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Sports / Re: Argentina Vs Nigeria: International Friendly - 2 - 4 (Full Time) by Gloriousgee: 1:24am On Nov 13, 2017
Wat time?
Sports / Re: Argentina Vs Nigeria: International Friendly - 2 - 4 (Full Time) by Gloriousgee: 1:23am On Nov 13, 2017
Pls what time wil d match be on tuesday? Tanx
Family / Re: Father Bathes His New Born Baby: "My Wife Needs Rest" (Photos) by Gloriousgee: 9:00pm On Oct 12, 2017
@balogun16. Ur head is paining u n der4 nids 2b checked!
Health / Re: Does Hepatitis C Has Cure? by Gloriousgee: 2:55pm On Oct 08, 2017
Pls wats d diff btw hepatitis B & C. Tanx
Family / Re: My Marriage - A Sinking Ship. by Gloriousgee: 6:27pm On Jul 17, 2017
[quote author=Prognose post=58525244]

I read the whole thing.
You're not alone bro. The problems you're having is the same kind of problems married people have at this stage of their marriage. This is the setting limits stage. This is where you both draw the line on things you can tolerate and things you won't allow no matter what. This is the stage where you show the kind of man you are and your wife will likewise adapt as a woman. Your problem is nothing out of the ordinary that others in these phase of marriage have experienced.


You didn't see all these flaws in her initially because you were deeply in love with her then. You may have even noticed some of these things but pushed them aside. But now the euphoria of love have gone and both of you are seeing yourselves live and direct. It's not a new thing bros, trust me.

So she nags. Almost all women nag, some nag worse than others. It is kind of your job to be patient with her as the man. Pls try and control your temper, this is what will make you matured and will separate u from being a boy. When she shouts and talks ceaselessly find a way to leave the environment or ignore her, depending on the type u can do. Over time she will learn to control herself.
Her controlling herself and reducing her nagging and your not getting enraged to be slapping her shows that you are both coming of age in the marriage and are understanding each other and becoming mature.


Do you want her to go back to her job? Remember she is pregnant (for the first time) and in a delicate and scared state. She is quite vulnerable right now with the changes going on in her body. Your job at this time is to be as supportive as you can. I don't mean you should become her slave but try and give her more rope when she misbehaves. It gets worse at three to six months of age and then she should start returning back to normal.

Set a boundary for her father. The fact that he has cut the phone on you once is enough to piss you off. He's not married to her, you are. If he calls again tell him politely that this is your family and you have your own plans for your wife. If you don't have the mind to do this then u can just ignore him instead. This is your wife now, he should stop butting in.

Find a job for her to do, no matter how little. Also don't give up on yourself. Every married couple went through this stage, it is those that come out of it that last. If you break up now, what's to say in your next marriage u won't break up again at the first sign of difficulty. Your a postgraduate man, you should be more mature and patient bro.

Find an older married couple you can talk to for advice. Not online o. A respectable married couple or couples preferably from the generation before ours let them tell you what they've been through themselves. Marriage is hard work and the more work you put into it the sweeter it becomes.

Cheers bro. U av jst said it all dear. Tanx 4 helpin a broda!

I read the whole thing.
You're not alone bro. The problems you're having is the same kind of problems married people have at this stage of their marriage. This is the setting limits stage. This is where you both draw the line on things you can tolerate and things you won't allow no matter what. This is the stage where you show the kind of man you are and your wife will likewise adapt as a woman. Your problem is nothing out of the ordinary that others in these phase of marriage have experienced.


You didn't see all these flaws in her initially because you were deeply in love with her then. You may have even noticed some of these things but pushed them aside. But now the euphoria of love have gone and both of you are seeing yourselves live and direct. It's not a new thing bros, trust me.

So she nags. Almost all women nag, some nag worse than others. It is kind of your job to be patient with her as the man. Pls try and control your temper, this is what will make you matured and will separate u from being a boy. When she shouts and talks ceaselessly find a way to leave the environment or ignore her, depending on the type u can do. Over time she will learn to control herself.
Her controlling herself and reducing her nagging and your not getting enraged to be slapping her shows that you are both coming of age in the marriage and are understanding each other and becoming mature.


Do you want her to go back to her job? Remember she is pregnant (for the first time) and in a delicate and scared state. She is quite vulnerable right now with the changes going on in her body. Your job at this time is to be as supportive as you can. I don't mean you should become her slave but try and give her more rope when she misbehaves. It gets worse at three to six months of age and then she should start returning back to normal.

Set a boundary for her father. The fact that he has cut the phone on you once is enough to piss you off. He's not

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Npower-tax Assessment Tests Will Continue. by Gloriousgee: 8:21am On Jul 04, 2017
Pls what is d test like?

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Literature / Re: Hidden Diamonds by Gloriousgee: 3:43pm On Jun 16, 2017
9ce 1 dear
Literature / Re: The Corridor of Hell by Gloriousgee: 1:55pm On May 30, 2017
9ce 1 dear
Literature / Re: Hidden Diamonds by Gloriousgee: 2:08pm On May 23, 2017
9ce write up dear...kip it rolling n dnt kip me waiting...#lol
Literature / Re: In Love With Her Pastor-episode 1 By Angelsss by Gloriousgee: 9:36pm On Apr 24, 2017
If u av rili gone far u wudnt av bin using tactics 2 get #200 frm pple all in d name of getin ur stupid story n mind u, dos dat av rili gone are seen @ d top nt at d botom extorting money frm pple. Agbero like u...
Literature / Re: In Love With Her Pastor-episode 1 By Angelsss by Gloriousgee: 3:41pm On Apr 24, 2017
@angelsss u r jst 2 sucy 4 my liking, trust me writers like u dnt go far...take corrections!
Literature / Re: House Of Secrets : A Story By Angelsss by Gloriousgee: 7:46am On Apr 22, 2017
9c 1 dear

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