Evergreen4:
Do introduction and pay her bride price. Then relocate abroad, when you settle down you can then bring her along through study route. At least getting study visa is a bit easy.

But Bro, I would love to key into this your kind of hustle if you don't mind. Son of man have seen shege pro max in this country

Introduction is good to a certain level
Things might change when you test the western life style. Never commit to anyone !

BrighterThanDay:
As a child from a broken home, I saw marriage as my happy ending of finally having a home filled with love and mutual understanding. After the death of my mom, growing up with my dad and stepmom was hell. I was treated as a stranger in my own home, so I thought starting my own family will be a lot better.

After I completed my education and got a good job. I had a lot of suitors willing to settle down with me. Most of them were rich and accomplished men, but there was no spark, I felt they weren't genuinely in love with me, and since I was never a materialistic person, I turned them down. I get easily content with what I have and I spend prudently. Then I met my husband. It happened that I was his crush back then in school, in fact, he even approached me as a student then, but I turned him down because I knew where I was coming from and I never wanted to gamble with my studies, it was my only hope to leave my father's house and fend for myself.

Fast forward to when I met my husband after school. He didn't even have a good job. But I could tell I meant a great deal to him, we'll speak for hours on the phone. I fell hopelessly in love with him, I could already picture a happy home with him and our kids. Then he proposed, and I accepted. I met his family, they were nice on the first visit.

After the introduction ceremony with my family, I started noticing certain things. I was taking pictures with his phone when I saw a message from his mom telling him I'm a stranger and he shouldn't allow me to come between them. I was surprised and wondered where all this was coming from, I asked him and he reassured me that it was nothing.

Then his father told me that hope I know that a son should love and care for his parents more than his kids. I kept pondering this statement. Then the worse of it all was his married sister, she hasn't even met me, but she rained insults and abuses on me on his phone and why he needs to make money first and allow his family to enjoy his money, before getting married. She said I was old, and just forcing him to marry me. I was just 26 then, but my education was very fast.

I had to speak to her dad about this and he cautioned her. I tried speaking to her myself but she rained insults again on me. I called off the wedding at a point but my then-fiance begged and involved my brother and so we went on with the wedding preparations. The wedding went well and his entire family stayed with us for a week before leaving.

My husband got a good job, I was working, we were fine and money wasn't our problem. A few months later, my father-in-law died. I sent messages and called hubby's siblings to comfort them. I couldn't travel with him immediately due to the nature of my job. I kept calling to check on him and inquire about the traditional rites I might need to be a part of. Hubby said his father was a pastor so he won't need to do anything, while we were yet speaking, his sister who hates me snatched the phone from him and said I have to do this and that or I should pack my things and leave the house and then she shouted at me.

I was so pissed and acted in a way that wasn't right considering that we were all mourning. I sent a message to her, telling her to be nice considering that we are all mourning but if she chooses to continue insulting and humiliating me for no reason, I won't take it. She forwarded the message to the entire family, including uncles, aunts, and grandchildren. On the day of the burial, I was treated as an outcast by the entire family, she told them not to give my birth family food, even though they came bearing gifts and comforting everyone. Hubby had to step in and ask the caterers to serve them.

She kept fighting and shouting at my hubby throughout the burial and tried denying him of things he was supposed to do as the first son and child. I was humiliated and she kept castigating my name and insulting me to hearings of everyone. I wasn't even allowed to eat. I was quiet all through, when family members were asked to sit behind the corpse, she asked me to excuse them.

For fear of my life after the burial, I had to go lodge in a hotel outside. The next morning she and her brother kept shouting and complaining that why did hubby allow me to lodge and that I should have been with their mom. They continued the humiliation, I couldn't take it anymore or hold back my tears so I left.

Hubby later told me that she held a meeting in my absence with the entire family and told them I'm a bad wife and needs to leave her brother. This was when hubby stood up for me and said I wasn't going anywhere.

Our marriage was never the same. Even when we had our daughter, no one called, hubby was ostracized from his own family and he blamed me sometimes. I couldn't concentrate at work, and my job is performance-based. I was scared that I'll be fired, so I resigned.

Hubby's income wasn't enough to sustain us, so we started facing financial difficulties. He had to even go meet the same sister to borrow money, even though I discouraged it. She always mocked him for it and I had to pay off the loan at a point.


When she saw that we are now broke, she stopped fighting with him and they are on talking terms now, of course, she still wants nothing to do with me. I know that they are family by blood and nothing is too hard to forgive, but each time she calls and they are happily discussing, Ican't help but feel angry for all she has caused us. I'm sometimes tempted to leave this marriage because this is not what I envisaged at all.

My brother is also married and I have never felt the need to interfere in his marriage or fight his wife.

