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Nne pele. Pls accept my condolences.

He should pls greet my parents and my little baby who packed his load back to baba God after staying just 7 days on earth. It's heart breaking

DickDastardly:
That picture though, very much semblance with our own irunobo . Igbo women can be ugly o!

Seriously that DPO should be made to face brock lesnar in cage fight. Useless idiotic illiterate police gagool

So Mrs. Risikat Bamidele is an igbo name abi? Tribal bigot. Go climb 3rd mainland bridge for all I care. mtchewwww

akinsbaba2015:
While you are at the argument mention 3 other governors in the whole of the SS/SE since 1999 that can compete with Oshiomhole in terms of performance asides Peter Obi, Rochas & Amaechi&Akpabio

BIG FAT LIE. WHAT DID OSHO DO FOR EDO?

donsteady:
This confused man shouldn't be takeng seriously. How Can a reasonable person pay attention to this clawn. I I respect you sir, but learn to respect your self.

Why didn't he query Sanusi? Abi because he paid him homage and applauded his ailing state?

I once took a distant cousin in but found a way of sending him out of my home after I discovered he was looking at my 12 & 14 years daughters lustfully. My girls kuku carry for back They look matured. We can't be too careful

May God reward your effort

No one for Okokomaiko? We pay our taxes too.

SMEpromote:
This woman no get class at all. Just dey behave like bush girl dey procreate anyhow.

Child spacing no dey you and your husband's dictionary abi? At this rate I can guess when the 4th child will be arriving.

Make u & husband go learn common sense from Senator Ben Bruce.

wetin be your own? she cry come meet you? Yeye dey smell

liberty300:
You still another woman's husband then you have babies with him so he doesn't kick you out..nice move

which of the followings correctly fills the gap?
a. steal
b. still
c. stole
All questions carry equal mark[color=#990000]

liberty300:
You still another woman's husband then you have babies with him so he doesn't kick you out..nice move

which of the followings correctly fills the gap?
a. steal
b. still
c. stole
All questions carry equal mark

We need more clarifications on this

bigben3:
@op very wrong! A 10 yr old is not prepared psychologically n physically to be in jss1. That's an abuse

You meant to say 10yrs in JSS 3 right cos that's what we are talking about. 10yrs in JSS 1 is a past tense.

Rajosh:
It's very possible
at nysc orientation camp ikare-akoko, the Lady who represented platoon 1 for miss nysc batch b stream 1 is 16yrs old.

She started her degree course @ 12yrs. Waoh

adaweezy:
I was 10 in JSS2 ..... not a big deal

The post said 9yrs old in JSS 2. Mine was 10yrs in JSS 2 and I was not too comfortable

anonimi:
Have you ever tried to advise any of these financially "struggling" students to FIRST go to a vocational/technical school/college, acquire SKILLS then earn money of their own before deciding if they still want the ACADEMIC enrichment of a university education.
What was their reaction?
If you never made such suggestion to them, why did you never make such a suggestion? What do you think kept you from giving such advice?

Some children are as lazy as their parents that's why they are not ready to do anything to earn income.

Children need to acquire vocational skills to be able to face the future squarely. The westerners know how to do that very well. My 12yrs old and 14years daughters learn to make dresses during vacations while the younger ones learn to play musical instruments like violin and key board. My niece is doing her SIWES and at the same time trains in a beauty saloon. All these will come handy one day

jamalsky:
If a country has been messed up by a group of people for over 16 years & we are stupidly expecting things to turn around in less than a year,that means we are all being unrealistic & just a bunch of pessimistic thinkers.All these problems being talked about today started years ago by successive governments & the worst problems began from 1999 & we know those that were ruling us then till this year.Let us make one thing clear,as in very clear,crude oil sells for less than $50 a barrel now,our economy over the years has been solely dependant on oil,common what miracle are we expecting to automatically have economic boost in the country at this time?Our economy would be in decline until we diversify & that is a process ,not just we sit down & start lamenting & fooling ourselves on social media & all.I have not seen people come up with constructive blueprints, publish articles on what could be done to make the country move forward,not talking with reference to idiots that have messed the country up for years making them feel like saints,with the crop of ministers we have in place now ,it is obvious that things should get better & policies put in place appropriately. We should all know that the country cannot afford to fail now & we have someone who sincerely has the interest of the nation at hand,so let's just be constructive in our criticisms & hope for the best. GOD BLESS NIGERIA.

