₦airaland Forum

Jonathan:
E still better pass your gay bishops and pedophilic pastors nau

LivingSage:
Warn yasev , you've never ever been a Muslim. Besides, why do you Igbos always CASTIGATE Islam but glorifies and support SHIITE? Why?
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hakeemhakeem:
This is the time to deal with them with less crowd on the street also failed to abide the regulations of authority

Jonathan:
STFU!
what do you know about Islam.

You better face your donation

Ndi ara

Nebuchadnezar:
at least they're better than their sunni counterpart burning police stations and terrorising

they're maintaining social distancing and with protective equipments

thatigboman:
every can create a thread. Go to the section you want to create a thread eg politics, education etc, click on "Create New Topic", and u are good to go

KahlDrogo:
I am not. I am a responsible Shiite Ibo just like you my Loolo. That is why I have fallen hopelessly in lof with you.

KahlDrogo:
Good evening my coconut candy. Nwa baby. Hajiya Maimuna. I lof you so dearly.

weedfada:
Guy u wicked o! Chai!

Roon9:
Lmao! Nothing bubu no go see for Cuba

2buffagain:
1) Is she in school? What course is she in? If she is not in school what is she doing or aiming at? Basically analyze her for potential as she no doubt did you.

2) Eww. Why would I want a house wife?
I would rather she apply herself to other things besides only just child rearing, be it business or an actual career. Keeps her interesting and realistic. We should both be able to come back home and trade stories of our victories and learn from each other, as opposed to just "guess what, Junior pooped on me today".

That can happen for a time, but that cannot be her entire life plan.

Reason is that will become a problem when that child grows up and no longer need her or leaves the house, like they are supposed to. What next for her? She has done nothing else over the years. She used that child as an excuse to not engage her mind in other things.

Also you hardly hear men being honest about this, but There are a lot of men who would end up disrespecting her because she is fully dependent on him for everything. This typically begins after his first financial strain.

This is the point where she starts feeling useless and starts looking for funny ways to find relevance for herself. I would rather spare my wife from that psychological turmoil.

Wifey will understand that, as much as we love our children, they must leave the nest. Her life must continue after they do, so she can't afford to make it all about the children. Even so, God forbid but if something were to happen to him, would it not be better that the woman actually has the capability to keep that family going? Instead of everything going to hell. She would then not even be able to provide for the children who she has made her whole life about.

That aside, nobody is trying to have that many children in this day and age. 2 is fine. _{I can be persuaded to 3, but she would have to convince me hard to get that high.}

2buffagain:
Gentlemen. The reality of living in the 20th century has changed, and so must every notion formed from previous days that no longer hold weight today.

Women are not the only ones who should be asking what you do.
You should also be asking her what she does....and guaging her wifeability from her response.
Nobody likes to suffer...yourself included. So why sign up for a lifetime of every financial request of your immediate family (and possibly both your extended families ) coming to just you alone?

Gone are the days where families survived on one income alone. Those days, houses in Nigeria used to cost #5M or less. These same houses now cost well over #30M.

I can bet your income did not also inflate 6x over the same time.

The reality is that you need a wife who also brings something home, and honestly it should hopefully be around the same (or more God willing) of what you pull in.

This way one person's income can cover the family stuff and the other person's income goes towardssavings/investments/emergencies/joblessness buffering/ etc. Your family will go farther and you can even both retire earlier if this is done right.

Also Naija guys please, have some respect for yourself.
If you meet a girl and she has the mental configuration of always wanting money from you, just know that she is not the one.

As a sister here once said, "A girl who truly likes you, won't ask you for money...unless it's bad and you are her last resort."
Na woman talk am. Believe that sister. Peep that one game from her, and most of you will be alright.

If a girl really likes you, she'll be too busy trying to think of ways to be an asset to your life or impress you...not a taker.

Get you a girl who makes her money with a good source of income and who understands that her income is to be included in plans.

You have been told.
You should be done with your broke girl phase right about now ^{(much like how women should be done with their bad boy stage).}
It does nothing for your life.

NOTE: I am not saying go and marry an idiot because she makes money.... Obviously.
You are still looking for a good wife, who just ALSO happens to be equipped with income and/or good income prospects and drive.

aimuan:
That's why I called them our enemy.

helinues:
Bad luck, get back from me and stop quoting and mentioning me upadan

helinues:
The person can not exchange 3 messages without turning it to curse and abuse.. Though I am not from SE but I have lived with SE people and they are lovely not to talk of them in my region.

But she and others are just a disgrace like some nuisance Yoruba too..

See someone's comments see her response....

HMarshal:
Truth hurts didn't mean it's you,unless u know it's the truth that's when u hurting,or is it true igbos (even tho am one) is the Tribalisim capital of nigeria? If it's not,make ur arguments without any insults or demeaning phrases or words.dont be unfortunate .cos u culd become if u meddle with the wrong monikers

aimuan:
Before I start let me beg your pardon for my inevitable grammatical errors, I am not a proficient English writer.

This morning it was reported that Dead Bodies Are Loaded Into Refrigerated Truck With Forklift in the UNITED STATES OF AMERICAN (MAY GOD HEAL THEIR LAND) https://www.nairaland.com/5764697/covid-19-dead-bodies-loaded-into

sincerely I feel for them and I wish they and the rest of the world finds a lasting solution to this global pandemic.

