Iammercy2018:
Below are the pictures I was able to take during my lunch time.

This hotel is really affordable and the meals are very good and cheap.

I'd recommend anyone coming to Maputo to try them out

By the way, I will be back to Nigeria anytime next week

What is the name of the hotel? I might visit Mozambique next month for holidays

Are we saying that we don't have Nigerians here. This is great place to hustle. I will be working here with an international NGO. Just want to connect with some Nigerians living here

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Are you saying we don't have Nigerians this side.

I am planning to move to Lilongwe Malawi. Any Nigerian or nlander already living there, let's meet here, share ideas and tips. God bless our hustle!

Stop judging me;my intention is genuine

ThatVvnGurl:
Each time you see her you just want to make her your girlfriend?

Translation: Each tym you see her you just want to knack her akpako...

If that's all there is to it she doesn't need that friendship.

I met this pretty,hot and intelligent girl; I wanted to make her my girl but she told she has a boy friend and they are planning on settling down soon. She said we can still be friends if I wanted to; we've been really close lately; but I still have feelings for her. I am thinking of letting go of our friendship and move on; as I can't keep her as a friend; as each time we see I just want to make her my girl friend. Advise pls!!!!

Go to the marketing field; an area that is indispensable and core for every business. Good luck

pinceprinz:
well, maybe you're not playing your cards right at being the total as.shole that could feign the absolute nonexistence of a significant other.

I don't want to be an asshole here;I want to wipe her in a friendly way or send her to the friendzone

tosyne2much:
Abi I no talk am well ni?

Not necessarily the case here

GloryIsaac:
Op, Why start what you can't finish ....
Well, ghosting would solve it ....

My 2 cents ..

No be all race you start you fit finish na

olac21:


Hmmm...I understand now!but pls,aren't you of marriageable age at the moment?and you said she is pretty..if I may ask-what other thing do you need since you said she's pretty?

Ps-tell her to give you more time..say more months...

Of course I can comfortably get married any time I wish;being pretty is not enough there is lot of stuff,probably I will have to do a thread on that I guess lol

juhan:
lol you too. Try to be perfect and stop breaking people's hearts

Hahaha I wish to be,it's been a turbulent and roller coaster journey,may be you can teach me some tips to pull it off.

olac21:
Could you pls explain in details what happened that made you think you guys can't continue?I think that will help shape my opinion!

Mrcork..long time!just arrived from a lenghty ban!

She wants someone to settle down with as in getting married,I can't be discussing marriage with someone in a very young relationship;plus she is of course pretty but there are load of stuff I want in a potential wife which I am yet to discover in her;so her wanting commitment at this stage of our relationship doesn't bode well with me.

juhan:
im enjoying it o. Silly mistakes are not allowed.

Hehehe you talk too much sha,keep striving towards perfection,the moon is your walking glass.

pinceprinz:
Stop doing all yo doing, chatting, catching out etc and the message will be sent in full red light . Easy isn't it?

If she's bold enough to ask whatsup, just say "nothing" and smile.

Then, no more word from u... You'll be forgotten like u forgot whatever hapind when u were 5months old

She seems stubborn,because I tried ignoring her but it doesn't seem to be working for me lol

mhiz:

She may go hysterical or stuff, but she will respect you for it later. Its better than letting her invest more of herself. The sooner you tell her, the better and easier for you.

I agree with you,that's why I wanna do it now;I have been ignoring her and stuff but it's not working so far.

juhan:
hmmm ah don hear o just try talk to d babe and use style shift from her.


P.S You're still a heartbreaker to me

You have a perfect world I see,where mistakes are not allowed.Enjoy it queen

CarrotAndStick:

You were blind when you wooed her but after fucking her upandan she's no longer the type for you to settle with?

We bleeped each other and enjoyed the ecstasy;it wasn't a one way street.

CarrotAndStick:
You must marry her

. Hehehe talking about marriage within a month in a relationship is a turn off for me.

mhiz:
Instead of looking for excuses, Just plainly tell her that you don't think u can go on with what ever you guys have going on. She might feel bad, but it would be better in d long run.

. I am garnering the courage to make such blunt outpouring.That seems harsh though and I don't want to deal with her immediate reaction.

juhan:
just a month old relationship? So you wanna break up with her after one month?? Keep tryin' to convince yourself that you arent a heartbreaker.

. I am not trying I know I am not;even if you label me one by your own standard. If I were heart breaker then there is no point to ask for advice here,I would just do the breaking my way. Stop being unreasonable and too hard on me.

halfricanadian:


see as u wash me sha

Just saying though,no hard feelings or anger pouring.I value your opinion highly ,but just sharing my perspective on the ish.

juhan:
then why lead the babe when you know you aint in for sth serious. You are a heartbreaker!

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This is only a month old relationship;we were trying to get to know each other;she is over zealous and want commitment but I don't feel she is the best person for me,so I don't want to make promises I can't keep.Stop judging me and understand the context of my situation. I know you don't decide to commit with someone from the first day you meet them,so I am no angel just human like you.

delishpot:
Stop all communications if you can.

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I tried that but it's not working so far;plus I find it harsh and extreme

halfricanadian:
U started it gather up ur ish


u guys will cause probls and b looking for help upandan

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We are humans na;we just can't prognosticate the future;stop acting like you are superwoman who got the whole shit figured out all of the times

tosyne2much:
Dis thing dey very easy now... To make her lose interest in you, when you want to start up a chat on whatsapp or BBM, kindly start the chat with What's up friend?


Come and thank me later

Hahahaha that's a mean trick;you crack me up;thanks for the advice

juhan:
All these heartbreakers sef

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I am no heart breaker that's why I didn't do it the hard way;not every relationship must last forever

talk2alabama:
There will be a time u"d want smth serious wit a girl and she will definitely break ur heart op.. why u doin dis to dat poor girl

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Stop cursing me;I am pained too;but I am doing it for both us,so we are free and get people we want to be with

ArchEnemy:
There is no need to be confused Bro
Heard about the starving technique?
Starve her of your time and attention
Chikena

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Thanks that's a great start and see how it goes

Hello nlanders, I met this girl and we exchanged numbers;after couple of days chatting and talking we started going out and it's like a month now together I have been trying to get to know her;but she wants something serious ,I realized she is not the type of person I would like to commit with after getting to know her a little.I want to end the relationship in a peaceful and subtle way and let her move on;but she is all over the place calling and texting like forever,I am struggling to get rid of her.Guyz your advise and tips are welcome;cause I am really confused.

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