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Family / Re: My Wife Called, Crying That She Is Pregnant Again by G42012: 8:33pm On Aug 25, 2014 |
Tell your wife that such is a blessing and comes from God and only God alone. Tell her there are people like me in a situation of unplanned spacing, wishing every month that The Lord will close the gap! I wish I was her. Abeg, she should not be silly. Embrace that pregnancy. Life is easier when you have good attitude toward your situations. |
Family / Re: Cry For Help: Two Weeks To Introduction by G42012: 8:21pm On Aug 25, 2014 |
@op. Sex IS very important in marriage! The biggest mistake you will make is to marry someone you are not sexually attracted to. To crown it all, men love sex, they are the ones that keep the fire going in the marriage. Imagine yourself in the situation were your husband will want sex all the time and you are very very frustrated because he is not pleasing you the way you like. Believe me, your frustration will cascade down to every single thing you do. You do not want to be in that situation. Sex is what spices marriage up. When you fight, it makes you forget the reason why you were fighting in the first place. . . And so on. . . I am glad you decided to give it more time. Since you already like him, give him time to learn and improve, but if it's not working, pick race o! |
Pets / Re: Family Dog Kills Owner Injures Wife by G42012: 10:12pm On Jan 10, 2014 |
I cant understand why people decide to keep dangerous species of dogs in their homes as pets. It is well know that such species are dangerous and can change their minds anyday to attack you. Worst of all, these dogs are not even good to look at. God forgive me but I cracked up at the picture of the dog - very mean looking as if he is keeping malice with someone. I love dogs but I can never live with ugly looking bulldogs and their likes. Their are better species of dogs to choose from. Would not want my life to be ended by a best friend who can decide to turn me into a piece of meat. It is just like keeping a tiger as a pet. You know it is carnivorous, it will eat you!! May the soul of the Mayor rest in peace. I hope more people will learn from this experience. |
Family / Re: Should I Employ My Ex Girlfriend's Hubby In My Company? by G42012: 8:36pm On Dec 13, 2013 |
BluStreak: Word! I agree with this post 100%. |
Family / Re: Help Me Save My Dad Friends by G42012: 11:59am On Nov 27, 2013 |
This post has been silent for some hours. What is the update, Mr OP? |
Health / Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by G42012: 11:23am On Nov 18, 2013 |
prettyrosefave: for all who need bsm, i will soon give you a contact on where to gerrit in lagos. i suffered yday in search of bsm, i was almost cring on the road, God purnish ttc and the distributor of it. most people dont even know what it is, black watttt? what is i used for? sori hennnn was all i was getting yday, only in one place the guy finished it with molasses after i said black strap, hmmmmmm, but unluckily the store showed zero (0), helped me call other branches and they all dont have it. i weak no be small. but once i gerrit from the promised place i will tell you guys so that you can runnnn go immediately to get it before it finishes. Really? You know what? God is indeed awesome. He got the diagnosis before we had our first issue. He was also planning for the surgery. Hmm. I told him nooo, what if something goes wrong? But then he started having severe pains from it down there last year. The doctors suggested he gets the surgery. This is where we are right now. |
Health / Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by G42012: 11:17am On Nov 18, 2013 |
favored gal: @g4-2012....azoospermia is zero count and it is diff from low count...im not sure what varicocele is but i think iv seen it mentioned on th ivf thread a couple of times No, it's not zero count. His last SA came back at 7 million. He took fertilaid for 2 months did another test, it came back same figure. Varicocele is a condition were the veins that supply blood to the testicles are not doing their job well. The surgery is to cut off the bad area of the vein for better blood flow. This was done on both sides/testicles. I am willing to go through IVF but if given another option, I won't. I have a cousin that went through 3 failed IVF. At the end of the day she conceived naturally. |
Health / Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by G42012: 3:15pm On Nov 17, 2013 |
favored gal: @venussss..hw are you? Did you end up getting af? It is well with you and you are in my prayers Wow, your statement surprised me that he did not discuss IVF with you. I simply had the impression that that is all he does since he did not even want to go into treating my husband. Not sure what azoospermia is? There was no name for his diagnosis. Only that he always had varicocele and had surgery, after that things went down hill. I went back to read your previous posts and you have really really inspired me to depend even more on God. Thank you and may the Lord bless you for your inspiration. |
