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Family / Re: Bride Cancels Wedding In Vom, Jos Over Groom’s Refusal To Leave Family House by Gepheral: 10:31pm On May 08
Na by force? Couldn't even finish the whole write up.. The man should Thank his God and move on

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Food / Re: See The Bag Of Beans I Bought For 44,000 In Nasarawa State. by Gepheral: 3:21pm On Jan 30
Nice2023:



It can for sure but I bought this one for my family and not business.

Except u want me to link u up with my customer to help u out.

I am interested pls. Pls link me up I am not far from there. I stay in Benue
Food / Re: See The Yams I Bought For 2,500 In Benue State (pictures) by Gepheral: 10:00pm On Jan 14
Deeprooted:
While returning back to base from my father's burial, I decided to get a few yams.


If not for insecurity, Nigerians have no reasons to experience inflation in the price of food stuff.

20 fresh tubbers. I already gave out some to my neighbors as it's precious gift in this part of the country.



Where in Benue did you buy cos in Makurdi its impossible to get 20 tubers for 2.5k

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Celebrities / Re: "Ifeanyi Adeleke Was A Girl" - Kemi Olunloyo by Gepheral: 10:42am On Jun 29, 2023
MikeBetty:
where are you from? Are you Igbo to spew this trash? If you are onye Igbo, you deserve 30 lashes. Ifeanyi is not and can never be unisex. Ifeanyi is short name for Ifeanyichukwu. Which woman dey answer Ifeanyichukwu for your village?

Business / Re: CBN Launches Its Own Debit Card by Gepheral: 7:13am On Jan 20, 2023
So what happens to international transactions

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Politics / Re: Running Mate: Tinubu Pencils Zulum, Shettima, Aide Debunks Meeting With Wike by Gepheral: 8:27am On Jul 02, 2022
Shettima pencils Zulum some days back wasn't it?
Family / Re: Husband Leaves Wife For Their Maid After 10 Years Of Marriage by Gepheral: 1:35pm On Apr 23, 2022
Kriss216:
When the maid always play the role of the wife, what do you expect?

A maid will cook for your husband
Sweep and clean the house
Wash his clothes
Dish his meals
Clean his toilet
Clean his shoes
Attend to his sexual needs in marvelous ways


While you sit and give orders like Minister of domestic affairs. undecided


Men are smart. We know where our heart belongs. No sane man will leave a caring hardworking loving good cook and sensible woman for a lazy spoilt brat of a wife!

Dear men, don't allow your wife stop you from finding the love of your life.

Without mincing words or trying to look holy, this is nothing but the gospel truth.

Any woman that does all these for me will get my unconditional love without any doubt!

Thats why before you marry you make the terms clear. Everybody should play there roles in the union. Once it is one sided, the other person is cheating already which will usher in the other cheating which is the oga kpata kpata of cheating...


Once the maid assumes every duty in the house while madam is just there madaming about, most men I know will either cheat with the maid (for those who cheat) or the man will begin to work his way out of the marriage to usher in the maid..

Our general love language as guys is the act of service.. because that is one the foundation for which marriage is laid coupled coupled with procreation (man's perspective)

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Romance / Re: Lady Shocked After Discovering A Waitress Tried To Steal Her Man (video) by Gepheral: 7:26pm On Feb 04, 2022
abobote:
I was hoping to see the photos of the the two girls, so I can compare them, but with that her nails, she can't make a good wife. Meanwhile I have copied the number to try my luck


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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: N-power : October Payment Commences Fully by Gepheral: 9:21am On Jan 13, 2022
Which October again
Business / Re: Guess The Bank (photos) by Gepheral: 11:22pm On Dec 27, 2021
All the banks oo the difference is some charge it while it's still in the air before reaching your phone while the others accumulate and do it at once maybe after a week or they do it when the money don collect better fresh air for your account. grin
Health / Re: COVID-19 Update For December 22 2021 In Nigeria by Gepheral: 10:45am On Dec 23, 2021
Omoh
Sports / Re: Victor Osimhen: I Will Be Available For AFCON 2022 by Gepheral: 4:22pm On Dec 21, 2021
Pls loud it...

Same way they delayed bringing him up to the super eagles because they felt he was still underrage when the dude dey tear nets with goals..

