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Thanks for the advise;but that seems going too far na

halfrica:
Simple do me i do u let ur frnd collect fake reports from the doctor ur frnd act health problem let him share it wiv her he must make d act look real if she doesnt open up bou her problems to ur frnd mehn she doesnt love him for ur guy to go dat far for u to open up nd u keep d secret she is heartless

My friend is dying inside and psychosocially down and I decided to come here to help advise him;He is in love with this girl for couple of months now;but lately the girl told him she has some problems but she could not tell the guy what exactly the problem is;despite the guy has tried all possible way to convince her to tell him what's the problem is;this so called problem is affecting their relationship and creating some distance between them. He really loves her and want her in his life. Plz advise him.

I have slept with more than 30 girls n still in my 20s though I am not proud of that; so it's no big deal.

She came to my me and was desperate to access my phone but I didn't allow her do that as it was passworded and I told her phone that phone is supposed to be personal stuff;she walked out on me and accused me of cheating.She has been acting strange since then.What should I do,advise plzz.

I was scammed by my distance cousin back home; he created this profile on Facebook with a very hot chick ; we became friends n started chatting to the point that I almost broke up with my gf lol to cut things short I later did a background check on this profile and later discovered that it was being operated by my male cousin.LUckily I never invested financially even after several demands; but I was really pissed off because of the time n emotional investment for almost six months.He later confessed n said he did it because things were really bad for him. Guyz brcareful of total strangers u meet online; most times it's futile venture n not worth wasting ur time on.

Women are their own worst enemy

Ok

Op I can see you are writing something u're clueless about n you yourself cannot explain properly.

We live at a time when the media celebrates mere external beauty and popularity. To keep up with the trends of fashion and constant societal demands, people try to alter and tailor their lives by hiding what is underneath and exposing people to another false image – one that is masked with makeup. But where are your self-confidence, kindness, and goodness? Here are some things people who do not wear makeup understand.

1. They understand being appreciated for who they are
They are realistic and true to themselves. When they are with people, they don’t have to be worried that they are being stared at for looking like a comic heroine. They can relax and enjoy being appreciated for their natural selves.

2. They can save time
It takes time to apply make-up and try to look out of the ordinary. All that time can be spent doing something worthwhile, perhaps being punctual and reading an exciting book.

3. They don’t need to satisfy anyone
They understand that people’s tastes differ. They don’t try to adjust their standards to meet these tastes and look cheap. Rather, they validate their self-worth by looking pleasant and appealing primarily to themselves.

4. They can save money
Let’s be realistic with ourselves. Beauty products cost money, and most of the time there is no guarantee of a return on investment for the amount you put into it. People who do not use makeup can save money and time doing and trying to pursue other worthy endeavors.

5. They become more appealing in other ways
At face value, perhaps, people will be attracted to you for your appearance. But this is never lasting. What is sustaining are such immaculate qualities like kindness, warmth, and affection. These amazing qualities do not need to be beautified by makeup, but by age and by appreciation of not only yourself, but also the world around you.

6. They can build sustaining relationships
People who do not wear makeup can be who they are and command attention. Whoever is attracted to them is concerned about what is underneath their skin and is comfortable with their total appearance. These kinds of relationships are built to last, since they are not built upon a selfish foundation.

7. They have self-confidence
They do appreciate what they have in their bodies and their inner selves. They do not lack or try to hide flaws or inferiority. They have dealt with that already and are confident of what they showcase to the world.

8. They can deal with life’s changes
Whether we like it or not, we will all be victims of time and age. People who don’t wear makeup refuse to run from this fact. Rather, they can deal with life’s changes and instabilities.

9. They define their own happiness
They know what happiness means. They can relate to the simplicity and amazing details of life rather than the sophistication and luxury that makeup offers. They don’t have to cover anything, especially their glad smile.

10. They do not worry about skin damage
They don’t have to fear or worry about the highly allergenic and harmful ingredients that are contained in many makeup products.

11. They do not need to follow the pack
They think independently. They do not need to be victims of what the media propagates, particularly, that you need makeup products to be complete. They are already complete and comfortable with who they are.

12. They can be listened to
Because they have focused on building other aspects of their lives rather than just their facial appearances, other people are more interested in what they have to offer. They are not stared at, but listened to for their inner power and inner beauty.