Health / Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by G42012: 10:57pm On Nov 14, 2013 |
Hello Brave Ladies, I need your candid advice and direction. We have been TTcing for 2 years now. My husband was diagnosed with low count and motility plus his sperm is watery. (Have you had a similar experience?) We discovered this after I have read several posts here and went to see Dr. Emeka of Olive Branch. However, he is advising that we go for IVF bc of my husband's condition. I will like to seek a second opinion because I believe there should be a cure or treatment for his condition and that leads me to my question: Can anyone recommend a good doctor or even a urologist here is Lagos that we can see to cure this? From what I have read here IVF is a rigorous process with only 40% chance and I am still skeptical about it. Any suggestions and sharing will go a long way. This is really eating me up. 1 Like 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Nigerian Ladies Karma Exist. by G42012: 10:44pm On Jan 06, 2012 |
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Family / Re: Help! Remedy For My Uncle's Gambling Addiction by G42012: 9:19pm On Jan 05, 2012 |
Ma Outstrip, you cannot crucify a family member for helping out a loved one when you believe the person needs your support. The way things work aboard, if you don't have family to help, you are on your own. And as I pointed out we only confirmed recently that indeed he gambles, (meaning no-one knows when it actually started) which is a disturbing news to everyone. Well, I opened this thread because like I said, I think there is still hope to get him out of his mess. Even if he will not eventually get married and have kids, he can still get his act together. So far I have gotten a majority of negative responses. I need more positive inputs please. Prayer is a way to go now plus no more hand outs. |
Family / Re: Help! Remedy For My Uncle's Gambling Addiction by G42012: 11:34pm On Jan 04, 2012 |
ifyalways: Thanks girl. You have a point there, no more hand-outs! There is no girlfriend in the picture. No steady one. The last time his eldest brother tried to talk some sense into him, as usual he stormed out and didnt pick any calls for about 6 months. I tire. |
Family / Re: Help! Remedy For My Uncle's Gambling Addiction by G42012: 11:25pm On Jan 04, 2012 |
MRbrownJAY: @BrownJAY, thanks for your contribution but you might been looking at it at in a different way. To make things clear, we are not the kind of family that kill each other. Can you please explain more how the gambling doesn't have anything to do with family/kids/going back to Nija? Don't quite understand. Thanks for suggesting professional help but I realise that we have to work on him somehow to get him to agree to that. |
Family / Help! Remedy For My Uncle's Gambling Addiction by G42012: 11:17am On Jan 04, 2012 |
Fellow NLers, I need your wise contribution and solution to this matter. I am a daily contributor to nairaland but have opened this new username for this matter exclusively. My Uncle has been living abroad (london) for the past 25 years and has never set a foot in Nigeria ever since. He initially had issues with immigration but this was sorted out a few years ago so he is now a citizen and can now travel but he doesn't seem to want to come back to even see his aged mother (my grand-mother). He clocked 51 this January. For those 25 years he did not get married, no kids, he does not have a house he can call his own. He just plays the victim each time his siblings try to talk to him. He claims that they had it easier because they were citizens before him. He would raise a storm have a huge argument, barge out and not talk to anybody for months. But the truth is that it was not easy (still not) for any of them. They have also been helping him over the years financially even till this date. The real problem is that even though he works 7 days a week, nobody sees where his income goes to. For 25 years, nothing to show for it. Until recently his brother confirmed that he is a gambler (though he never admits it) He is not into drugs, or women. By the time he gambles his salary away he would come back to them asking for money. And he never pays back. So I need sensible advice on how we as a family can help him get out of this mess. Get him to get married, have kids and do something useful in his life. Even though he is 51 I still believe there is hope. Any body that has had this kind of experience before or have a relative with such, please I need your candid advice to remedy this issue. Thanks. |
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