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fourboys:
I was at my friend's shop last month and a girl walked in and told my friend dat she needs a job, dat my friend told her at my present that he had one, only that the boss will be Fuc'king her, the girl shouted "God for bid,,, 5mins later she came back and asked my frnd.. Oga the job still dey

Our ladies of nowadays can f*ck anytin and onse u try to advice dem, u are an enemy of progress



B's. All these girls asking op to mind her business are shameless

You are blaming an hungry girl that she chose to sleep with your demonic friend? If it was not in Nigeria where there is no hope for the poor will your devilish friend ask a young desperate lady for sex before she can feed her family even though she is qualified for the job?

Your friend is no different than that bastard who raped that job seeker and killed her. you better beware he would soon sleep with your wife behind you cause he has no soul.

Officialgarri:
I believe his version of the story. Looks accurate of what I thought in my head.

But trust our emotional social media CIA, they sold us many pathetic stories and made me to almost begin to sympathize with the murderer.
One unknown blog even said he had over 50 shallow graves in his yard.

Then you are gullible and believed a narcissists lies. Why will a man lure a girl only to ask for sex under duress? Aren't there cheap brothels to have sex without telling lies?

Phcmayor:
I greet everyone here
I need food that I can eat to gain weight am weighing 40 something at the age of 23.

Please help me I look like 18 years and can't proudly stand with my mates cus of my body size

Which food and drinks can I take

Thanks

Eat carbohydrates 5 times a day. Full plate. If you don't have appetite, take apetamin. It will give you the appetite you need.

Note: some people no matter how rich they are never gain weight. You might be one of them and just have to focus on other things.

They will ask for a bribe first.

Yusufisraelj:
Genotypes can be changed, I think you both short changed yourselves then. I think this the second time I've seen you refer to your Ex, hence my comment. It is well.

That's if there's a possibility of you two coming back.

How is this possible?

Explorers:
New York rapper, In Da Club maker, 50 Cent shared a photo of him on his Instagram account showing him attending an auction in Texas, revealing how rich Texas people are.

Fifty appeared at an auction in Texas on Sunday and shared his funny moment with his fans. He said that he bid $175,000 for a bottle of wine during the auction, but lost the auction with this offer.

Lol, Africans have carried their begi begi to 50 cents table.

Why do they look like twins?

This man is not wise and is operating with emotions.
I don't see his cause going too far after this tirade.
Nigerians are too emotional and their emotions are tied to religion. Adeboye is a father of fathers to many Top pastors and as such many Christians will feel you insulted their own pastor and church.
At least pretend to like him until you achieve your aim with as many people loyal to the cause as possible.

GeeX:
He just outdid himself... I am a Yoruba man, but this has gotten to another level, Sunday Igboho just shot himself in the foot.

Baba Adeboye isn't someone you will insult or ridicule and go scot free. Every Christian in Yoruba land is by extension, a child to Baba Adeboye and we say NO to this!

DaddyFreeze insulted all of them together and went scot free o . Yeye dey smell

Redeem church, Adeboye and Osinbajo are part of the reasons Buhari got the southwest and is in power today.

pocohantas:
I was wondering. She has 3 kids with a daughter that looks like a young lady. Is he the father of her kids?

Even the guy looks quite young. From their write up it seems they have been together for a long time.

Na their problem be that. I'm just tired of wives running to social media to air their dirty only and getting public sympathy only to return to the man they disgraced publicly and called names.

Girlfriend or wife?


Isn't this the lady who said her man was beating her? Abdulshally

Hamachi:
My brother's girlfriend stole her father's money to support my brother business and the business is growing

Should my brother marry her?

Why did you not tell her to return the money when she stole it for your business initially?

Under the law you are just as much of a thief as your girlfriend so stop acting like a holy person.

Ijeoma660:
21/04/21 I have finally retired these soldiers with full benefits and 21 gun salutes. The batteries were sold off as scrap for 23k each.

21/04/21 New recruits in the block!

How much are you buying the new batteries? How long did the old batteries last?

baralatie:
it was not a business marriage at all!
bill gates was a complete "nerd" and was not into multiple relationship when he met melinda.on the other hand melinda had as you noted many offers from men who wanted to date her.
bill in his write up was even asking himself why and what was the benefit of even thinking of getting married in itself.
melinda confirmed that when she met bill he was calculating the "pros and cons" of getting married on a white chalkboard.
it is clear that this ann was the one that solved his chalkboard problem because melinda was not "nerd" like him but was a strong family training and that help him to see melinda differently as a lovable and reasonably reliable person to spend his life with.

that I the reason why the relationship has lasted 27 years

How do you know he didn't have other women to "cool off"?

