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[quote author=na2day? link=topic=144234.msg2495679#msg2495679 date=1215813476]which nairaland u dey talk about? most girls for here na[b] tufiakwa[/b]! why u think say them dey fear put up there pics?

@ gabrywyl

the difference in your pics(with makeup and without makeup) is the makeup. let me know if i am wrong.[/quote]Ok. Its your own opinion. No pro ma bobo 


What is tufiakwa

When you saw a message sent stating I miss you too please dont jump into any conclusions. . . . . He could have said it to his long time ago friend or his sister or his best friend. . . Who knows. And if he finds out that you took a peek at his private property he might not want to trust you. Girl, why not just tell him how you feel and give each other your most honest feedback?

WendyRao:
1) Do you love him--Whom going to to tell me what is the meaning of Love.

2) Do you trust him--First time we departed almost 5-month,someone told me my boyfriend has hooked up with another woman already,I heard it,but actually I can never believe such thing happened on me,Anyhow i pretend as I don't know,early morning I took flight to his city ,because flight delay ,He waited me in airport more than 3-Hours(he deserved it),enter his house,on shoe-shelf,I saw one women's slipper,try to seach whether i can find out something more,look around the house,nothing elses, Still pretend like nothing happened,he went in bathroom, as women being,i picked his phone,checked the record,founds on sent message "I miss you Too, ",

(GUESS WHAT I HAVE DONE WITH THIS ISSUE,PLEASE)



3) Do you see any future with him in the future ---at moment can not reply on this point,though his parents has been pushing said wonna see me, but i think only wonna to see me doesnt mean anything, right?

Girl, you mean you honestly dont know what love is? Then why are you in a relationship in the first place?

Ok, for me I think that when you love someone, you are willing to give up your life for that person (at least thats what I think it should be). Its like you treat that person as your other half and without that other half, you would feel empty. Now, do you happen to feel that way about him? If you dont, that means you dont love him at all. You really need a reason why you should be in love with that person you know? Thats why I stayed single for 24 years because I dont find any reason to fall in love and also I havent found my other half not till the day I met my boyfriend then everything changed.

I must really warned you about being in a relationship. Never ever ever EVER believe what other people have to tell you unless if you see it with your own eyes. The problem here is that you already have doubts on your bf and you dont trust him any longer because you go and try to find out if he's having another girl so if this is the case, I suggest you just leave him and move on with life. Its no point to be with a guy when you dont trust him.

Few months ago, one of my bf friends send me a picture of my bf kissing a girl. That friend expected me to be jelous and to break up with my bf after seeing it but I didn't and you know why? Because a picture means a thousand words. It could be that that time he gave that girl a smooch on the cheek to say Hi or to congratulate her (well, the kiss was on the cheek) but anyways, I showed my bf the picture and then he showed me a picture of me hugging another guy (also being sent by this same friend to his) where that time, I wasn't hugging him, I was shaking hands with him but the picture looked like we were hugging so thats why I say a picture describe a thousand words. We laughed about it and soon came to find out that his friend did that because he wanted to be my bf and thats why he tried to broke us off. To be in a relationship, you must be able to tolerate and sacrifice alot of things.

I am not sure whether if you want to keep up to this or not because of the following:-
1) You are basically so confuse and you dont know what love is yet you are in a relationship (Why rush into things when you're still young or not ready?)
2) You seem to not trust him at all (since in a relationship, trust is the most important thing in a relationship)
3) You dont know whether you will want to live with your bf for the rest of your life or not. If you dont know, than dont be with him any longer. Why torture yourself for something which is not store for you in the future?

Yes, his parents might want to see you maybe cause they think that you're just a friend. I dont know, it could happen. Life is too short to worry so make the wises decision before its too late.

[quote author=LAKANYE~ link=topic=149943.msg2496454#msg2496454 date=1215836327]GABRYWYL,
AFTER REVIEWING THE PICTURE ON YOUR PROFILES, NA WHICH ABULE YOU COME FROM IN NIGERIA[/quote]I come from Nigerasia. I mean Malaysia

Hey Wendy,
Nice to hear from you girl. Yes, my boyfriend and I are well and we also dont stay together because I am staying with my parents and he is a student here in malaysia but the distance of us apart is a 2 hour flight by plane. He comes to visit every weekend and I go there also every weekend or sometimes 3 days a week because of work. I know that long distance relationships are hard but its all up to you both to work it out if you two love each other.

