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i'm guessing your problem is the fact that both ur families are involved and his folks probably know u and have accepted you as their "wife"

Here's news for u, IT DOESN'T MATTER, it's ur life, don't do something u'll regret for the rest of ur life. u deserve respect, and the wedding is a very small part of marriage, quit this fool.

@poster,
i thnk u've made up ur mind to break it up with this chick, u're jus not sure how to do it without hurting her feelings, don't be in a relationship cos her family knows u, jus be a man and tell her u're no longer interested. once u say it, u'll feel better, and she'll definitely be better off , eventually.

@poster,
i thnk u've made up ur mind to break it up with this chick, u're jus not sure how to do it without hurting her feelings, don't be in a relationship cos her family knows u, jus be a man and tell her u're no longer interested. once u say it, u'll feel better, and she'll definitely be better off , eventually.

i think you left too much information, ur name is debisi and u went to u.i!!!, nairaland is not such a big secret, if your husband decides to visit someday,

i have a big campus show coming up and need a presenter to bring it to life, We've been considering Denrele, and now i think we'll jus pick him, he attracts plenty attention as i can see here now

The way i see it , we've got JD Rockafella, Lakshmi Mittal, Rupert Murdoch, Sam Walton, Bill Gates and em, Aliko Dangote.

These are entrepreneurs who create wealth and employ thousands of people either directly or indirectly, irrespective of where they are and the challenges they may face,

They make major decisions, take risks and are concerned about things like bottom line, profit margin, stock price, market indices. etc

On the other side we've got, Larry King, Jay Leno, David Letterman, Oprah Winfrey, etc

These are talk show hosts/entertainers who have the ability to appeal to peoples emotions and affect the way people think, and ultimately influence society,


They are concerned with crime, sexuality, morality, etc and sometimes they make a lot of money from this because of the power of the Media,

what exactly are we comparing?

A 26 year old lady is no child and she had choices on whether or not to agree to an abortion

She made a choice and she went through with it.

She should take some responsibility for the action and not blame it all on the guy.

The deed's been done so it's no time for castigating

if u really luv this girl like u say, there's no reason y u shouldn't go ahead and Marry her, but pls,Don't marry out of pity. Even u have only one life to live and u deserve to be happy.

All these people posting and insulting u, they are no better than you, not one of them.

Keep your head up, bro

i got info from an insider cos i wasn't called too , he said due to excess applications, the age limit was reduced to 25 yrs eventually ie (1982),

hey pls how do i get to do the insight test? i am interested in advertising, plss