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Papine!!!! See your head

He bribed Seun's grandma.

invisible!:
Why should your husband do tea for you or even cook for you? So that you can preserve that artificial nails that look like talons?

Men should cook only once in six months!

Leilah:
thats lovely Gabryll, I am happy for you, mine can't even boil rice for with stew, just the way his mammy has em. But its all good.

Leilah and Invisible.

U are getting it all all wrong.This your mentality should be discarded when having any relationship. In a relationship, both party should not be too concern on how much each other is doing for another. Untill both parties understands this and have let it go and is willing to sacrifice for the otheris the time both parties are ready for a marriage. if you are not being selfless, please stay far away from marriage as you will encourage another divorce situaion in times to come.

Leilah, before yu even marry the dude, you sould have identified what you could stand of him and what you can't stand of him. U should already know before hand that he does not cook and all this stuff and if you do, u shoulod accept his flauss to begin with before even commiting to a marriage. Dont you think so?

Huh? What do you mean bro?

[size=25pt]SISSY!!![/size]

I like y me for her maturity level and I like patwhiz for her innocense level

O Boy! Postr Poster Postr, its obvious you are never in love. .U are only in LUST cause if you are in love, a couple will nevr dey hide anything now. . . Even if we did, we know that each oher is hiding somthing from another. My bf is readin this and he is calling you a Mumu.


U get annoyed because your wife is cautious about herself and she has a low self esteem. . . Its obvious you have not figured out who and what she is befoe even marrying her. . . It th real hard cold fact, you dont know what you got married to and when you finally knew, you dey want to run away like a yeye fowl

Ok, Ok, I read Leilah's post. Leilah. . . U claim that Naija men do not make tea for their wife?

My bf is 100% pure breed Nigerian guy and he cooks for me most of the time. Now cooking is far more work than making tea. What do you call that?

amebo no1.:
seriously gabby,u r quite different,u need to read leilahs posts from beginning,this girl has never said anything good about naija men,so she deserves whatever insults she receives here

Ok, let me check naa

Quoted by: Leilah

look I am only after coming back now! jeez honestly this has nothing to do with me

I thought this lady was married to a Nigerian aswell.

From what I learned of Moroccan men from some of the girls that used to go to the mosque here was that they are a bunch of selfish users!
i was there on holiday with my husband last July, lovely place, bunch of sleazebags though!!

naah that aint my daughter I just love this kid! but seen as people think I'm messing, Ill post my picture up again!

sara j, I think because if Islam they dont get along with Christians. I am an apostate of islam sadly. At the end of the day, the moroccan will go to a muslim moroccan woman. Did he force you to convert to islam?

Why dont you log on to www.morocco.com there is a discussion forum there.

They pretend that they are not strict muslims (to get what they want) then when they DO get what they want they are really mean, well thats what I heard.

I was married to very strict muslim man in the states i was engaged to an eyptian years ago and i tell you I ran as fast as my feet could take me! I tell ya Nigerian men are better than some arabs especially these moroccans and Egyptians. furthermore they wont judge you on what your wearing.  I used to have to wear niqaab.  But there came a day when I just decided it wasnt for me to continue my life under constant rules, regulations etc all in the name of culture. So remeber, they go back that way of life.  You will need to discuss seriiously why he commiting 'dirty acts' sins ie haraam things. Ask him go on. Ask him to [b]walah? and if he says wallah lazeem you say to him he is swearing to Allah Subhana wataalah, to be very serious.

Knew one lady who was a stunning looking woman (moroccan) her husband brought her over here and treated her very bad staying out all night n all. does this husband of your have a brother called Aziz??not even this moroccan woman put up with it she was gone on her toes.

OI have put a picture of my child up now my one and only darlling that I have from a previous marriage (an islamic marriage) note

NA WAAA for this Leilah ooo. . . Seriously lady. . . Now I know why Amebo and JJYOU and Michelin and ma sista Morenike dey vex and beef at ya. . . HMMM! Im seriously offended now. . .  

Mind you! My uncle is an Arab man and he is married to my aunt for a DAMN FREAKIN 27 years and they have 3 daughters and all of them are gwon ups and successfull busines woman and still my uncle is happily married to her so abeg! Stop generalizing. . . And Im offended una dey yab about Morocon peeps!!! My Arabian Uncle's sister is married to a Morocon and he did not show sign of being anywhere which you have just mentioned. In Arab theres like millions of people and so is in Moroco. Have you interviewed with every single one of them to classified all of them as being the same?

Hmmm. . . Una no well atall. . .      

)(*!@#&$!&@#()$&!)@#$&!!!

JJYOU:
IF YOUR MARRIAGE IS WONDERFUL WHY DO YOU THINK NIGERIAN MEN ARE EVIL THEN? WHO GAVE YOU THAT IDEA? you are such a wicked twisted woman i am beginning to believe you hate yourself. you have moved to bashing morocco men so can you go enjoy your marriage and leave us alone please. gaby, pls go back and see leilah poisonous words. she is nasty.

Nigerian men are evil? Really? Hmmmm. . . Leilah, you should come down to Asia. I'll show you evil men vary from different race and culture. . . U'll gt shock out of your life. Seriously. . .

