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agarawu23:
arrogant is another case entirely. the guy should decide if he can cope or not

thanks for ur wonderful advice

Cutehector:
this sums it all


cc: ahsekeena

my man is terribly devastated n worried abt the stress of starting all over again with another

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Mtcheew!

I will just walk away. [/color]

v He is contemplating to that's why he needs help from anywhere in the world he can get it

Cutehector:
seems u Ddnt read d passage well.. She doesn't want to help hersef. She says he should accept her d way she is.. Dat means she doesnt wana slim down! Dnt u get?

exactly that is the bone of contention; she wants to slim down on her own accord not because the guy wanted him to; she feels not being appreciated for who she is .

funlord:
Op there is no hope 4 your guy oh! Because 2 seperate fat person from food is like trying 2 seperate dogs from eating bones! Then this 1 come be woman on top? IMPOSSICANT!

this is a real challenge for him; especially when the lady feels uncomfortable to deal with the issue n feel less loved each time that is mentioned

agarawu23:
he should try and take her to gym and if she refuse, the choice is left for the guy. I dislike fat chicks.

BTW the girl never settle down and she don dey gain weight, if she born nko?

the lady has a very busy work schedule ; even at that she is somehow arrogant n feels my friend should love her no matter what

trendy01:
He should talk to her nicely abt eating healthy and avoid late night food, they should exercise together and he should avoid buying her junk foods

The lady has a very good job and eat junk a lot; she barely cook at home even on wknd, she eats in restaurant like everyday. My guy is just fed up with her stubborn attitude n I really can't advice him what to do

My friend is in dilemma; his gf has grown so fat over the years that he does not find her as attractive anymore. When he tries to discuss the issues with her; she wil be angry n demand my friend should love her the way she is n for who she is. My friend is confused n contemplating moving on. Please advice nlanders.

Don't get too carried away.. It's definitely infatuation ; how can u fall so easily. Take it easy n don't have lofty expectations. From experience the grass is always greener in their description than in their actual greenness ; it
Often times a step or two below ur expectation so be strong enough to deal with it. Next time try to control yourself. Thank me later

Princessderaa:
dia future hubby I love number 1,2,&4

ehich one u like best na

lagmostkuit:
This OP just posted arrant nonsense and i'm sure he's not aware of it!

dont be mad now because u re not Virgin

Never... Unless it is proven that people can naturally be gay.

Story for the gods... Pics or else..make we hear far

Pics before I comment

There is no hard n fast rule; just don't bother urself abt it; be free n open minded. Be yourself n u can always have lot of things to discuss based on the situation that can serve as an entry point for more conversations. You don't have to think abt it or try to hard ; just follow the flow n be your real self.

Why are so obsessed with Virgins ... I still prefer non virgins though

ahsekeena:
Is it just me or does she really look like a man

she looks prettier though.. Lol

INTROVERT:
Hell no, even if he lives @ aso rock

liar acting tough....

I want to thank all my friend and family for their support . FTC . Spaced booked.

Pigs are pigs even if they try to be humans...

The price of ur prick.... learn the lesson the hard way

We don hear MUMU...

You think this can really work ...lol

TheRealAdonye:
Flesh and Blood didn't reveal this to you..

Indeed disability is not inability..It's in your hands,success is an inside job

We still dey na ..though we are few n hard to see..

Hi NLanders, I have a distance cousin who leaves abroad and intend to marry from back home;but his challenge remain ,how can you propose to a girl you barely know or meet on social media;he thinks it sounds creepy and desperate. But still prefers to marry someone from back home. Kindly advice as to best way to go about it. your views,advice and suggestions are warmly welcome[b][/b][b][/b]

youngprof2n:
The guy in question should develop his approaching skills to girls cos if you approach a girl in the right way......Hmmmm She wil cross her hard to get defence......As for ur guy, He is typically been hooked up...

That can be harnessed as well;but when a lady is not into something n not giving clear signs it's hard to say.I was telling my guy may be he is a side man or a plan B for the girl Lol

CertifiedFreak:
Dude, that babe could play hard to get her whole life.

Seriously; at times it seems no end in sight too soon. Ladies and their ways;I pity him but he is struggling to let go

ERCROSS:
O.p... It sounds like u r ur friend..

I am just struggling to advise a desperate and struggling friend that is why I decide to ask for more advice

My friend met a girl through one of his female friends who actually connected him to one of her single friend; because they live in different countries;actually my friend is the one that does all the callings and at times she hardly pick; he has to text her many times before getting a reply;but when they talk they have a good and healthy conversion.My friend is fed up after just a month because everything is just one way. Is she just playing hard to get??PLS ADVISE!!

