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That's not good news. Anyway I can make you feel better?

ikamefa:

What's the matter, Ika?

eslynera:
i'm doin good ofcourse, how about you?? you left the palace for sooooooooo long!!
@ikamefa, *don't worry, i'm a good girl and Genial is like a brother.*

Ah, but didn't the princess tell you I was on a sabbatical? I brought something for you - she will hand it to you when she returns.

Akolawole:
Is it not possible to be close friends with other managers?

"It is difficult."

Ferguson likes you?

"And I like him."

You are used to having control in the dressing room. How did you deal with the fact William Gallas wanted to leave and there were problems with him?

"The Gallas situation was not an issue between the player and the manager. It was between the player and the club. If Gallas wants to be an honest man, Gallas would say I supported him all the way since we met on the first day.

"I was very supportive of him and he gave me a lot in change. He gave me a high level of performance not just to me to the team. He was ready to play in any position and never complained. People can say what they say but he never complained about the position he was playing and he knows I rate him as one of the best defenders in the world.

Jose on
FERGUSON

"I like him. Alex Ferguson only won leagues in Britain and is special so I don’t think it’s about moving around. Winning titles in different countries doesn’t make you special"
"He knows I did my best to try and keep him at the club so if he wants to be honest he has to say that from the first day until the contract problems which were out of my hands the relationship was very very good and I had in my hands one of the best players.

"What happened after that was a consequence of problems. I don’t speak about what happened specifically about refusing to play or own goals because I feel I shouldn’t. If he’s honest he has to say that personally the relationship between me and him he had no problems."

He was talking about William Gallas in the part I highlighted.

Esly!!! It's been ages, and it sure is a delight to see you again. How are you?

Haven't you missed her, princess? Well, I have.

Site-management comedies!

Knock, knock?

watever:
hey everyone. . . . .anyone

And where have you been, young lady?

Sit-up comedies?

Dear Mary,

The deed is done. There's nothing you can do about it now. You cannot change what happened by torturing yourself. You know you messed up. That's fair enough. But killing (read: starving) yourself will do no one any good, starting from yourself.

It would be very easy to judge and condemn you. But there is no longer any need for that, in addition to the fact that I am not qualified to do so. I may not understand the pressures you have faced, or the particular circumstances that led to this, but I expect that, at least, somewhere in your heart, you would not have wanted it to happen. It's usually like walking at the edge of a precipice - at some point you kind of lose sight of the reality of the drop just beyond the edge. Of course, by the time you fall, it's too late to do anything about it.

You are responsible for your actions, and will face their consequences, but not for the way other people respond to them. You have already told Dan what happened. Now the ball is in his court. He has a right to make a decision on what to do - no one can begrudge him that. And whatever decision he makes, he has a right to. You? You decide how you respond. He has told you to let him be, that he wants to heal. Perhaps I would have responded the same way if I were in his shoes, or maybe more forcefully. What did you expect from him? Surely you were not surprised at his response. Only if you were of no value to him would he have responded otherwise. He should be hurt. Wouldn't you be? But then, he is also responsible for how he chooses to respond.

What do you do now? I have a few questions for you:

1. The journey you have started with Luke, how far do you want it to last? Since you have started to have sex, it's probably going to be more difficult for you to stay without it now. How are you going to deal with that?

2. Do you really want Dan back, or your desire to make restitution is driving you to him? How about Luke?

I have a few suggestions:

1. Pick up yourself and look to the future. Get a grip on yourself! There are other issues of life that you have to deal with - your schooling for example. Think of that. Take solace in the fact that, while you cannot change the past, you can affect the future by what you do with the present. Think of the future. Work on your present.

2. You can write Dan a letter/email. He probably doesn't want to hear your voice at this time, and may not read the email now, but he possibly will, sometime in the future. In the email, reaffirm your love for him, and assure him that what happened was a mistake that will not repeat itself (assuming this is all true, of course). He knows you could've chosen not to tell him what happened. I'm sure he will think about that too. It may not be a very good idea to try to explain why it happened. Grovelling falls into the same category, in my opinion. Show your remorse - apologise, etc and, if applicable, let him know that you are still there for him. Even if you do not wish to continue in your relationship with him, I suppose that can't do much harm. But think carefully about what you write. Don't say it if you don't mean it. It might help to consult a few trusted friends on this. That done, this one is his ball. Let him play it.

Best wishes,
G.

@SweetnSour

I don't think your friend looks all messed up because of love. She looks all messed up because she can't bear her guilt, and that's a very heavy feeling.

@Mary

I have to think carefully before I make any comment.

Tu es malheureuse. Pourquoi? Ce serai bien, ma cherie.

Au revoir.

LOL. Sweet dreams.