JJYOU, Go back where naa?

amebo no1.:
dont mind d idiot,leilah has a very wicked heart, her stupidity has become her national flag

i think the best thing for her to do in this life,is commit suicide cos shes useless to her husband,kids,society and the world atlarge

amebo no1.:
heheheh gabby but you know i dont hate you

Yes cause I love you ooo

Leilah:
Seun, pls note that the minute amebo1 stepped on she never had one decent civilised piece of advice. She hate me, she hates oyibo's too (all of them) it seems.

Haha! Dont mind that Nairalander. She has to live up to her ID name. LMAO!!! Dont worry. . . She might sound like she hates us but deep within her, she love us to death



SaraJ,
Im so sorry to hear this but let me tell you sumthin.

I have a cousin whom was forced to get married because she got herself pregnant at age 21. Anyways, it didnt matter cause she really love this guy. Then this husband of hers is basically broke and do not have a job. He pleaded her to help him open a company and also to buy a car. She did so in the name of love. She opened a business for him and had to pay monthly installments on the car and the company for him.

He promised when the business is in good shape he will take over the finance. But what he did? He did not went to work most of the days and the time her daughter reached four, she found out that this husband of hers is sleeping with a variety of prostitutes and had been borrowing money from their neighbours and all of her friends. They have been chasing her for money since than. The worse part is that she is living with her inlaws and everyday, her mother in law and her sister in law mocks the daylights out of her.

I saw her in her sad sad look and one day I talked to her and she just poured out the whole thing to me. U know what I told her? I told her to not think of any reasons and excuses behind this. Its time to move on. I dragged her to that hell house, I packed all of her stuff. I even carried my hockey stick along incase if the people there wants to bash us up. I went there and took her things and her daughter and I told them to shutup or I'll beat the hell out of them senselessly! Thats how angry I was. I told my cousin to keep quiet and let me handle all of this. Im doing her a favour cause she is living with her inlaws.

Since u are there and your in laws are not around, just pack and leave. It will take you some time to get over it. At least you dont have to pay for any debts. . . If you are afraid,. please call your family members or friends to help you move out of that shit hole and take your son along with you.

My cousin still have to pay the owner of the shop lot the 24 months of rental or else she will get sued in court. The company is under her name so she will get sued anytime and yet the company is under bancruptcy. She had to pay the car cause the car is also under her name. And yet she had to bring up her daughter and also she had to pay the lawyer fee for the divorce papers. She is only 25 years old. The same like you. We are family and I've been helping her to pay up her debts as well so is our other family members and thats why I say blood is always thicker than water.

So my dear, its not the end of the world. You still have your son to depend on. You still have your family to depend on. Bring up your son and give him a good life. Make sure he does not follows his father's footsteps. Cherish him as at this point of time, that todler needs you to be at his side (considering his father wont be there for him after that). . .

The first stage is alway difficult and all it takes is just some effort and willpower and after that, life would be easier. Trust me on that one.

Please! I beg you. . . No matter what. Blood is thicker than water. Leave that guy and go back to your parents. They will except you no matter what. We are only humans. Mistakes are bound to be made yet we correct them and learn from them and thats what will make us a better person.

Sparta, good advice

It depends how people see it and how people use it.

ok

Hope it helps. Tell us what did you chose finally.

uhmmm

How about

1) Tribes which is dominated by females
2) The mythology of cultural beliefs
3) cross cultural marriages
4) bizzare cultural practices and beliefs
5) Eating habbits of different cultures. U can make a comparison and why the behave and eat that way
6) which is more stronger when bringing up a child. nature or nurture?
7) The society's mentality today towards special people (eg: dwarfism/asperger syndrome/etc)
Tribes which focuses on marrying / having sexual acts with your own family member

Oh My God! The retarded bimbo above me is still alive. . . Lord have mercy

See how some people get so emotional over here. . . Geeeez. . . Lighten up!   


menopause dey strike some of you for hia. . . How sad. . .

Hey, sorry for the late reply. My YIM is    and yes, it means Yahoo Instant Messenger. Please notify yourself cause Im scared terrorist dey attack me for hia. 

I've been a memberof a long time ago naa. I invite all my friends there so since I recently know you, therefore I invite you in as well.

Too cute my dear, you shouldnt bother what other people have to say. . . In this world, 97% of humans will always think negatively and say something bad. . . 70% of them do not mean what they say and the rest really mean it.

Its just human nature naaa.

If I were you, completely ignore those whom hurt your feelings and value those whom are nice.

Thats all dear.

ROTFLMAO!!!       


Geeeezzzz. . . . U are funny ooo. . . . . I swear if its not my bf I would date you for your sense of humor but the problem with you is that you like toasting here and there and everywhere. I cannot catch upto your speed naa. 

Thank you. I'd rather feel and act young rather than acting old and )(*!@#&$(*)@#!&$

Brein, meet cha at www..com

Eya pele oo. . . The time I create this thread it was already 1.00am. Wanted to be the first person to wish you. HAHA!

LOL! Shining ehn? Ill dip her in oil so that sh will look shiny for you.

uyimen:
Hi everyone, Hi Gabby,

wats up?

have i missed much?

Hy, where have you been? Do you have YIM?

lance_vader:
whats happening in here @gab watsyup now waetin dae now why all dese guys wan marry yu once lmao

No mind them. They are just follin around.

AnthonyKil:
Now who would fall in love with a Molerat?

Guys, check it out. Its Bbee's buffday today!!! Hooray!!! Wish him Happy Buffday hia!!!

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-263187.0.html

OR hia

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Ok, back to topic:

Seems like he likes bowling