but didnt show it
Until I later found out that she came cos she needed money from me, though I gave her d money and she left , since then she returned to no call, no chatting.

How do I handle her better cos it make me sick?

Thank you

This is great insight into blogging. Thank you.

Permit me to say, I have tried setting up mine blog, even a website in the past but got frustrated due to lack of know how.

My intension is to setup for earning through various affiliate marketing. I wouldn't know if you can be of assistance +training.

Won't mind to have your email for a better discussion on necessary commitments. Below is my email:

cnfbay@gmail.com

Thanks.l

Vickwinners:
The dream of every blogger is to build a wildly successful blog.

But...

Sometimes, starting out as a new blogger is you find out the task is not only a bit overwhelming sometimes you can become really confused considering the myriads of information you’ll have to deal with for a start.



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[quote author=Vickwinners post=67283822]The dream of every blogger is to build a wildly successful blog.

But...

Sometimes, starting out as a new blogger is you find out the task is not only a bit overwhelming sometimes you can become really confused considering the myriads of information you’ll have to deal with for a start.
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In this post, which is my answer to questions from readers an[/url]d other new bloggers, I have listed out 6 of the most important tips for new and old bloggers that will help you create a wildly successful blog..

With these tips, you should get a head start on your way to creating a wildly successful blog.

Alright then. Let’s get started..
This is a summary of what you’ll learn below.

Know your 4wh: why what when where how.
Know your audience.
Write content.
Write content.
Promote.
Sell.

Okay. So… So. Many people been asking like Victor what’s the best blogging tips for new bloggers.

Now I will try to answer this briefly in this post. The number one tip I will give any new blogger is this…

1. Know your 4WH.

Your 4WH is your What. Why. When. Where. How.

It’s like asking yourself, What do I really want to do? Or achieve with this stuff I'm doing?

This answer helps you understand your motive and then streamline your actions towards achieving it.

So for instance if my motive is to blog so I can make money blogging. I will just write it down. Then ask myself, why do I really want to do this?

This leads us to the second W: Why? Your why is your purpose. It’s what is going to stir you when you feel like quitting.

Many people give up on blogging and other digital business too soon because they don’t really understand their why.

We’re not going to let this happen that’s why you’re going to really ask yourself, what’s the purpose behind my blogging.

If it’s all about making money online so you can further your studies or get better accommodation for your family, you have to write it down.

The next thing is When: This talks about the timeline for achieving the objective of your blogging.

Here you ask yourself, with my level of knowledge for instance, at what time can I comfortably achieve this?

You don’t have to tie yourself to any time. All you need do is create a powerful timeline that will keep you committed to reaching the goal.

After that we’ll talk about the fourth “W” Where: this helps you understand where the majority of your effort will be focused.

As you already know, blogging is done online so understanding this helps you put in place the necessary software and hardware appliances that will help you operate from online.

So for instance you will get your tablets, smartphone and laptops ready. Plan when you should use alternatives like public computers, business centres when necessary etc.

Then the very last component is the “H“: H stands for How. It answers the question, how am I going to really achieve these blogging objectives?

This is where you’ll set up a blogging schedule. Like for instance, schedules days and hours you’ll write, days you will promote across social media, other blogs and platforms, Days you will finally sell etc.

Affix a target expectation to each of those activities. So for instance if I promote my blog across social media for this number of times within this week, I should be able to reach this number of people.

Or if I do this consistently at so and so time, I will have that. This briefly explains how you will achieve the laid down goals.

And you should write this down. Improve on it where necessary. And make sure you follow it every single time you’re engaging in any of your blogging activities.

[b]2. Know your audience. [/b]OK now the next thing to do is getting to know your audience.


Depending on your goal set out in H1, you should be able to know which audience will help you achieve this goal.

So let’s say you’re trying to become a professional blogging coach for instance, you will want to target website owners, small businesses and other blogging enthusiasts with your posts.

Same thing for someone planning to make money blogging through advertising. You will want to create posts that will bring in your target audience to your blog.

3. Write contents. Y[/b]es. And for the non initiates, content is your blog updated. Be it videos, podcast, graphics etc, whatever you will be updating on your blog that’s content.

So to be able to create an outstanding blog, you must write content that is great, well researched and positioned towards achieving a particular objective.

You don’t want to write content for writing sake right? So before you get started, ask yourself, based on my 4WH, what’s the objective of this content? What do I want to achieve with this?

This will help you measure the impact of the content at the end of the day. And with this, you will understand if the content has achieved it’s aim or not.

From there if it’s not attained it’s objectives, you can decide the next line of action to take. Whether to tweak or make it better next time.

[b]4. Write content. Yes. This is the second sub heading I’m writing about contents. To really show you how important it is…

You have to write good contents for your readers.

Study your audience. Understand the kind of content they like depending on your 4WH up there.