Good night, everyone. Till tomorrow.

nilla:
you going to have to tell me what didn't notice nada.
_{change in signature}

No, not a change in signature. It was almost comical the way we kept talking over each other's head to Ika6. LOL. Good night, and call me if there is an emergency.

Bon nuit, tout le monde. A demain.

nilla:
murder


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APPROXIMATION

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MITITDIIANON

nilla:
Ika: goodnight girl
Genial: noticed nothing can you tell me the post #?

Starting here.

nilla:
why would a black girl want to be a Geisha?

ikamefa:
_{* runs away*}

Oh, my goodness! LOL⁷

ikamefa:
ok! wetin? you have been noticed

aight y'all its been awesome!
heading home now!

@G and @ nilla later!

Good night, Ika. Keep on jabbing!

Going to hit the sack soon myself. See you there.

nilla:

don't know you

seriously where did that come from ?
aight, i thought as much.

Well, go back to where you signed in today, and then read down to my post. Notice anything?

ikamefa:
fa! fa! foul! using my geographical knowledge i still insist that the road is smooth, chickens have also been found and sited on the moon and Mars, so the chicken we have been talking about could even be an alien chicken with four webbed feet
so will be able to run /fly faster than the average Car

LOL! . You've just made my day, Ika.

Er. . . Nilla sweetheart, have we met somewhere? You look familiar.

ikamefa:
no i did not!

Ok. I beg your pardon. I thought you perhaps meant to add an "f" somewhere.

i don't know

Bad move.

ikamefa:
ma durlin Nilla
go and research the role of geishas in real life! not the bullshit shown in that movie you will prolly understand where am coming from! but it not? heh  

am in my Geisha phase right now! tomorrow it could be something else
to tell you the truth am fascinated by their life style

Meaning of Geisha.

The word Geisha means "artist" in Japanese. Geisha are[b] professional hostesses who entertain guests [/b] through various performing arts in tea houses called O-chaya. They are trained in a number of traditional skills such as Japanese ancient dance, singing, playing instruments such as the Shamisen, flower arrangement, wearing kimo no, tea ceremony, calligraphy, conversation, alcohol serving manners and more. Geisha continue to study and perfect these skills throughout their careers as geisha.

A successful geisha must demonstrate beauty, grace, artistic talent, charm, impeccable etiquette, and refinement. Only guests with a long time connection with the tea house are allowed and tea houses generally don't take on new clients without an introduction. The profession of a geisha is a very expensive business and a geisha party can easily cost thousands of US dollars. The total number of geisha in the 1920's was 80,000, but today the number of geisha has dropped to 10,000 due to the westernizing of Japanese culture.

As in Mamaput?

ikamefa:
yes ! this is the correct answer   where would the chicken be? what would a chicken be chasing if not to go and eat corn where ever its available, even on the other side of the road?not minding the passing okadas , drawing from agric husbandry and geology knowledge the road would be smooth to make crossing the road easy

and am sure the chicken was really hungry so anything goes abi?  

I have to disagree with you here, dear Ika. I can only dismiss your conclusion as premature, and pure speculation at best. Starting with what we do know about the chicken, the road and the surrounding circumstances, we can gradually work our way to what we wish to know.

While we do not know the exact cartesian coordinates of this road, we know that it is located somewhere within the solar system. When coupled with the fact that the only known chickens are found on planet earth, we can narrow down our search to earth, without being presumptous.

Are you with me up to this point?  

ikamefa:
so the chicken can get to the corn on the other side of the road?

I guess we'd have to find out from the chicken. But I somehow don't think this is the correct answer. We can only speculate at this stage, since the chicken is not readily available. But drawing from my knowledge of fluid dynamics and chicken histrionics, I can make a few suggestions as to why the chicken would want to cross the road.

ikamefa:
because she is artsy!  

Did you miss out a letter somewhere?  

but you don't feel it  

_{Oops! It's started already?}Oh, what a great sensation! Keep jabbing away, Ika!  

nope prove it!  

How?

nilla:
Ika,
why would a black girl want to be a Geisha?

The answer is the same as to the question "why would a chicken want to cross the road?".

ikamefa:
_{all my boxing lessons, kungfu lessons gone to waste}

How, where? But I'm eagerly awaiting the experience, am I not?

oh really !

Yes, really. You don't believe me?

I've seen this several times, and I'm quite uncomfortable with this apparently unfortunate error. Forgive me, Jaybaby, but I do think you mean design and dyeing.

ikamefa:
Aight !

as in?

nope your medulla oblangata has to be straight like mine

Yippie, as in, time for the effect to start! Where is it, by the way?

Guess I'm ill-equipped to speak gibberish then. My medulla oblongata has never been straight. It's curved in a rather attractive way.

ikamefa:
what?

What what?

ikamefa:
gibberish i guess!

Didn't know you could speak the language. Can you teach me?

Yippie!