Yeah. PMB & APC knew that PDP ruined the country and promised us Heaven on Earth. Was he forced?

jamalsky:
If a country has been messed up by a group of people for over 16 years & we are stupidly expecting things to turn around in less than a year,that means we are all being unrealistic & just a bunch of pessimistic thinkers.All these problems being talked about today started years ago by successive governments & the worst problems began from 1999 & we know those that were ruling us then till this year.Let us make one thing clear,as in very clear,crude oil sells for less than $50 a barrel now,our economy over the years has been solely dependant on oil,common what miracle are we expecting to automatically have economic boost in the country at this time?Our economy would be in decline until we diversify & that is a process ,not just we sit down & start lamenting & fooling ourselves on social media & all.I have not seen people come up with constructive blueprints, publish articles on what could be done to make the country move forward,not talking with reference to idiots that have messed the country up for years making them feel like saints,with the crop of ministers we have in place now ,it is obvious that things should get better & policies put in place appropriately. We should all know that the country cannot afford to fail now & we have someone who sincerely has the interest of the nation at hand,so let's just be constructive in our criticisms & hope for the best. GOD BLESS NIGERIA.

Yeah. PMB & APC that PDP ruined the country and promised us Heaven on Earth. Was he forced?

A boy won a game at a birthday party I attended with my kids yesterday and was asked his name, age and class.

He said he is 9yrs old and in JSS 2. We were surprised. In the course of trying to get him to answer some questions relating to his school his brother came out. Guesd what? He is 10 years and in JSS 3.

They both have the same trend. How did they get there? Wait ooh, they will complete their secondary education by 13 years. What of the minimum entry age into university of 16yrs? What of psychological developments?

What is your take on this? Before now I thought that my 12yrs old child in SS1 is too fast and my husband thought of steeping her down last two years until I met those kids.

@op. Does it mean that ele eran could not cut the meat in the market or did he buy a whole cow?

Mcthewwww. My hubby washes beans for moi moi and nobody showed his photo here.

awon weere ghan

.....foolstop

BETATRON:
Ok now jesus is lord,,probably you haven't come across this verse
"And this is eternal life,that they may know You the ONE TRUE GOD and jesus christ WHOM YOU SENT-john17:3

Concerning the quranic verses you quoted,,jihad is only prescribed when necessary,,that is when the muslims are under attack by an external force hence it is an obligation to prevent the fighting and annihilation of helpless muslim even if it means fighting back(defensive and not offensive)

Not transgressing all limit as the terrorist groups are doing world wide
Here is what the koran has to say about trangression----“Whoever kills a person [unjustly]…it is as
though he has killed all mankind. And whoever
saves a life, it is as though he had saved all
mankind.” (Qur’an, 5:32)
SURA2;190--fight in the way of Allah those WHO FIGHT YOU and do not transgress for Allah hates the transgressors

The killing of muslims by this terrorist group goes a long way to prove that they are in no way muslims,,and do not follow in any way the teachings of the koran

When have been under attack? Those children of the slave woman like blood not be small thing.

I've seen quite a lot of them while growing up. My dad used to converse with them in Fulani. They are really beautiful

softandmoist:
Sometimes I don't care to share this story, but I feel doing so will lessen the pain I feel with time. When I lost my dad my mom's younger sis told my mom that she wants to help me further my education. I was just out of secondary and had my baby.

I can't put down all that she did to me and the innocent baby boy.
Tell me to go to a neighbor's kiosk and collect tgings on credit, then lie to them that I misplaced the money and I will pay back. I did this so much the woman wanted to arrest me. When I asked her she told me that until I am covered by the earth like my father I should never ask her again.
She would insult my dad who wasn't even 2 weeks in the grave, call me a witch because soldier aunys entered the house.
She said I would never prosper, that no man would marry me, that my father ruined my mom's life and that how I'll end up. I can't forget, ever, even though I've forgiven her.
She'll beat me, force me to eat rubbish, as old as I was one day she just called my name and I peed on my body. It was that bad. I was like a mumu. Her baby that is just learning to talk will say I beat her, and she would beat me in return. She will tell me to feed her baby before my 9 month old baby. She said no one would imagine my son eating noodles in his life. Only pap, no milk. A growing baby.
Ah!
One day my sis came and saw me and wrote to my mom that if she doesn't come and take me away from there that she'll run away with me and she'll never find us again. That ended the episode. I forgave her.
When I was prepping for my wedding she started acting all friendly, said she knows someone who can make exotic aso oke outfits. We sent the money in August for a wedding that was to take place in December. Do you know as at Nov 30 not a single thread had been woven. I had to rush to agege to get emergency one made. She collected 70k for our 35k traditional wedding cake, told me it was 100k and she was paying for the balance.

I didn't do anything to this woman. I didn't ask to be related to her. The worst pain in my life comes from living with her. She would tell me to wash pad and reuse for menses, make me trek from Asa dam to post office.

I thank God for Me too. I have really disappointed her.

hmmm. wash pad for reuse. I've never heard of such invention. "Patience" said mother hen to the chicks "whatever is hot will get cold "

nosiebaba:
Was it Buhari that held the nozzle of the pump and sold it to you for 400 naira per litre? Did u buy on the black market? And did you report the fuel stations that sold 400 naira per litre to DPR If you didn't then kindly shut up.

