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CaptainEColeJnr:
Oh I get... he sent you to fight for him
well I wont give you the benefit of a stand-in.
I don't deal with reps .. I deal with the masterminds... got it?

Sh!t... am outta here!!
got more important things to do

CaptainEColeJnr:
Damn.. you're so dumb.. I'm a male.. so I can't be a b!itch

Probably your parents forgot to send you to elementary school..

Well it's understandable, it's due to abject poverty right?

I feel your pain bro.. but next time before calling a male like me a b!itch.. try checking yo sisters to see who's really the b!itch

Their pussay is wider than the Berlin wall.. true talk dude

jmoore:
Pregnancy/Baby mama is not a prerequisite for marriage-Jmoore (2001)

misspicy:
Do you have it in mind to use it against her? What if it was you that cheated,have a baby outside,wunt you want your wife to forgive you and accept ur baby...

If u really dnt want a baby mama syndrome you will do all you can to take her back and clear your mind,its your decision to make not hers

Deefuray:
Whatever decision you make, do not abandon the child

Godfullsam:
Go for a DNA test!
Don't jump into conclusions that u are the father of the child because she/he resembles u. The baby is just one month old and the facial appearance is still in the transition process.
Don't be suprise if he/she turns out to resemble someone else at 6 months.
The results of the test should do justice. If results confirm u as the biological father of the child , u may find a place in ur heart to forgive ur ex but if you are unforgiven , u can take responsibility for child up keep and move on with ur life.
Mind u , there is no assurance that ur next babe won't cheat on u oh !
D devil u know is better than the angel you dont know.

xtervaganza:
Bro, forget abiut any form of resemblance



Go for a DNA test on the baby 1st



It happened to my friend at poly then, a lady got preganancy and told him he's responsible. You need to see how much the baby looked like him. Alas the baby belonged to another guy in the end

This is the first time I'll hear about this!
Ok, so can we have a DNA test now? I thought the baby, needs to get to a certain age

dopedealer:
# Ur woman, ur everything, ur baby, ur everything
She for Don leave you tey tey if to say he no be ur baby
Now u no go fit leave your baby!
# Clears throath

On a more serious note, the gurl and the baby belongs to you. The devil you know is better than the angel you don't know. It wuld be very difficult for her to cheat on you now! And she already swore she is a changed person kindly forgive and accept her back. I am glad you never stopped loving her. Follow ur parents advice and honour them, manage yo girls perception and let her understand the risk associated with cheating. Change her orientation and always elicite her to open up on issues of discontent..
I know thrust once broken is very hard to regain, but for the sake of ur baby just forgive her and give her anoda chance. On the other hand , put her under serious observation and monitoring in a clandestine manner. Take things slow... All the best niccu

StPete:
It’s a clear cut out part. Forgive her, marry her and accept the baby

or

Just let her go but play an active role in the life of the child

IamLEGEND1:
carry ur pikin find road jor....

fūck that dumb bítch

misspicy:
Go for counselling,you need to forgive even if you can't forget,then you can achieve your aim which is no baby mama.....

elantraceey:
It's up to you, if you think you can forgive and accept her back then do that for the sake of the child, after conducting a DNA test of course.

Life is full of taking risks, the lady you might be sure of will never cheat might just change tomorrow, I'm sure she must have learnt her lesson but if you're going to marry her, give it a long time and be quite convinced she's changed before you do.

Sharksblow:
take your child....

marry her if you can..... move on if you cant marry her....

but your child is your child.... so sorry for you sir.... it can be very painful...

IndianaJay:
Take her back if you still love and can forgive her.

If you can't forgive and don't love her any longer, accept responsibility for the child and let the mother know you only want your child and not a relationship/marriage with her.

Marriage is not beans and garri o...trust, love, compassion and understanding play the major part.

prettythicksme:
Yes

Cutehector:
bro it is easy ooo.... I duno abt u... I"m different

Omotayor123:
Make up sex indeed
BTW, it could also mean you are not done with each other yet. There's still something left.

ronald4lif:
Fvck an ex? Hell yes. Make up? Bloody no.

Jollyjoy:
We cant control that feeling,no matter what happened,irrespective of who or what ended it.
to prevent this awkward situation it good to stay clear of an ex because no matter how much u assumed to be over them,once you are alone with them that old strange feeling arise inevitably.

Cutehector:
Chei whoeva is in my past stays in my past foreva. Any of my exes who I still communicate with should signify

vizkiz:
I can't even furck an ex! I delete her memories away from my hardisk immediatly we stop dating

But it also depends on how we broke up. If she cheated on me, I wouldn't even think about having a date with her in the first place

tosyne2much:
I don't think so

vfactor:
I think you re still the person you used to be. Nothing has changed!

misssclassy:
[color=#000050]Look, forget about whether she was your girlfriend or not, or whether the both of you were once in a relationship
The fact is this. . . She is a friend who helped you when you were in need. That's all that matters. So baring that in mind, if you have the means, you should help her, because she helped you when you were in need. Simple[/color]

firstEVA:
Gflat, the man with unending woman palava

sirbegojay:
Itz mella

firstEVA:
Shuo