₦airaland Forum

I thought they said,there is no more capital punishment.

the man was trying to compare the number of people in the country with the money..he wasn't trying to steal it at all...

we truly need doctors. but need more counsellors in our secondary schools,to help guide our students. so they will not make the mistake of trying to,or study medicine and surgery when they should be teachers...secondly,I guess everybody is trying to escape poverty in Nigeria..

hmmmm....

chuksonia:
bro seems u don't just want to understand, seriously I'm a correct flexing guy based in Lagos and with the kind of job I do I'm always seeing at important gathering and I'm not really popular per say but I've got lots of female friends and the one's who would do anything to be ma babe, most of em are even prettier than this ma fiance but I don't trust Nigeria ladies and this is the only one I've made peace with over time to trust Co's I've texted her in everywhere and she passed with flying colours, I even once gave ma boss her contact to try woo her and that one chop insult of life and ma said boss had a PhD in woman matters I've never seeing a lady turn him down Co's hes got everything a woman can wish for but this ma Yeye babe blasted his ancestors for trying to flaunt material stuff with her,please sir tell me how many babes u knw can try that,

hmmmm...

chuksonia:
I presently don't care the lady has really being ma inspiration as in She's all I've got Co's seriously no other lady entices me I don't have feeling for any other lady if I don't hear from her in a day na die for me and u know I can't call this infatuation

the reason why you can't do without her is because you think you can do without her..

haahahh....bro I just the laf u self..u beta forget that girl and look for a damsel in her early 20s..shey you have forgotten about the biological clock of a lady..

Jiang:
on point, you are even smarter than the whole Nigerian intelligence agencies , They keep denying it

your are also very funny..

Fulani herdsmen are funny..what do they want sef?? I think this is just a sector of bokoharam..

op where is your source?

many will come and just be doubting and criticizing you anyhow..but I have seen the power of praying in tongues..
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op pls dnt listen to anyone telling u to make ur husbnd jelous.he z ur husband nt ur boyfrnd.

funguy12:
dEAR Nairaland Family,

I am in a fix and i need your thoughts on this as i don't have someone to speak to or reason with except you guys.

I am a years plus in marriage and what i am seeing is certainly not what i planned for. I don't wanna be like my Dad who has spent the last 36 years in a marriage he is miserable in. My mum is miserable too but she knows how to enjoy her self while still crying wolf. Unlike my introvert dad who has no friends to cheer him up.

I never really understood his problems , cos i didnt like how he took it out on his kids cos we were quite close to our mum growing up and he wasnt happy about that.He is quite lonely in his marriage and i now hate to see him suffer in silence and i dont wanna go through that route.

Now, i am married to an everyday good lady but we are not friends. I dont know how to cheer her up. She does not excite me and i am lonely.

This disconnect is affecting me badly and i want out before we start having kids.

I dont know how to explain what exactly is wrong,but i have come to the understanding that we dont really want the same thing in life.


Lets talk about sex.well i hardly have libido for her these days . I planned on having regular sex with my wife everyday, in every where, adventurous mind blowing sex with some crazy fun in my marriage.

She sees sex as a baby making tool, hence the sex these days is so mechanical that i rather not bother. I have woken her up several mornings to talk about my observation and desire for a change to her about it and at first it seemed to work until we started having money problems and it all stopped.

Now she believes herbal medicine and holy water will help her get pregnant instead of regular fun filled sex and regular study via online materials on sex, pregnancies and parenting. Cos the families we both emanated from are nothing to write home about, so we dont have guides.

She is a little chubby , while i am not complaining, i will like her to watch her weight because i cant say she should stop eating na. She is staying at home for now, and she likes food so the best i can do is advise her to do exercise. but this one self na another wahala.

Hygiene, is another problem . There is borehole and this generator is no electricity supply. Bathe and look sexy for me , lets play with our selves, you know pillow fights, we see movies together, you learn about the kinda movies i love, i learn about yours and weekend when we aint working we can buy fuel , stay in door and see movies. This i cant even get. She must either wanna wash cloths, cook food or she is busy and wont take her bathe till 3pm or so and by 5pm she is off to church. Saturday indoor time gone with the wind. Wetin man wan do na na to go drink beer watch football.


I have a mini library filled with materials and over 2000 3books ranging from novels, autobiography, inspirational books, political books,business book, e-commerce books, etc, that stimulates your mind to think and i have encouraged her to at least make out time to read, so we can discuss books, movies, businesses, ideals and quit or reduce talking about telemundo or televista stories , na lie. We cant even discuss football, not wrestling.CNN AND NEWS AROUND THE WORLD? Forget about it. Na blog stories win am.
She is just too complacent. too traditional about everything.

Last nerve. We dated for 9 good years and all through this period she lied to me that she was born in 1989 , a lie i bought cos she does not really look that old. I am 1987 product so two years aint bad. Our marriage certificate has the above date but i later noticed her younger sister was 1987 too, and upon further investigation, i discovered she is actually 1985 not 1989 which means she is 2 years older. She successfully lied for 9years that she was 1989 and used that age in virtually all her certificates and documents including our marriage certificate.If not for her sisters original birth certificate i saw , i wont know.


