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@Princess

When did you move from the smiling coast of West Africa to the jungle?

@J-girl

What would you call the kind of love you show to a stranger that you have never met before, is not in a position to reciprocate or show appreciation for your love, and who you will in all probability never meet again?

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=14804.msg417689#msg417689 date=1149936320]Muki, i totally get you. When you love someone and he doesn't love you back it is like this unavoidable pain. But when the love is reciprocal, there is happiness and it is much better[/quote]There is pain because you expect to be loved back. Disappointment always comes with pain.

Is there no such thing as unconditional love?

_{"Love does not demand its own way"}

mukina2:
yes ma king love they say is the sweetest but it can also be  as bitter as gall. because the ones you always love never love you in return.and that hurts as hell

But, princess, that cannot always be true. Life would be bleak if it were so!

Surely there are many who have also loved you, even without your loving them in return?

_{"Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance"}

"Love is not jealous or boastful or proud"

Food for thought.

mukina2:
everyone has there own interpretation of love the more you experience the more you have a lot to say.all i know is that love sucks

What?!

Even you, princess? 

Why would you say that?

Bhola:
Different kinds of love? Definitely. You can't tell me the kind of love u have for your parents, is the same that u have for your future wife.

Bhola, why do you assume that I'm not married?

Let me know about your experiences with love.

Is love unconditional?

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=14804.msg417242#msg417242 date=1149903725]Louisiana - it is like in its 80, 90s - so hot[/quote]That would be in fahrenheits, I presume.

Otherwise you wouldn't be at your computer!

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=14804.msg417235#msg417235 date=1149903471]It's hot here too[/quote]Where is here?

@Bhola

OK then. Respect it is.

I respect you.

Now, can you please answer these questions? Thank you in advance.

Are there different kinds of love? If there are, which is the best kind of love?

When people say they are looking for 'true love', does it mean that there is false love? How is that possible?

Bhola:
And yes, I happen to know what true love is and I am very loved.

I take it that you're not in short supply of love then. Apart from greens, what other modes of payment do you accept?

_{*Pours some cold water over Diddy, Bhola and ToyM28*}

Now, can the education continue?

Bhola:
My bad, Genial. Which of all your questions? The getting paid, the age, the love part?

I can't be paid in love, because I love greens,  

_*sighs*

So much for the benefits of love. . . .

ToyM28:
Cuz, its full of deep deep emotions that seem 2 be in full effect. Like i sed, true love is sacrifical. Egs of sacrificial is, maybe givvng up your dream job 4 your love, aborting your babby because your ove doesnt wnt. Thats all sacrifices that hurt. But done out of love.

Now do u get?

Ah! Curiouser and curiuoser!

Should true love not look out for the good of the other party? If I truly have love for you, would it not mean that I would consider your own good, ahead of my own inconvenience?

@Bhola

Thank you. But my question still begs for an answer.

Bhola:
Genial, u can't pay me enough. U and diddy's combined.

Would you consider doing it as a charity?

How about love - can you not be paid with love?

Bhola:
Love and pain do not go together. I totally disagree. If you are in a relationship and you are sad and u feel pain, get the h**l out. Pain is a sign that something is not right. That being said, does not mean unhappy times will not come, it will surely come, because we are human, but if u truly love the person, u'll forgive. but that does not mean, u have to keep forgiving. If it is a continuous offence, then you have to draw the line.

That sounds a bit more sensible to me.

I fail to understand, ToyM28. How can love be full of hurt?

If love is reciprocal, where does hurt come into the equation?

Bhola:
Genial, how old r u?

As old as my tongue; a little older than my teeth.

How old are you?

@Eve

What's that? I can't see it properly. . . is it a pigeon?

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=14804.msg417177#msg417177 date=1149901677]true, love is not for small kids though it can happen at a young age. That is why people grow out of love because they grow more mature[/quote]Now it starts to become confusing. How can one grow out of love?

That would mean that it wasn't love in the first place, wouldn't it?

How much would you charge for a session with my brother Diddy?

@Bhola

What is your hourly rate?

@ Eveseh

I can only see two children, apparently playing.

I cannot see any love.

And if J-girl and ToyM28 are right, surely these children are too young to know the meaning of love?

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=14804.msg417163#msg417163 date=1149901395]i heard something
True love comes with pain. If there is no pain, there are no original feelings and then there is no love[/quote]Hmmm. . . that sounds risky.

ToyM28:
I think, real love undergoes the toughest sacriices, with understanding, respect, care. Basically, its the one thing, that that hurts, becuase whether or not it works.The emotions are strong that the most unemotional banter between u guys can get u both, thinking about whether u belong 2gether

In other words, you have not experienced real love until there is pain attached to it?

Is that really so?

Must love and pain come in one package? I do not like pain. Do you?

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=14804.msg417149#msg417149 date=1149901134]falling in love is a risk. I can't recognize it but you will know when it happens.
I think falling in love is the best feeling ever but i don't know how to recognize it[/quote]Why does it have to be 'falling' in love?

Can't it be 'standing' or 'sitting' in love?

Does 'true' or 'real' love announce itself with trumpets and fanfare?

Do you hear a voice saying "This is it"?

Does the person's forehead glow with the inscription 'true love'?

How do you recognise true love?

[quote author=j-girl link=topic=14804.msg417122#msg417122 date=1149900665]I don't think love is prepared for that is why it hurts the most. All the experiences you go through are a sign of maturity for the real love.[/quote]How do you recognise 'real love'?

@Diddy
I'm glad to see that you feel better.

You will get to feel a lot better, believe me.

Monsieur Genial knows.

@Diddy4dt

Remember to acknowledge Monsieur Genial.

Wounds always heal.

Time heals all wounds.

"Love does not uphold evil, but supports good".

Why then do some jilted 'lovers' threaten their ex-lovers, sometimes even doing crazy things like applying conc. HCl?