Depending on your purpose, some content will need to be small like 500 words text contents for instance or a 5 minutes video.

Some contents might have to be larger too. Like 2-5000 words text, 30 minutes video etc.

What’s going to determine the length of your content will be the purpose of the content.

That’s why for instance if you’re writing a tutorial on how to publish on amazon for instance it might have to be far more than 1000 words etc. Compared to writing a summary about the latest accident in your neighborhood.

So understand your audience and write content that will meet their needs.

5. Promote: This is called shipping. [/b]Ship your content to where your audience are gathered. Get it away from your blog.

Get it to your fb page, twitter handle, instagram, YouTube etc.
These platforms helps you expand the reach of your contents.

When you’re sharing your contents on social media, you’ll want to organize it in a way that will attract your readers to click on the links and read on your blog.

Try to avoid the mistake of sharing empty links and hoping people will just click and read your blog. Most newbies make this mistakes. This will make people see you as being spammy.

[b]6. Sell: Yes. This is the Golden Egg of blogging and content marketing, selling.

So you should be able to have something people can buy from you as a blogger.

Now this doesn’t mean you should start selling as soon as you start blogging. Many people make this mistake. And then it becomes a good turnoff to most readers.

So as a new blogger, what you’ll want to do first of all is to build an audience. Give them some good free stuff for a while. Then sell them your stuff after your blog has gained a reasonable traffic and readers.

Your products here can be physical items or digital products or even other people’s products you sell for commissions.

Just get them ready and get set to sell when you’ve created some good ripples with your blog.
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PS: Remember your 4WH will also help you decide on your branding and most other things about your blog and digital business.

Got any questions? Ask me!
http://www.victorwinners.com/2018/03/24/6-most-important-blogging-tips-for-new-bloggers/

I will borrow from Chief Obasanjos popular saying that "you should never reinforce failure"

Your instinct is the best friend you could ever have, very trustworthy and never betrays...listen to it

A woman belongs wherever she finds pleasure..that's women..don't give urself unnecessary psychological trauma by investigating or sniffing around about her...

A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage...make hay while the sun shines.

Confidant010:
I met my fiancee for 6months now and when I approached her she told me that she was in a relationship then, after telling her my intention she decided to quit with her ex and be my own.

I later found out that she went back and Bleep with her ex again. When I found this out through the picture her ex posted in his timeline, she then admitted that she did it because she didn't know I was serious about the relationship and promised never to do it again. I pardoned her and ceased her connection with him by buying her new lines, except her glo line, which is linked to her account though she knew his number off head.

On Saturday she told me that she wants to go and see her parents, when I called her line throughout this afternoon it wasn't going through, when I finally got her online she told me that she just decided to switch off her phone, and the way she sounded, my instinct told me that she was with another man n I saw a text message by another man asking her when she's coming home.

Pls friends what should I do because I love her and she claims to love me too and I have already introduced her to my people and they all like her.

Pls your noble advice is of utmost importance nw, thanks.

Wise talk

calaway:
What Trump thinks about Buhari and his government is penned down in the US Human rights report released 5 days ago. Also the newly appointed US ambassador to Germany holds a popular impression.

Propaganda is futile.

Dear Hardworking Nigerian Youths,

I write to seek experts who can train me properly on the following fiverr gigs:

1. Logo / Muckup Design
2. Business Branding
3. Blog commenting
4. Business Name
5. Proof Reading and Editing

Please note that I have a very lean purse yet I will appreciate genius in the house to assist me in this drive.

Thank you in advance

An what exactly have u don't than justification? I have an uncle in the state service who as a result of the modulated justification u r given died in 2016 cos he can not manage Hus ailment an u r here justifying rubbish.

Would you say amen if I pray that God to modulate your blessings?

People were working and cannot feed their family members....

LionDeLeo:

Do you need to insult yourself on a public forum or you just want to be noticed?

So 13 and half months is equal to 2yrs?

So for saying "modulated salary", I have justified it?

The way people understand English these days, I think dictionaries need to be urgently revised.

Anyway, you have been noticed, now crawl back out of my mention.

APC apologist...his market? Is this the change u promised us?

Pierohandsome:
So PMB cannot send his children abroad again because he is the president? Are people not schooling abroad? 5 of my uncle's children schooled abroad and he is jst a salary earner in an oil company how much more the children of Buhari.

Pls say something else

dre11:









http://thenationonlineng.net/fg-petrol-subsidy-now-n26-per-liter/

I suppose APC said there is no subsidy, Shameless criminals,

Return Nigeria to where you met it.

By the way, where are those APC E-RATS

Dear Great Nairalanders,

I currently work as an Economic Planning person with 8 years of work experience in Economic Planning, Human Development and Project Management and I am presently planning to relocate to Canada in year 2018.