1. The Chatterbox
This is the woman who never shuts up, barely stopping to breathe. Seemingly only concerned about what is going on in her life, she always has to make a comment about everything and dominates conversations.

2. The Desperate Chick
This type of woman will seem fantastic at first, until she starts talking about your wedding location, how many kids she wants and the name of your future dog–right after the first date! When a woman advances WAY faster than normal,watch out. She NEEDS a man so bad that she’s willing to put anybody in that slot, even the homeless
guy on the corner.

3. The Overly-Critical Woman
Anything you do for this type of woman is simply not good enough. Nothing seems to work unless it is done according to her standards. Anything that is said by anyone will be quickly taken out of context to become some sort of insult or some reason to wage war against the world. This type of woman has plenty of emotional baggage and will make you an angry and bitter person as there will be nothing but misery with her.
4. The Bimbo
This type of woman can’t obtain a GED but has managed to secure a PhD in the science of the bedroom. This is an intellectually challenged woman who looks great but, in all honesty, shouldn’t open her mouth. Her skills are unquestionably only rooted in the physical realm and unless you’re just after one-night stands, you do not want to bring a stupid girl home to meet Mom and Dad. The majority of girls you see on the streets everyday fall into this category,

5. The High Maintenance Chick
If this type of woman breaks a nail, she expects you to drop everything you’re doing to drive her to the salon immediately. Her daddy always told her she was a princess and she expects to be treated like one at all times. She has expensive taste and expects you to shower her with only the best things and take her out to posh places on a regular basis. If you don’t have a lot of money and a penchant for luxury, don’t even bother.

6. The Clingy Girl
This woman is a nuisance who can’t go anywhere or do anything without the company of her man. She’ll adopt your interests, calls 20 times a day and fly off the handle anytime she’s not around to monitor your behavior. This type of woman will smother any chance of you missing her by insisting that you spend every waking moment with her, refusing to let you go out with the boys or spend any significant amount of time with anyone else.

7. The Baby’s Mama
This woman has a great physique, great personality and her toes are pretty too! There’s only one problem–she’s got a pretty large amount of children with assorted “baby-daddy’s”, and when women like this get desperate, any and every guy has the potential to be “daddy.” This woman got knocked up by somebody that she was supposedly in love with, and not only is she a bad judge of character, she’s GROSSLY irresponsible. The same guys that are “jerks” now are the same guys she once thought the world of and had unprotected sex with.

8. The Gold Digger
The Gold-Digger will compliment you on your expensive watch, ask you what kind of car you drive, what you do for a living, where you live and so on. Like the high maintenance woman, the Gold Digger is basically looking for a sugar daddy, she’ll size you up within the first five minutes and drop you just as quickly if your cash flow runs out and you can’t take her shopping anymore. These types of women will just suck your wallet dry and leave you emasculated. Fortunately,you can usually see this type coming from a mile away. She wants to write out the names of all her designer items and post it on Instagram, Twitter and Facebook.

9. The Club Girl
Club girls are nothing more than fantasy women who have been practically living in bars and clubs since they hit the legal drinking age. They have beautiful faces with full lips, big doe eyes, great legs, and all the curves you could ever ask for. The problem in dating these women is that they love to wear clothes that show off their great assets not just to you, but to every Tom, man-hood and Harry on the street. A woman like this may be carefree and wild; however, once you take a closer look, you’ll realize that her entire life is a party and most nights will end with her puking in your car. Or waking up hungover, in some guy’s bed in the morning.

10. The Feminist
This type of woman can never be pleased by a man and she believes that men are the cause of all the pains and suffering of society. It is her strong belief that women are much more intelligent than men and are capable of doing things “the right way”. You don’t want to waste any time with this type of woman because anything that you do willalways be negative to her.
Ladies, your take on this article?

http://www.trendingdailypost.com/2015/03/men-please-dont-ever-consider-marrying.html

ronald4lif:


Nawa ohh, this matter no be here.

Okay, the ladies that usually get attracted to him are they people he's acquainted with? Like his colleagues at work place or at where he worships etc? I am considering the fact that he may be acting too mature and maybe intelligent around them and this could be what is attracting them towards him. Or is it just random women he meets that aren't connected to him from anywhere?

He dresses good, doesn't look older than his real age (28years is 2years older and shouldn't make any difference) and doesn't attract girls around his age. Hmmm. Sorry how uncomfortable are girls his age are when they are around him? He should try wooing more girls and hopefully he would get someone around his age

Thanks for the advice,you may be right on the first point,he is an awesome,spontaneous n amazingly intelligent guy,he knows n can discuss any subject like his speciality