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Guys i have a question; I usually hear that women are very good at hiding the different men that they're seeing from each other, how true is that? I ask this because there's this lady I'm in a "relationship" with, I have evidence that she's seeing other people, I have even seen a dirty chat of her and someone she claimed is just a friend in the past, stopped talking to her,she begged me n after sometime started seeing her again. As a result of that I decided that I won't fully commit myself to the "ship" cos I'm not the only person in her life. So she basically carries the whole thing. Calls me daily or every other day, I barely call. She has invested in me in different little ways, cooks for me, parted with her cash etc. I wanted to know could it be that I'm her best option, in spite of the fact that I'm younger than she is, though I'm not financially stable yet. I don't even have a place of my own yet, we regularly meet in a hotel, which sometimes she contributes to the bills and also brings food for me or buys stuff when she comes. What do u guys think?

You don't have game. If I had even a fraction of the money you have, I wouldn't need to spend heavily before I knack

OlujobaSamuel:
This is not true, Yobo just like Carragher of Liverpool is a good player, just because they made costly error no mean Sey they are bad.
Such bad players don't get regular under different coaches.
It's just like saying Yaks is a bad player because of the crazy miss in SA 10

thank u. Always funny to me When people say carra was a bad player. If anything sef, he was underrated. Same goes with Yobo. You don't make over 600 apps for Liverpool if you're bad.

SarkinYarki:
Brow Ideye just set himself up ...there is nobody that can't go broke in this life

cr7 and Messi can't go broke

TempleHouse:
It's almost unheard of someone failing a football medical test since Kanu Nwakwo transfer to Arsenal from a Dutch club.

Awon village people yii lagbara oo 😲

it's not almost unheard of. It happens

SirLinks:
He had an offer to Saudi League last season, na still medical fail am
Seems dude had a serious injury in the past

tore his ACL when he was in Norway some years ago

Dzzzz:
I’d rather marry hookup babe than carry single mother put for house..

funny thing is most of the hookup babes are single mothers

Got talking with this lady about 6 months ago, and we started being intimate. Everytime we've been together since then I go multiple rounds of atleast 30 mins+ on average, to the extent that she's always telling me she's tired, it's painful etc. Fast forward few weeks ago, got to find out she's possibly doing stuff with another guy who I know is an orbiter but she dismissed as "just a friend". Since then I don vow, going forward I'll never over-exert myself for any woman sexually, cos if its by sex alone she has no basis to do anything with another guy. Little wonder a lot of folks always adopt the "do your 2 mins and leave" mantra

Kalulu44:
American football player kor, American football player ni. Which American Football player earning times ten a month of what BBN will give the eventual winner for three months will leave that for BBN.
And more over American football is not on break so how did this guy took permission to come and be on the show or is he a free agent.

it's not football (soccer). American football is a different sport altogether

Teymanhenry:
That's why open competition is always the right way to go. We so to monopoly ...
Weldone SLTV ... I'm using my 5k sub to watch all matches 😂

Tell me about this SLTV please . Is it available in calabar?

proeast:
Yes, you're right. South Asia is a very dirty region, a complete sh1thole. All these countries where their men traditionally wear wrapper!

I was in New Delhi, capital of India, and some other places like Agra. They're as corrupt as Nigeria, & their immigration fleeced me of $100 at their airport after their embassy earlier tried to rip me off but I threatened them with lawsuit & they apologised & issued my visa (I have a thread on that).

In India, you'll see cattle eating from rubbish by the roadside. You'll see standard restaurants with tables but no chairs & customers will be eating with bare hands!
I saw dead swollen & smelling cats on the streets & people simply walk over them unperturbed. I saw vomit & even stool in sections of their railway stations. Homeless people will lay at corners with flies perching on them & nobody cares.
You will see women with children begging money just like fulanis do in Nigeria. I once wanted to enter one alley but a hideous looking man with boil & rashes on his face said I can't go inside; I looked in & realised why, the place looked like Mushin olosha.

Despite all, you'll see the efforts being made by their government in areas like good roads, railways & others. I went to KGB road in New Delhi, thinking I'll see the type of pretty ladies in bollywood but I saw rough looking Bengali & South Indian women & pick race.

The heat in New Delhi will put Sokoto or Kano to shame. The streets literally felt like you're walking through an oven in some days!

But I like their modern trains only that announcements will make you think you're in a war zone. "...please if you see any bag do not touch it because it could be a bomb.." wtf?!

They also have "ndi oso ahia" like in Alaba or Ariaria telling you to come & patronise them. Many Indians are also as dark as Hausas but they're discriminated against by the fairer ones.

hmm. Very insightful. I recently watched videos on YouTube of South Indians being dark. The channel owner mentioned that there's a big bleaching cream Market there.