I am a total novice in the area of traveling, I need your candid advice on what knowledge or further training do I need in addition to my work experience ahead of my relocation to Canada.

I appreciate all submissions....in advance.

Thank you All

@Justcryptos, thanks for your time. Pls can u share a crypto new site? Thanks again and again

JustCryptos:


The fees will go back to normal soon. There were a lot of unconfirmed transactions. Increasing the transaction fee is one of the ways to stop people from sending out little amounts. Follow the news and you'll understand.

Thank you for this, but which other wallet do you think is less on commission

chordrylateral:
Yes! blockchain has increased it's transaction fees

Another idiotic African Blood speaking from Nigeria...What has he to say about Boko Haram, Nothern Naija, Fulani Killings....#Yeye

Dear Nairalanders,

I need your submission to if I was right or wrong regarding this post. It happened yesterday Saturday 11/12/17 when I was to send $20 worth of BTC to a fellow, to my amazement, the regular fee on the said transfer was fixed at around $10 for the transaction. Leading to $30 in all.

My question is have you experienced such hike fees on blockchain, if yes, are there other wallet operators with lesser fees.

Thank you

dnysamuel@yahoo.com

Pros in the h?ouse, any forecast on the FOMC due for 7pm tonight? Thanks

Dont argue with those E-rats...

Johnnyessence:
it will surprise you when you see the results of iwo favouring Ademola Adeleke due to what his late brother isiaka rip did to the good people of Iwo in last 2years when he was in office.

I can understand.. U meant APC is a Free looters party

buharichild:

dey are not, Apc is a corrupt free party

I just arrived Ede now, voting is peaceful and in Iwo Local Government too, its free, voters were seeing lining up to cast votes...more updates later

alakara:
IF YOIRE IN ANY OF THESE LOCAL GOVTS IN OSUN WEST,GIVE US REPORT IN YOIR RESPECTIVE LOCAL GOVTS
IWO LG
OLAOLUWA LG
AYEDIRE LG
EDE NORTH LG
EDE SOUTH LG
EJIGBO LG
EGBEDORE LG
AYEDADE LG
ISOKAN
IKIRE LG

#OSUNWESTDECIDES
THE MAJOR CANDIDATES ARE :
APC SENATOR MUDASHIR HUSAIN
PDP OTUNBA DEMOLA ADELEKE.

Can you deny all the points stated by Fayose?

Dannyset:
PDP talking drum

thanks

As much as I give kudos to Aregbesola on the Medical Doctors sent for training in Ukraine I will be disagreeing with you on those sent to Germany by the State Government in Osun. They did go to Germany but can you point out 1 single value they have added to the economy of Osun since there return?

AshiwajuFoward:
Beautiful! Very beautiful indeed. Those sent to Germany by the state government for Agric and Engineering training have already returned and are putting their knowledge to good use, and now these? Kudos to them all.

Long Live ma, HBD

Bad rubbish to good riddance

Omooba77:
Is it morally right for PMB that claimed to be for Everybody and be for Nobody to just address the nation after 49 days of absence; in acclaimed recorded message in Hausa?

StrafordSTONES:
Good day my fellow nairalanders, please I'm looking for help doing an assignment; the assignment reads "discuss the importance of of standard normal curve to social statistics". I have being able to do the conceptualization, said it makes calculation of probabilities easier. I need an explanation on how it can help in testing association between variables and measurement of National income and possibly other points that I have not thought about.

Thanks, your help will be highly appreciated.

This might be already late though, yet I feel I can drop a line or two relative to your request.

A standard normal curve is a bell shape curve with skewness in the 2 direction (- and +) of standard deviation. It has a mean = 1 and Standard deviation = 0.

I will advise you read more on test of normality and non parametric test to find a better solution to you assignment.

would have but due to time.

I hope you find this useful

Buy Fresh Tomatoes and Baking powder

This is how:

Slice the tomato into 4 slices,
****Add some baking powder to the surface of the sliced tomato

Rub the ***** on ur face at least 3ce a week

U should have good result

Thanks

bossman44:
Hello family! Pls what can i use to clear this blackspots on my face.it is as a result of pimples that i have had and have dried up. i have tried suggestions from. Different people it's npt working the only thing i notice is my face lightning up and not the spots clearing.. Pls if you have ever had spots and you were able to clear it pls tell me what you used. If you haven't used what you are recommending for me. Pls donnot bother.. So i don't end up wasting money''
Pls help move to front page!

Just before OP respond> Fruiting is around 6-8months

enomakos:
how many months do it take hybrid plantain and banana to start fruiting?

To start with,if you have #400,000 you are good to go. the cost is exclusive of of cost of land

damybamss:
Thanks for sharing, i tot of asking a nairalander how to go about It but you helped out. God bless you. Please like how much can start the business or can you send me your number so we can talk better. Thanks for helping out