I don't know how long I can continue in this union, even my innocent beautiful daughter is hated by them.

ruffhandu:
I think Otti should calm down if h eis behind this, I do not support it. Ikpeazu is still the executive governor of Abia state. He can probe him after mat 29th. What if he, Otti, is not sworn in as governor. I hate it when people becomes too confident and arrogant and overstep their bounds. This Otti is coming accross as sucha person. He had boasted that he won election without Obi last time. So why did he not become governor last time? Gratitude and humily are very important virtues. I don't even believe in witch-hunting people, just don't interfer with the security agencies' discharge of their lawful duties, simple.

LordofNaija:
Otti should quit this fight with Ikpeazu. It is unnecessary. We elected him to fix abia, not fight Ikpeazu. Let him get to work immediately he is sworn in. He should learn from the mistakes of Emeka Ihedioha and Hope Uzodinma

MadamExcellency:


The accusation is false. Gov. Ikpeazu's spokesperson is right on this one. If Ikpeazu decides to pardon prisoners today or before leaving office, the Governor-elect, Alex Otti can't send them back to prison after his swearing in ceremony.

LegendHero:

Source: https://gazettengr.com/38-year-old-paystack-co-founder-shola-akinlade-buys-danish-aarhus-fremad-club/

Freshtruth:
What d source of his wealth we should be asking questions

tiger28:
HOUSE in OUR LAGOS!

WHY didn't this fool invite him to HIS HOUSE in Anambra

Why? These Idiots don't have any house there....reason they want to die in Lagos .

fuckingAyaya:
Ara agbala ndi lesson teacher's

Okorietitus:


In every palace, you have slaves.
If you pass your boundaries, you will keep being reminded of your history.
You want to vote in Lagos but they are using Okpa to bribe your parents in the East.

Go and vote sensible leaders in your region and stop constituting a nuisance in Lagos.

Okorietitus:


Go and ask your parents who were beaten like dogs on Saturday who owns Lagos.

Okorietitus:


Na your papa wey chop slap last Saturday develop Lagos.
Since last Saturday, them no born una well to call Lagos no man's land in public again.

Okorietitus:


No one is tying you down. Pack your load and return to the East.
You can't be in the North and Lagos and be declaring Biafra. Pack yourselves to the East and stay there.

Threesha:
SOME TIPS ABOUT LIVING IN UK

I’ll like to prepare your mind as a married man that when you get to UK,there’s higher chance for you to baby sit, ook, dishes, change pampers, get the kids set for school, etc. It’s better to get yourself acquainted with this ahead.

This is not to ridicule your personality, they are things you might need to do to keep the family running. And as the wife, have it in mind that you might not get to live that luxury life of “my husband is responsible for family upkeep”nah. Living in UK, you are meant to complement each other in every aspect.

Accommodation in UK isn’t a joke, if you are single, I advice you to look for single room en-suite or studio, furnished, all bills inclusive. Renting two bed apartment if it’s just you isn’t advisable. Check Spareroom,on the market, zoopla, Rightmove or Facebook market for rooms to let.

Pending the time you’ll be able to buy your desired item(s),check out Facebook market for cheap or free preloved/new items such as;furnitures,mattresses, beddings, kitchen utensils and the likes (I got my microwave on Facebook market for £10 and it’s as good as new).

However, be careful so as not to be scammed,I advice you do pay on delivery/pickup. Register with Olio aswell for free items(both new and preloved) including foodstuffs within and outside your area.

You might not be able to open standard bank until few months later, you can register with online bank like Monzo or Revolut to carry out your transactions, it’s easy & safe to use. Also, register with Lemonade if you want to change £ to #, easy to use as well with no charges apply.

Coming across different people with different cultural backgrounds, it’s advisable to ask individual what and how they would like to be addressed. Don’t make assumptions, people get offended if they are addressed wrongly.

Be time conscious, if you are to resume work by 19:00 to relief others, ensure you arrive few minutes earlier. The person you are to relief at work also has childminder or husband at home to relief for work as well.

Don’t try to force or change your accent while communicating. The more you change or force British accent the more you make communication difficult for everyone. Speak gently and clearly, believe me, they will hear you more than faking British accent. And if you can’t hear them, in a polite way ask them to speak slowly and gently so you can understand & they would be glad to do so.

Job wise, don’t be selective at first, get yourself something legit doing, all jobs here are stressful, at least you’ll be able to update your CV for future sake. I hope you get what I mean.

Let the words “PLEASE AND THANK YOU” be your favourite quotes daily, it goes a long way and they might pave way for you.

Don’t engage in gossips, they don’t keep secret here, whatever you say will be used against you later on.

If you have BRITISH HEART FOUNDATION store around you, they sell nice stuffs as low as £1, pop in there and minimise your spending.