Seeing this is funny cos 3 days back a babe i just met couldn't have enough of me. From lickin my ears, armpits, balls to suckin d hell outta me. Oga your wife doesn't truly desire you. She doesn't find u attractive

I want to believe you are just trolling

Elegantspiker:
If you had a laptop, I would've taught you how to get paid in Euro and Dollars online, which can translate to N300k and above a month. Like every other high turn-in venture, this involves capital for a start too. However, it would've been on me. I have mint condition laptop deserted in my room, which I would've way-billed to you. But I am out of the country currently. May be keep in touch with me.

teach me boss. I got a laptop already

Mcslize:
That's not true. Cutting your beards should make you look younger. I have done that before. A lady I was seeing at the time categorically told me, that this isn't the mature man I used to know. That I look like a boy after shaving off my beards and barbing abolo moromoro head.

There is nothing you will tell me on this. Hair and beards give a man a mature look. When you cut your hair and shave your beards very well, you will look like a boy.

what he said is correct for the most part, when you've kept a beard for a long time, and u suddenly shave off everything you tend to look older. Some folks look younger and fresher with a beard, others look older and more mature

Cmanforall:
I disagree. Instead we try the other local goalkeeper who has not proven himself

Maduka can continue his successful career, let Nigeria show others to the world, especially those playing in the local league

lol. Whether you like it or not, he is our best goalkeeper, and it's only a matter of time for him to reclaim his number one spot.

He had a difficult time, he's worked on himself and he's back to his best. Nwabali came in and did a rescue job for us, kudos to him . If we are talking long term, Okoye is the one. Any serious coach will bring him back to the team.

Cmanforall:
Iwobi allow others to play na...
This is friendly and can be a good opportunity to see talented players



It is not really a waste of time if only hidden talents are featured.
For example, it is necessary for Nwabali to come and solidify his position.
It is also necessary to try out other midfield players since that os the area Nigeria is lacking
But some players like Iwobi, Osimhen and Troost should not come, or even if they come, they should not play.
Meanwhile Iwobi should retire. Moses was doing great and retired at an earlier age to create chance for upcoming players

there's nothing for nwabali to solidify again. His place in the side is secure. These matches should be an opportunity for us to reintegrate maduka okoye into the fold. He has been seeing regular minutes for his club in Serie A. Play him in the two matches.

LIES

He probably saw the signs of her toxicity from the beginning, but he choose to ignore the Red flags. Women always show signs of their red flags, maybe in not so clear ways, but they always show it.

Emyzoloye5:
Ms doesn't mean a lady is unmarried , miss or Mrs can be written as Ms

Ms is used when the marital status of a woman is unknown or not certain

Women like this hardly marry or have successful marriages. That's one very intimidating profile I must say

Y'all that married at 26, 27 after dating for 8, 9 years, hats off to you. I couldn't even talk to girls as a teenager n into my early 20s, talk more of getting in a rship . For me though I think the best time for a man to get married is in your mid 30s; around 34/35, by that age if yiuve put in the work, you'd have had the necessary emotional, mental and financial maturity needed for marriage. You'd have had a lot of experience in dealing with women as well. I'm in my late 20s now and that's my deadline. If I'm very ready before then, I'll take the jump. But from my observation that's probably the best age bracket for a man to get married

Angelfrost:
There are 60 year olds with teenage sons and daughters who they are paddies with.

At the same time, there are close-aged parents and kids who don't bond at all.

You guys should quit mounting needless pressure on yourselves and your peers to marry when they are clearly not ready.

can relate. My dad had me in his late 20s, he's in his 50s n I'm almost 30, but we don't have a bond

adexbols:
They are two different stories but the conjunction that was used is poor

there's nothing wrong with the caption. Learn how to read.

Christlike01:
Ladan Boso should be relieved of that team with immediate effect! He has nothing to offer, just collecting salary with nothing to show for it. Boso has been given ample opportunity to prove his mettle,yet he has always failed! How on earth would you always pick the core of your team from the north when it is a known fact that South is where talents reside as far as football is concerned ?!

Ladan Bosom is not good enough for any of our national teams,NFF should not force this incompetent coach down our throats! He must be relieved of the Flying Eagles as the team's coach. He is nothing but a quota system coach ;not qualified to handle any of our national teams.

#Ladanbosomustgo!

he did quite well at the u20 world cup last year. The team played beautiful football

I'm learning uiux as well and I will like to connect with you. Atleast ill have an accountability partner. My own issue is that I don't have a source of income, so buying data the way I'll like and paying for indepth courses is not something I have the capacity for. But I still try to eke out something watching videos on YouTube. I took a break cos I was trying to sort out my money issues, but I'll like to go on this journey with u cos I've been wanting to have someone to share challenges n ideas with in the course of learning