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nwanneni:
show me.but my budget is in the environs of 15million naira.
If it can go for that price,let me know.

nwanneni are you still interested in the car

jmichael259:
#shit_happens

There could be cases of emotional blackmail, bullying, seniority, closeness to the family, running errands, watching movies, enticements or parents' orders beyond your control that leaves you suddenly alone with the molester.

P.S: Even if a minor becomes a willing participator or 'enjoys it', it's still called rape. "statutory rape"

yeah statutory rape

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GAZZUZZ:
you have heard there is money on uber abi?

but there is money on uber na

looks more like a wrestling match

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222Martins:
Thanks for your suggestion. The problem i have with this is that it amounts to giving my people fish. What about the next 5 - 10years? Can i be able to sustain that as an individual? But if i start an industry, then employee people. The employees may need to rent a place in my town, patronize the small shops and so on. That's the kind of long term economic multiplier effect i am looking for.

you know already so why the thread asking questions?


If you choose to go into farming there are one or two nairalanders who are versed in agric
relates issues. one I know of is stagger.

Just Go to the Agriculture section on nairaland. I'm sure you would learn a lot from there and connect with lots of like minded individuals.

Joseph Prince don reach nairaland

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hello

toyflare:
Warning! Long post alert!
Men get molested, and we hide it because it's either unbelievable or sounds ridiculous. My life as a kid until adulthood wasn't funny at all. First, it was the neighbor's housemaid, I was about 7 at that time and my parents were busy with work so I had to stay at my neighbor's house after school till our house maid is back from school. One day I went there, the maid called me into the kid's room and took away my clothes, made me lay down and did things I didn't understand as a child. It was confusing, and I really didn't understand what she was doing but I remember she was on top of me unclad swinging back and forth. This continued after a while, then I told mom. She didn't understand me, so I stopped going there myself and our maid told my mom she met me outside when she came back from school. I guess this made her believe me, so I had to wait in school then.

Then I was molested again by my own friend f4cking best friend turned gay! I was 10 then, and my friend was 6 years older. He was enrolled in a boarding school, I guess he learned the shit from there. When he came back he would always come to the house as usual when I noticed when we play, he touched my genitals and I wasn't comfortable with it. One day I went to his house, he was alone and locked up the place, said he wants to show me something in the room and I followed him. He went to the kitchen and brought a knife, told me to take off all my clothes or he will stab me. I was like haha very funny and he started swinging the knife and told me he joined a cult group and I shouldn't dare him. I was scared as fvck, took my clothes off with speed, he ordered me to lay on the bed and started the thing (can't go into detail cause it makes me sick) but I cried so much. Then after it he was like don't worry, you will start enjoying it soon. So I stopped going to his house but he kept coming to my house and I would lock my self inside the room and my dad will come knocking that my friend is here and I should come out. Then he started begging me that his not in any cult group, but was attracted to him. I didn't care to listen to him! So one day he came with a fancy toy and told my Lil bro he got it for him, but won't give it to him unless I followed him home. So my Lil bro asked me to go get the toy for him and I refused so he started crying, I couldn't tell him what was going on. He was very little at that time and wanted his toy, so I agreed to go, but my plan was to take the toy and fight with my friend if he tried anything stupid , so I went with my brother (my friend lives across the street) but when we got there he insisted I come in alone or he won't give it to me. My brother was like okay I'm going home . So I went in and he locked the door, I asked him for the toy and he said he won't give it to me unless I let him touch me again, I said no!!! And headed for the door, he grabbed me and pushed me to the chair I tried pushing him off but he was very much stronger than I was. Long story short, he did it again, gave me to the toy, I went to him, gave it to Lil bro and he hugged me. I went into the room and cried seriously asking God to forgive me. But it didn't stop here, it continued for years until I got older and strong enough and fought him one day before it all ended. Up till now, I still haven't told my brother what really happened.