Stay tuned for next post.
Moyisola

Drealman20:


The image of this country is being laundered by an evil tribe

Levels2:


A biafra citizen

Okorietitus:

Stupid Biafran criminal.

With her fat lips like Ikpeazu's head

Abdul05:
Na dem..... worst tribe so far..

Drealman20:
But USA no get mercy oooooo...

Since February 12, 2011, they have been looking for her non-stop....

The woman sef no wise, why change your name from Florence to Janet.. Both English name, it made it very easy for them to find... She for change the name to Eberechichukwu Ebubedikenachi Mohammed... I swear dem no go ever see her till she die..

Drealman20:


ABBA is the next.. Him & this woman go share same cell....

Firstly, Op should say A Biafra citizen or Citizen of Online country, or the lost tribe of Isreal, they should stop using Nigeria 🇳🇬

Secondly, Federal Govt should start putting tribe in Nigerian passport...... So that these people can be rejected at the embassy before they will go and be spoiling Nigeria image abroad...

This woman might even be one of Peter Obi Sponsor shouting Peter Obi or nothing...


Igbos should warn their people to desist from crime, to get mansion for village or Lagos no be by force.

Tinubuwins2023e:
I think Peter Obi is a mad man and a threat to national security.

DaniDani:


Even in Isiukwuato, Umuahia, Ohafia etc PDP won 1 state constituencies each meanwhile PDP could not get 25% in the gubernatorial votes. This is pure evil and orchestrated conspiracy to rob PDP and scheme Ngwans out of Abia governorship politics.

Tribal:
Abeg, someone should help me with that picture that says "Sweet like Sugar, Yellow like Fanta... Everybody like your tears! Your tears your tears!"
Tinubu has been Declared President of Nigeria already, According to the Prophecy. Days ago, I called attention of People to the fact that too many People said they Dreamt and saw Tinubu Declared Winner and Addressing the Nation on National TV as Nigerian President. It was a Big Evidence from Spiritual Realm especially when even Obedients too started saying they were having Dreams seeing Tinubu as President few days ago, many of them ended their posts here with "god forbid!!!" I don't know which god they wanted to forbid what the Supreme GOD Revealed even to themselves too. When Heaven has Signed Something to Happen, how on Earth will some waste their Time fighting it. Pathetic!

DMCA:


And you think peter obi is the one, when it is clear what he and igbo are about is the IGBO AGENDA.


Let me tell you, the only thing that gave peter Obi relevance is because Tinubu was foolish to accept the muslim muslim ticket option given to him as he thought it would be his chance of gathering northern votes which he was wrong.

Thus it became a Christian/ muslim thing.


Majority of Christians not willing to vote a muslim muslim ticket. Then IPOB and BIAFRA agitators seize this opportunity to make it an IGBO agenda thing.


Imagine an igbo man feeling entitled that it is Igbos turn to be president. Who made it so? How many tribes do we have in Nigeria, 300+


They behave as if it is only the Hausa/Fulani, Yoruba and Igbo that exist.

What about the Itsekiri, the ibibio, the kuteb, the idoma, the Angas, the Nupe, the Etulo, the Jukun, the Tiv etc....


Nonsense

yarimo:
For Christians dominated areas abi ?

CoronaVirusRelo:
Aliko Dangote looking like, “What does this small know about politics. Is he aware he is up against a demigod”

Datti just laughing 😂😂😂😂

Datti is the only one in Labour Party who has an idea about the impending defeat!

flokii:


Yorubas will say.. 'okete to boru, ko salo, o sun ojo iku e siwaju ni'.
You do one run, e sweet you.. you wan come back for part 2.

E go shock all those arsonists.. those that love destruction will be destroyed eventually. Interesting times ahead.

PrinceOfLagos:
Breaking news: another battalions of the Nigerian soldiers have touch down Lagos this afternoon ahead of the 25th presidential election.

Men of the Nigerian military have just arrived Lagos in there battalions over the February 25th presidential election scheduled to hold this Saturday .

Watch video here :
https://www.instagram.com/reel/Co2RnVToTyl/?igshid=MDJmNzVkMjY=

Nlfpmod Oam4j Seun

YungMillionaire:
Why when you have ohaneze igbo in EVERY single state of Nigeria?

Ibos should learn tolerance, or we go change am for them o!

ATLIEN2027:



https://www.nairaland.com/870945/what-exactly-peter-obi-doing


Pls read what people from Anambra said about Obi tuary when he was the Governor.

Some of them are now the same Zombidients trying to repackage the failed Governor ....Comedians.

Banbutton:
The boy is going to London for treatment and he refused to pay doctors salary for 13months in Anambra.
But his foolish and gullible followers will say he needs rest cos he's human
Secondly he's running away from Monday sit at home, coward Man