13. They are treated with respect
Since they have confidence and respect, people can relate and identify with their positive energy. They are treated with respect and never abused or considered less than their counterparts.

You are forgiven; I admire ur courage to do that n not many people can do such because of their grandeur ego. Hopefully lot of people in here can emulate ur laudable example.

There are many fishes in the ocean;no need to allow someone treat you like an idiot sha... [color=#990000][/color]

She is older than me three years. We get along quite well. Pretty normal n we laugh n tease each other abt it sometimes. We just don't care abt it .

Afrok:
Ex is your past, why allow your past to give u headache presently which might affect your future with the person u ar currently dating. Nothing like a win win again coz I think both of u had ur win win when u let go of each other. The fact that u ar thinking about it sef says a lot, put her where she belongs (ur past) sooner than later, she'll get the clear message.

I didn't say its bad being a friend with an ex, there is a saying that; " once an handshake extends to the elbow, its no longer an handshake ", being a friend with ur ex shouldn't be a source of headache except u aren't done CATCHING ALL THE FISHES IN HER RIVER

thanks for d advise

faith551:
it's not advisable to be in close friendship with your ex, it spells trouble
Depending on the nature of the breakup, one of you will get jealous in the long run.
Believe me you will be in a series of temptation

thanks for d advise

See watin. Money can do now... One of the keys to open women mind chaii..

shiizzy:
olodo... Its birds of a feather flocks together..

. Must u insult others chaiii

faith551:
it's not advisable to be in close friendship with your ex, it spells trouble
Depending on the nature of the breakup, one of you will get jealous in the long run.
Believe me you will be in a series of temptation

I agree with u thnx for d advise ; the problem is how to cut off things like we mostly talk via social media

This is hilarious ... Some ladies sef nor dae fear ooo.

Is it ok to be a close friend with ur ex. We broke up couple of years ago due to distance n stuffs. She is bent on being a good friend, I tried being a friend but just not comfortable with it as she keeps opening up to me abt every details of her life. I don't hate her but I have moved on n don't wish to have her back or be so close to her. How can I do away with her in subtle manner that can be a win win for both of us. Feeling perplexed!Advice pls .

Jay jay is timeless just like gigsy of man utd

RIP. This is naija for you; e go better.

I can feel your pain; I advise you fînd a Business to start no matter how small wile searching for jobs; most of these principles in these get rich and life hacking books cannot be replicated holistically in most African environment. So adopt the practice you think can work best best in your environment. I applied Robert kayosaki n Napolian hill principles on some aspect of my life and it's paying off. So don't lose hope. The pains will soon be over.

It's in their genes to tell lies and don't want men to see the hoe in them

I can imagine how it is for those ladies; even as a guy once u past 25 and financially secured u face lot of pressure from your family. This struggle is real. Good luck to all singles out there.

If he has the permanent resident and have a job that he can take care of u guyz financially it's very easy to make u join him; cause even students here with temporary permits bring their spouse n kids ; he may have other reasons too which I don't know; cause it's very expensive to have a large family here . But get a one on one discussion with him on this to know his real reasons . This should not take up to six months to sort out the paper work . Continue to be strong dear; God luck and all the best

Arrange marriage seriously? This is what u get in return for your greed in the name of abroad. Anywayz I don't advise walking out of the marriage; try to discuss it with him and if possible involve family members so u can find a way out before u knew it iust now it will be more complicated. Good luck n best of wishes

skyfullofstars:
Mmmm, for me it is important to date a man that has dreams and aims at something. A man that feels passionate about something, that knows where he is going in life. He may not have the money now, but surely, if he wants to achieve something in life, money will arrive at some point. I'm not talking about big money, like a millionaire, I mean money to live a comfortable life.He could be handsome and not interesting, or we may be incompatible.

. You sound quite interesting and I resonate with the way you think ; u don't sound that bad

May be You have a problem of self esteem... But don't worry May be ur man is in the hereafter ....

rosy4u:
thanks for the encouragement dear

are u a Virgin ??

Nobody cares if u're new here. Besides take your mediocrity elsewhere attention seeker.

Stop raping her.. Why forcefully unclothed her? Try to be persuasive n sweet bro; she is not feeling u