Then again 3 years ago I was raped by my church group leader! I won't mention the church. This woman is married and older than my own mother! All her 3 kids are schooling in the UK! Her husband is a manager in one of the top oil companies ( Name withheld). At my workplace, I was working in the customer care sector and meet clients daily. Lots of sugar mummy's wanted me to be there son, some told me directly others where hiding about it but opened up later. This woman was just good to me and at the same time always preaching to me about Jesus so I didn't suspect her in any way. She invited me to her church because I just moved to the state recently and didn't have a church at that time. So I started worshipping at her church, so one day she invited me to her house fellowship and I went, after the fellowship she asked me to wait behind so I could help her tidy the place and I did before I left she gave me 4k for TP, I refused but she insisted so I took it. I kept going for house fellowship every week and she always gave me TP (4k, 6k, 10k). Every time I asked her why she gave me so much just for transport, she will say she's encouraging me because she knew I wasn't earning much.
So one day I went for house fellowship, as usual, I stayed behind to arrange the place, then took the plates to the kitchen. I noticed someone walk into the kitchen and turned off the light I was like, ma did you off the light? She said yes. I said okay... But I'm still using it, she didn't answer me and kept walking close to me then suddenly hugged me. I just stood, and was like ma is there any problem, she said no! And kept hugging me. After a while she let me go and I rushed off the kitchen and started gathering my stuff to go home. But when I wanted to open the door, I noticed it was locked! I searched for the keys and it wasn't where it supposed to be. I started calling for her and told her I couldn't find the keys, she said she kept it in her daughter's room I should go there and take it. I went there to look for it but couldn't find the keys, so I told her and she said she's coming to get it but she didn't come out, she was inside her room and refused to answer me. I stood there thinking of what to do next, then my girlfriend started calling me! I told her I just left the fellowship and she was shouting at me that it's almost 11 pm and I'm not back yet, I pleaded with her that we had a meeting blah blah blah. I ended the calling and started calling madam to come open her door let me go home for christ sake. The woman no gree, I called my roommate and told him the situation of things and he told me not to worry, I shouldn't answer my girlfriends call again, he will call her and tell her my phone was stolen and they beat me up but I'm home sleeping.
I was there waiting in the sitting room till past twelve before she opened the door almost unclad and was smiling at me. At this moment I was already angry asked her to open the door let me go and she started shouting at me before I knew it she slapped me! And my body went cold instantly. She said I should forget about going home today except I do what she says. Then the next minute she started begging me that she's sorry, she's lonely and needed someone to talk to. I couldn't say anything, as she was begging her hands were already going inside my Jeans. I was like Ma please I beg you in the name of God please stop let me go. I started preaching to her that she's married and this is evil the woman stood up and started crying that she's sorry it's the devil's hand work.
At that point, I thought everything was fine but I need to leave immediately! She told me the key is in her child's room and where to get it. I didn't trust going into that room alone, but I went anyway, the key wasn't where she said it was. And I as I was about leaving the room to go tell her, she's already at the door, then walked in and closed the door. She told me I can't go, and she hasn't had sex in a long time, so If I don't want her to tell her husband I raped her I should allow her do what she wants or she will call her husband and scream on the phone.
My eyes flashed before my eyes again, I tried talking to her again and she started calling him on the phone and put it on speaker phone so I can see she's not playing about it. I thought of going to prison and losing my job and worse ending up in the news. Then I accepted on the condition we use protection, she already had everything with her, even a lubricant! Then I knew she planned the whole thing. The sad truth is at that time I was still a virgin and never had sex with a woman.

Again sorry for the long post, but before you ask what's the name of this movie I really don't care if you believe it or not! And if you think it has no physiological effect then you're very wrong. I'm very withdrawn and find it extremely difficult to trust anyone. I have no friends! I don't ever near a church or want to hear anything about churches. (she attends a big church and I see her on TV sometimes singing praises). The moment I see an older woman I look at you in disgust, and before you say anything I'm already hating you. It's been years and I'm battling depression, so I need sleeping pills to sleep properly. At some point, I turned to drugs and later stopped because of its effects physiologically.
Being forced against your will to have sex is rape! And men get raped too and I don't think it's fun when it's a woman your mother's age and if that's a fantasy for you then you need to get your brain examined.

1 you claim you were a virgin yet your neighbours house maid had slept with you

2 secondly I do not believe all the other times your male friend raped you was done without consent. why did you continuously go to his house if you didn't want it. my guess is you enjoyed it but the guilt you feel that homosexuality is seen as a sin and a crime in Africa is making you second guess

sorry about the older lady and the house maid , those were the only people I feel you didn't consent too.

cruchenutii:
Osheyyy sapiosexual mama !!!
So when shall the sapiosexual test begin?

lol which test again? you want to check my IQ ni?

cruchenutii:
Hahaha don't worry, I know you're looking for Idris Elba
Just wait he would soon come

lol
I don't even like idris Elba . not like I hate him but I don't just get why chicks are so freaked by him. I'm sapiosexual so intellect comes first for me before looks.

cruchenutii:
You have your opportunity to steal me now oh, before one oyinbo steals me don't say I didn't tell you

lol

how am I sure you are young, cute and educated

all these oyinbo women wee just be stealing our cute educated guys.

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nwanneni:
show me.but my budget is in the environs of 15million naira.
If it can go for that price,let me know.

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nwanneni:
2015 lexus gx460? How much?

foreign used 22m

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shutto:
Who can link me through to Nigerian used Toyota Corolla 2005 model for 1M..Who can help me??
Thanks..I need good advice

have you gotten one already ?

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still available

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Gosh I love the Bible

every time you open it to read you gain something new

you can read a sentence everyday and learn a new thing everyday

this is only possible of course for those who have the holyspirit within

if you don't have him alive in you the words will be to you as they were to the Jews - ordinary letters on stones
that's why I laugh when atheists say they have read the whole Bible and understood it completely

my friend , if you truly understand the bible you won't be an atheist.

There is a difference between logos (written word) and rhema (living word )
until you catch the rhema you won't see the light.

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