You are naive o. His former best friend and CEO of microsoft is a cokehead. Check videos of Steve Ballmer.
You think when they have their yacht parties they sing and say the grace abi?

If a man is comfortable with his girlfriend having other men ask her out it's because he isn't strongly considering marriage and is having his sexual needs met by other women.

They might have like each other but marrying Melinda was a strategic move on his part. They were not foolishly in love. She brought a whole lot to the relationship as a smart, techy, and homely lady.

WoundedLamb:
The article didn't say if they cheated or not thus my first question. I also don't subscribe to the idea of people cutting off friends after marriage. But my comment is based on the fact this is a privilege only the men get to enjoy. If it were the woman who was jetting around with her ex, people won't be here talking about inspiration and stuff. She would have been labeled a cheat outrightly. In fact, a typical Nigerian man wouldn't even want his lady to have any male friend let alone spend quality time with an ex. We're only making these exceptions and remembering inspiration cause the spotlight is on the man.

Exactly. When I say men have it better, they argue.
A man with money can do whatever he likes. He is a king. He can be a bad boy. It's justified. The wife knows she's replaceable. All the girlfriends want to please him.

A woman with money is deemed incomplete if she doesn't get married or have kids at a certain period. Her success takes a back seat. But God gave all of us equal intelligence to succeed. It's not just fair.

Will Smith had an affair like his wife but it didn't blow up because "women are not supposed to act like men."

ekineme:
You don't get the point, From the write up, you can deduce that ''Bill'' draws inspiration from that lady, though he loves his wife but the ideas, motivation and feeling of sharing your dreams with someone of ''like-minded'' can never be traded for anything.

Do they indulge in adultery? The write-up didn't state that, so it's wrong to assume they did.

The wife is aware of this friendship, she is ok with it, The said lady was part of his greatness.

I hate it when people throw away years of friendship because they want to please a very insecure fellow.

For me the code is simple; respect and honor your wife and the holy matrimony but don't trade your friends for anything.

You must be naive if you think they were not still banging each other.

Melinda probably told herself, I'm the wife so that's what matters. She had other boyfriends when she was dating Bill too. Plus, you think a nerd like her will pass up on marrying the youngest richest man at that time, just because of an older girlfriend? She would never have gotten an Bill in a billion years.

People don't understand that many of the richest people in the world have open marriages and that's fine for them. That's why people made it such a big deal when Will smiths own came out.
The stress of making money alone destroys true love and intimacy.

I'm just wondering why Bill didn't marry the lady who saw potential in him first.

WoundedLamb:
Was he cheating or not?

Meanwhile, see them above always quick to justify any shit from men. Imagine if the woman was the one jetting around with her ex here. It would have been "women! They can never be trusted". Sense of objectivity has been eroded by sexism.

Melinda was seeing other men too when they were dating.
I believe it was more of a business marriage than for love. That's why they lasted so long and achieved a lot together.

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Only rich people will be able to afford this for now.

So if anything happens to the maiden flight or the first few, they'll be the first to die.

One of those times you don't envy the rich.

I don't support yahoo but this woman will still fall for another scammer out of loneliness and desperation. A fool and it's money will always be parted.


Then the man's efforts would have been wasted and he would be in trouble.

officialmario:
I wonder the kind of people establishing schools nowdays, for you to be a proprietor or proprietress of a school you need to have studied EDUCATION in school so as to have the clear understanding of how to handle your school and the entire staff.

My friend made some comment on some of his students report card and he is in trouble now.
These are some of the comments:
"He is not active in class"
"She keeps gang in the school"
"He is a truant."
"She is rude and not respectful",
those are some of the comment he made, and the proprietor told him to go and apologize to the parent for the comment made on their children's result, the guy has refused and has been fired for nt apologizing.

What's your opinion on this?
did you get any comment that made your parent to be mad at you while in secondary school?

Your friend is supposed to understand that schools in Nigeria are first businesses before institutions of learning and conventional centers.

What is stopping him from writing only positive things and letting the parents handle the demon their child has become?

Una to dey carry this matter for head for peanut salary. You haven't seen parents come to school to beat up a teacher for disciplining their child?


Wisdom is profitable to direct. He does not have to lie but just write one positive thing about the child and keep his job. Teachers will only be blamed when majority of the class are getting bad grades. No parent will blame a teacher when the child is in a gang or a truant (when reported).

Grace456:
Help Me Before I Make The Greatest Mistake Pls

I'm a single mother in my early thirties, my daughter is just 2year old and the father is not ready to marry me or take any responsibility on her but still hiding me and his secret wife and won't let me go but I have decided to leave becos he's no adding any value to my life n my daughter's either.