But if the news was about how AMERICA RECORDED LOWEST FATALITY RATE,then comments like this the following would've filled the thread..

"If it were to be in Nigeria this and that(opposite) would have happened"

"Nigeria is a shithole "

"Why was I born in Nigeria"

Blablabla with many Negative comments about Nigeria, then you start wondering what brought Nigeria into it..

But now no one is talking about how Nigeria hv managed to have such a low fatality rate..I don't what to bring Ebola issue into this,but we all know what happened them.

Let me quickly refresh our memory with a thread created by tonybarcanista way back 2018

https://www.nairaland.com/3327789/kenya-ahead-nigeria-all-aspect

In that thread he highlighted many reasons why he thinks Kenya is better than Nigeria..after reading that thread I could not help but wonder why a citizen would write such Negative things with so much enthusiasm about his country and post in online for the whole world to see..

I mean I was just wondering how it makes them feel to bring down their country...or is there something I am missing here?

Of course Nigeria has the worst politicians on earth.wicked and insensitive thieves parading themselves as learders..BUT DOES BRINGING DOWN YOUR COUNTRY OR PORTRAYING YOUR COUNTRY IN A BAD LIGHT EQUATE FIGHTING THIS BAD LEARDERS?

I THINK WE SHOULD FIRST OF ALL DRAW A LINE BETWEEN FIGHTING OUR LEARDERS AND FIGHTING OUR COUNTRY. OUR LEARDERS ARE THE COMMON ENEMY AND NIGERIA IS THE VICTIM. OUR JOB IS TO FIGHT THIS EVIL LEARDERS.THEY HAVE KIDNAPPED THE NIGERIA OF OUR DREAM, LET'S FIGHT TOGETHER TO RESCUE NIGERIA AND HELP HER UNLEASH HER FULL POTENTIAL..

TO HELL WITH APC AND PDP I DON'T BELONG YO ANY PARTY,I BELONG TO NIGERIA.

GOD BLESS OUR MOTHER LAND NIGERIA

HMarshal:
It's a pity u r a female wit the xter of a demented mind.bitter
Fraustrated
Angry
Fed up of life (obvious)
Illeterate (even if u av a bsc)
Deprived of love
& Looking for ppl to be in cohort with u
Now all nairalanders know of ur predicament
Uld probly change monikers
It's good *smile*
Slong as u change
Don't bring the bitter ipob narrow mind here
Don't ever think every1 here is an illetrate or fraustrated or low lifed or un occupied
It's ok to belong to a queer school of tot
But be decent & matured about ur agruments cos u don't know who is who
#

LivingSage:
You and this helinues eh! Abi u wan marry Yoruba man?

HMarshal:
Fam,the only reason I replied u is because I tot u were matured & twas going to me a conversation ,if i knew you are a low life,fraustrating soul looking for were to vent his ignorant, adamant dirt's, I won't av even engaged u.fucking maggot,we having a conversation and u decide to drag me in ur mud dirt of a home to insult me wit ur 100naira data.igbos are the tribalisim capital of Nigeria,make ur point, let it go and u spew the rot in ur miserable guts.probly one of those ipob maggots.fucking dig bat ,if u r ibo (of course u r) I regret sharing the same ethic group with u,cos ur next generation will be full of same kind of narrow minded maggots.fucking idiot.am even done replying ur tribalisim ass u can take ur fraustration to the next guy #Rip

Cherez:
Bros do you live on Mars or Earth?
Igbos speak their language more in multi-tribal settings?
I had a manager Igbo with 3 Igbos and 5Yorubas in a team and for 4yrs in that team, my manager never spoke to me in Igbo but once the Yoruba manager came even in corporate meetings, he spoke Yoruba.
Oga Yorubas speak their languages more though I don't feel bad about this whenever it happens

HMarshal:
Maybe maybe maybe ,smile,like I said am done wit this.truth hurts.

Iamgrey5:
You need a dictionary bruv

I said igbos form unnecessary attachment to their tribe. The writer clearly stated what drives igbos is ethnic loyalty.

Ethnic loyalties. People are naturally tribal in the sense of wanting or needing to be part of a close-knit group (or groups).

You need to go off the grid and enroll in a night school for adult.

9japride:
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Don't mind them. Naturally I will tread with caution when dealing with people who want me dead. Just imagine a fellow Nigeria telling another tribe(Igbos) that they will never be president and you expect me and my love ones to play with you its not possible. It seems most Nigerians are naturally wicked and mischievous. All they think is how to oppress their neighbour that's why we are still in this state. Other countries the government try to help the needy but here its opposite. Just imagine having those popular tribalistic and hateful beings here who preach hate as president, they will make sure the Igbos suffer. Such a wicked world we live in. With all their propaganda the eastern part of Nigeria will keep progressing

Iamgrey5:
In the South-East and the South-South, a different scenario plays out. Religion and politics do not make the people draw the lines. What fires them up is more of ethnic loyalty.

Since you don't know how to read.

HMarshal:
Fam,the fact remains,the East is the Tribalisim capital of Nigeria.period