If the boy say e dey ready, play am, forget oyingbo machines.. E no dey work well on top Africans cheesy

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Nigeria Customs Recruitment 2019. How To Apply. 3,200 Officers To Be Recruited by Gepheral: 11:15pm On Dec 13, 2021
The feedback email I believe has been changed to what shows immediately you submit..
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Nigeria Customs Recruitment 2019. How To Apply. 3,200 Officers To Be Recruited by Gepheral: 4:35pm On Dec 11, 2021
I read online that custom Consol08 officers earn less than their counterparts in other paramilitary.. Is that still the case? Because no one has talked about the exact salary here.. Just give us hints like its the same with NIS, FIRE SERVICE, or its less than the rest.. Or give a range..

Or NCS vs Fire service which has a better pay? (salary)
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Nigeria Customs Recruitment 2019. How To Apply. 3,200 Officers To Be Recruited by Gepheral: 7:35am On Dec 08, 2021
Hello House..
Pls what is the salary of a freshly employed graduate officer in the custom service?
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by Gepheral: 12:44pm On Dec 06, 2021
Hello House, I am a first class graduate. Regardless of the class of degree, na only God fit show person mercy for this Nigeria and most times he uses people. I would forever be grateful and indebted to Any good Samaritan that can sow a seed of appointment in my life.

Pls I need helpppp

Willinguel @ gmail.com

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Family / Re: My Wife Attitude Towards My Food by Gepheral: 9:38pm On Nov 16, 2021
Best advise is...

Avoid eating her food..


After one week without eating her food and each time your response is that you've loaded your stomach to the brim before coming home, she'll adjust except she don plan to starve you to stupor grin
Romance / Re: My Fiancé Wants To Call It A Quit Because I Don't Relate With His Siblings by Gepheral: 9:17am On Nov 16, 2021
Havilaah1:
For some months now i noticed he no longer gives me attention like he used to, the vibe between us dropped and it was getting me angry. He stopped doing the things he knows i like, he knows my love language is attention/care as well as complement but he stopped doing all these. I'd send him a photo where i look so beautiful and he'd only say you look good, at a point i started preparing my mind for the worse.

So you look good is not enough? You want him to enter zee world mode and dance and sing it before you will appreciate it. Most men are men of few words o don't use that to line to judge his love for you. If it is a brand new relationship you can expect even the one greater than zee world but if it isn't that brand new, all those heavy attentions would reduce to some extent as there are other challenges ahead.. Just work on the aspect he's emphasizing on or make him understand
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Npower: The Fate Of Npower Batches A And B by Gepheral: 12:54pm On Nov 15, 2021
Survival funds
Family / Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by Gepheral: 4:53pm On Nov 14, 2021
Klass99:


I am curious Mufasa, have you ever enjoyed sex with a reluctant and unwilling partner? Answer truthfully o!

@ Tobechi, you made valid points but so did Tickles001.

My personal ideology of marriage has always been two adults taking good care of each other. And that means in every way possible - sexually, financially, emotionally, physically and otherwise.

In marriage, I believe our bodies belong to each other, it's about giving and receiving care, being there for the other person even when you don't feel like it, but they need you.

We owe each other sex, as well as respect, intimacy and more.....If I am tired and not in the mood, I will simply tell my man, I'm tired so bear with me if I don't bring my A Game to this show or I am not an active and enthusiastic participant tonight.

I won't say no or deny him the cookie, because when he flips that script on me I am sure I won't like it or find it funny.


Woman of Virtue! Some ladies nowadays are obsessed with Telemundo and the western lifestyle.. No wonder the high case of divorce here and there as compared to our parents.

No man wants any woman championing this naija nonsense style of feminism in his house. Many sef don't even understand the concept of feminism

One bottle of beer for you dear. You are a WIFE! Your husband would be proud!

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Family / Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by Gepheral: 4:46pm On Nov 14, 2021
tobechi20:
Bring kids into the picture, and often, one’s sex drive takes a nose dive. Especially for mothers.

Low libido is a very common issue for new mothers as they are healing from childbirth, grappling with fluctuating hormones and extreme sleep deprivation.

While we know adjusting to a new baby can profoundly impact a couple’s life (including sexual intimacy), we, as a society, act like it shouldn’t. We act like there’s something wrong with a new mother needing a timeout from sex.