Ok, I think I understand what are you trying to say. You're actually saying that you and your bf have a long distance relationship and lately you both have been arguing over the phone for no reason at all? The thing which I dont understand here is why are you both arguing? And over what actually? There must be a reason. I think he is frustrated just cause its a long distance relationship and also that you're not there by his side to be with him, to show affection, to comfort him, to cure his loneliness, to support him mentally, emotionally and physically.

And also do you actually love him? Thats the first question you must ask yourself. If yes, than maybe you should try to talk to him. Tell him how you honestly feel about him. You know, in a relationship, a question like asking him whether is it true that Nigerian men would marry their kind in the end should be brought out to the table. You two should be honest and open with each other.

And also I would like to advise you is that trust is the most key importanbt factor in a relationship. If you dont trust him, its best you move on. I believe you're still young and theres so many other fishes in the sea.

I think the answer to your problems all begins with you. Look at yourself, judge yourself, analyze yourself first. Ask yourself these questions before you judge and analyze him.
1) Do you love him
2) Do you trust him
3) Do you see any future with him in the future

If you can answer that, then you know what you are suppose to do from there.

Yeap Tim. Have always got so many things to learn everyday but I believe in time, I will get to know more of Nigeria.

Ok, I also have to go. Going for Band practise. I'll see you around. Odabo Bobo. (Thanks for teaching me a new word)

olrotimi:
moms are more dificult to deal with

HAHA! Agree!

but my bf is best friends with her. . . . . .

Wendy,
I think its not right for you to generalize the whole Nigerian people just because you are confuse with your boy. What exactly did he do to you which makes you confuse?

I'm also dating a Nigerian guy and we've been dating for 10 months.

To be honest with you, I have been travelling to some parts of the globe like Greece, Australia, China, Hong Kong, Switzerland, America, Canada, Singapore, Indonesia, Egypt, New Zealand, Pakistan and etc etc etc. . . . . I honestly feel that wherever you are, the people's personality everywhere varies so its very subjective to comment on how a particular country's people are behaving. It takes so many different types of people to make up the world if you know what I mean.

If you need someone to talk to, I'm available for you girlfriend. No probs.

Uhm. . . . Poster, I'm so sorry to hear that ?

timmfikk:
Sincerely speaking i sidely agree with your boyfrend, because times without number God is only the one who really know what can happen in the next second or minutes but we all can really believe in people whom God use to give out revelations of what can happen tomorrow, i think the right thing is to get yourself focused with it. Believe in that Gift its really great to hear you learned it from your Grandma, she also uses it for a purpose, and i can purposely tell you i have been trying this on my own looking for a means whereby i could have such a gift, to look into my people and tell them your future is realy awesome i just saw it right in your forehead, something strange, kind of feeling , emotional words telling them what might happen to them in the next years ahead and give them kind of instructions to use in making something bad do not happened to them, Sincerely i don't think its a bad thing and i know with my message you will have something to deliver to me so soon which i will also be happy to hold on to and work on it myself.

You can do reading as well OH COOL! No wonder you sound so open to this.

Uhm . . . . . I just only realize that alot of Nigerian men age 20 and above sounded so mature. Why is that so? Is it you guys were brought up that way or you had a hard life or what? Just curious cause the way you guys talk, its like a breath of fresh air and I'm very impress.

In Malaysia, boys age 20 and above usually behaves like their 12. They still expect their mommy to do their laundry and read them a bed time story and its all written all over their faces that they still needed to suck their thumbs.

Guys, Bobo means Boy in Naija language. I am confuse if its Pidgin/Broken English or Yoruba language but either way, thats what I meant.

Mig, what a bad taste of names to name your dog Bobo.

timmfikk:
Mo wa pa (means am okay), hope you can learn that too,

So how have you been doing , its cool so you really do look into someone in the eye and tell him/her some things for the future, i think its really great to hear that, its a gift from God i believe so keep it up.

Yes, am learning new things everyday. Just that I get confuse at times as am learning to speak french, mandarin and hakkha at the same time too. Sometimes when I talk, I tend to mix up all the languages together without noticing it and my family and friends would look at me with total confusion. . . (sigh)

Oh No. . . . dont think its a gift from God as I learn it from my grandmother but am planning to stop cause it wont be good to let people know about their future and also my bf dont really like it as well. He says we all cannot predict the future and we cannot go against God's will. Dont know. What do you think?

dreeldee:
you dey try small small

OOOHHH. Something new to learn today. I think it means I try talking little by little? Is it dreeldee?