Maybe GEJ was the fuel attendant during his time. You can criticize GEJ but won't tolerate any negative content about Booharia. Why speak from both sides of ur mouth? Was DPR not available during GEJ's time that you claimed fuel was sold at high prices? Why didn't you report too?

Charlydot2:
Chai due to hardship in dis country..

Are you not facing the same hardship? Have you stolen because of that? He has no excuse.

Rukemi291:
What of a situation that death claims d breadwinner? Is it still the parents' fault?

Families are trying to prevent such episodes by allowing both parties work. Here both parents win bread so to say. With it comes the challenges of looking after the kids, nanny and maid issues and their accompanying problems.

In situation where there is a sole breadwinner, who is now dead, the surviving parent takes the blame. It's not as if the working mother does not like staying with her kids but "na conditions make crayfish bend". The housewives enjoyed their holidays when the breadwinners were there.And the breadwinners might have saved too. Death or no death, parents should keep their kids to themselves to avoid stories that touch . IMO

Eketem:
I asked you pages ago how much you are willing to pay for a professional nanny you didn't respond instead you are looking for loopholes in the child's right law to exploit

Lol. Far from that as she is home bound after this term. My colleague pays her nanny N20k and that is fair to me. Another pays her maid 15k, that is o.k. too. I didn't answer because I want to stay with my kids from now on. We can do the chores together. No big deal.

Laws have loopholes that is why lawyers exploit them. Everything is not sacrosanct. I was only telling you that biological parents are guilty too is you will agree with me.

Eketem:
I asked you pages ago how much you are willing to pay for a professional nanny you didn't respond instead you are looking for loopholes in the child's right law to exploit

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Eketem:
I asked you pages ago how much you are willing to pay for a professional nanny you didn't respond instead you are looking for loopholes in the child's right law to exploit

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Kimoni:
I don't quite agree with the emboldened though. Some kids deserve to be taken away from their parents for varying reasons and that's why we have foster homes and legalized adoption process globally.

Reasons could be poverty, mental and health issues, abuses, instability in homes or cases where mothers willingly give up their children for adoption for no particular reason.

It's all about where a child will get the best care and it doesn't necessarily have to be with the parents.

Mental issues, yes but not poverty. A thousand eyes cannot equal a mother's pair of eyes. Some parents will give their child to stay with not because they are poor but may want the child to grow in a different environment. My girl's parents are not in anyway poor. That is why returning her this Xmas is not an issue to me but she has to complete this term. Nothing can be fairer than that.

Onegai:
Yes, that is exactly the truth.

There is a difference and it is child labour because YOU ARE NOT HER MOTHER. I'm not shouting at you, I'm trying to emphasise a point.

Your 12 year old helper is lying to you because she does not have the same. relationship you have with your kids, with you. She's not your kid. She has more to lose with you. She can work like Jacky under her parent's roof because there are no conditions attached to it; if she breaks a plate, there is fear of a beating but not fear of being deprived schooling and an education (which is what will happen if and when. you get tired of what she does that annoys you).

She's not your kid and no matter how much you cut it, she's nevr gonna be your kid and you cannot compare that to when you stayed in your brother's house. I stayed with my first cousins and I slept with one eye open, cautious and afraid because my every move elicited a response. Because they were strangers to me. Your child freely watches tv and thinks that she has time to do her chores. She's worried that if you catch her, she'll get yelled at, punished but at least she is guaranteed schooling till 24 years old. Your maid dare not watch tv because she's worried when. you catch her, you will bring up homework. and. chores. and. in your eyes will be a look that says "I will. destabilise you and send you home if. you keep. messing up".

Unless. you can confidently put up a picture where we all. cannot tell the difference between your maid and your daughter, then it will. always be Child Labour.

There was a. time. in our. society where you took. a child in and trained them. But that child was from your village. and the burden of work was. shared by different wives and. kids (not like now, where our families are. isolated). That time has passed.

If you really wanna help that child, send her. home and. hire. her mother. Her mum's wages will help train her and she can go to one uncle or aunts house. and feel a. bit more. free than. a. stranger's home. Just like you or some other poster did and turned out wonderfully.

I did not caim to have closed my eyes while staying with my brother either. I said Its paid off at the end. You have a point in sending her home. Its a chapter I could have closed since 3 months ago but was told to keep her. Am sending her home but not in the middle of a term. Am not heartless. Hiring her mum is not an option because she will still feel cheated if staying with relations. She has to stay with her parents until she attains maturity.

For the lying aspects, I won't argue in this forum because you won't believe me. I can't put up pictures of my family either in a social forum like this with monikers. The same you would ask if I got her parent's consent to post her picture online.

cococandy:
It can't get much clearer than this.

We can officially close the thread now. It has been an interesting one although some posts were misunderstood.

No child deserves to be taken away from the parents in all fairness.