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Wait who gives a fuu*ck if they don't reply PMs
Do I? No I don't... Do you? Well, that is non of my bizwack! Its not like I send to any of them...expect from rubey!

lagmostkuit:
Remove dat pics abeg..

Come on, encourage him

kinesis:
is he?

Baba you seem old for stuffs like this na

She is the best thing that happened to me!
I really miss her a lot though we can't get back together cuz she really did hurt me

I have moved on with a new girl and I am happy with her but she is not as awesome as you...I just miss you more than ever

Flavour has a perfect skin.

Acekidc4:
Wahala Everywhere!!
If She is After You, you self go after Her Na!! Go Face to Face with your Problem and Defeat it

What problem? Can't you read?
She isn't my problem anymore!

Lol...I really appreciate you guys for helping me through my hurting moment(when my ex broke my heart). Well, I have gladly moved on with me new girl

Its gonna be a month on the 15th that we broke up...and I can still say I miss her a little but I have made sure I didn't call her at all. Not even a message.

*she still calls once a while to check on me(she called me on sunday...we talked for like 2minz) I was in my friend's house then and something surprising happened!

****my friend's neighbor (a lady) was talking underground and she asked "who is there with you"
Abeg what is her business with whoever I am with?

*she called me like 27minz ago now and she said something surprising again***she said
"I never knew I am now past tense to you" and she dropped the call
Like wtf! I don't understand this at all

Please what was she expecting?
Can't she just stop calling and move on like she said she had

younghartz:
What a woman needs is a man who can handle her at her worst, not give up on her when she gets real . Yeah, she might get an attitude at times but she doesn't get one for no reason. Honestly, this is the time a woman needs you the most. Reassure her you are not like no good men. On the outside she's pissed, she seems tough, like she can't get hurt. But on the inside she's sad, she's actually vulnerable and she's already hurting. She could tell you she doesn't care but she's just too mad to show it. She could tell you it's over, but that's the last thing she wants. She could be pushing you away, but that's just her way of showing she's scared. Don't give up on her.

Sorry to say, you just typed trash! I said she cheated on me. What's the freaking comment you just made?

Ladybluecash:
i knw u stil av feelins for her nd u r redy to let d new gal go for her sake, i told u sme tin is happenin wit me ryt nw, even as i am writin ds my ex stil calls nd i am nt takin hs call cos i am wit anada guy tho not my boyfrnd,,, bt dat doesnt stop d way i care abt him cos i care for him,,,, u shud tak her calls nd talk to her neutrally dnt involv any emotional talks,,, abt ur birthday hmmmm dat one is tough cos if u invite her, knw it dat u r avin two ladis by ur syd,, for d fact dat d both of u r more into each oda myt mak u do sth stupid wit her,, rememba ur new gal wil b there,, my advice invite her, den tell ur newgal neva to allow u out of her sight dat she shud do dat as a favour for u,,, wit ds u wil realise u can move on witout her nd she wil also realise, she mean notin to u anymore. Den if she wnts to get bak wit u for real ds tym she wil do evrytin possibl to b ur gal again xcept truly she's no longer interested. Tank u

Thank you a million!
I am sorry about your relationship also...hope you are holding up fine

Checking out the number of people always opening threads to prophecy their love for the CEO...who do you think is the best for the boss? Considering the attitude online, beauty and brain.
Choose your favorite.

#i hope this thread don't get closed#

Ladybluecash:
Thats not true, she no frndzone u anytin.. I broke up wit ma ex of 8yrs relatnship, thou i loved him so much nd stil do, he wnted us to get marry bt i refused cos he isnt supportin my dream he wnts me to b a full housewife(for ds kind country), he beged me to stop callin him so dat he can move on nd forget abt me, i tried nd i cudnt cos i nw see him as part of me nd a frnd, i jos want to knw hw he is doin dats all. Relatnshps musnt end in marriage, tho i undastnd u op sumtyms u tink she wnts to return bak to u. Call her nd ask her for d lst tym den if she isnt interested as said, move on bro, tak her call bt neva invite her to ur house. Tank u

I really love your comment and I am encouraged from it...but I still have some questions.

1. What is she calls me and wants to come visit Should I tell her that is not going to be possible?

2. I am into a new relationship now but I haven't gotten over her fully(though I explained to my gf about her and she sometimes tell me to pick her call and stop being her enemy) I don't want my gf to start thinking there is still something between us...should I tell her to stop calling?

3. My birthday is in few days to come and I am having a party...do you think its a good idea to allow her come over since the breakup is still very fresh

pasqal09:
Bro, she just zoned you man

Friendzone your ex That aiint going. To fly bro

emitope:
Dude, she jus changed ur name to 'plan B'.

Plan B
Its not like we can still date anytime soon or in the future. She cheated bro, that can't just fade away from my memory

smvinreal:
I think its best to ask her

Ask her why she's calling? I don't wanna be immature or rude

Brugo:


Bro you need to take a stand yourself. Will you let her toy with your feelings or not? Don't let one gal give you needless stress.