Hey timmfikk,

Bawo ni ?

No bobo. I have been here almost everyday but not as often as before. Had been active in a few threads though.

@ Topic,

Yes and No.

Yes if the interviewer wanted to do something nasty or fishy with you instead of conducting the real interview.

No cause an interview does not last forever but only a few minute so just be patient.

dreeldee:
got me scared on that one, thank goodness you're reading the good part now. I'm glad to know that too

HAHAHA! No pro ma bobo

oYaTo:
u cudn't av said it better. I try to use my own creativity and imagination to compose txt msgs, and when i see a chic i'm attracted to, i say whatever comes to mind, at the same time tryin' to be as ingenuous and charming as possible. .works 4 me

Good for you Bobo

dreeldee:
wow!! i'm really impressed. they must be doing a serious job in teaching you that especially the yoruba language hehehe

hmm serious about my face features? so you really read peoples facial features for real?

Heheh! Thanks for the compliment. But hardly can find them around here lately. . .

Well, sort of. I actually stop for quite sometime after identifying that my cousin brother would die of a tragic accident at age 24 and he really did. It was hell and should not have told him. But sorry for reading you, I kinda miss it actually. But I only read the good stuff now so its ok.

My dad dont come up with the rules, my mom does. She's the Boss

dreeldee,

Hai Bobo. . . . Na so life be ? Make u take em easy. This life no small village o. O jasi ni?

HEHEH!

(So far thats all I know. kingsikaz and Oyato taught me)

Am serious about your face features though.

dreeldee,

Your temple says you'll be a good husband and father in the future and your nose says you'll be quite well off. So I think its worth for you to be love and get love Bobo.

I know a little face reading. Heheh! Still not so good but will do.

I can't exactly tell you how love is. Have never felt it before untill last year I met my first bf and we've been dating till today and hope it will last forever. I think that when someone is in love, that someone would only care for the other person more than one self. When I know my bf is sad or having problems, I would want to help him out in any ways even if it means loosing everything. Its like I've been jinxed or something. . . . . I guess thats what love is? Caring for the other person more than yourself.

OK Bobo's. I'm outta here. You guys can continue talkin and Please. . . No cursing, no swearing, no yappin like a school boy ok? Otherwise granny will be please to molest you boys anytime anywhere!

So watch it and behave. . .

See ya! Peace out.

GUYS. . . . ENOUGH!!!!       Why are you all battling about the sexes since you guys are all the same sex which is a Male Sheesh . . . I should be battling with you guys insetad shouldn't I?

O, thats how the Indian culture is and always have been but not all indians follow it but still more than half follow it. Dont blame Mig. Its not his fault that he was brought up that way. You have your own culture as well so just let it go.

Jake, since when you know how to curse BAD BOY. 

Anthony, I don't know what to teach you anymore. You're getting way out of hand. When you come here, I'll have to leave you with the Monks instead . 

Mig, stop swearing and curSing your fellow brothers like that. Its very rude and wheres your manners  

END OF THIS TOPIC AND MOVE ON TO THE NEXT IMMEDIATELY!!!

AshtonJake:
You guys are crazy. . . . I don't know why on earth did I end up with you guys to begin with.

I'm not crazy. I'm perfectly normal.

AshtonJake:
Since when I don't see your mother, sister and cousin sister's torturing you you DIM WIT!! Are you sexist

Jake, in the Indian culture, theres this thing called daori. Its when a couple falls in love, they would have to go through a serious discussion with both sides of the family before getting married. The Female's parents have to pay the male's parents a certain amount of money and property based on what the male's family wants. Thats what Mig meant by having daughters will make him siffer cause he have to pay when she gets married in the future to an Indian man.When the male side of the family request for payment, its usually not cheap and it cost a bomb. The more the females side pay to the male's side, the better she will be treated in the family after marriage.

Mig, next time explain properly. Not everyone knowsof your Indian culture dude!

He wants to have four 2 girls and 2 boys

I want to have four with any sexes. Doesn't matter.

Ok Anthony but I think the number of babies I will produce wont be able to supply to all of your babies around the globe.

Anthony, You really have no other business to do. . . .

Which lady would want to make babies with you