New mothers who admit to having less sex drive are often met with people urging, “Just do it anyway,” and “You’ll get in the mood.”

But what if you don’t get in the mood, even when you take this advice? What then?

Why aren’t the feelings of the woman valid? Shouldn’t she be listening to her body? Her mind?

I’m not sure where we got this idea that a husband owns his wife’s vagina. Or that he is entitled to intercourse, MouthAction, handling, or groping. I’m pretty sure I didn’t see that covenant in the paperwork. But I have an inkling that this entitlement is very much based in misogyny and male privilege.

Men are led to believe, often since they are young boys, that women should have sex with them when they want it. Even when their wives are not “in the mood.” Because sex is the way he feels intimate. Sex is the way he connects. Because putting your husband’s sexual desires first is supposedly the best way to avoid divorce.

These antiquated and sexist designs for marriage are damaging to women.

When a married mom doesn’t put out, she’s called “cold” and “selfish” and the dreaded “bitch.” She’s told she must have “something else going on” mentally. Outsiders to the marriage, and maybe even therapists, will question if the wife was ever sexually assaulted. Does she have a history of trauma? They’ll try to make connections that aren’t there. Because how could a wife possibly not want to have sex with her husband?

It is sickening and horrific to think of a woman having sex against her will, married or not. It’s disgusting that we automatically assume something must be “wrong” with a woman who is having a gap in her groove. Beyond all that, it’s dangerous.

Suggesting that married women and mothers should just “do it anyway” is sexual bullying and coercion. If a husband acts on the “just do it anyway” cliché and forces it — that’s called rape.

When we attack married mothers for not putting out, we’re reaffirming once again what’s important in this society.

A man’s needs, not a woman’s. A man’s voice, not a woman’s voice.



These points you raised gladly justifies polygamy and worst case scenario, cheating! .. When you are not in the mood, another who may or may not be in the mood, is already tying just towel and waiting for action ..

What if when you as the woman is ready and the man tells you that he's not in the mood and wouldn't give you a chance to try and swing him into it? I bet you'd be super happy huh

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Npower: You Will Be Paid If You Were Marked "Pass" After Physical Verification by Gepheral: 2:20pm On Nov 10, 2021
Is there going to be monthly biometric verification or it is just once?
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Npower: Payment Of Stipend Begins by Gepheral: 12:07pm On Nov 09, 2021
How many months
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Npower Monthly Stipend Any News ! by Gepheral: 9:42am On Oct 07, 2021
Nothing nothing
Politics / Re: Senate Passes Revised Fiscal Framework, Approves N16.4trn Budget For 2022 by Gepheral: 3:56pm On Oct 06, 2021
16.4 Trillion shocked
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Npower: Unknown PPA by Gepheral: 3:57pm On Sep 28, 2021
Many have that same issue. Posted to schools that had forgotten they ever operate as an institution
Health / Re: FG Enrols 484,000 From 23 States In Healthcare Funds by Gepheral: 11:05am On Sep 28, 2021
Already enrolled. No be small thing
Science/Technology / Re: Snake-swallower Dies After Viper Bites His Tongue And Throat( Pics, Video) by Gepheral: 9:49pm On Sep 25, 2021
The extra video is for what angry

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: 400 First Class Graduates, 5,140 Others Jostle For 100 Nasarawa Poly Jobs by Gepheral: 2:27pm On Sep 08, 2021
Soon other countries will come for our first class graduates just like they did for our doctors. Na wa!
Music/Radio / Re: Searching - 2BABA ft. Bongos Ikwue (Video) by Gepheral: 3:03pm On Sep 07, 2021
2 Idoma icons cool
TV/Movies / Re: Bbnaija: Pere's Management Reacts To Whitemoney-Pere Fight by Gepheral: 6:00pm On Aug 17, 2021
That wasn't bullying you say? God intervened in the situation and made whitemoney not to realize on time that he was being bullied.

Prior to the rancour, pere had told Maria that he plans to do something that night and he dose not care if it gets him disqualified or not..

God really intervened truly!

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Politics / Re: Lawan, Yahaya Bello, Zulum Asked To Support Osinbajo In 2023 by Gepheral: 6:33pm On Aug 13, 2021
Prof as President
Prof as vice

Omoh Nigeria go set World record

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