Fast forward
I met a guy online who claims he lives in the US and I discovered I like him since I've met him and now he said we should settle down and marry. I own a duplex in a choice area in Lagos, completed though still small loan I'm paying on it. I agreed to settle down with him but since I told him he can't stay in my house that he needs to get a house, he started acting funny.

The second one, I asked him to show me proof of ID or his work ID, for me to be sure he's who claimed he is, he changed it for me. I tried to let him know that I'm just trying to be careful, don't want to fall prey again but he won't listen to me. He stopped calling and when I call him, he will return my call after like 5hours.

Pls advise me, is it polite for a man to marry and come stay in a woman's house because he said he will soon travel back? This is someone I like to support to get another apartment somewhere else but I haven't told him that. He has really changed in days.

No insult pls...pls ignore rather than insult me pls.

You really need to sit down and think deeply why you keep attracting irresponsible men.
It's a hard pill to swallow but you must look inwards and ask yourself this question.
Not just for your own safety but you have daughter who if exposed to the wrong man, she may never recover from.

Maybe your criteria in a man makes you look at physical appearance and charm rather than testing the waters first. I can assure you, you are not the first person that man tried to scam.

Pray and ask God for wisdom on what to do. You will seeing what was hidden in plain sight or what you ignored because you focused on the wrong things.

This is the second International movie celebrity reacting to their work.

These boys must be doing something right.


If I could afford to, I'll pay for their film school scholarship.

RuddyFusion:
“But on Mount Zion there shall be deliverance, And there shall be holiness; The house of Jacob shall possess their possessions. - Obadiah 1:17 -

Earlier in the week, I created this thread where I talked about my experience working on multiply roles and asked other nairalanders doing same to share their expereince https://www.nairaland.com/6516467/share-experience-working-multiple-jobs

What i did not mention though is how i got those jobs and others i politely turned down.

It happened that just before COVID-19 wahala kicks in here, I had a protracted issue with my former employer, I tried resolving this dispute amicably, but when all failed i resigned. And almost immediately I got two job offers, one in Lagos that matched my last pay ( which was good pay ) and another outside Lagos that didn't.

As expected I accepted the Lagos one, was going to resume in about a week, when the first COVID-19 restrictions kicked in. I was told to hold on by my new employer, but then as the restrictions were further extended, this job was taken away throwing me back into job hunting mood.

I became applying for more jobs, days turn into weeks and weeks into months all I got were interviews, I got interviews sometimes 3 interviews in a day that I have to miss one or so that crashed with each other. The bad part of all these was that most of these interviews, i will go through the whole stage(s) to the point of meeting the CEO / MD of some of those firms and some of these interviews were with Intl businesses.

But I noticed a thread, at the end of each of these, they will be one excuse or one thing, and where I expect to land the job, the job won't just kick in. I reached out to some businesses that I have worked for in the past to follow up on some projects that will fetch money and all I got was excuses also.

Gradually I ran out of cash and frustration kicked in. Then I spoke to a deliverance pastor at Church, because of the COVID issue proper deliverance sessions haven't started, but they started praying with me by the side strictly for JOBS. At this point, I have three more interviews lined up ( Two were remote and the other one was a full-time role )

The deliverance restriction was lifted and I joined my Church deliverance program. Lo and behold few days after my deliverance program, the two remote ones made me an offer almost immediately with the same pay ( Good pay ), and the full-time one also made me an offer a WEEK later. I returned to the deliverance team with my offer letters and gave testimony in church the following Sunday

While at it one of the businesses that I worked for that I was pursuing over some projects, reached out to me themselves and told me that they are ready for business which is also remote making a third.

Two months into my new jobs, The one that took away theirs during COVID reached out to know if I'm still available to come now and start with them among others.

- Yes I have experience in what I do

- I work on my CV / Update it and tailor it to the roles I want to apply for.

- I also write persuasive COVER letters that highlight my key strength and what I will offer the organization I'm applying to.

But this is strictly the work of prayer and deliverance. Obviously, something was blocking me from going beyond my numerous interviews and deliverance cleared that for me.

I know some of us don't believe in God or prayer, and I won't fight those with that belive, but remember. HE IS ALWAYS THERE. and you will find HIM when you do so with all your heart..

"And ye shall seek me, and find me when ye shall search for me with all your heart". - Jeremiah 29:13 -

So have you noticed a pattern? are things don't seem to work out? Maybe it's time to try deliverance.

