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Tgirl4real: Should I move to health Section?

Tgirl, please don't move it to health section. I already posted the same thing in the health section, I just need to get as many opinions as possible.
Thank You.

Ujujoan: An adopted child is as good as your own child . .
Think of what good you'll do to this world by taking in an orphan and raising h/her as your own . . . you guys should really give is a thought!

I will show him this, don't know, am so confused.

Ujujoan: Yes . . . A HIV-infected person can have a -ve child . .
and YES, AS+AS marriage can produce AA child . .
The questions is, is it really worth the risk of trying
@ poster, why don't you adopt

My man said he is willing to risk it. I have talking him out of it, but he wouldn't listen.
I already called it quit with him, but he is still disturbing me. sometimes he accuses me of having someone else.
The reason he gave for not giving up, is that I have stood by him and I accepted him the way he is (he is SS), so he will also stand by me if I will let him.
Am just confused.

Thank you all.
But how do I help to prevent my man from getting it.
You know the condom may burst sometimes, though in such situation he withdraws immediately he notices it. Am just afraid for him.

Thank you.

azpekuliar: .

why do you have to modify your post.
I need advice please.

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Gambrosia: OH YES O! We don laugh dem taya!!!! Dad was in UNIBAD. . .mom was in UNILAG! Dad was 28, mom was 19.
MY MOM WAS MY DAD'S SISTER'S FRIEND AND CLASSMATE. She came over to visit her friend and father saw her and NEVER SLEPT!
DAAAAAAAAAAAAAANG SHE WAS BEAUTIFUL. . . .STILL IS!

All my poor dad kept muttering to his sister was 'BADERINWA. . . see her physiognomy, BADE!!! see her physignomy'. . .His dear sister kept telliing him 'BWORDA SHOLA. . . BWORDA OLUSHOLA . . .GO AND SLEEP O! You can't handle this IGBO GAL CALLED ANWULI!!!' PHYSIOGNOMY NEARLY KILLAM KE! AND IT CAME TO PASS!!!

MU HE HE HE HE HE

Very romantic! THEY NEVER STOPPED PHOCKING LIKE RABBITS!

BELLE STRAIGHT! 4 sssshildren in 5 years! That is minus the dude wey quench before moi o!

Only 10 months and 2 weeks separates #2 and #3. Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeew! WHAT A LIFE!
Thank my AGNOSTIC GAAAAAAAAAAAAD FOR DIVORCES! My mom finally GOT SMART!!!
We for don reach 25 children from one poohsie and blokos by now. . . I WOULD NEVER HAVE COME TO AMERICA BECAUSE OF EXCRUTIATING POVERTY!

My lord is good all the time!!!!

My mama nickname for awa house na 'PHYSIOGNOMY'!. . . The good old days I tellya! Sweeeeeeeeet memories!

Chai.... e no go better for the person wey do you this thing. I don laff go carry belle for OBJ & GEJ. Bworda you no fit carry this Igbo gal called Anwuli.... LMAO "PHYSIOGNOMY"

jidegirl12: You're the one with insecurities that needs to bribe your MIL rather than make boundaries for your own Territory

You are the one that begs for money from your boyfriend/fiancée for 5/$25 gstrings from VS

NOT ME!!!

I'm financially satisfied before and after courting and I don't wait for NOBODY before I buy anything! I carry my gold cards ( preferred customer ) anywhere I go .

I car shop whenever I want with just a phone call for approval from hubby.... what baby wants she gets..... Who knows if there's really an afterlife?

In conclusion Hugging Bumblebee is not an option for ME but you can give it a try

Ahn Ahn, Jidegirl, you too make mouth. Maybe your father has laid the foundation for you, cos I guess you are from a priviledged home.
It's okay to have integrity, but you Jide you try to insult anybody who tries to paint a contrary opinion when it comes to things that has to do with wealth.
Abegi, life is not the way you think it. The Rich sometimes cry oooh.

^^^
hey guys sheat your swords. Everyone is entitled to his/her opinion. No insults please.
All correct.

wetin BB go cause, we never hear am finish.

mjfcb: Collecting a gift bak after breaking up a relationship is absurd to my hearings, its doesn't makes any meaning to me but its one of d most common thing naija guys do wenevr dey av a little misunderstanding wit there babes and vice versa... @ops, I even just wonder why u are taking this matters so serious because an affiar between another man n a woman who has been sharing things together at ur backs befor, u must not interve cus wenever dey decided to comes bak again, am very sure that u will be a laghin stock, or are you too inlove wit the guy also? Am so sorry I asked that questions am not insulting u dear. My advice for u is that let's them be. For his babe's to be meeting his frnd at his back, I will surely blame d guy, he is too weak to handle a woman.

No, am not in love with the guy. The girl did not date his friend, rather he found out that the girl is in love with someone else.
Moreover, the girl started insulting him when he told her that the phone was still bad/faulty. Though he told me y.day that he will return the phone to the girl.

mjfcb: Collecting a gift bak after breaking up a relationship is absurd to my hearings, its doesn't makes any meaning to me but its one of d most common thing naija guys do wenevr dey av a little misunderstanding wit there babes and vice versa... @ops, I even just wonder why u are taking this matters so serious because an affiar between another man n a woman who has been sharing things together at ur backs befor, u must not interve cus wenever dey decided to comes bak again, am very sure that u will be a laghin stock, or are you too inlove wit the guy also? Am so sorry I asked that questions am not insulting u dear. My advice for u is that let's them be. For his babe's to be meeting his frnd at his back, I will surely blame d guy, he is too weak to handle a woman.