She feels things must be done her way and i must live according to her choices and demands that i sometimes wonder if its because she older than i am or it is because financially things are low at the moment?

I believe its a wife duty to cheer up her husband during bad days, pray, encourage and plan with her husband . Stand through though times together, but all i get is subtle insults, loneliness, being supervised, lack of trust ,and she is never wrong, etc.

I feel like sending her out of the house back to her parents in delta state, or just take some of my stuff and leave the house. When rent expire she go sought herself out as i nor want drama. How best do i handle this?

Or is there a possibility this marriage might still work? I am not really a divorce person, but i wont trade my happiness in the name of marriage.

MY FRIEND YOU NEED PROFESSIONAL HELP...dont take advice from nairalanders, especially because most of them are kids..

kimbraa:
I wanted to ignore you but I just couldn't just as I almost ignored the Ginaz moniker. You read and derived your knowledge of what she wrote exactly how she wrote it but I read and connected dots. That's the difference between you, I, and Ginaz.

I've explained this before. Her undertone proves she's seeking for a made man 'cause she layed too much emphasis on "I've suffered, my parents couldn't give me the life I desire, and I can't go through the same in my husband's house" again, "I've goals" all she said are wishful thoughts but boils down to her gold digging tendencies.

PLEASE STOP TRYING TO EXPLAIN YOURSELF...YOUR POINTS WERE VALLIED

alexistaiwo:
I said it
I knew it was only a matter of time before these archeologists will dig up a curse.

Does the concept "What is dead should stay dead" not mean anything to them


But come ooo
No ancient tomb has been found in Nigeria yet we are this cursed.

If them come later unearth one ancient tomb along with the curse for inside Nigeria nko.

Na Armageddon uncensored be that for we Nigerians

dats because naija is a CURSE..

what do you think of a widow who starts a fresh relationship three days after the death of her husband.

It all depends on the individual. The poster has very valid points that should not be ignored. The first marriage we all see is our parents marriage and what happened in our parents marriage will have a huge effect on our views on marriage. Our parents are the ones that will give us our first views on marriage and if they could get it soo wrong, then the quality of advice we get may not be the best.

My opinion is that find out what caused the divorce. Also find out if both parents have moved on or if they both still hate themselves with a passion. Find out whether or not the divorce was due to violence or adultery or other forms of abuse.

My take is this avoid people from families that had very bitter divorces and the parents are still fighting each other. Truth is that these kind of parents use their children against each other and feed their children with horror stories about the other parent. You dont want to marry people with this kinds of baggage trust me. Also, thread carefully if it was a very abusive marriage. Just dont ignore these kinda warning signals.

While I will not say it is a no-no, but be careful when getting marrd to people from broken homes.

i wantedt to say something until i saw this post...you must have grey hairs,cos you sound so wise.

jackson is not having issues with your past,it is you that is having issues with your past.if you go on this way,you will end up making life difficult for jackson.

markode777:
Aliko Dangote, who is the chairman of Dangote Group has shown his high taste for comfort and pleasure.



Alhaji Aliko Dangote house costs more than $30 million. The amount spent in building this master house can make one feel confuse.

Dangote has been living here for about 13 years. He also has real estate in the UK.

See more photos below;

http://www.kingsleyiwu.com.ng/2017/11/see-aliko-dangotes-heaven-on-earth.html

chai

rottennaija:
Use this simple option.

If you have bought the windows 10 DVD.

Boot your system as you would normally do.

Then after it has finished booting to desktop.

Insert the DVD into your drive and run it from them.

At some point of installation, it will ask you if you would give your 3 options.

1. Keep your files and settings
2. Keep only your files
3. Delete everything.

I normally choose 2, after the installation, I then install everything again. But, with option 2, your files:pix, videos, documents, downloads will remain. Aside from there, all other thgs you had installed will be removed.

Option 2 is best if you ask me. It gives you fresh start to your system while keeping your files.

Note: the system will restart many times during the course of the installation.

is there a way i can get this done without my keyboard,because it just developed fault.

pls i have being trying to install window10 32bit on my laptop to no avail.i am currently using window8 64bit.i cant go into the details as to how it worked,but it worked.recently,my laptop began to behaue funny.i really need to upgrade it.

Friedyokes:
Do the basic
•set ur battery to high performance
•clear all apps before opening
•if that fails tone down d graphic settings

i think i have tried this, and i stills doesnt work.

my pes 2017 has being playing just fine, but for sometime now it just hooks when i am about to start a match at the point when tips begins to display.please anyone with an idea on what to do should help me.

Meanwhile today is my birthday

#runs outa thread.

Truth is,if he is fine we will know with time,and if he is not we will know too with time.

What abt those without a phone.