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Who is Leila?

And Im sorry ooo but I just happen to face this. . .  And if its petty, why not to tell me what shoudl I do?

To be honest, i would never thought people would fall for me especially when their ex gf's are so much prettier and hotter and sexier than I am. I guess I am all wrong when it comes to judging guys. . .

Ok, i have been keeping this to myself for quite sometime now and i think its getting to me cause Im unable to talk to anyone about this! I really really need you guy's advise. Pleaseee. . . This is actualkly killing me!

My bf and I have been living together in one house together with 5 other housemates. One of them is my bf's childhood/ best and close friend. They both were neightbours in naija and both travelled to malaysia to study and work.

Anyways, somewhere before Val's day, his friend had admitted how much he loves me and he could not stand it. I did not take it seriously because he has a gf. . . A Canadian girl for that matter and that girl is soooo beautiful and slim and sooo attractive. to be honest, I like her alot because she is one of the most nicest person which I have ever met! But just before he admitted his feelings towards me, he dumped his gf and told her infront of my face that he does not love her anymore because theres no spark. To be honest, I almost fainted hearing this. The poor girl cried hysterically and begged him but he told her he has no feelings for her.

Anyways, its killing me all the time cause like most of the time, he would tell my bf on how lucky he is to have me as his gf and he would give that look on me and I just feel sooo uncomfortable. And he would always find opportunities to tell me his feelings. . . I told him off that I will only love my bf and no one else and I even made it clear that I dont want to get involve with him but he never gave up.

I wanted to tell my bf just like how I told him about how other guys come and bugged me but the thing is that I dont like to spoil their relationship as best friends. . . I would feel even more worst off.

Last week, I came to a conclusion to move out from that house and find somehwere else and I told my bf and he agrees but providing that friend of his moves in as well. Im like URGHHHH. . . . .

I mean what do you think i should do if you were in my shoes?

Hmmm. . . . I dont give a shit ooo. . . They might be beautiful and slimmer than me but I bet they cannot beat my spirit and presence! I know am wittier, am funnier, smarter, outgoing, sociable and crazier!


There you go poster, thats one example of being motivated, appreciating yourself, having a high confidance and having a higher self esteem on yourself.

Wow! This placeseems to be a successful place for toasting. carry on jor. If you guys need a wedding planner or a pastor to conduct the mass, dey holla me.

Nahhh. . . Poster, Not all men are like that cause mine is not like that. . . but sad to say, my brother is like what you have described. Just thank God his fiance is ditsy

No wonder most men goes to hell

Phew! Thank God I aint white

Gabby raises her right toe up high in the air.

Pele ooo papine but believe it or not, throughout my entire life, I only have 1 bf and Im with him and this year will be our 5th year together so i dont how does it feel to be heart broken or to be dashed or to even hurt other people. Consider myself without much experience.

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head Chef

Can be a very good future role model.

U look like an innocent boy but actually you are really a yeye boy

u again yeye. A yeye like me no fit date a yeye like him

ufuoma25:
em don watch 2 many movies and em don illogically come 2 d conclusion say most gals go open their tin whn em hear d word

ufuoma25:
but i cnt blame dguys sha 4 tryn cos even in dis day n age sum mumu gals stil dey fall 4 dat kain phoney line

You think so? I guess maybe you're right?

demystify:
@topic
It's a thing with many guys not only Nigeiran guys.
Most girls love to hear "i love u" and they start drooling.
A guy may disown his family just to get into ur pants. The "i love u" they now use is like to get a gate pass.

I guess so ooo

Pitchblack:
@topic - dont agree with this at all,
or maybe ill say it depends within an age group, if u r talking of immature boyz that just want to get laid, maybe!

As for Nigerian MEN that know what they want and know what they are looking for in a woman. This statement just doesnt gel gal, Nigerian men are one of the very few men in the African continent that are very genuine and they actually take their time studying a woman before they can even say the " I love you" words, and when they say it trust me its very genuine.

Unless all you have met is some loosers that were just tryin to use and dump you, or even make the rest of Nigerian men look bad, i can tell you now that Nigerian men are not like that, not at all.

I dont know ooo but so far looking at the response, majority seems to be agreeing that the guys says I love you just to have sex with a female. Am not saying that they claim love because they are really in love. Im asking why they just simply like to say i love you for no reason?

belemzy:
Y ALL THIS PLENTY WAHALA SEF?WE ALL KNOW NIJAA MEN DON'T FALL IN LOVE.EVEN THE MARRIED ONE'S DONT STICK TO THEIR WIVES,ITS A PITTY MOST GIRLS THINK MEN FALL IN LOVE.NO NOT FOR D NIJAA ONES.ALL THEY WANT IS TO INSERT THEIR SIM CARDS IN EVERY HOLE THEY COME ACROSS.

I guess you are right in a way

pop247:
_{back on track} are u trying to say that 9ja dudus are womanizers or what. pls be plain and let get ur point now. _{stop beating around the bush}

Well, looking at the comments made here, I guess yeah, you can say that.

Tyty, even if Im not celebratin a party, I would always want you to come over.

Poster, for you to ask this question, am assuming you are bored. . . Common now. . . if you are bored, I dey invite you to ma house to sing karaoke, eat groundnuts and drink pure water

yes

dani, Shola, Hussie, Where have you guys been? I really miss you guys ooo. . . .

Gabby raises her cute hands up! 

ok

Y-HU§TL£R:
HUSSIE IS BACK


WHAT IS HAPPENING HERE?

Hey Sweetie, where have you been?

crazykid:
@Gab. Ikoyi is like the heaven of Lagos. Its the most expensive part of Lagos. And that's where I wuz based before I decided to patronise my place.

crazykid:
@Clem. I wasn't living in a rented apartment in ikoyi. I only relocated here because I have some family issues to settle. Once am done, I shall relocate back to my mansion.

Pele ooo but always thank God for a life

Crazykid,

your wife BlueDiva is waiting for you in the other thread naa. What are you still doing here? 


https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-238931.0.html

LMAO! This is hilarious. . .

Sista Michelin, do you think that this thread is enough hillarious to be move to the Jokes section?

Ehmm Ehmmm Ehmm. . . Poster, if you think Im Albino, so I am and if you think Im Asian, than I am. O Ya, make your pick!


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sexyLeamon:

sexyLeamon:
yes I do know her by the way ur topic is really dumb

Siena:
Does it really matter?

You had to actually start a thread about her?

DeltaVAG^TM

Mustay:
Not everything that appears online is verifiable.

UNLEASHED:
A nice job you've got!

Dclique:
This isnt necessary.

dani1luv:
I have seen gabby before . . . ; On webcam

So you all sh0uld stop this Nonsence!!

Michelin Lock this Thread!!!

Yeah. . . I know right?

pop247:
i know but atleast for the fact that he is handsome, u can admire him _{(his handsome)}

Nahhh. . . Not really. . . I mean like the lady has a husband and her husband is handsome. Seriously and honestly, it never came accross my mind. Like I said, its just me. I dont really dig people's looks thats all

Hey Crazykid, I hear ya. Wassup?

Ben, nahhh. . . Im thankful for what I have

LOmade, are you sure you like India?