I have taken my stand bro...I haven't been returning her calls or doing anything that shows I am "needy" to her

TheSonOfMark:

Here's the thing: She calls to find out how miserable you are without. It's an ingrained vanity of women - they constantly seek reassurances of their value. Their self-worth depends on how much you show you need them.
Let me guess: When she calls you tell your worries, how sad you are and avoid talking about what she needs. How miserable of you! Just what she called to hear.
Endeavour to let her know you're happy without her, indirectly that is.

Thanks a bunch bro!
I don't tell her my worries whenever she calls we just talk about how she has been and if she asks "how are you" I will just tell her "I am good". I have never returned her calls since the day I got to know she was cheating. But there was a time a got caught up in my emotions and I was begging for a second chance(yeah I know that is stupiid but I stopped and moved on)
I even have a new girl now I am hanging out with(not really a rebound relationship though). I am just confused on why she keeps bothering me even after she said she has moved on

A relationship of 5years went down the drain few weeks ago. She was cheating on me, but I have forgiven her for that already. I just want the relationship back

She later confessed to have fallen inlove with this new guy that she don't think she loves me anymore, she said we have to move on bla,bla,bla...but since then she has been calling

Sometimes I don't feel like picking her calls, she will later say "why didn't you pick my calls naaw" whenever I decided to...she asks questions about my welfare and all that sh*it!

I am just confused now...I need to know whay the hell she wants from me!

shaizegotswag:
so how far about getting her back?

I tried calling her and talking things out...she said she really likes me but I might not change from who I use to be (she is kind of worried about that..but I have changed).
I think we will just keep it on light communication for now

TrishaP:
So touching.

Don't you think it is going to be a little bit hard this time because she is with someone now.

confused

Blebleswag:
Go hug transformer

Gezz... You are So getto!

1. Make a short breakfast for her on bed: once a while you can wake up an hour before she does and make a light meal for her (cornflakes or toast bread with tea might be ok)

2. Help her with her chores: now you might be thinking "these stuffs are for couples" but believe me bro, these little things count...she is not a maid, you should help her sweep or do some little stuffs in the kitchen once a while

3. Compose a song for her: this is another key to a lady's heart. I know, not everybody has that micheal jackson kind of voice, just let it come out anyhow it is, she will definitely listen to the words if your voice is unpleasant

4. Take her out on a surprise date: you can ask for her schedule before she starts her day and make plans. Take her to the movies or a restaurant then order her favorite meal... we guys make a lot of mistakes and it sucks! We don't do stuffs we use to do during the time we woo a girl immediately She accepts to date you...

5. take pictures together: as easy as this sounds, most guys find it difficult to take pictures with her girlfriends. Not because they don't love her, but because they'v gat many other "fishes" to catch and they don't want to blow their cover (I know you know what I mean)

6. Listen to her: what a lady loves most is someone who listens to her ask from anybody! It is as simple as doing nothing and stare at her when she speaKs...but ask some questions and keep it rolling so she will know you are following her

it is not about how many girls you can woo, but how happy/special you make that that girl feel - Gflat

I was a jerk and I pushed her away...now she has another man but every time we talk I can still feel how much she cares in her voice...Guys what should I do?

Missmossy:
She was a virgin the guy took it!


That alone won't make you forget even if you forgive her.

I am presently facing the exact thing, its just that I was the one who "disvirgined" her...but I was a jerk she left but I want to get her back

ZedX6:
[color=#150000]How do you generally start your chats? [/color]

Hello...what's up with you today?...what have you been doing since today?

firstEVA:
Why you you always have woman issues?

I don't know why

ZedX6:
[color=#150000]Your chats are boring. I am even sleepy right now from reading that _shit. [/color]

Maybe you can teach me how to spice things up

ZedX6:
[color=#150000]"I aren't one of those Niggas"


Rofl. [/color]

Sighs

vizkiz:
rule number one nigga, stop chatting with Hoes in a polite manner...chat with them like Hoes!

I am a nice person nigga!

Enegod:
smh...see as she dey reply you with one word. You better stop chatting with that girl

I am damn irritated with those kind of replies that was why I deleted her in the first place. But I thought she had an interest in our chats that was why she added me back

MzNelly:
Take this sh1t down

You dunno what the word "privacy" means?

Don't tell me shyte about privacy! Seems you are also guilty of acts like these

You all remember the lady I told you she came to my house and I didn't give T-fee in my previous thread?

www.nairaland.com/2206637/it-must-guys-pay-t-fare

Yes, she is on my bbm...we haven't been chatting frequently since then maybe because I didn't give her cash then she suddenly changed!

I decided in my mind not to chat with her again, then I deleted her number and also on bbm. But she added me back yesterday then we had a chat....but damn it is so boring!