No, am not in love with the guy. The girl did not date his friend, rather he found out that the girl is in love with someone else.
Moreover, the girl started insulting him when he told her that the phone was still bad/faulty. Though he told me y.day that he will return the phone to the girl.

hey guys thanks a bunch. I called him and asked him to check out this thread, guess what?
He just called back and has promised to return the phone to the girl, in his words "I should be the bigger person."

Thanks NL family.

oferefe: I think the girl is just being childish by being rude to the guy.I understand , it really pained her that he collected the fone from her and maybe he didnt want tot give her back. To her the fone means so much to her, thats why she insulted him that much. I will suggest the guy should play maturity and give the fone back to her since its a gift, then correct her because she's still growing, a school girl for that matter, what do you expect from her? when all her friend are pinging, and her fone is with someone,and d person is telling her d fone is bad, forget about relationship now, she will show her other side.

Lol. The guy once asked me if the phone was more important to the girl than his relationship with her. I believe she is just showing her other side like you said.
And it's not as if this guy is poor. He is what many mums call an Eligible Bachelor, but I can't understand why he can't just overlook the hurt the girl caused him.

[quote author=T_Bademosi]A friend of mine bought a lady a phone. They werent really dating but it was almost as if they were dating and so in the process she met one of our another friend.

On a certain day, my friend went to visit his friend and he met this lady there and this lady just said "hi" and carried away her face.

My friend left the place not immediately but composed himself. After the scenario he came home battered and hurt because he loved the girl and wouldnt believe she went behind him to meet a friend she met through him and to cap it all said "hi" when they saw.

You should see strategy. We called the lady to Mr biggs, packed outside and my friend went inside. Bought her meals, and was going through her phone when I called him and pretended that it was her mum calling him from the US. He strolled out, gave the sim to the guard and told the guard to drop 200 bucks for her for TP. He felt good afterwards.

Its not about maturity, or a gift being too small. Its about doing what will make you feel good at he end of the day. Making sure some wicked folks dont just treat you like crap and think they will get away with it.

What I believe is that one should not be immature completely, but justify your actions by 50% your standard and 50% ideal standard.[/quote]Now, do think that was fair to the lady. Anyway thanks for your contribution.
This guy is just angry cos the lady keeps saying hurtful things to him anytime she inquires about the phone.

Imanuelle: U funny well well º°˚!
How can any girl think of taking s'ex back?
Oya nah.... When she take am back, d guy too will take hiz own back!
Shey na only 1 person enjoi d sex ni?
Girls of diz days, dem no get nuttin to offer for r/ship... All na Bleep-Bleep-Bleep
Except a few of them.
And OP, it seems u belong to the 'take-back-se'x' category... Or how will u ever think such?

U are a big disgrace! The type we love to Bleep.... And pay BIS for!

hey, why the insult now. Pls let's keep it civil.

Imanuelle: In this case, i will not give d fone back to her..




As for other related cases, it depends on why we broke up,
If she thot she fooled me and used me as a maga, i'll take back d ring/car..
But i think fones are too small for me to take back.

I think this was the exact same reason the guy gave. That she wanted to take him for a fool. As in Mugu. That he was thinking about her welfare while she is falling in love with another guy and also obtaining from him.
But I told him to let go, before the girl now told him that " you don't know where we will meet in the future". The guy was like WTF.

[quote author=fresh_dude]@Ijay, that girl is silly. I wouldn't give her the phone back either. What nonsense, that's quite different from asking for it.[/quote]I believe two wrongs don't make a right. I know the girl was wrong, but what of all the s,ex they have had together. Can she also take it back.

Malubi: I must collect the engagement ring because i am no more engaged with her. If the papers of the car was written in her name i will let her go with it otherwise i will collect because the person whose name is writen on the car documents is the owner. Every other thing i will not collect because intimate activities can not also be withdrawn.

I can understand about the engagement ring, but why will you collect the car back (whether the paper is in your name or not).
I told the guy to give her back the BB, but he said the girl said so many hurtful things to him.

Moreover, he said he saw one of the girl's chat, telling someone that the man she loves does not love her back. The new man is not my friend, but my friend goes out of his way to make the girl happy, even when he doesn't have much.

k2039: It was a gift,I will never collect a gift back,if she likes she can throw it in a trash bin,thats her choice afterall it's her's(when I gave her their was transfer of ownership)

Okay, this is the scenerio that prompted this question. A friend of mine (a guy) bought a BB for his babe, and he said that he never intended to collect it back. But on one occasion he just asked the babe if he can use the BB for some time ( he uses andriod). The babe obliged him, but unfortunately the phone got crashed before he could return it. After some angry words from the babe, he promised to return the phone after he must have repaired.
The next day he has repaired it, but the girl has gone back to school. When the girl called to inquire about the phone, he jokingly said he has not repaired it. This cause the babe to launch into another tirade, calling the guy WICKED & SELFISH. The height of it was that the girl said "you don't know where we will meet in future and I will be the one to help you".
My friend said that because of this last statement, he wasn't going to give back the BB to the girl. but I told him he should forgive and forget and return the phone.
I want to show him this thread when next I meet him.

This question is for the guys here.
You are dating a girl and you bought a phone for her (e.g. BB, I-phone, HTC X one etc) or even a car or a diamond crusted engagement ring.
After a while, you people broke up. Would you consider taking your "expensive" gift back from her or would you leave it with her? Expecially when you found out that she is trying to leave you or even cheating on you.
matured opinions please.