Happy Sunday To Us

Op don't mind these people in the comment section talking you down. As long as you were qualified and keep improving on your skill nothing wrong in adding spiritual.
Many people who will insult you don't know many of the CEOs they worship have marabouts they consult also. Many of the white ones travel to India and they call it spiritual journey or whatever thrash. Many of them lie, cheat screw people and company's over, and sit on other people's heads to get to the top.
Use whatever you have to get to the top too as long as it's pure and not hurting others and your faith.

samuelson06:
The devil's duty is to steal, kill and destroy. And he works through the mind to influence our thoughts and actions that'd eventually lead to our doom. Nobody can see God or Satan, but we can see them through our works, which happen as a result of our thoughts influenced by any of these Deities.

I'm a Christian but I tell you you must take accountability for your weaknesses and addictions or else you won't experience real change and growth. By the way, DMX was a Christian believed the devil was his enemy and prayed everyday but that didn't turn him away from drug addiction.

I watched most of his interviews and if there is anything I saw is that Earl Simmons (Dmx) never ever took responsibility for his actions.

He blamed his mother, his wife, his mentor, friends, the industry, etc but never took responsibility for what he became. Even when his son planned to kill him for abusing his mom for years dmx wouldn't take accountability for what lead a 14 year old boy to say "enough is enough, I won't watch you treat my mom like this again and if it means killing you so be it."

A man who had 15 children by 11 different women will blame satan when there are atheists who are faithful to their wives.

I don't want to say too much. I hope you get the drift.

samuelson06:
See how the devil is killing the children of men? Drug overdose even at the age of 50! Well, this should serve as a lesson to all that's addicted to one thing or the other. Whatever you feel you love so much, same thing the devil will use to pull you down.

O youths of Nigeria, repent of your addictions. Make up your mind to fight your addictions and win the battle. You can stop smoking, masturbating, doing drugs, or any form of bad habits. Don't forget, nothing can stop a willing mind and no one's going to fight your addictions for you.

How is devil involved in a persons life choice to continue taking drugs?

mofedamijo:
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Do you know the meaning of formal education?? Secondly, Jayz you mentioned attended George Westinghouse Career and Technical Education High School with rappers The Notorious B.I.G. and Busta Rhymes. Is that not a formal education??

From my research, 90% of world billionaires had a formal education before they became billion, Dangote included. By the way, I never said going to school is everything, however, its the ultimate legacy. Musk wouldn't have achieved Tesla without the physics he studied.

You made mention of professor's. Do you realise some people just want to be in the education field?? Thats their dream, they are not in it for the money, by the way, most of the worlds grand breaking discovery in science, technology etc are pioneered by professors, some of those grand breaking discoveries are worth billions of dollars.

We have thousands of professors and scientists working for NASA, engineering, medicines and other agencies that the world depends on today.

What do you think would have happened to the world today without the professors, engineers, those in the medical field, etc

Education is the ultimate my friend.[/s]

Dancing around the answer.

mofedamijo:
Femi Adesina and Ngozi Iweala comes to mind. Look at all the Nigerians in Bidens cabinet, they all have advanced degree.

I have met several citizens of English speaking countries on the plane, and they could not fill their immigration forms. One particular gentleman said to me that he has never been to prison all his life. I was so confused, so was he. He was so terrified and almost in tears. I asked him to calm down and tell me what the problem was. He said they are asking for "Cell No" on the form. I had to tell him it means your telephone number sir. He was so relieved. Some can't spell their own name and country, despite the fact that its written on their passport.

Thats why big celebrities go broke after some years, their finances were stolen and mismanaged. Mike Tyson lost so much because of this.

The disadvantage of not being educated is too much burden to bare.

How does not going to school affect finance intelligence?
All those market women and men controlling millions get their degree much later in life just as an accessory. But they are more financially intelligent than your average art, physics, professor.

Jay z has no university degree neither does Kanye west who dropped out of University and now is worth 6.6 billion dollars. Do you expect Jack Dorsey to go back to uni when he even got employment without a formal degree?

The only mistake Soso made is not at least getting his immediately he became financially self sufficient.

The only advantage I see of having a degree after making good money in this shit hole is traveling out of the country (easy to apply for masters and citizenship after) and government appointment.

ashybabs:
thats what i am ashamed off

Hunger never wire you. Poverty and shyness can't sit in the same room.

It's up to you. If she wasn't ashamed to come down from her car to talk to you, I don't understand why you are shy to call her.

He's very right. I'm baffled when the masses call any politician a hero. Abiola was a business man, first and the work of any business man is to recoupe lost investment, make everyone around him satisfied and make sure his interests are protected.

I guess people were sentimental cause he ran at a time of great tension when the military had promised for years they would hand over to civilian rule. People where desperate for anything even if it meant voting in a farmer from Ogun whose farm was bankrupt.

Politicians are as incorruptible as a fish can live outside water

A!

Yes