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My wife went for vacation since first week of August 2022 and just came back over the weekend to resume work today being monday. I tried and hold myself all through her absence despite how uncomfortable I feel by excess "konji" asI vowed I must remain faithful and wait for her for us to eat our food when she is back.

However her attitude as she came back put me on the path of suspecting whether she may have been cheating on me. First as soon as she is back, because of the accumulated "konji" in my body, I was eargely waiting for the night so I can "chop" my food and offload the excess "Konji" as the sex.ual urge was too much on me. Surprisingly, when it was the time and I quickly initiated it, she was not even interested or having the feeling the way I did. I was shocked by her resistance for couples that have missed each other for a month and she was not having the feeling same way I did.I begin to reason does it mean she is enjoying herself and getting services from another man(men) that the urge is not there. It is not that I don't trust her,I did but such act surprised me.Secondly when she reluctantly yielded late night even though her initial act made me not to be interested anymore as such act lowered my sex.ual hormone, on starting the work, surprisingly I noticed that the "thing" is now wider than before that my "thing's is just like a tiny pole placed inside a big hole and not making contact. And that's not how it was before as it is more tighter before and holds my thing with resultant pleasure.

Intact I become confused but did not tell her anything to avoid planting the seed of mistrust in our marriage.Up till now I don't know what to do on whether I should ask her what exactly happened and has she been cheating on me all the while she traveled or is there any other way I should use and find out if she cheated on me for I am not comfortable with the two things I observed as above

Please advise.

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I have married for more than ten years now. Most of my friends atimes do have side chicks(girlfriends). But I hardly think of any other woman let alone sleeping with them except my partner even when she gets me upset because of her sturbonnes and attitude that I got angry to stay away from her and not be in talking terms with her that may even warrant me to look for a sidechick(woman) to be with, yet I will not but will still come back to her to demand the thing.

At a point I begin to reason whether there is something she used on me that I should not look for another woman's face let alone tasting another woman's thing but must surely come back to her and know only her and no other woman can have access to me even when I am in a position to taste other woman's thing.

Please can this be possible, do you think she did something to me.Advise please.

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MadamVanessa:
What are really mensurating?


Oh oh oh oh menstruation you mean?

Someone Men will asked their wife to give them Mouth Action during that period while some men feel so disgusted when their wife is menstruating as such they do not want their wife to come close to them not untill they are done menstruating.

Hahahaha, sorry I spelt it wrongly.

Some women mensuration lasts three days while some four days. It's always very challenging when the sexual urge is too much on the man especially a man that travelled or have not been around and his coming home concides with the wife being on her "period' prompting the man either forced to wait or engage in masturbation instead of to be unfaithful by looking outside to satisfy the urge. Also most times when feeling Hot is so much on you and you assume the period has just stopped and you start the work immediately, you may notice some traces of blood during the love making.

What is the the normal time wait for a man before meeting the mensurating or mensurated wife for love making.

Gasapoto:
The normal slang of ' Go and HUSLE or ENTER STREET and don't be lazy or he is lazy,make he go and husle or make he enter street, bla bla, has been some of statements attributed by some people when they notice that one is facing some challenges like seeking for job(out of job) or looking for anything that can keep body and soul together and take care of one's responsibility as a married man

A man that is out of job is moving here and there looking forward job or any business or skill, that can help him face his challenges to the extent that he has spent all the money he has and exhausted himself that even to feed a family, or take care of his family until something money yielding come in, buy airtime to make call, transport fare to go here and there, to eat and even have the energy to treck and move around etc all become very challenging,even some fake friends of yours will dissociate themselves from you,yet some people somewhere not knowing what the person is passing through and efforts he has been making to change the situation for better will be openly or secretly saying " MAKE HIM GO HUSLE OR MAKE HE ENTER STREET, bla bla ,

Please advise on what it means by GO & HUSLE OR ENTER STREET slangs using a man facing the challenges as outlined above as an example or do people say such a slang just for a talking sake which no doubt can compound the physchological state of mind of the reference person as if he is not doing his best.

Advice please

The normal slang of ' Go and HUSLE or ENTER STREET and don't be lazy or he is lazy,make he go and husle or make he enter street, bla bla, has been some of statements attributed by some people when they notice that one is facing some challenges like seeking for job(out of job) or looking for anything that can keep body and soul together and take care of one's responsibility as a married man

A man that is out of job is moving here and there looking forward job or any business or skill, that can help him face his challenges to the extent that he has spent all the money he has and exhausted himself that even to feed a family, or take care of his family until something money yielding come in, buy airtime to make call, transport fare to go here and there, to eat and even have the energy to treck and move around etc all become very challenging,even some fake friends of yours will dissociate themselves from you,yet some people somewhere not knowing what the person is passing through and efforts he has been making to change the situation for better will be openly or secretly saying " MAKE HIM GO HUSLE OR MAKE HE ENTER STREET, bla bla ,

Please advise on what it means by GO & HUSLE OR ENTER STREET slangs using a man facing the challenges as outlined above as an example or do people say such a slang just for a talking sake which no doubt can compound the physchological state of mind of the reference person as if he is not doing his best.

I have read all the comments. Well appreciated.

It's not really that I am suspecting her but I know men in most cases feel more at home when the child(ren) seem to be their carbon copy than the other way round or be happy when they hear such words from people like "this one no need to be asked who be the father" because of the way they resemble.Again like I said many men prefer that their children look like their carbon copy than their mother as it clears any suspicious or doubtful thought. I begin to think how possible some children cannot posses any of the traits of the father especially the physical look. I know DNA is the last resort of such a doubt though don't have such money for now.

So far, we have two children in which one is my exact carbon copy while one did not in anyway resemble me but resemble the mother especially having the same complexion(fair) like my father inlaw who is also fair in complexion and posses some other features like him and my wife but did not in anyway takes after me.Once anybody see the one that is my carbon copy,you dont need to ask who is his father and i am happy for that.

Due to the growing rate of cases of father not being the biological father of his child(children) common these days after DNA test,most times i used to be worried whether i am the biological father of the one that did not in anyway resemble and i dont have the money for now to go and conduct DNA test.

I begin to ask whether its advisable to call my wife and sit her down and her ask to please tell me whether i am truly the biological father of the one that did not resemble me. But i dont know what will be her response or how she will feel if i ask such ?. Its not that i am suspecting her but most times i am scared considering news of whats happening these days in paternity test and results. Please kindly advise on the best way to handle this.